I Still Don't Understand the Difference. Cute/Hot/Good Looking/Handsome

[Khemist]

Different girls have said these to me in my lifetime and still to this day I can't tell the difference. I suppose hot means more sexy? Cute means good looking but in a nice, clean way? And what does gorgeous mean? Is that for a pretty boy type or is it more of a british thing? Damn I feel like an idiot posting this.

Will someone please explain this to my dumbass? I would like to know the difference. Generally I get the following:

Hot - Younger girls
Handsome- Older women
Good Looking - Girls my age and older women
Cute - Younger girls, girls my own age and older women

[Always Upset]

I think it's something like this:

Hot - Used mostly by younger girls true. Used to describe someone with an above average face, in other words, pretty.

Handsome - Not neccesirly pretty in the face, but more alnog the lines of tall and/or well built with a decent face.

Good Looking - Above average face but not as much as "hot".

Cute - Meh, cute face I geuss.

[LMW]

cute-your one of the girls and this girl will never **** you but will use you to tell you her problems

[sHaDyOneDeath]

Originally Posted by LMW

cute-your one of the girls and this girl will never **** you but will use you to tell you her problems

Your friends think Your cute?

[Kiwi_Fella]

Originally Posted by Khemist

Different girls have said these to me in my lifetime and still to this day I can't tell the difference. I suppose hot means more sexy? Cute means good looking but in a nice, clean way? And what does gorgeous mean? Is that for a pretty boy type or is it more of a british thing? Damn I feel like an idiot posting this.

Will someone please explain this to my dumbass? I would like to know the difference. Generally I get the following:

Hot - Younger girls
Handsome- Older women
Good Looking - Girls my age and older women
Cute - Younger girls, girls my own age and older women

Mate its easy

Cute - not going to bang you, friends zone
Handsome - thinking about marriage, having your babies
Good looking - See handsome
Hot - Slags

[kalagan]

Cool..i remember a hot english girl who told me "Damn....you're hot !!".

God bless english girls !!

[nago]

how bout the chicks calling me "stud" where does this fit ?

[Swole4Life]

Cute for a girl is my number one.. but of course I'll use beautiful when actually telling a girl what I think of them, always... But if I say a girl is cute, thats perfect relationship material for me..

hot is, i'd bang you, but I'd never pursue a relationship, as I doubt you'd be smart enough to tie your own shoes..

Good looking for me is.. above average, slightly... slightly above average in most areas....

and I don't often call girls handsome

Those are my explanations for girls when i use the words..

[Kiwi_Fella]

Originally Posted by Swole4Life

Cute for a girl is my number one.. but of course I'll use beautiful when actually telling a girl what I think of them, always... But if I say a girl is cute, thats perfect relationship material for me..

hot is, i'd bang you, but I'd never pursure a relationship, as I doubt you'd be smart enough to tie your own shoes..

Good looking for me is.. above average, slightly... slightly above average in most areas....

and I don't often call girls handsome

Those are my explanations for girls when i use the words..

Read the the OP post again you moron, its for what WOMEN use

[kalagan]

Can i say to an American/English/Australian girl " WOW you're hot !!" or it is something to avoid ?

[Swole4Life]

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Fella

Read the the OP post again you moron, its for what WOMEN use

Yea, I understand that, douche bag. Why the harshness.. i was stating my opinion, on what "I" mean when I used those words... Not helpful at all? Well I think it may have been, so how about you add something constructive, or keep your asinine comments to youself.

[Swole4Life]

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Fella

Read the the OP post again you moron, its for what WOMEN use

btw.. doesn't OP mean original post? If so, you can leave out the second post, moron.

[Kiwi_Fella]

Originally Posted by Swole4Life

Yea, I understand that, douche bag. Why the harshness.. i was stating my opinion, on what "I" mean when I used those words... Not helpful at all? Well I think it may have been, so how about you add something constructive, or keep your asinine comments to youself.

Who gives a **** what "you" mean when using those names. He asked us what women meant, not men. Are you a woman? sound like one actually, my apologies.

[Swole4Life]

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Fella

Are you a woman? sound like one actually, my apologies.

oooh.. keyboard warrior strikes again! your e-peen must be swelling by now..

So you've sat down with a women and asked her what she meant on all these words? And did it ever occur to you that they all may use them differently... Maybe?

My opinions on cute/hot/good looking, could be the exact same as another females. Just as your opinion on what a girl might mean by each one could to.

keep tryin tho all-star

[Kiwi_Fella]

Originally Posted by Swole4Life

oooh.. keyboard warrior strikes again! your e-peen must be swelling by now..

So you've sat down with a women and asked her what she meant on all these words? And did it ever occur to you that they all may use them differently... Maybe?

My opinions on cute/hot/good looking, could be the exact same as another females. Just as your opinion on what a girl might mean by each one could to.

keep tryin tho all-star

Lol, keyboard warrior. This is coming from some 19 yr old clown who thinks he's the next Dr Phil with all the **** and nonsensical advice he posts on here.

Do me, and the rest of this board a favour, head back to the teen section where they'll actually take your advice seriously.

[Swole4Life]

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Fella

Lol, keyboard warrior. This is coming from some 19 yr old clown who thinks he's the next Dr Phil with all the **** and nonsensical advice he posts on here.

Do me, and the rest of this board a favour, head back to the teen section where they'll actually take your advice seriously.

It seems to me the majority of the board enjoys my advice...

Well said though, and I'm not 19 Show me some of this "nonsensical" advice I post, I'd love to hear it. Tell me what I have posted that is so wrong.

By the way, thank-you for taking notice of my posts, I'm glad you're a fan I think widdo kiwi has a crush

[Amris]

Hot - Very attractive, they will use this if they are trendy
Handsome- This is formal, it means the same thing, but they don't want to offend you by saying cute, nor to 'come onto you' by saying hot
Good Looking - This is formal as well, but an attempt not to be stuffy or stodgy like 'handsome'
Cute - This one's meaning varies, it is nearly always a way of saying the others, but this is simply the preferred word in her female social circle


Much of the hot/cute is regional. There is rarely a difference, contrary to men's belief, between cute and hot. Most girls won't call you cute if they're aware of the stigma men place on it, so they'll say hot, since this is the preferred word amongst men for girls that are "doable."

Generally when a girl calls you cute, it is simply that she's not aware of the stigma, not that she doesn't think you're "hot."

Some girls will use hot simply because that's the word that men use to be more sexual about girls- it's her way of coming onto you. It's a more... erm... hoho-ish term, the girls who use it are more likely to be 'easy'.

Girls who use cute are girls who tend to be more of the looking for a relationship type and less of the 'men can screw around, so can I' types.

[Kiwi_Fella]

Originally Posted by Swole4Life

It seems to me the majority of the board enjoys my advice...

Well said though, and I'm not 19 Show me some of this "nonsensical" advice I post, I'd love to hear it. Tell me what I have posted that is so wrong.

By the way, thank-you for taking notice of my posts, I'm glad you're a fan I think widdo kiwi has a crush

Bah f**k it, negged

[kalagan]

Originally Posted by Amris

Hot - Very attractive, they will use this if they are trendy
Handsome- This is formal, it means the same thing, but they don't want to offend you by saying cute, nor to 'come onto you' by saying hot
Good Looking - This is formal as well, but an attempt not to be stuffy or stodgy like 'handsome'
Cute - This one's meaning varies, it is nearly always a way of saying the others, but this is simply the preferred word in her female social circle


Much of the hot/cute is regional. There is rarely a difference, contrary to men's belief, between cute and hot. Most girls won't call you cute if they're aware of the stigma men place on it, so they'll say hot, since this is the preferred word amongst men for girls that are "doable."

Generally when a girl calls you cute, it is simply that she's not aware of the stigma, not that she doesn't think you're "hot."

Some girls will use hot simply because that's the word that men use to be more sexual about girls- it's her way of coming onto you. It's a more... erm... hoho-ish term, the girls who use it are more likely to be 'easy'.

Girls who use cute are girls who tend to be more of the looking for a relationship type and less of the 'men can screw around, so can I' types.

Amris, is it polite to say to a girl "you're hot !!" ?

[Always Upset]

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Fella

Bah f**k it, negged

bawhahahahah

[SwoleX]

Originally Posted by Amris

Hot - Very attractive, they will use this if they are trendy
Handsome- This is formal, it means the same thing, but they don't want to offend you by saying cute, nor to 'come onto you' by saying hot
Good Looking - This is formal as well, but an attempt not to be stuffy or stodgy like 'handsome'
Cute - This one's meaning varies, it is nearly always a way of saying the others, but this is simply the preferred word in her female social circle


Much of the hot/cute is regional. There is rarely a difference, contrary to men's belief, between cute and hot. Most girls won't call you cute if they're aware of the stigma men place on it, so they'll say hot, since this is the preferred word amongst men for girls that are "doable."

Generally when a girl calls you cute, it is simply that she's not aware of the stigma, not that she doesn't think you're "hot."

Some girls will use hot simply because that's the word that men use to be more sexual about girls- it's her way of coming onto you. It's a more... erm... hoho-ish term, the girls who use it are more likely to be 'easy'.

Girls who use cute are girls who tend to be more of the looking for a relationship type and less of the 'men can screw around, so can I' types.

yup

[Mikeo]

i get cute alot of the time, and handsome on occasions, but never heard any of the others...

cute - mainly by younger chicks
handsome - by same age or older

[ishanm]

i always get handsome, but never to my face. girls will say it behind my back and somehow i'll find out. why are girls such vaginas.

[Khemist]

Originally Posted by Amris

Hot - Very attractive, they will use this if they are trendy
Handsome- This is formal, it means the same thing, but they don't want to offend you by saying cute, nor to 'come onto you' by saying hot
Good Looking - This is formal as well, but an attempt not to be stuffy or stodgy like 'handsome'
Cute - This one's meaning varies, it is nearly always a way of saying the others, but this is simply the preferred word in her female social circle


Much of the hot/cute is regional. There is rarely a difference, contrary to men's belief, between cute and hot. Most girls won't call you cute if they're aware of the stigma men place on it, so they'll say hot, since this is the preferred word amongst men for girls that are "doable."

Generally when a girl calls you cute, it is simply that she's not aware of the stigma, not that she doesn't think you're "hot."

Some girls will use hot simply because that's the word that men use to be more sexual about girls- it's her way of coming onto you. It's a more... erm... hoho-ish term, the girls who use it are more likely to be 'easy'.

Girls who use cute are girls who tend to be more of the looking for a relationship type and less of the 'men can screw around, so can I' types.

I think this is the conclusion I have come to after questioning girls who found me attractive. I think it basically breaks down to this:

Hot: Almost always used by the sluttier girls or those whom are admiring a sexy male physique. Teen girls seem to favour this one as it has sexual connotations. After all, teen girls get tossed around like a hockey puck (yes I am Canadian) .

Good Looking: They find you attractive, you have nice overall features. A nicer way of saying "hot."

Cute: A female word for good looking, attractive, handsome in a relationship sort of way.

Handsome: Manly good looks. Husband material as someone said. Nice features on a masculine face.

[Swole4Life]

Originally Posted by kalagan

Amris, is it polite to say to a girl "you're hot !!" ?

Always use beautiful... Trust me

[fehzan]

Kalagan, go get some punani already!

[kalagan]

Originally Posted by Swole4Life

Always use beautiful... Trust me

Ok. I ask the question because in French there's just one definition for hot like "the weather is hot" or "my coffee is hot", etc... So, in French if you say "she's hot" it means that the girl is a real slut and that everybody can fuk her. It's like "she's the biggest b*tch ever " !!

If you come to France, don't tell to a girl "tu es chaude" !!
Or you will be a lot od troubles !!