I told my girlfriend I don't want her to dance with other guys aka grind on their dicks
She says she thinks it's harmless dancing, but seriously? I don't want her dancing on other guys dicks.
What are your guys' opinion on this?
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06-13-2010, 02:19 AM #1
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06-13-2010, 02:24 AM #3
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DUDE -
I keep telling everyone this;
It's a RESPECT ISSUE.
Would she sht bricks if you were grinding your cock on some fine ass lil hoodrat's ass? Of course she would. She'd grab you by the arm, drag you outside, bitch your ears off, then not speak to you for a week.
Yet it's ok for her? Fck no.
Unless you have a semi-open relationship then let's not play this one-sided bullsht.
Dude if the person you're with RESPECTS YOU in the SLIGHTEST, they'll accept that this is not respectful behavior and it makes you uncomfortable.
If they NEED to have that kind of "fun" and male attention, perhaps it's time to consider finding a girl more on your level.Common Sense Crew
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06-13-2010, 02:28 AM #4
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06-13-2010, 02:30 AM #5
If my girlfriend did that and then said that I would not have a girlfriend anymore.
In saying that it's all about boundaries. Once you explain this is beyond your boundary if she doesn't change her behaviour then it's time to get rid, if on the other hand she is willing to change then perhaps she's worth holding on to.
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06-13-2010, 02:40 AM #6
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06-13-2010, 02:58 AM #12
Thats definitely not it, she doesn't drink and is very smart (3.8 gpa) status and ****.
It's just the whole fact that shes trying to shove this logic bull**** that its harmless and not sexual contact thats bothering the **** out of me...
even said that "its not like im having sex with him or anything..."
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06-13-2010, 02:58 AM #13
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06-13-2010, 03:08 AM #18
Only one solution to this problem. Put her to the test and go grind your dick on other girls. If succesfull, go as far as to the point she says its too far. Then say she has to stop grinding dicks or you wont stop doing what you're doing. She's putting you to the test now, you'll have to stand up or end the relation.
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06-13-2010, 03:26 AM #20
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Lots of things that you guys take seriously are essentially harmless. What do you think will happen if your gf grinds on other guys? Do you think she'll end up shagging them?
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06-13-2010, 03:29 AM #21
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06-13-2010, 03:37 AM #24
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My bf's a stripper part-time and lapdances on other girls. It doesn't mean he's gonna sleep with them, or that he doesn't respect me and our relationship. It's a job.
It's less about respect than about confidence in your own relationship. We both flirt and we both wrestle, where I'm the only girl, and often end up being picked up/held/laid on top of by other guys, but that's also just a job. It doesn't mean anything. I often have guys' heads between my thighs, that would drive you guys nuts wouldn't it?**** Atheist Alliance ****
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06-13-2010, 03:38 AM #25
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06-13-2010, 03:45 AM #27
???
he is talking about grinding dicks. have not heard about "anything else that is sensitive but "non sexual"". just saying he should go across her boundries too, wherever they may be. he should prove to her that he is not a pussy. if not willing to do so, he should better end the relation, because seems like she wont stop before he does.
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06-13-2010, 03:51 AM #29
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Even if it wasn't a job, it still wouldn't worry me. Like I said, we both flirt a lot, and we don't get paid for that. It's just harmless fun. We both know it won't lead to anything.
What you guys fail to realise is that I am much older than most of you, and have learned not to sweat the small stuff. God knows how you'd all cope if there was actually a serious problem in your relationships. Why can't you just relax and enjoy being with someone, instead of constantly expecting the worst? constantly not allowing yourselves to trust? constantly being on the lookout for what you consider "shady" behaviour? Just chill out.
I used to be like you lot. Now I'm happier and more relaxed about everything, and all it does is make life easier.**** Atheist Alliance ****
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