Kiss rejection

Muscledude8040 · 08-28-2006, 09:11 PM

I've been gaming tons of girls over the past few months, racking up the lays. My game just keeps improving and improving. But what to do when you suddenly hit a roadblock because some girl just won't let you kiss her?

This usually doesn't happen to me, in fact I can't remember the last time it happened. Anyways, long story short, went out with this girl for a 1st date. Everything was going great, my game was on 100%, I was very relaxed, in control etc. We were very touchy feely throughout the date, her initiating on me and vice-versa.

So I'm dropping her off at her car, we're talking etc, I tell her she smells nice and I'm working my way around her neck to her earlobe, then I'm going for the kiss, and she pulls away. Whoa, wtf, weird feeling for me, I'm not used to that. Then we talk a few more mins, and I tell her I gotta go, we hug, and she pulls away before I can even try to move my mouth around into kissing position. She gives me a little sly smile before she gets out and says she had a good time, and that was it.

What do you guys think? Low IL, or IL so high she's playing hard to get? Is there even such a thing as IL so high it backfires on you and she plays hard to get?

justinbrown · 08-28-2006, 09:22 PM

yall need to chill with all this PUA crap

OMG AFC, HB10, # CLOSE!

owner · 08-28-2006, 11:55 PM

rip tide looks like u got it locked down either way.

your guess is as good as ours.

it could be anything.

imo ive had situation like this, im sure she's interested.

1 way I could find out is next date.

if u dont kiss close and move further by next date, NEXT HER.

/gg, good luck have fun

Metal_Bass · 08-29-2006, 12:01 AM

It could be that she's playing hard to get,

Or that she dosen't want to kiss you.

Or the fact that your using so much PUA **** that she knows that you have no individual, personal identity.

Muscledude8040 · 08-29-2006, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by owner

rip tide looks like u got it locked down either way.

your guess is as good as ours.

it could be anything.

imo ive had situation like this, im sure she's interested.

1 way I could find out is next date.

if u dont kiss close and move further by next date, NEXT HER.

/gg, good luck have fun

Yeah bro, I think that's the best bet. Just see what happens on date 2.

ryuten · 08-29-2006, 01:22 AM

do the kiss test.
look at her in the eyes. then look her in the lips for a second or two. then look her in the eyes again. and if she looks away the she doesn't want to get kissed. if she wants to get kissed, she'll keep on looking at u.

BuildUpNow · 08-29-2006, 01:26 AM

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qwerty1234 · 08-29-2006, 01:32 AM

Dude seriously-lay off the pua bull****.
Fcuking low Il? High Il? Omg afc-holy crap batman motherfcuking HB10!!

Reclaim manhood-at least you went for the first move.
She didn't go with the kiss...so instead of having her control you-you control her.
What you do next? You do nothing-you ignore her, get her out of your life-shes not worth it. If shes interested she will come back, otherwise fcuk her.
Girls play these little games on guys all the time-what are you going to do? Are you going to chase her down? Try and keep pursuing her? If shes interested shes going to come back to you--otherwise shes just plain dumb.

Yet agian she could be a virgin, or just really timid with that sort of stuff.
How much kino did you apply before making that kiss move? I've noticed that the hand on the leg rubbing around-and moving up to the ear, and cheeks, and neck usually works really well-if she goes with that....then the kiss close should happen.
Otherwise shes not worth your time.
I'll +rep you though for at least having a good date up to that point.

pz

dixon · 08-29-2006, 01:46 AM

You don't kiss unless there's sufficient IOI's. You didn't really give us much info about that. You need to make sure she's into it.

ahmedaz · 08-29-2006, 01:58 AM

Move on to the next girl. If you're racking them as easily as you say, you don't need this prude.

qwerty1234 · 08-29-2006, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by ahmedaz

Move on to the next girl. If you're racking them as easily as you say, you don't need this prude.

exactlly.

SupaDJDiesel · 08-29-2006, 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by justinbrown

yall need to chill with all this PUA crap

OMG AFC, HB10, # CLOSE!

Zing

hublife · 08-29-2006, 01:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ripxtide

I've been gaming tons of girls over the past few months, racking up the lays. My game just keeps improving and improving. But what to do when you suddenly hit a roadblock because some girl just won't let you kiss her?

This usually doesn't happen to me, in fact I can't remember the last time it happened. Anyways, long story short, went out with this girl for a 1st date. Everything was going great, my game was on 100%, I was very relaxed, in control etc. We were very touchy feely throughout the date, her initiating on me and vice-versa.

So I'm dropping her off at her car, we're talking etc, I tell her she smells nice and I'm working my way around her neck to her earlobe, then I'm going for the kiss, and she pulls away. Whoa, wtf, weird feeling for me, I'm not used to that. Then we talk a few more mins, and I tell her I gotta go, we hug, and she pulls away before I can even try to move my mouth around into kissing position. She gives me a little sly smile before she gets out and says she had a good time, and that was it.

What do you guys think? Low IL, or IL so high she's playing hard to get? Is there even such a thing as IL so high it backfires on you and she plays hard to get?

Your 26...GROW THE F*CK UP. What's with all this PUA bull**** anyway? It's like you all hide in this false sense of manhood that you get by banging random women. You think the only way to re-inforce with your peers that your an "Alpha Male" is by "gaming women". Get a life loser. I had this mentality when I was 15. At some point you've got to ask yourself "am I a real man or do I just have sex with lots of women to try to convince myself and others that I am?"

Oh I almost forgot.

NEGGED

JonZ · 08-29-2006, 02:03 PM

Yea youve got so much game but your writting to a bodybuilding forum asking what to do because a girl wouldnt let you kiss her.

You are a complete and total tool. And a bu11****ter too.

Ravage7 · 08-29-2006, 02:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by justinbrown

yall need to chill with all this PUA crap

OMG AFC, HB10, # CLOSE!

Agreed

Boredom · 08-29-2006, 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by justinbrown

yall need to chill with all this PUA crap

OMG AFC, HB10, # CLOSE!

Agreed, repped.

Muscledude8040 · 08-29-2006, 04:19 PM

Wow mad hating going on here. Some of you guys are sad. If you don't have anything constructive to say when someone asks a question, do everyone a favor and STFU or move on to a different thread. By getting all worked up over a simple question you show how much of a douchebag you are. Why does my age and what I do with my life bother you so much?

darkangel · 08-29-2006, 04:36 PM

It was a first date. Maybe her standards are different from yours. If she was disinterested, she wouldn't have given you the "sly smile."