Wanna know the cold, hard facts about the girl of your dreams?

Charuto222 · 08-19-2006, 11:28 AM

I've seen so many ****ed-up-in-the-head emo kids on this board begging for advice on some bitch that he considers to be a goddess that I think it's time for a bit of wisdom on the proper mindset for the next time that you go out to approach a beautiful woman.

I want you to imagine yourself in a night club right now. There you are, right now, at the bar ordering a drink and all of a sudden, six bar stools down, you lock eyes with the most cock hardening beauty you've ever seen.

Pause

Now, what do you think is going through the minds of most men? Chances are, they are thinking "wow, this goddess-like princess needs a knight in shining armor who is all romance novels and banana daquiries to come along and sweep her off her feet and.....wait a second, I could never give her that, oh woe is me! Why can't I be a wonderful prince charming who can give her what she needs to be....who am I kidding, bartender! Get me a drink, I need to drown my sorrows, for I am unworthy of this princess."

This brings us to the single most destructive belief in the history of male/female interaction. That belief is that in order to score with a beautiful woman, you have to be an incredibly hot stud muffin who is a master of every form of seduction known to man.

Bull****. Pure bull****. I don't know how the **** this grossly mythological load of crap came to exist but whoever started it should be tortured to death in the most inhumane way humanly concievable, for he has completely ****ed up the male/female dynamic in every way that it can possibly get ****ed up.

Now, let's go back to the bar scene and take off from the point where you lock eyes with that gorgeous babe and briefly discuss the PROPER MINDSET from which to approach. The TRUTH, if you will, about that seemingly out-of-reach babe.

The TRUTH about her is that she is NOT a perfect-in-every-way princess to whom no man has a chance of bedding unless he is a perfect-in-every-way prince charming. The TRUTH is that she is......a stepping stone.

That's right, she is a ****ing STEPPING STONE, nothing more. Nothing more in any way shape or form....but a stepping stone. Remember that term, stepping stone, we are going to come back to it shortly so lock it in your mind for now.

Now, this may not sound very politically correct. But then, when has political correctness ever gotten a man laid (outside of hollywood's make believe world of course) by anything that even remotely resembles a hot chick?

Allow me to introduce an analogy in the form of athleticism (credit the legendary Gunwitch for this analogy). Who are the guys who are destined to become the world's greatest athletes? Are they the ones who, in training camp, care only about winning that game that is being played in training? Or are they the mastery oriented ones who care about improving themselves to the point where they can become good enough to win the real games when they need it most? The ones who want to MASTER THE GAME AS A WHOLE.

Think about some of Michael Jordan's first practice games. Imagine him at the 3 pt line right now ready to take a shot. What do you think is more important to him? Making this one shot here in practice? Or becoming good enough to make the shots from wherever he needs to make them in order to become a legendary athlete and multi-millionaire? The answer is obvious, those who are destined for greatness are those who are MASTERY ORIENTED.

In the same light, think about the common trend among males who can think of nothing other than ****ing that gorgeous bar bitch. Getting her into bed is the main thing on their minds, they fail to see the bigger picture. They are akin to the basketball player who cares more about making that one shot in training camp than they care about mastering the game. They are destined to fail. They are the ones who will never get what they want in life, and THEY HAVE ONLY THEMSELVES TO BLAME.

To those who want to master the game as a whole, however, this babe is akin to that one shot in training camp. And what does that make her? That's right, a stepping stone.

The girl of your dreams is but a mere stepping stone. A stepping stone to a great sex life. A stepping stone to mastery over the male/female dynamic. A stepping stone to get you where you want to be. It is time that you kill those negative social conditionings and see that gorgeous cock hardening lusty pair of titties and heart shaped ass for what she really is. She is nothing more than a ticket to bring you one step closer, whether you end up banging her or not, to self actualization.

thek1d · 08-19-2006, 11:58 AM

Does this mean no flowers...?

RobArson · 08-19-2006, 12:03 PM

Very nice. Repped.

King Makaveli · 08-19-2006, 12:07 PM

But I wanna worship her and I wanna kiss her feet and I wanna buy her gifts and I want her to marry me, and I wanna call her everyday!*wimper*

PSYCH!!! Good post.

K_Ching · 08-19-2006, 12:14 PM

This thread needs a Colin Powell pic.

Vante · 08-19-2006, 01:19 PM

All that was said is true and well said I might add...

...............but do u really think its gonna put an end to those winey emo threads....Come on ....u should know better than that

Ace_2004 · 08-19-2006, 01:55 PM

Lolz ya could of just said 'dont put the pussy on a pedistal'

But yeh...reps

TricepsNGirls · 08-19-2006, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Charuto222

The girl of your dreams is but a mere stepping stone. A stepping stone to a great sex life. A stepping stone to mastery over the male/female dynamic. A stepping stone to get you where you want to be. It is time that you kill those negative social conditionings and see that gorgeous cock hardening lusty pair of titties and heart shaped ass for what she really is. She is nothing more than a ticket to bring you one step closer, whether you end up banging her or not, to self actualization.

To further this -

It is important to put women into perspective by reducing their importance in one's life. A man who is conscious of self-improvement and works towards other goals will inevitably meet the right women along the way.

hockeyplaya20 · 08-19-2006, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by K_Ching

This thread needs a Colin Powell pic.

it does

c0dy · 08-19-2006, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by K_Ching

This thread needs a Colin Powell pic.

Agreed.

Swole4Life · 08-19-2006, 02:49 PM

zomg this thread is oozing testosterone!!

buahaha... emo kids... ya thats what they are... that or they actually give a **** about another human being.. didn't read past the second paragraph...

KentPower · 08-19-2006, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by hockeyplaya20

it does

That's not fair, I read all that ****.

Mythos219 · 08-19-2006, 03:13 PM

This should be a stickie.

Gym_Warrior · 08-19-2006, 03:20 PM

i think i like what your trying to say, but i dont know exectly what your saying...

all girls piss **** fart are annoying at times and ugly at times. dont put any girl (or anyone for that matter) above yourself, we are all just people.

who cares if they are hot or whatever, you talk to someone cause you want to. sure if you just want sex, go for it... everybody has sex, even the hottest girl in the world, someone has to be having sex with her so why not you.

Peace!

Charuto222 · 08-19-2006, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Gym_Warrior

i think i like what your trying to say, but i dont know exectly what your saying...

all girls piss **** fart are annoying at times and ugly at times. dont put any girl (or anyone for that matter) above yourself, we are all just people.

who cares if they are hot or whatever, you talk to someone cause you want to. sure if you just want sex, go for it... everybody has sex, even the hottest girl in the world, someone has to be having sex with her so why not you.

Peace!

in a nutshell I am saying that there is a bigger picture than ****ing that gorgeous babe you've got your eye on right now. Rather than focusing on this one, focus on your overall game, with her only as a part of the overall game, until you can have any woman you desire. Hence the Michael Jordan analogy yada yada yada. I made a big thread about it so my point would get across more thoroughly, because for 99.9% of people it's not enough for them to just hear "don't worship the pussy" lol

Amris · 08-19-2006, 04:42 PM

That works great for guys who are looking to nail anything that works.

Not quite so hot for the guys who want relationships, though.

That being said, there is a large gem of truth in there:

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The TRUTH about her is that she is NOT a perfect-in-every-way princess to whom no man has a chance of bedding unless he is a perfect-in-every-way prince charming.

Ace_2004 · 08-19-2006, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Amris

That works great for guys who are looking to nail anything that works.

Not quite so hot for the guys who want relationships, though.

That being said, there is a large gem of truth in there:

Come on everyone knows the best way to a girls heart is through her panties.

Another words if u wonna relationship with her, focus on fcking her first.

BuildUpNow · 08-19-2006, 04:48 PM

Theres this girl i like omg i love her so much ive known her for 3 months and i think she is the one, she is so perfect ive bought her everything from flowers to diamonds, i think about her everyday jackoff to her only when a hot chick comes by me i run away. i think she also loves me i think im gonna marry her soon maybe next year. she gives me good head and doesnt fake the orgasm i think she aint cheating. ive never met any1 like her, im in loooooveee.

Mythos219 · 08-19-2006, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Ace_2004

Come on everyone knows the best way to a girls heart is through her panties.

Another words if u wonna relationship with her, focus on fcking her first.

This is so true. Women are controlled by their emotions and when they have sex they can't help but be emotionally involved and get attached to the guy. Better to bang a girl first then decide if you want a relationship than the other way around.

Charuto222 · 08-19-2006, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Amris

That works great for guys who are looking to nail anything that works.

Not quite so hot for the guys who want relationships, though.

In terms of the here and now, you are absolutely in the right to say this. There is, however, another point to this post which doesn't seem like it has been as strongly conveyed as I would have liked. A bigger picture, if you will.

There is more to this method than simply nailing anything that works, it is to develop a far more powerful sense of self than one knew he ever possibly could. Once a man has utilized this method to the point where he is a master of the game, he has brought himself to a new plateau with an unstoppalbe sense of self certainty that will attract both **** buddies and long term material alike.

Amris · 08-19-2006, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Ace_2004

Come on everyone knows the best way to a girls heart is through her panties.

Another words if u wonna relationship with her, focus on fcking her first.

Yes, clearly that worked out for this guy:

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=877409

Sorry, but focusing on "banging her first" isn't the way to get into a relationship. Sometimes it works out, but sometimes you get what this guy did... to watch as she goes home with someone else.

One of the more important steps to creating a relationship is to make her wait a period for sex. It creates and maintains tension while she gets to know you. "Go in for the kill" too soon, and just like men, you kill the attraction. "Well, that was easy. Next!"

Ace_2004 · 08-19-2006, 05:18 PM

Amris dont take this the wrong way, im sure uve given loads of good advice but your female...

You say things that you think you would want rather then the things you actually respond to.

Swole4Life · 08-19-2006, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Ace_2004

Amris dont take this the wrong way, im sure uve given loads of good advice but your female...

You say things that you think you would want rather then the things you actually respond to.

yea, that must be it

the way to a decent girls heart is by NOT wanting to **** her the moment you have a second alone...

and there is no way to a girls heart that want's a good lay the first second you're alone..

Mythos219 · 08-19-2006, 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Amris

Yes, clearly that worked out for this guy:

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=877409

Sorry, but focusing on "banging her first" isn't the way to get into a relationship. Sometimes it works out, but sometimes you get what this guy did... to watch as she goes home with someone else.

One of the more important steps to creating a relationship is to make her wait a period for sex. It creates and maintains tension while she gets to know you. "Go in for the kill" too soon, and just like men, you kill the attraction. "Well, that was easy. Next!"

I disagree. Sexual tension loses its value when it becomes protracted over a long period of time. This isn't to say that you should not create sexual tension at all, as it is imperative to get a girl iin the mood. But sexual tension is one of those things that heats up fast and then goes cold over time (time is the key, b/c this is when a girl rationalizes that things are going too fast, to hold out, etc.) which is why a guy should take advantage of it immediately rather than wait until it fizzles out. In my experience, most women are much more emotionally involved and more inclined to continue into a relationship after I've slept with them. My advice to anyone seeking a relationship is to get the girl emotionally attached to you. And there's no more powerful way to do this than through sex.

Amris · 08-19-2006, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Ace_2004

Amris dont take this the wrong way, im sure uve given loads of good advice but your female...

You say things that you think you would want rather then the things you actually respond to.

Wrong. I councel what works.

When guys follow this advice, it works, from a "creating a relationship" standpoint.

I am the one who controls how fast sex happens in my own relationships. How fast he wants it has no bearing whatsoever on how fast he gets it.

When counseling men who are asking me for help in capturing the woman they want a relationship with, I tell them to make her wait. It invariably works when followed.

Otherwise, I would quit recommending it.

Ace_2004 · 08-19-2006, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Amris

Wrong. I councel what works.

When guys follow this advice, it works, from a "creating a relationship" standpoint.

I am the one who controls how fast sex happens in my own relationships. How fast he wants it has no bearing whatsoever on how fast he gets it.

When counseling men who are asking me for help in capturing the woman they want a relationship with, I tell them to make her wait. It invariably works when followed.

Otherwise, I would quit recommending it.

So what was that story i can remember you typing ages ago about some guy you met outside a club who had huge delts or something...you slept with him and wanted to run away with him or something.

Course your the one who controls how fast sex happens otherwise that would be classed as rape but if some guy that you might of been interested in, done lots of romantic things for you, bought you dinner and generally didnt act sexualy aggressive you would probably start to drift him into the friends zone and think of him as a wussy, sure you might like him but hes not very exciting.
If the same guy who you thought you might like, acted sexualy with you......done everythiing right to excite you and then without the romantic stuff made the oppertunity and got you to have wild hot intimate sex with him which you enjoyed.

Which one would you rather likely to persue and want a relationship with?

You wonna be with the guy who delivers the goods and makes you see the stars, not the guy who stands around buying you roses.

hockeyplaya20 · 08-19-2006, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Ace_2004

So what was that story i can remember you typing ages ago about some guy you met outside a club who had huge delts or something...you slept with him and wanted to run away with him or something.

naw, that was that honeynut girl that seemed to disappear

Ace_2004 · 08-19-2006, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by hockeyplaya20

naw, that was that honeynut girl that seemed to disappear

Oh yeah might of been actually, forgot all about her lol.

Didnt she have a thread about honeynuts sex advice or something with amris ages ago?

Amris · 08-19-2006, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Ace_2004

So what was that story i can remember you typing ages ago about some guy you met outside a club who had huge delts or something...you slept with him and wanted to run away with him or something.

You have me confused with someone else.

Like honeynut, perhaps...

hockeyplaya20 · 08-19-2006, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Ace_2004

Oh yeah might of been actually, forgot all about her lol.

Didnt she have a thread about honeynuts sex advice or something with amris ages ago?

yea