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07-24-2006, 04:45 AM
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Girls Say I Am Cute.....
Several girls at school say i am cute. is this bad or a good thing?
in a way i think its bad cos it might mean they think i am not good looking but they don't wanna hurt my feelings.
but then again, cute sounds nice and they said i have a cute face and 'cuz ur lil' lol.
so is being called cute by girls good or bad?
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07-24-2006, 05:02 AM
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some girl said i had a huge cock the other day
is she being serious or was that sarcasm?
does she really think i have a big cock or is it because she was with an asian guy before? lol was she thinking "lol itz cuz ur lil"
hmm, anyone?
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07-24-2006, 05:04 AM
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piitb now, ask questions later
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07-24-2006, 05:09 AM
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It's bad cuz they look at you like their cute little brother, as the guy above me said....PIITB and show them you're a man.
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07-24-2006, 05:13 AM
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cute isn't good, but itsn ot always bad. Generally cute isn't gunna get laid. Cute is gunna get a long relationship with some clingy emotional chick.
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07-24-2006, 05:43 AM
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it depends. if they flirt with you and/or hook up with you then cute is about the best thing they could say to you. if they are just friends you've got more chance of being struck by lightning
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07-24-2006, 06:50 AM
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Only a teenager could twist around the statement, "you are attractive" to mean something bad, just because of the words used.
Assume it means the best possible thing. That's what a man with confidence and self-esteem would do.
You, on the other hand, are obviously in the poor self-esteem catagory. Therefor, I recommend that you focus less on obsessing about what one word means, EXACTLY, and focus more on getting enough self-confidence that being told, in ANY words, that you are attractive becomes a reason to believe you're liked.
Although, you COULD always wait for the one that walks up to you and says, "OMFG, you are SO sexy, my pu**y is all wet and drippy just from looking at you! Oh, please take me home and fu** me before my guts fall out from all this wetness lubricating me!"
Because, realistically, any girl who genuinely likes you is FAR more likely to say that than, "I think you're cute."
Oh, and stop asking them what they think of you. Fishing for compliments is another display of lack of self-esteem. Either know you're hot and don't ask, or you openly admit you think you're not. And if you think you're not, why wouldn't they think the same thing?
Last edited by Amris; 07-24-2006 at 06:57 AM.
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07-24-2006, 07:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Richoss
Several girls at school say i am cute. is this bad or a good thing?
in a way i think its bad cos it might mean they think i am not good looking but they don't wanna hurt my feelings.
but then again, cute sounds nice and they said i have a cute face and 'cuz ur lil' lol.
so is being called cute by girls good or bad?
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Try a search next time, you're the 20th guy to ask this question
According to most of my female friends, "cute" guys have a round shaped face with large, widely spaced eyes
They describe "hot" guys as having an angular face, prominent cheekbones, and a chiselled jawline with narrowly spaced eyes
When I was in high school I had about 14-16% body fat which caused my face to be chubby and more round in shape, all the girls said I was cute.
Since starting college, I've gotten my body fat down around 8-10% which allowed my face to become more rigid and angular with sharp jawlines. Now the girls say I'm hot
Hope this helps and good luck
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07-24-2006, 08:11 AM
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"Something really clever"
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Originally Posted by Chris In D.C.
Try a search next time, you're the 20th guy to ask this question
According to most of my female friends, "cute" guys have a round shaped face with large, widely spaced eyes
They describe "hot" guys as having an angular face, prominent cheekbones, and a chiselled jawline with narrowly spaced eyes
When I was in high school I had about 14-16% body fat which caused my face to be chubby and more round in shape, all the girls said I was cute.
Since starting college, I've gotten my body fat down around 8-10% which allowed my face to become more rigid and angular with sharp jawlines. Now the girls say I'm hot
Hope this helps and good luck
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Actually yea, this guy is pretty much dead on. I was a fatty in high school, was told that I was "cute". Got a little attention from girls, nothing special. Went to college, dropped almost 100 pounds. Chisseled jawline, thinner face, eyes dont look as asian now. And yea, the chicks dig that a little more. Instead of cute or something gay, now its hot, good looking, etc. I wish I had lost all the weight back in high school though, because self esteem and self image plays a serious role in getting any females. And I dont think I knew what self esteem was back in the day. Oh well.
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07-24-2006, 09:00 AM
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I tell fat girls they're smart and friendly all the time...
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07-24-2006, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Amris
Although, you COULD always wait for the one that walks up to you and says, "OMFG, you are SO sexy, my pu**y is all wet and drippy just from looking at you! Oh, please take me home and fu** me before my guts fall out from all this wetness lubricating me!"
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REPS! That was some funny ****. You hit the nail right on the head.
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07-24-2006, 02:37 PM
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Girls use cute to discribe a hot guy, they don't use hot or sexy or whatever because they don't want you to get cocky.
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07-24-2006, 02:39 PM
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Originally Posted by and1_4ever
Actually yea, this guy is pretty much dead on. I was a fatty in high school, was told that I was "cute". Got a little attention from girls, nothing special. Went to college, dropped almost 100 pounds. Chisseled jawline, thinner face, eyes dont look as asian now. And yea, the chicks dig that a little more. Instead of cute or something gay, now its hot, good looking, etc. I wish I had lost all the weight back in high school though, because self esteem and self image plays a serious role in getting any females. And I dont think I knew what self esteem was back in the day. Oh well.
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quiet fatso, wishing and dwelling about highschool is for chumps.. get to work on the now and the future.
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07-24-2006, 02:50 PM
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omg she called you cute? WTF you should call her a fat disgusting bitch girls hate that. I mean how can she diss you like that wtf>?
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07-24-2006, 05:08 PM
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You can't just give a definate answer to this question. It depends on the situation. Read the situation, how she says it, who she says it to, and under what circumstances she says it, and you should be able to figure out what she means when she says it.
Example
You asking her what she thinks of you, and her saying in a emotionless sort of way "Oh you're cute" = not good
Her telling her friend, with emotion, or even you with a smile, interest, and emotion "You're so cute" = good
Cute when used by girls is a very ambiguous word. There isn't one broad definition that you can apply to every situation so just use your head and you should get the gist of what she really means.
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07-24-2006, 08:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Amris
Only a teenager could twist around the statement, "you are attractive" to mean something bad, just because of the words used.
Assume it means the best possible thing. That's what a man with confidence and self-esteem would do.
You, on the other hand, are obviously in the poor self-esteem catagory. Therefor, I recommend that you focus less on obsessing about what one word means, EXACTLY, and focus more on getting enough self-confidence that being told, in ANY words, that you are attractive becomes a reason to believe you're liked.
Although, you COULD always wait for the one that walks up to you and says, "OMFG, you are SO sexy, my pu**y is all wet and drippy just from looking at you! Oh, please take me home and fu** me before my guts fall out from all this wetness lubricating me!"
Because, realistically, any girl who genuinely likes you is FAR more likely to say that than, "I think you're cute."
Oh, and stop asking them what they think of you. Fishing for compliments is another display of lack of self-esteem. Either know you're hot and don't ask, or you openly admit you think you're not. And if you think you're not, why wouldn't they think the same thing?
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Damn dude....you owned him.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Amris again.
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07-25-2006, 05:03 AM
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"Something really clever"
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Originally Posted by Darkhare
quiet fatso, wishing and dwelling about highschool is for chumps.. get to work on the now and the future.
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Yea f-you buddy. I said it would have been easier, I never said I wasnt doing it.
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