What Is A Soulmate To You?

DinoT1985 · 07-26-2006, 05:26 PM

Looking to see what people say and can you have more than one soulmate?

I think no as you only have one soul.

Ace_2004 · 07-26-2006, 05:46 PM

Someone your very close to and share stuff with obviously.

ispy · 07-26-2006, 05:59 PM

I personally don't believe in soul mates. I'm sure that there are hundreds of women in the world with almost exact personality type that would suit you, and you could marry either one of them and spend the rest of your lives together.

stealth_swimmer · 07-26-2006, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ispy

I personally don't believe in soul mates. I'm sure that there are hundreds of women in the world with almost exact personality type that would suit you, and you could marry either one of them and spend the rest of your lives together.

Or...someone who thought that the most romantic thing you could do is to piitb. lol j/k. I actually agree with what you said. It just depends on who you meet.

-Live2Lift- · 07-26-2006, 06:40 PM

Someone who is always there for me....

And at the moment the only thing that is, is the barbell in the gym and weights thats why im training so hard.

RiK · 07-26-2006, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by ispy

I personally don't believe in soul mates. I'm sure that there are hundreds of women in the world with almost exact personality type that would suit you, and you could marry either one of them and spend the rest of your lives together.

I kind of agree with you, there is probably more than one that every person could live 'in perfect harmony with', but it's interesting how you say hundreds like its a lot. Spread hundreds accross the world and the odds of encountering, let alone getting to know that person are tiny.

moosaman · 07-26-2006, 07:01 PM

Someone you get along really well with, don't have to worry about loyalty with, and someone who supports you.

problemchild · 07-26-2006, 07:01 PM

I don't know about soulmate material but to me wifey material aka long term soulmate to me is someone who's your best friend that is attractive.

Personality
compliments you, she's almost exactly like you but she's not, she's like the missing piece of the puzzle of your personality.
Is mind stimulating: you don't get tired of her or the things she say.
She isn't too girly, I hate girls that talk about useless things (like my sister on the phone), I like girls that are down to earth talk about things that matters.
Loves you really much, you're the only guy for her.
I want a strong woman, that gives me a kick in the butt if I'm lazy or when I need it, she gives you motivation.
She has your taste of sense of humor.
Trustworthy, lets you go out to the strip club with your friend.

Looks:

A cutie thats a hottie. Looks good w/o makeup. You could look at her all day. Has a smile that makes you giddy. The kind of girl that you would say "I could eat you"

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I want to have sex with her 3-5 times a week.

stealth_swimmer · 07-26-2006, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by problemchild

I don't know about soulmate material but to me wifey material aka long term soulmate to me is someone who's your best friend that is attractive.

Personality
compliments you, she's almost exactly like you but she's not, she's like the missing piece of the puzzle of your personality.
Is mind stimulating: you don't get tired of her or the things she say.
She isn't too girly, I hate girls that talk about useless things (like my sister on the phone), I like girls that are down to earth talk about things that matters.
Loves you really much, you're the only guy for her.
I want a strong woman, that gives me a kick in the butt if I'm lazy or when I need it, she gives you motivation.
She has your taste of sense of humor.
Trustworthy, lets you go out to the strip club with your friend.

Looks:

A cutie thats a hottie. Looks good w/o makeup. You could look at her all day. Has a smile that makes you giddy. The kind of girl that you would say "I could eat you"

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I want to have sex with her 3-5 times a week.

Maybe add one thing. She goes to the strip club with you. j/k, but maybe that would make a good movie...anyway*snaps out of daydream* gotta agree with you on those things.

TheDeepBlue · 07-26-2006, 08:59 PM

3-5times a week?
more like 3-5 times a day.

Your implying the existence of souls which implies the existence of god. And god screwed me over so no way im believing in him, plus he owes me $10.
anyway i dont believe in soul mates, i believe in good matches.
3 types of attraction
Physical -someone you find attractive
Personal - chemistry, you get along with them, same interests yet you have enough differences that your not dating a female you.
Sexual - lets you PIITB, someone who does all the kinky **** you want to do whenver you want to do it, someone who kisses you how you want to be kissed, gives you the intimacy you want not too little not too much just right, etc.
If you can match those three things your set

ispy · 07-26-2006, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by RiK

I kind of agree with you, there is probably more than one that every person could live 'in perfect harmony with', but it's interesting how you say hundreds like its a lot. Spread hundreds accross the world and the odds of encountering, let alone getting to know that person are tiny.

there's a reason why i picked such a number. in fact it might even be smaller, but such number does exist. say you meet 100 women throughout your lifetime (be it dates, or friends, or someone you simply see on the street and take interest in). out of those 100, maybe 10 or less would be greatly compatible with your personality. the rest would be short/long term relationships which in the end would not have worked out.

Tiny J · 07-27-2006, 07:14 AM

I think a soul-mate is someone you are instantly attracted to in more ways than one i.e. brains, beauty, personality. Not just one thing. Another thing is that you get along great, never fighting, always love between each other and that you miss her all day, hate to wake up (because you immediately think of her and miss her), and you hate to go to sleep (again cuz you miss her). You can cry for her, in front of her, with her. Best friend.

CLK-GTR · 07-27-2006, 07:54 AM

there are 6.5 billion people in this world, there must be millions you could fall in love with and happily spend the rest of your life with

Ace_2004 · 07-27-2006, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Tiny J

I think a soul-mate is someone you are instantly attracted to in more ways than one i.e. brains, beauty, personality. Not just one thing. Another thing is that you get along great, never fighting, always love between each other and that you miss her all day, hate to wake up (because you immediately think of her and miss her), and you hate to go to sleep (again cuz you miss her). You can cry for her, in front of her, with her. Best friend.

Thas not having a soul mate dude,........thats having one-itus.

FreeBirdbulker · 07-27-2006, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by CLK-GTR

there are 6.5 billion people in this world, there must be millions you could fall in love with and happily spend the rest of your life with

tis true. and ppl think they cant find anyone

Nasty$al · 07-27-2006, 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by ispy

I personally don't believe in soul mates. I'm sure that there are hundreds of women in the world with almost exact personality type that would suit you, and you could marry either one of them and spend the rest of your lives together.

Big bump on that! ****ing BRAVO my man!

Gibblets · 07-27-2006, 11:13 AM

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Big bump on that! ****ing BRAVO my man!

Agreed.

There are hundreds if not thousands of perfect matches, but what it boils down to is whether or not you are happy with the one you have, and willing to work through problems which may arise. People who have problems and simply move on (break up, get divorced, cry foul to the world that there's nobody for them) will probably experience the same problems in the next relationship, and the cycle repeats.

RiK · 07-27-2006, 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by CLK-GTR

there are 6.5 billion people in this world, there must be millions you could fall in love with and happily spend the rest of your life with

Maybe. Half that for the two sexes. Then find people roughly of your age, filter everyone but those of roughly equal attractiveness to you (bare with the generalisation), how many of those left can have all the qualities required to be your SOULMATE. It is something quite specific. But sure, what you said applies to potential partners you will more than likely break up with.