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    Originally Posted by bodybuilder89 View Post
    location: canada though
    That just means it's in full-swing . The chicks here seem a bit calmer/more mature around 23-25+, but the 19-21/22 age bracket holds some interesting examples of mass whoritude.
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    Originally Posted by onebigc View Post
    I saw a graph on female married rates vs number of premarital sex partners and it went something like this...

    Once a woman has sex with more men than her one husband her chance of staying married to her husband goes down exponentially. It sets the mindset that you never commit to one person and can literally give everything you have and then turn around and give it to another.
    ive been saying this all along, being promiscious is the top reason why people cant stay committed and be in serious relationship

    Originally Posted by DemetriaF View Post
    A woman should have a slut phase IMO, and that's with her husband! That's the appropriate time to unleash the slut.
    Freakin words to live by for both men and women.

    I find it funny how people, or men on this forum, blame 'beta' males, or 'white knights', or feminism for women being whores. IMO it has nothing to do with that, it all goes back to one thing, and that's choices. It doesnt depend on any one specific gender being at fault. Women choose to go to clubs dressed like hookers, men go to same places where those women are found to indulge them in their whorish behaviour.

    Men do the chasing, if most men stopped thinking with their dicks, and put ethics and morals ahead of them, and turned away from those women they'd have a better chance of scoring something good. And maybe women will catch on and start acting accordingly, most women that is.

    But that will never happen, too many people like fukin way too much, and they will continue to fuk, and fuk many women, so girls these days just go with the flow.
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    Shouldn't the smart women learn from the immature slut phase women and be a freak with their husbands, of course any man dumb enough to get married should have his wife go through a slut phase with that fancy ring.
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    i plan on sleeping around till i find a good gf, dont see why its so different when females do the same..
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    Originally Posted by wrath_story View Post
    ive been saying this all along, being promiscious is the top reason why people cant stay committed and be in serious relationship

    Freakin words to live by for both men and women.

    I find it funny how people, or men on this forum, blame 'beta' males, or 'white knights', or feminism for women being whores. IMO it has nothing to do with that, it all goes back to one thing, and that's choices. It doesnt depend on any one specific gender being at fault. Women choose to go to clubs dressed like hookers, men go to same places where those women are found to indulge them in their whorish behaviour.

    Men do the chasing, if most men stopped thinking with their dicks, and put ethics and morals ahead of them, and turned away from those women they'd have a better chance of scoring something good. And maybe women will catch on and start acting accordingly, most women that is.

    But that will never happen, too many people like fukin way too much, and they will continue to fuk, and fuk many women, so girls these days just go with the flow.
    i feel like this opinion takes responsibility away from the women and places it on men though. dont you think that saying "well if men turned away sluts then there would be no sluts" is absurd? females are accountable for their actions far more than males are accountable for females actions.

    hypothetical scenario

    you are married to a woman. once every few months she goes out with her friends and has a few drinks. every time she does, in the back of her mind she thinks "i want to fuk a strange man". however, no strange man will fuk her.

    scenario 2

    you are married to a woman. once every few months she goes out with her friends has a few drinks. one night things get out of hand, a few too many shots to celebrate carols big promotion and nancys new engagement and she blacks out. the next day, she realizes she had consentual sex with a man.


    who is worse?
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    Originally Posted by SirTerrythe3rd View Post
    This. If she's into stuff like that, the novelty usually wears thin by 22.
    22? Hell no, they're not done that early either. Girls who are really into clubbing don't stop clubbing till menopause. I went through a huge clubbing phase when I lived in Hawaii, and I routinely met girls 30+. My boss would take me to clubs with his wife and they were both mid-30s. Sad fact if you ask me. I don't like clubbing, I only suck it up and do it for the sake of being social and meeting women.

    to answer OP, I say yes. If I can do it, she should be able to. Everyone goes through phases where they don't want commitment. People's priorities change with age.
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    Originally Posted by varter View Post
    22? Hell no, they're not done that early either. Girls who are really into clubbing don't stop clubbing till menopause. I went through a huge clubbing phase when I lived in Hawaii, and I routinely met girls 30+. My boss would take me to clubs with his wife and they were both mid-30s. Sad fact if you ask me..
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    Originally Posted by DocHol1day View Post
    i feel like this opinion takes responsibility away from the women and places it on men though. dont you think that saying "well if men turned away sluts then there would be no sluts" is absurd? females are accountable for their actions far more than males are accountable for females actions.

    hypothetical scenario

    you are married to a woman. once every few months she goes out with her friends and has a few drinks. every time she does, in the back of her mind she thinks "i want to fuk a strange man". however, no strange man will fuk her.

    scenario 2

    you are married to a woman. once every few months she goes out with her friends has a few drinks. one night things get out of hand, a few too many shots to celebrate carols big promotion and nancys new engagement and she blacks out. the next day, she realizes she had consentual sex with a man.


    who is worse?
    you have a point here. And i said before not any one specific gender is at fault, it really takes 2 to play the game. Each and everyone is responsible for their own actions and behaviour, men are the ones that approach, men are seekers, they are hunters, they go for the kill, but ultimately women are the ones who have a final say whether or not they are taking those men in the bedroom.

    If a man doesnt want to end up with a girl who's been around it's up to him to make up his mind and make a choice, now i believe that if more men started to make similar choices, we'd see less sluts showing up to dates. It's a hell of a lot more acceptable for me to believe rather than blame 'soft' men being responsible for women acting the way they do.

    This can be argued in many different ways though, but i think there's some truth in the theory that men corrupt women. They place the demand on what is 'hot', and how a woman should act. The same men who complain that not many good girls are left, are the same men who get upset when a girl makes them wait, or doesnt blow them on a first date. Look at how porn has evolved over the years, the more nastier a woman is, the more slutty she appears the more turned on guys get. It's accepted.

    Women care about how they are perceived, and they want to be attractive to guys, so they go by what Cosmopolitan tells them, and they go by what turns guys on. Everyone adjusts to what the other is doing, and not only in relationships. Guys who say 'well i want a good woman, but im still gonna try to hit on girls and convince them to have sex with me, what happens next is up to them' are not doing anything to help the situation. They expect to stay the way the are, sex craved testosterone filled males, and they expect women to change for them for the better, it doesnt work like that.

    Each person goes in the direction the other one leads them, most of the time, but then you have idealists like me, or demetria, to name a few off this site alone. But keep one thing in mind doc, men are leaders, so naturally women will follow, instead of the other way around.

    As for the scenarios your brought up, #2 is worse, even considering that she was under the influence of alcohol. #1 is pretty standard, i think everyone at one point or another fantasizes about sex with strangers, but thinking and doing are 2 different things. benefit of the doubt should be applied for scenario 1.
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    all women do not have a slut phase. not even in this modern age where sex is about as rampant as never before.

    outside of american and western society, promiscuity among women is still highly frowned upon. so generalizing "ALL WOMEN GO THRU SLUT PHASE" is wrong.

    like i said before, even in americanized culture, not all women do this either. after all..america is a combination of cultures in one country. i do agree tho that promiscuity is higher in america than other countries (maybe..not europe. but i dont know much about those countries so i cant make an assumption).

    there are way too many factors to generalize an entire gender as being one way. (time frame [women in the 1940's were all going thru slut phases??], culture, parental influences, etc.)

    Back on topic,

    yes i do believe a girl who had gone through that specific stage can change into GF or WIFE material. one thing to note is that you cannot "MAKE" a person a certain way, they have to change themselves.

    life should be about maturation and growing up, and for the high majority of the world, that happens. most women do not stay promiscious forever. Men do not either. its just in our NATURAL being (sexual activities become more difficult as we age).
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    Originally Posted by DocHol1day View Post
    these statistics are a little misleading IMO because as its become socially acceptable for women to sleep around before marriage, laws have also changed that have turned divorce into a profit making endeavor for american women. i would say that no fault divorce laws have made at least as much of an impact in the rise of divorce rates as more sex partners has.
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    Cliffs:
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    -divorce due to female profiting is at most 20%
    -divorce due to whoring is 28%

    Profit/not working out:
    Notice 20% of female virgins got divorced anyway due to profit/not working out which applies equally to all.

    Religion/unwanted:
    Virgins (80% married) are probably religious people or unwanted people (ugly, mentally/physically disabled) so they stay married even though they want divorce. Notice that the 2 pre-marital partner rate was 50% so they slept around a little but without a whore mindset. This includes the 20% of people who will divorce for profit/not working out. This nominalized the graph so I say the virgin bias is 80-50 = 30% which leaves us at a nominal 50% divorce rate which excludes the virgin bias and whores.

    Whores:
    50% (nominal rate) - 22% = 28% of the 20+ premarital sex women divorced for some other reason than profitability/not working out or religion/unwanted. Why? They are whores.
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    Originally Posted by wrath_story View Post
    you have a point here. And i said before not any one specific gender is at fault, it really takes 2 to play the game. Each and everyone is responsible for their own actions and behaviour, men are the ones that approach, men are seekers, they are hunters, they go for the kill, but ultimately women are the ones who have a final say whether or not they are taking those men in the bedroom.

    If a man doesnt want to end up with a girl who's been around it's up to him to make up his mind and make a choice, now i believe that if more men started to make similar choices, we'd see less sluts showing up to dates. It's a hell of a lot more acceptable for me to believe rather than blame 'soft' men being responsible for women acting the way they do.

    This can be argued in many different ways though, but i think there's some truth in the theory that men corrupt women. They place the demand on what is 'hot', and how a woman should act. The same men who complain that not many good girls are left, are the same men who get upset when a girl makes them wait, or doesnt blow them on a first date. Look at how porn has evolved over the years, the more nastier a woman is, the more slutty she appears the more turned on guys get. It's accepted.

    Women care about how they are perceived, and they want to be attractive to guys, so they go by what Cosmopolitan tells them, and they go by what turns guys on. Everyone adjusts to what the other is doing, and not only in relationships. Guys who say 'well i want a good woman, but im still gonna try to hit on girls and convince them to have sex with me, what happens next is up to them' are not doing anything to help the situation. They expect to stay the way the are, sex craved testosterone filled males, and they expect women to change for them for the better, it doesnt work like that.

    Each person goes in the direction the other one leads them, most of the time, but then you have idealists like me, or demetria, to name a few off this site alone. But keep one thing in mind doc, men are leaders, so naturally women will follow, instead of the other way around.

    As for the scenarios your brought up, #2 is worse, even considering that she was under the influence of alcohol. #1 is pretty standard, i think everyone at one point or another fantasizes about sex with strangers, but thinking and doing are 2 different things. benefit of the doubt should be applied for scenario 1.
    i didnt mean for girl 1 to sound like she was fantasizing. what i meant was for her to literally want, even beg men to bang her. but for whatever reason (morals, shes ugly) no guy ever does.

    personally, i would break up with either woman. i find woman 1 to be of lower quality though because her clear headed sober intentions were whorish.

    Originally Posted by onebigc View Post
    Super cliffs:
    -you are close enough.

    Cliffs:
    -I improperly calculate your points due to lack of mutually independent data
    -divorce due to female profiting is at most 20%
    -divorce due to whoring is 28%

    Profit/not working out:
    Notice 20% of female virgins got divorced anyway due to profit/not working out which applies equally to all.

    Religion/unwanted:
    Virgins (80% married) are probably religious people or unwanted people (ugly, mentally/physically disabled) so they stay married even though they want divorce. Notice that the 2 pre-marital partner rate was 50% so they slept around a little but without a whore mindset. This includes the 20% of people who will divorce for profit/not working out. This nominalized the graph so I say the virgin bias is 80-50 = 30% which leaves us at a nominal 50% divorce rate which excludes the virgin bias and whores.

    Whores:
    50% (nominal rate) - 22% = 28% of the 20+ premarital sex women divorced for some other reason than profitability/not working out or religion/unwanted. Why? They are whores.
    i dont dispute any of this. i just wanted to illustrate that their were other factors at play here...
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    Originally Posted by .aeterna View Post
    all women do not have a slut phase. not even in this modern age where sex is about as rampant as never before.

    outside of american and western society, promiscuity among women is still highly frowned upon. so generalizing "ALL WOMEN GO THRU SLUT PHASE" is wrong.

    like i said before, even in americanized culture, not all women do this either. after all..america is a combination of cultures in one country. i do agree tho that promiscuity is higher in america than other countries (maybe..not europe. but i dont know much about those countries so i cant make an assumption).

    there are way too many factors to generalize an entire gender as being one way. (time frame [women in the 1940's were all going thru slut phases??], culture, parental influences, etc.)
    im gonna have to go ahead and agree with you there, the promiscious lifestyle is quite strong in US, and i got one word for it, MEDIA.
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    Originally Posted by DocHol1day View Post
    i didnt mean for girl 1 to sound like she was fantasizing. what i meant was for her to literally want, even beg men to bang her. but for whatever reason (morals, shes ugly) no guy ever does.

    personally, i would break up with either woman. i find woman 1 to be of lower quality though because her clear headed sober intentions were whorish.
    Okay then, i misread it as fantasizing "in the back of her mind she thinks...." that's what it looked like to me, if she begs men to fuk her, then it's a different story. Red light for me, all the way. And it's clear to me that she's not there to just 'have a drink'.
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    Originally Posted by DocHol1day View Post
    hypothetical scenario

    you are married to a woman. once every few months she goes out with her friends and has a few drinks. every time she does, in the back of her mind she thinks "i want to fuk a strange man". however, no strange man will fuk her.

    scenario 2

    you are married to a woman. once every few months she goes out with her friends has a few drinks. one night things get out of hand, a few too many shots to celebrate carols big promotion and nancys new engagement and she blacks out. the next day, she realizes she had consentual sex with a man.

    who is worse?
    Terribly skewed, as #1 will 'appear' worse. But the TRUTH of the matter is that ALL females can indeed find strange men to have sex with them. What is the woman in scenario #1, a troglodyte? Even the most hideous women can find sex, as men have the potential to find kinks in some very bizarre scenarios. So scenario #1 has to be adjusted, as it's not reality based.

    Let's try this instead....

    Hypothetical Scenario #1

    you are married to a woman. once every few months she goes out with her friends and has a few drinks. every time she does, in the back of her mind she thinks "i want to fuk a strange man". however, she doesn't, never has, and never will because she prefers her sexual fantasy over reality.

    Hypothetical Scenario #2

    you are married to a woman. once every few months she goes out with her friends has a few drinks. one night things get out of hand, a few too many shots to celebrate carols big promotion and nancys new engagement and she blacks out. the next day, she realizes she had consentual sex with a man.

    which is worse?

    FANTASY is NOT DANGEROUS!!!!!

    This is a problem I find with so many who say that horror films make killers, or that pron creates rapists, or that video games create murderers.

    I fantasize about a lot of things, but this doesn't mean I've EVER wanted or needed to act out any of my fantasies. And not only things relating to human sexuality, but also things like killing, being a female superhero, being an mma fighter, an FBI agent, race car driver, etc.

    Fantasies are endless, and also limitless. But 'reality' is another story altogether, which is when grownups put silly fantasies on the the back burner. It's like when I hear people say that video games have the potential to turn people into 'real life' killers. Good heavens, I've killed so many people/zombies via gaming that I should be a heartless bitch in real life by now.

    But then again, fantasy is fantasy. I can't be the video game killer in real life, just as I could never be the slut. Why is this so difficult for so many people to understand? There are many sacrifices attached to living out all these 'tempting' fantasies, and not every person is willing to take on these risks for a moment of pleasure.

    So if a woman needs to find a reason to slut around, she will do so before she's married, during her marriage, and even following her divorce. This 'getting it all out of the system' is a myth when dealing with females that have 'learned' to live out their sexual fantasies. Sure, some women might 'settle down,' but these are the same women that gained pleasure from past experience. Similar to a recovered alcoholic--they might have gotten it all out of their system, but the temptation for pleasure is there every day of their lives. This is why there are AA meetings, and also sex addiction meetings. Same with real life killers, they don't get the killing out of their systems, lol!

    These things don't vanish once a person grows up, has children, etc. In fact, the stress of marriage, holding a steady job, and also children, causes many to relapse.

    So it's safe to say that a woman who's routinely escaped reality by taking on multitudes of sexual partners, is at greater risk of relapse than a woman that never took her first hit from that pipe. Women are NOT men, so it would make more sense to try and understand females from a female perspective, as opposed to that of what men know of themselves.
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    Terribly skewed, as #1 will 'appear' worse. But the TRUTH of the matter is that ALL females can indeed find strange men to have sex with them. What is the woman in scenario #1, a troglodyte? Even the most hideous women can find sex, as men have the potential to find kinks in some very bizarre scenarios. So scenario #1 has to be adjusted, as it's not reality based.

    Let's try this instead....

    Hypothetical Scenario #1

    you are married to a woman. once every few months she goes out with her friends and has a few drinks. every time she does, in the back of her mind she thinks "i want to fuk a strange man". however, she doesn't, never has, and never will because she prefers her sexual fantasy over reality.

    Hypothetical Scenario #2

    you are married to a woman. once every few months she goes out with her friends has a few drinks. one night things get out of hand, a few too many shots to celebrate carols big promotion and nancys new engagement and she blacks out. the next day, she realizes she had consentual sex with a man.

    which is worse?

    FANTASY is NOT DANGEROUS!!!!!

    This is a problem I find with so many who say that horror films make killers, or that pron creates rapists, or that video games create murderers.

    I fantasize about a lot of things, but this doesn't mean I've EVER want or need to act out any of my fantasies. And not only things relating to human sexuality, but also things like killing, being a female superhero, being an mma fighter, an FBI agent, race car driver, etc.

    Fantasies are endless, and also limitless. But 'reality' is another story altogether, which is when grownups put silly fantasies on the the back burner. It's like when I hear people say that video games have the potential to turn people into 'real life' killers. Good heavens, I've killed so many people/zombies via gaming that I should be a heartless bitch in real life by now.

    But then again, fantasy is fantasy. I can't be the video game killer in real life, just as I could never be the slut. Why is this so difficult for so many people to understand? There are many sacrifices attached to living out all these 'tempting' fantasies, and not every person is will to take on these risks for a moment of pleasure.

    So if a woman needs to find a reason to slut around, she will do so before she's married, during her marriage, and even following her divorce. This 'getting it all out of the system' is a myth when dealing with females that have 'learned' to live out their fantasies. Sure, some women might 'settle down,' but these are the same women that gained pleasure from past experience. Similar to a recovered alcoholic--they might have gotten it all out of their system, but the temptation for pleasure is there every day of their lives. This is why there are AA meetings, and also sex addiction meetings. Same with real life killers, they don't get the killing out of their systems, lol!

    These things don't vanish once a person grows up, has children, etc. In fact, the stress of marriage, holding a steady job, and also children, causes many to relapse.

    So it's safe to say that a woman who's routinely escaped reality by taking on multitudes of sexual partners, is at greater risk of relapse than a woman that never took her first hit from that pipe. Women are NOT men, so it would make more sense to try and understand females from a female perspective, as opposed to that of what men know of themselves.
    i know its not based in reality, thats why i called it hypothetical. i was trying to illustrate a point. that women and only women are responsible for their sleeping around, and men uniting to turn down loose women is a laughable concept because she'll still be a "slut" (god i hate that term) but she just wont have a high number of previous partners.

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    i also think fantasy is perfectly healthy, i defended it in another thread where some kid tried to say a girl is a whore for having fantasies.
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    Each person goes in the direction the other one leads them, most of the time, but then you have idealists like me, or demetria, to name a few off this site alone. But keep one thing in mind doc, men are leaders, so naturally women will follow, instead of the other way around.
    I am not an idealist, I am a realist. I have no problems with sluts, in fact I find them quite entertaining, and know they serve a purpose in society. Good heavens, what would happen if we took sluts out of society as a whole?

    The problem I have is that slutdom has become such a trend in Westernized cultures, and that some lame, feminist females (and the men who love them), are attempting to ascribe 'empowerment' or 'accomplishment,' or worse, 'naturalness' to a woman that spreads her legs wide and often. LOLOLOL!

    This I take issue with, as whoring has never been an accomplishment, and has always been an aberration most everywhere in the world, and throughout history. Whoring is easy, in fact too easy for women. So where's the accomplishment in something that from a female perspective, is the equivalent of breathing?

    It's the confusion I take issue with, the ways in which many modern men are taught via feminism to embrace the slut as something unique, or worthy of understanding. I suppose this comes as a result of skewed standards relating to 'equality,' as most men can only fantasize about whoredom, so in turn they forgive promiscuous women for living out their 'own' fantasies. However, men do this without realizing they'd feel much differently about spreading their legs if they were indeed 'natural born' women.

    Remove the notion of 'equality,' and 'logic' will once again take hold.
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    Originally Posted by DemetriaF View Post

    This I take issue with, as whoring has never been an accomplishment, and has always been an aberration most everywhere in the world, and throughout history. Whoring is easy, in fact too easy for women. So where's the accomplishment in something that from a female perspective, is the equivalent of breathing?
    Why does it have to be an accomplishment? If a person likes sex so much let him/her have sex, I really don't see a problem with this.
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    Why does it have to be an accomplishment? If a person likes sex so much let him/her have sex, I really don't see a problem with this.
    Because you're only looking at sex from a very narrow, and extremely optimistic, and media driven perspective--with no risks attached, no disease, no children, no social welfare, no relationships, no impacts, and no difference between males and females. Yes, based on this unrealistic model, there is indeed no problem with us all having one great big orgy.

    But let's get back to real life for a moment, and the complexities of human sexuality. And why 'nature' has instilled 'healthy minded' women with an 'instinct' to close their legs, and to be selective in regard to sexual activity, and in how she's perceived by men.

    The sexually promiscuous woman has a decreased social value, as prominent males will indeed have sex with her, but do not value her enough to breed with, to invest in her, or to keep her close. Reason being, males need to have some control over the sexually promiscuous woman, as it's very likely that she will also have sex with other males, therefore putting him in a situation where he'll raise children that are not his own, and even to put his life in danger.

    Promiscuous women are in many ways similar to parasitic bird species (like the cuckoo), who will place her eggs into the nest of another bird to be raised. Sexually promiscuous women do this as well, as the sperm of another man is often placed into the nest of her partner to be raised. I did some research years back on this topic, and was surprised to discover how many men are raising children that are NOT their own. Men who also believe that these are indeed their biological children. So it's instinct that drives both males, and females to be cautious of slutdom.

    That's just one example, and I'm only scratching the surface here, the topic goes a lot deeper, with dozens of reasons supporting the instincts that males and females are hardwired with, especially in regard to sexual promiscuity in females.

    However, the man that supports/lauds the newly liberated, and promiscuous female has been brainwashed by feminism, as the intention of feminists is to rewire nature so that men and women are equal to one another--skewing the system of male dominance, female submission.

    Modern men certainly like the newly unleashed female slut, as she fills a sexual void. But in the real world, it's impossible (and also laughable), to erase instinct in favor of a genderless, androgynous society. It won't happen as long as those chromosomes keep splitting us into XX and XY patterns, and when this distinct split is also impacted by sex hormones.
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    I've never read this, but it looks deliciously JUICY!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for the link!
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    Absolutely.

    I know several girls who were sluts throughout high school and college, saw the error of their ways, don't even party anymore and now cannot even consider having sex with someone they are not in a long term relationship with.

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    lets be reality, when its time to settle down, the best you can hope for is a reformed whore. whores and reformed whores make up the extreme majority of women. a truly "good girl" that is also beautiful and intelligent just doesnt exist. youre going to have to accept the fact that your girl has been railed many times before by MANY different guys and just hope that its all behind her.
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    lets be reality, when its time to settle down, the best you can hope for is a reformed whore. whores and reformed whores make up the extreme majority of women. a truly "good girl" that is also beautiful and intelligent just doesnt exist. youre going to have to accept the fact that your girl has been railed many times before by MANY different guys and just hope that its all behind her.
    True to some extent, but not complete truth.

    There are many beautiful, intelligent women in the world that are NOT whorish. The problem is that these women are often so low key, or even shy about their sexuality that men hardly notice them. Sexually modest women don't go around advertising this fact, as 'advertising' goes against the grain of being sexually modest. However, men hardly notice these women because they're hidden in society. We instead live in a world where the most brazen, sexually promiscuous women get most of the attention.

    So please don't say that sexually modest women aren't out there, because they ARE. Thing is, men can hardly see them because they're being blinded by an onslaught of T&A.
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    And what does that imply, tons of ONS, with lots of guys? Sorry, never did that.

    A woman should have a slut phase IMO, and that's with her husband! That's the appropriate time to unleash the slut.
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    Originally Posted by DemetriaF View Post
    This I take issue with, as whoring has never been an accomplishment, and has always been an aberration most everywhere in the world, and throughout history. Whoring is easy, in fact too easy for women. So where's the accomplishment in something that from a female perspective, is the equivalent of breathing?
    I disagree. To some women, whoring is a sport. This is going to sound odd, but just because a girl is a slut doesn't mean she doesn't have standards. The sport of it is between women who compete to see who can get the attention (fuked) from the dude that all the other women want - the dude that has the most $, has the most coc, is the best looking, etc. In this sense, there is definitely accomplishment to be had by women that whore and most women that operate with this mentality are getting railed by new men on the regular.

    Men compete to see who can fuk the best looking women and women compete to fuk the men that all the other women want, whatever the reason may be.

    To answer the original question, yeah alot of women that go through the slut stage in the late teens to early 20s grow out of it as they mature. Some don't.
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    I'm now reading, and dissecting. In case anyone hasn't clicked on the link, here are a few noteworthy selections...

    The mentally flaccid nonjudgmentalists are running from ugly truths they cannot bear to accept, and never is this more apparent than when discussing the price that sluts pay in the open sexual market. Here, for instance, is an excerpt from an infamous post that sent hordes of internet whores into screeching hissy fits:

    This goes without saying, but apparently there are some commenters who believe being completely nonjudgemental of anything a woman does is the mark of an alpha. In fact, it’s just the opposite. Only alphas have the market value to mercilessly judge the women they choose to bring into their lives.

    Men subconsciously judge women’s sluttiness for eminently practical reasons, just as women judge men on a host of alpha benchmarks for similarly practical reasons. No moral equation required. “Slut” is, in fact, a morally neutral term in the context of the sexual market, where a slutty girl is viewed, justifiably and desirably, as an easy lay who will go all the way right away, and undesirably as a girlfriend or wife prospect in whom to invest precious resources. With the law and social institutions of the modern west arrayed against male interest as it hasn’t been in all of human history, it is of critical importance that men get this part of choosing girls for long term investmest and wife and mother potential down to a science.
    Mind blowing! ^^^^

    Well, the science has arrived; at least, the science that proves that sluts are suckers’ bets for LTRs or marriage. You want to marry or have a loving long-term relationship with a girl without an elevated risk that she’ll divorce you or cheat on you? Then you had better get good real fast at screening the sluts from the relatively chaste girls so that you can lavish your resources and commitment on the latter.
    ^^^^ Marriage minded, or commitment minded men need to keep this in mind, as it's a truth. There is no 'getting it out of the system.'

    The Social Pathologist has crunched the numbers, and the verdict is in: women with lots of past partners are more likely to divorce than women who didn’t take a self-empowering spin on the cock carousel.
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    Maxim #80: The more cocks that have ravaged a woman, the less any one cock will mesmerize her.
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    i know its not based in reality, thats why i called it hypothetical. i was trying to illustrate a point. that women and only women are responsible for their sleeping around, and men uniting to turn down loose women is a laughable concept because she'll still be a "slut"(god i hate that term) but she just wont have a high number of previous partners.

    peoples intentions, whats in their heart, is what really matters
    Really? I happen to think that while this method is completely impossible, it surely seems to be the only option.

    A slut will always be a slut is akin to saying that women are born with a slut gene

    Think about this for a solid minute

    What motivates, what influences women to be the way they are? The fact that men provide the attention to them, the fact that men are as easy, or even easier than women are. Only these days, most women are even easier than most men when it comes to getting down in the sack. The introduction is only needed for both cases. The very fact that they are doing it effectively with nothing stopping them, what reason do they have to think they should be doing anything different?

    I trully believe that most women who are sluts dont believe they are, or dont see anything wrong with it. Just like most here believe they should bang every woman in their way and then 'settle' down. They go through the same phase that women do, but they are mad about women obliging and indulging them in their wishes during that phase, and when the woman doesnt, they complain about that as well, because this time she doesnt put out soon enough. If i ever seen hypocrisy it its brightest light, then this would be it.

    Men are the ones who made women this way, they also have the power to stop women, only they wouldnt do it, because they want to have sluts around. It gives them the reason to pay for their mistakes, and people want mistakes.

    To me a slut is similar to a drug user. Sex and drugs almost have the same pleasurable effects to the brain. The person who uses drugs knows that what he's doing is wrong but the feeling is so overwhelming that he forgets about it, he forgets that he's hurting himself in the long run. Now you take away drugs from the said user, and he'll complain. There's no drugs that he can use, so he'll have to adapt, sooner or later. Give a little more time, and he'll be totally rehabilitated never wanting to touch the stuff again, because he'll realize how much happier he is when he's not on drugs, and he doesnt need drugs to be happy. Of course there are exceptions when people are totally far gone that they'll never change their ways.

    This may not be the most fitting analogy, but it's the first that came to mind.

    I dont believe we are born to be what we are simply because we were born. I believe in many instances, and that goes for anything, that we are influenced by things we see, experiences, by the beliefs we adopt, that makes us be. and that we are able to do a complete 180 degree turn from anything we've been doing. People become, people remain, and people also change, and then there are people that never were.
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    not that all of you arent making completely valid points, but your over looking the most important part of all of this.

    we no longer live in a society where marrying a virgin is feasible. so what are you going to do about it? what adjustments will you make? will you look for a virgin, or just never marry? i'm dead serious. i know what i'm going to do about it. i'm confident in the path i walk, but for those who want the house with the picket fence and 3.2 kids, what will you do?
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