Halloween, wife just went out dressed like a slut..WTF (SRS)

[1BadSRT]

OP, want to hear the details on this one! Feel bad for you bro.

[Ironbru]

Start collecting some solid proof ready to use for the divorce. The sooner you get rid of this bitch, the sooner you can get your old life back.

Are you still in contact with your old friends? They might be able to give you some support while you get through this. Let us have an update when you can.

[telxos]

She is just going with the flow..I'm not sure you can buy a female Halloween costume that isn't slutty.
The costume isn't as much a problem as straight out not inviting you. That is just a strange dynamic on a big party night. There is probably far more problems than just this in the marriage.
Marriage is a waste. It is much more fun to be the guy who ****s the wife when they separate than to be the chump paying the divorce lawyer.

[DrXThirst]

EDIT: Just read the entire thread.
Like you said, better to divorce now instead of when you're 45.
Good luck. :/

[MYNAMEISBERT]

in for updates.

i mean, even if she isnt cheating, shes going out without you after dragging you 100s of miles to somewhere yo have no connections

[DaBurg3r]

Just a hypothetical situation O/P but imagine you get all dressed up in your most
swag-tastic pimped out, sophisticated outfit. Cologne, cleaned up eyebrows all that stuff.
Then you decide your going to go to a party, and make sure your wife can't go with you. You tell her your going to a party and then bounce. Are you up to any good?

Cause, that's what she did to you.

p.s.-Don't chase her around your just look crazy, but be aware that she will do this kind of thing again. Whether it's an attention getting stunt or whatever
she's up to. She might just be trying to get you to make an ass of yourself.

[Hetzen]

OP better update before leaving for his road trip

[FunAndSun]

You're probably not gonna read this since your in LI or whatever, but I think you already know some women are just not marriage material [the majority of them.] They want to be able to be "independant," and do things that you just don't do when you are in a commited monogomaus relationship, let alone when you are MARRIED.

I'm sorry but I won't put up with that let when dating, let alone married. She can be as independant as she wants, but she'll be doing it without me or with another chump she can play.

You are married and its obviously a much more delicate situation than just "dump and find a new chick."

Are things you didn't tell us? Why did you get married if there were all these signs? What was she doing in the past? I'm sorry but I feel like this isn't just something new that she's doing, and that she probably exhibited this behaviour in the past, and you either didn't notice, or purposely didn't notice it.

If you let this kind of thing continue, it will not be good.

Inb4 beta *******s say I'm trying to rule women.

[lildave]

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[wavybaby86]

this same exact thing happened to me with my ex gf when I was living with her. it felt horrible then so I can only imagine how awful this feels in a marriage. you gotta get outta that situation bruh, that woman will ruin your peace of mind. the best news out of this is that you're only 26 so you have plenty time to get your life back.

[Ericisfly]

ITT: OP says hes not that guy, but is. she will divorce him



you couldn't make one good decision. why would you be able to make one now?

[jesseb22]

update?

[dmacfour]

In for update

[MrFrumble]

This thread is like watching a 747 plummeting toward the ground at terminal velocity, and all you can do as a bystander is feel sorry for all those poor bastards onboard who are about to experience a horrible scorched & mangled end.

Though were it me, it wouldn't even have reached this stage, for if my wife told me she was talking with an Ex? Or that she was even thinking about one? Finito.

That.
Would.
Be.
It.

Cue credits.

[Towley]

Update for the misc

woke up today and the wife was in bed with me....(I worked today)...her sister and some dude were on my couch

ignored her all day...she called me and asked why the apt was so trashed...I explained she got wasted and sister/dude slept over


she worked and got home tonight, didnt mention how ***d up this is or anything, minded my own business

wife blurts out "I looked so hot last night"

RAGED...WTF is this?? she acted like the typical female...blah blah blah

she is spending the night at her parents house.....Im glad shes not here

[Towley]

this thread is like watching a 747 plummeting toward the ground at terminal velocity, and all you can do as a bystander is feel sorry for all those poor bastards onboard who are about to experience a horrible scorched & mangled end.

Though were it me, it wouldn't even have reached this stage, for if my wife told me she was talking with an ex? Or that she was even thinking about one? Finito.

That.
Would.
Be.
It.

Cue credits.

this

[Jacked_J]

Man... not good.

[Fiz-iks]

Update for the misc

woke up today and the wife was in bed with me....(I worked today)...her sister and some dude were on my couch

ignored her all day...she called me and asked why the apt was so trashed...I explained she got wasted and sister/dude slept over


she worked and got home tonight, didnt mention how ***d up this is or anything, minded my own business

wife blurts out "I looked so hot last night"

RAGED...WTF is this?? she acted like the typical female...blah blah blah

she is spending the night at her parents house.....Im glad shes not here

What happened in the argument? What did you say and what did she say?

[Godfrd824]

You're like 26 right, act like an adult, sit her down, ask her what's up, and explain that you didn't like the way she left you hanging, if she doesn't have a solid explanation, tell her how you feel about the marriage, if she doesn't try to fix it, file for divorce.

[deltbrah]

What happened in the argument? What did you say and what did she say?

he yadda yadda yadda'd over the best parts

[Fiz-iks]

he yadda yadda yadda'd over the best parts

I know! who does that?!

[cgh]

She just wants the attention. All girls like it, it doesn't mean she's cheating on you.

[Focused2BFit]

Update for the misc

woke up today and the wife was in bed with me....(I worked today)...her sister and some dude were on my couch

ignored her all day...she called me and asked why the apt was so trashed...I explained she got wasted and sister/dude slept over


she worked and got home tonight, didnt mention how ***d up this is or anything, minded my own business

wife blurts out "I looked so hot last night"

RAGED...WTF is this?? she acted like the typical female...blah blah blah

she is spending the night at her parents house.....Im glad shes not here

Wow! What a cold disrespectful bish, seriously OP you shouldn't stick around and be treated like that. Life is too short. Is she trying to get more attention from you?? Do you tell her and show her she is desirable? WTF... There had to be something way off in your relationship before this.

[deltbrah]

Wow! What a cold disrespectful bish, seriously OP you shouldn't stick around and be treated like that. Life is too short. Is she trying to get more attention from you?? Do you tell her and show her she is desirable? WTF... There had to be something way off in your relationship before this.

stop hating on your kind bish, in an attempt to get reps

[Focused2BFit]

stop hating on your kind bish, in an attempt to get reps

lol yea dying to get your reps

[ridge_forrester]

You don't need to wonder if she did something with another guy or not. Her behaviour is the same disrespectful mentality anyway.

If she was just a girlfriend, you should seriously consider leaving her.

Marriage though... well you could 'man up' and control your woman. But is she even worth that?

[trwilli24]

she probably just wants some attention from guys that arent her husband, just so she knows she's still got it. it's probably nothing serious.

[deltbrah]

lol yea dying to get your reps

i'm just trynna keep it real

[reapersenic]

shouldve macked on the sister for the lolz

[FunAndSun]

Update for the misc

woke up today and the wife was in bed with me....(I worked today)...her sister and some dude were on my couch

ignored her all day...she called me and asked why the apt was so trashed...I explained she got wasted and sister/dude slept over


she worked and got home tonight, didnt mention how ***d up this is or anything, minded my own business

wife blurts out "I looked so hot last night"

RAGED...WTF is this?? she acted like the typical female...blah blah blah

she is spending the night at her parents house.....Im glad shes not here

Update: If you value the relationship you will either put her in her place or get out.

Again, you're married, but I honestly feel like you put yourself there? There has to be other things she's done that we're not aware of.

Get a laywer. Dump and get out. Don't get married so soon next time.