ITT: Q&A for female miscers

[JKLOL]

I can't believe this thread is still going.

We have a lot to learn


What's a good way to see if a girl is interested? I'm not good at maintaining friendships with girls while I'm dating because I feel like I friendzone myself pretty easily (I don't agree with flirting even if there is no interest due to said relationship) and the girl I was seeing moved so my options are now open again...

Like.. kiss on the cheek at the end of the night? I don't want to blatantly ask if I can kiss her OR "accidentally" grab her ass or something (although she did have me feel how wet it was after she sat down...............). There's always a little spark, twinkle in her eye etc etc. and I don't feel like that's there in this case.

Also, how easy/likely is it to start up a relationship with someone you've known for a while? To me it seems like once you know/see each other more than a few times (gym, hobby, etc.) and don't act on it, there's a low chance of anything happening..

[DivaJana]

We have a lot to learn


What's a good way to see if a girl is interested? I'm not good at maintaining friendships with girls while I'm dating because I feel like I friendzone myself pretty easily (I don't agree with flirting even if there is no interest due to said relationship) and the girl I was seeing moved so my options are now open again...

Like.. kiss on the cheek at the end of the night? I don't want to blatantly ask if I can kiss her OR "accidentally" grab her ass or something (although she did have me feel how wet it was after she sat down...............). There's always a little spark, twinkle in her eye etc etc. and I don't feel like that's there in this case.

Also, how easy/likely is it to start up a relationship with someone you've known for a while? To me it seems like once you know/see each other more than a few times (gym, hobby, etc.) and don't act on it, there's a low chance of anything happening..

Once you know each other more than few times it's harder to tell if someone is interested or not because both could be shy and feeling that the other person isn't interested. If you like someone just take your chances, find a good time(make sure she's in a good mood/ happy) and tell her how you feel. No need to complicate things.

[Trinity1216]

wut happened to your rep power ma?

I gave it all up. I asked for a rep reset.

To many people on here put to much value on a bunch of pixels. I want to prove that the amount of reps does not matter, it doesn't change the person you are. I do not look at someones rep or color rep they are. I look at the quality of their posts and if they are genuinely good people.

Some here will do anything for a bunch of green squares. IMO I will not change or do anything that is against my moral values for those bars and I am very disappointed when I see others do so.

And I don't mean you sweetie, I think you are a good solid poster and a good guy

[DivaJana]

To many people on here put to much value on a bunch of pixels. I want to prove that the amount of reps does not matter, it doesn't change the person you are. I do not look at someones rep or color rep they are. I look at the quality of their posts and if they are genuinely good people.

Some here will do anything for a bunch of green squares. IMO I will not change or do anything that is against my moral values for those bars and I am very disappointed when I see others do so.

Well said mom <3

Reps doesn't make quality posters, quality posters make reps.

[CorpsmanUp79]

What's a good way to see if a girl is interested?

Also, how easy/likely is it to start up a relationship with someone you've known for a while?

In the past I always relied on body language. If he was playing with his shirt or hair nervously and only did it around me, he was preening and trying to look good. If he acted more macho around me, (hands in his belt loop, stretching and making himself appear larger, genitals facing me, chest puffed out etc) but was reserved around others I knew he was trying to impress me. Y'all do all of these things even if you don't realize it. The actions are subtle but noticeable if you're paying attention.

Women on the other hand, tend to shrink in and try to appear small and fragile, like we need a man to protect us. We also push out our chests (show cleavage) and twirl our hair but more absentmindedly than a man. We tend to smile a lot when we are interested in someone. Try smiling at something small and see if she smiles too. When sitting with a woman notice how her shoes are on her feet. Do they dangle from her toes playfully or are her feet planted firmly on the ground in front of her? Does she sit comfortably, foot under herself or formally, feet planted as if she's at work?

I am a people watcher and this is 100% legit info on subtle flirting you can find in any psychology book or female magazine. I know you said no flirting but this is subconscious stuff we don't even realize our bodies do Try looking for these actions the next time you go out. You'll be dumbfounded by how obvious it is now that you're in the know. lol

As far as the friendship thing goes, my husband and I were friends for months before we started dating. I kept sending him to the friendzone and he was always there when I needed a friend. Eventually he grew on me (like a fungus) and we'll be married 12 years in December.

[Ayudha]

She had a new name tag and it was right next to her cleavage, .

Should have asked her what she called the other one ?


...Bad humour will deflect attention from that awkward just been busted perving feels every time

[blimpety]

Ok so 6 things a man has, rank which ones are desirable 1-6, 1 being most desirable

-aesthetic body
-good looking face
-money
-dancing skills
-well endowed
- personality

I'm going to preface this with the emphasis that this is my OPINION, and does not apply to every female on the planet.

1. personality
2. good looking face
3. aesthetic body (but to me just because he's not shredded as fuk doesn't mean I won't give him a chance. But he can't be overweight)
4. well endowed
5. money
6. dancing skills

[repsDTGdaily]

I gave it all up. I asked for a rep reset.

To many people on here put to much value on a bunch of pixels. I want to prove that the amount of reps does not matter, it doesn't change the person you are. I do not look at someones rep or color rep they are. I look at the quality of their posts and if they are genuinely good people.

Some here will do anything for a bunch of green squares. IMO I will not change or do anything that is against my moral values for those bars and I am very disappointed when I see others do so.

And I don't mean you sweetie, I think you are a good solid poster and a good guy

negged you peon.


not srs lol

[Wantaripbod]

What's the clitoris?

[blimpety]

What is a WK? *is a noob*

White knight. From Urban Dictionary:

According to the MISC on the BodyBuilding website: A white knight is defined as a male that treats woman as goddesses and does nothing but shower then in compliments on how wonderful and beautiful and special they are. Maybe be used as a noun or a verb.

[GreekyBeth]

I can't believe this thread is still going.

Was just going to post this.

[bigfish18q]

What's the clitoris?

It's a mythical beast from the bermuda triangle.

[CXVII]

I can't believe this thread is still going.

Was just going to post this.

The Misc. is known for keeping threads alive...

[CXVII]

Has any one ever thought of cheating because their partner sucked as teh sex?

[tara19]

Has any one ever thought of cheating because their partner sucked as teh sex?

No, just showed him the...

mythical beast from the bermuda triangle.

[PanasonicYouth]

Pubic hair. What do you ladies prefer? Trimmed? Shaved? Jungle?

Do you still remember your first crush? Any idea where they might be now?

[Artemis00]

Pubic hair. What do you ladies prefer? Trimmed? Shaved? Jungle?

Do you still remember your first crush? Any idea where they might be now?

Maintenance is preferred. Shaved or trimmed is good. Jungle, no thanks.


And yes I remember my first crush but I was probably 5 at the time. As for where they are right now...no clue and don't really care.

[JimmyRustlebrah]

clean shaven, light stubble, strong stubble or full blown beard?

which looks best on a guy?

[awwsumr0cketz]

clean shaven, light stubble, strong stubble or full blown beard?

which looks best on a guy?

depends - i prefer light/strong stubble think it makes the guy look more rugged

[JimmyRustlebrah]

depends - i prefer light/strong stubble think it makes the guy look more rugged

i had a feeling it'd be stubble >> everything else

but i guess it depends on the woman, however the stubble always seems like a popular choice

[Artemis00]

clean shaven, light stubble, strong stubble or full blown beard?

which looks best on a guy?

Really depends on the guy and what they can carry. Some guys look good in a full beard and would look awful clean shaven and vice versus.


My only issue is more related to feel than looks. Stubble can be a bitch scratchy and irritating to the skin after a while.

[JimmyRustlebrah]

Really depends on the guy and what they can carry. Some guys look good in a full beard and would look awful clean shaven and vice versus.


My only issue is more related to feel than looks. Stubble can be a bitch scratchy and irritating to the skin after a while.

lol yeah some girls complained about this from personal experience, however I was mainly referring to the actual aesthetics

[CXVII]

depends - i prefer light/strong stubble think it makes the guy look more rugged

i had a feeling it'd be stubble >> everything else

but i guess it depends on the woman, however the stubble always seems like a popular choice

tfw can't grow stubble

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[graciejjbrazil]

You're asking if we girls enjoy anal sex and your avi is spaghetti "o" rings?

LOL! Saving this as my sig.

[heynah]

2 questions:
-been noticing when I go places a lot of women will eyeball me fairly often and maintain eye contact quite long. It feels like it's for that extra second too long. Not sure if that's a good or bad thing?
-been meeting a lot of new women through my new work and quite a few have been really nice, but I notice that a few get quite nervous/kind of flustered talking to me. One even told me she feels really nervous for some reason when talking to me. Not sure if I'm just intense or what? I'm one of those really confident & well-spoken people. It's pretty easygoing convos we have.

[lschepis]

Pubic hair. What do you ladies prefer? Trimmed? Shaved? Jungle?

Do you still remember your first crush? Any idea where they might be now?

I like a man, jungle and all. Back and bungus hair not too sexy tho. Hey, I don't want him telling me what to do with my mons veneris either.

I sill email with my first crush.

Love a beard- oooh those feels.

[graciejjbrazil]

2 questions:
-been noticing when I go places a lot of women will eyeball me fairly often and maintain eye contact quite long. It feels like it's for that extra second too long.

Dude I noticed this too! I keep wondering if I do it back will it seem weird since they are doing it too.

[Artemis00]

Dude I noticed this too! I keep wondering if I do it back will it seem weird since they are doing it too.

Well if you do it back and she bashfully looks away...She is interested

If you do it back and she looks at you with a sh*ttly look...She isn't

[heynah]

Dude I noticed this too! I keep wondering if I do it back will it seem weird since they are doing it too.

lmao thank god it's not just me.

Well if you do it back and she bashfully looks away...She is interested

If you do it back and she looks at you with a sh*ttly look...She isn't

yeah, well, it's neither of these. that's the confusing part. It's like they thinking "not sure if goodlooking or not..."

[medhead]

yeah, well, it's neither of these. that's the confusing part. It's like they thinking "not sure if goodlooking or not..."

If you actually eyeballed them back & they gave you that kind of tentative look, give it a little longer. It doesn't take thaaat long to decide whether you find someone facially aesthetic or not if they're looking at you straight on, so either (a) you're confusing it with a premature sh*tty look, or (b) the girl's shy / slightly social retarded, hence went into stunned mullet mode (like "omg he's staring back, what do I do?") & needs a little time to figure out her reaction, hahaha.