What do guys think about saggy breast?(Male and Female input please!)

[gelizzy]

OP, I got some saggy boobies and mine are small and I'm only 25!!!

I had some D's in high school when I was 200 lbs. I lost a bunch of weight fast (drug addiction) and quickly dropped 100 lbs leaving my boobies all deflated. then i gained a bunch of weight when I quit (back up another 60+) and now I've slowly and properly lost 20 since then and my boobs have really taken a beating in that time.

Personally, I hate my boobs and push my fiance away when he wants to play with them if the lights aren't out (yes insecure) But he says he does not want me to get a boob job and I think he's pretty serious He says he loves them, even though in the back of my mind I'm thinking "yeah right" I'm grossed out by them. but he says he loves me for me.

So who's right? I don't know. I still want a boob job. I have so much loose skin I think I would need to do a small implant and a lift. My fiance is strongly urging me not to, but if I can't let this idea go within a few years, I think i'll go through with it anyway.

That is the same way my fiance feels! I want a lift so bad but wants me to at least try exercising for awhile before i just resort to surgery( don't get it twisted i exercise for me and not him) but I have been dealling with these things since I was 13 years old... by the time i was 11 i was already a c cup. I wasn't a fat kid at all! Just genetics

[gelizzy]

I hate fake boobs and prefer the teardrop shape of natural breasts. As long as you are not 80 years old, I doubt many men are going to complain. I dated a girl once with huge breasts and she had them reduced in college. I wasn't even dating her then but I still cried for a week. Breasts are a symbol of female power. Stick your chest out and walk proud.

LOL!

[gelizzy]

Get a lift and have some implants put in to keep them firm.

y again do i need implants if they are already too big???? Ummm.....no!

[PLANETGETLOW]

Wow! An honest man that loves us and prefers us the "natural" way and not all made up and faked out? Kudos to you!

I'm not superficial when it comes to cosmetics. Don't get me wrong, I do like seeing my wife being happy and if that means her getting/staying in shape more power to her. I've loved her from day 1 and we've all been through some changes, yet my love has never varied. Just real talk that's all.

That is the same way my fiance feels! I want a lift so bad but wants me to at least try exercising for awhile before i just resort to surgery( don't get it twisted i exercise for me and not him) but I have been dealling with these things since I was 13 years old... by the time i was 11 i was already a c cup. I wasn't a fat kid at all! Just genetics

It's just up keep and maintanence that's all. If you need a lift to feel better about yourself, get it done.

[runner05]

I'm not superficial when it comes to cosmetics. Don't get me wrong, I do like seeing my wife being happy and if that means her getting/staying in shape more power to her. I've loved her from day 1 and we've all been through some changes, yet my love has never varied. Just real talk that's all.


It's just up keep and maintanence that's all. If you need a lift to feel better about yourself, get it done.

Point taken. Actually, I do think it's important that we ALL take care of ourselves and do whatever we can to look good and feel good. But, doing it for someone else only isn't a good option.

[HeatherAC]

y again do i need implants if they are already too big???? Ummm.....no!

Ignore him. He's a big boob-head.

But what he's saying is that a combination reduction/lift with implants makes for the perfect booby.

Meh....I'll keep mine reduced, lifted and natural, thankyouverymuch. One of the best things I ever did.

[bambifox]

IMHO I think most men prefer "el naturale" boobage! Like one of the posters said, yeah...fake ones are nice to "look at", but losing all sensitivity, and having your boobs turn to solid rock is hardly a "turn on". Anyways...it's not like your going to stand there in front of the dude and be judged. Odds are, the only time he'll get to see them they'll be flapping around all over the place during love making. I hardly think any man would stop and say..."hey..wait a minute...I thought your boobs were firmer than this!" Personally, I like a "poon" man. That should be his "true" love! If he more concerned with everything else...chuck him and keep the boobs!

[HARRYBEAST]

I like boobies

[gelizzy]

IMHO I think most men prefer "el naturale" boobage! Like one of the posters said, yeah...fake ones are nice to "look at", but losing all sensitivity, and having your boobs turn to solid rock is hardly a "turn on". Anyways...it's not like your going to stand there in front of the dude and be judged. Odds are, the only time he'll get to see them they'll be flapping around all over the place during love making. I hardly think any man would stop and say..."hey..wait a minute...I thought your boobs were firmer than this!" Personally, I like a "poon" man. That should be his "true" love! If he more concerned with everything else...chuck him and keep the boobs!

LMAO!!!!

[TxTreb88]

Ok to the guys, my question is: If your girl has saggy big breast , is this a problem for you? The reason I am asking is because I am a 38 DDD and lets just say they are nowhere near touching the sky. I'm not big or anything but I was just blessed(or cursed) with these things. I always thought that guys had these great expectations for girls are 17 -25 who had naturally huge breast. I have 2 male friends that were talking about my chest and were like " Can you imagine how they look when she takes her bra off? I mean because she's young, they perky, I know that gotta look nice and they just staring at you" I didn't tell them no different. Ever time one of my guy friends comment on how great they are , i cant help but think "if you only saw them without this bra you wouldn't be saying that"

To the ladies, what is your experience with this topic and your significant other before you got in shape? ( if yours ever sagged at all) Did you ever feel self-conscious about it?

as long as they are real, i don't care.

[gelizzy]

This was really informative. I don't know where females get our information from when it comes to knowing what guys think is attractive

[TxTreb88]

This was really informative. I don't know where females get our information from when it comes to knowing what guys think is attractive

show me your boobs. lol

[gelizzy]

show me your boobs. lol

nah you str8

[TxTreb88]

nah you str8

dman it.

[Herbalizer]

Pix please?

[gelizzy]

Pix please?

lol this is so funny.... yall r so str8

[Beklet]

It's not that i don't know how to get them higher, thats not the problem... I was just asking what yall think about it.... mainly the guys. I just wanted to see if any of the ladies experienced this too

Ah OK sorry......

I think mine sag but I've had no complaints, and neither have my friends in a similar situation.

In real life, men aren't really all that put off - by their 30s they're more worried about whether they're developing beer guts!

[amberlyann2005]

Well I can honestly say I need fake boobs lol. I am doing it 100% for myself. My husband is supportive but just because he knows how insecure I am about them. I used to have perfect wonderful breasts but after having a baby and breastfeeding for a year they are really messed up and I miss the way they looked before. My friend just had hers done and they look and feel natural. In fact if I just met her I would never know the difference. I know you guys are all about the real boobs but you have to see where I am coming from. Its not so much the boobs just the confidence that comes with them.

[Axemistress]

Well I can honestly say I need fake boobs lol. I am doing it 100% for myself. My husband is supportive but just because he knows how insecure I am about them. I used to have perfect wonderful breasts but after having a baby and breastfeeding for a year they are really messed up and I miss the way they looked before. My friend just had hers done and they look and feel natural. In fact if I just met her I would never know the difference. I know you guys are all about the real boobs but you have to see where I am coming from. Its not so much the boobs just the confidence that comes with them.

Go for it. You need to do what's right for you, and if your hubby likes the idea why should anyone else's opinion matter?

[dunkonu9]

I am a huge fan of boobies and think of myself as an expert. I am willing to look at any and all pics and give advice as needed. I am just here to help

[Coco9]

Do whatever makes you happy. I got implants since I've always had an athletic build (no hips, size A boobies, tall and lean) so adding curves to my upper body made me feel more feminine. I love how my clothes look now and I'm very happy that I didn't lose sensitivity in my nipples. I'm one that thinks if you're not happy with what you got then do something to change it. Whether is thru exercise or whatever .... without going to extremes though. Life is too short to live with a body that you don't like.

So who gives if you have saggy boobies if you're happy with them?

[xoloveinautumn]

I HATE my boobs... I had DD's freshman year
ive lost weight and they are saggy! All the elasticity is gone
thank GOSH i have a boyfriend who loves me for me
but i now keep a bra on 24/7 and ahve been rubbing firming cream on them ( i didnt tell him) and he recentley said they are starting to look better
I had a 38 DD and now im to a 34/36 D they keep shrinking! lol i hope i dont get to a small C a FULL C would be fine
but i know theyll still sag when im thin and im going to feel really self concious i think im going to save up so i can get a lift
I am so jealous of women with perfect perky boobs
and im only 19!

[Jaw-Knee]

Well I can honestly say I need fake boobs lol. I am doing it 100% for myself. My husband is supportive but just because he knows how insecure I am about them. I used to have perfect wonderful breasts but after having a baby and breastfeeding for a year they are really messed up and I miss the way they looked before. My friend just had hers done and they look and feel natural. In fact if I just met her I would never know the difference. I know you guys are all about the real boobs but you have to see where I am coming from. Its not so much the boobs just the confidence that comes with them.

For what it's worth, I have nothing against fake boobs.

[genepool]

Wow! An honest man that loves us and prefers us the "natural" way and not all made up and faked out? Kudos to you!

there's a few of us like that. i prefer natural 100000000x over implants. my wife has small b's large a's depending on her cycle. and i love them. i would be heartbroken if she ever got implants. not that i am a boob guy anyway. but naturals look and feel better saggy or not.


and makeup.. i always beg her not to wear alot. she is beautiful without it. even tho she would rather claw my eyes out then let me see her without at least some on lol.

to the OP if u arent happy with them, no matter what your SO thinks, u will never truely feel good or non self conscious about them. get them reduced and/or lifted and see if it makes u feel better, becausw as was said earlier, its all about how u feel about your body

[pay tribute]

Saggy hooters = sickening.

[buttercup963]

I have no boobs after 2 lovely children and weight loss, but I have a nice butt, so what I havnt got up top I am learning to love what I have on the bottom, I want implants but getting into debt for them I dont want, I have said I will have implants for my 30th birthday, but I am hoping by then I will learn to love myself and wont need them! The only good thing about having no boobs is there isnt much to sag

[sif]

I got an awesome pair of breasts, i must say. I've never been insecure about myself, especially not my titties.

wHY? you ask...

Simply put, I'm gods gift to men.
true story

[pay tribute]

I have no boobs after 2 lovely children and weight loss, but I have a nice butt, so what I havnt got up top I am learning to love what I have on the bottom, I want implants but getting into debt for them I dont want, I have said I will have implants for my 30th birthday, but I am hoping by then I will learn to love myself and wont need them! The only good thing about having no boobs is there isnt much to sag

Nice ass > nice rack.

Pics please

[Jaw-Knee]

I got an awesome pair of breasts, i must say. I've never been insecure about myself, especially not my titties.

wHY? you ask...

Simply put, I'm gods gift to men.
true story

That's awesome. It's not every day you find a woman who'll do the dishes.






Oh wait...

[sif]

That's awesome. It's not every day you find a woman who'll do the dishes.






Oh wait, you meant it in the narcissistic sense. Nevermind.

easy there cowboy, no need to get your ass hairs all tied up in a knot.

in other news, saggy balls are worse then saggy titties imo