Going to a friends birthday party tomorrow...

SeizedByForce · 07-07-2006, 02:03 AM

Need tips. It will be at the holiday inn and we are going to spend the night there.

There will be two hot girls there (both are single), and I want to hook up with one of them.

Forget how old I am, just treat me like I'm 21.

I'm going to wear my "coolest" outfit, and I'm going to make my hair all nice.

Now, RH: here's where you come in:

Help me with some conversation starters, something that can easily be talked about for a while... I don't want to have one of those conversations like this:

me:Hey
her:Hey
Me:Whats up
her:Not much, you
me:Me neither
me:So what kinda music do you like?
her:<insert ****ty mainstrem bandslike yellowcard, fall out boy, and cartel here>
me: cool I listen to a lot of underground european metal
her:cool
me:.....

So, give me some tips on WHEN to ask for the phone number, like are there any signs for when she wants me to ask her? I need conversation starters as well. I've pretty much got everything else covered.

Also: I don't think I will be PIITBing the first day i've met either one. But I'm bring some protection in my bag of clothes and such, just in case. Don't wanna get caught off guard you know.

-Live2Lift- · 07-07-2006, 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by SeizedByForce

me: cool I listen to a lot of underground european metal
her:cool
me:.....

You must be very skilled if you can use ..... in your conversations. But in all seriousness i find what helps me when im chatting to a girl i wanna bang is pretend like im talking to my best friend (not the same stuff of course) but just chit chat like you would and stay confident and keep her interested and be a little bit cocky too.

SeizedByForce · 07-09-2006, 08:02 PM

Well, I just got back from this two day party, and well I must say it's obvious that the hotter of the two likes me.

well, I know this will sound stupid to the inexperienced but we were wrestling in the pool. Both of them were trying to grab hold of me and try to pull me under, which they only did on the one occasion that they pulled my hair too hard (that **** hurts). Well it was kinda the WAY she was trying to to wrestle with me, Always smiling and complimenting my muscles which I've been really working on these last few days, and I even pulled her top off once but played it off as an accident, (I pulled the string in a certain way that made it look like and accident lmao). I couldn't get her number sadly because I forgot my phone at my house.

I would've made out with her, since there were plenty of times where we were alone together in the hotel room but for these reasons I stuck to conversation and such:

#1, the girl is my friend's ex (the one who is hosting the party)
#2, too many little kids below age 8 were there
#3, I've never made out with a girl before, let alone really kissed one
#4, I didn't want my frsrt kiss and makeout session to be a girl that's not even going out with me yet.

Well, I'm planning to make some moves on this girl and I'm asking for her phone number through myspace tonight (lame I know, but it's the only way I can ask her), and then I'm gonna try to set up a date.

rejosu · 07-09-2006, 08:15 PM

Well, at that age, I would have easily said the exact same thing about #4 man..

but the truth is.. (especially in high school, as is my experience) girls are the devil.

In High School, girls go for the game over the guy. They want to be able to have you, and once they have you, then it's not the same, and they feel like they don't need you.

Now there are many generalizations in the statement I just put, but in my personal experience, thats what you will get. There are the girls who enjoy relationships.. but most will give you the experience I just told you about.

Now, if they are the opposite of what I said, then treat her as a lady, which is what she deserves.. but that doesn't have to mean(which my friends found out terribly) buying everything for her.. and trying to spoil her, it means you give her **** when she gives you ****, but still being a nice guy.

SeizedByForce · 07-09-2006, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by rejosu

Well, at that age, I would have easily said the exact same thing about #4 man..

but the truth is.. (especially in high school, as is my experience) girls are the devil.

In High School, girls go for the game over the guy. They want to be able to have you, and once they have you, then it's not the same, and they feel like they don't need you.

Now there are many generalizations in the statement I just put, but in my personal experience, thats what you will get. There are the girls who enjoy relationships.. but most will give you the experience I just told you about.

Now, if they are the opposite of what I said, then treat her as a lady, which is what she deserves.. but that doesn't have to mean(which my friends found out terribly) buying everything for her.. and trying to spoil her, it means you give her **** when she gives you ****, but still being a nice guy.

LOL I've heard that but what does that have to do with my post

and I'm 14 and my family is kinda poor so I can't spoil her... I can buy her stuff here and there though but I won't turn her into a gold digger and if she turns out to be one... she's out the door

That0neGuy · 07-09-2006, 08:42 PM

you: hey, i've bet you've got a great smile
her: *smiles*
you: i guess i was right
her: do you want to piitb?

60% of the time, it works everytime.

*ShaGGs* · 07-09-2006, 09:11 PM

I cant ignore your age when you put 'I'm going to wear my "coolest" outfit, and I'm going to make my hair all nice' lol.

If the conversation doesnt flow, move on, its not JUST upto the guy to keep the conversation going, if the girl likes you, she will do most of the talking, just ask her open ended questions. Girls love to talk about themselves so if she likes you, you'll have a hard time trying to shut her up.

Blaze704 · 07-09-2006, 10:41 PM

so tonight iwas round my girlfriends and she is now on the pill so i didnt need to worry about a condom. both me and him are totally inexperienced, and decided we were ready for it. so firsttime we tried my man just didnt get hard at all (we decided it was due to nerves)

second time it was ready but it wouldnt fit in her hole, so we tried again a few mins later but this time i was a bit worked up from the first two efforts and started to deflate. what the **** is going on man? what can i do about this?

*ShaGGs* · 07-09-2006, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Blaze704

so tonight iwas round my girlfriends and she is now on the pill so i didnt need to worry about a condom. both me and him are totally inexperienced, and decided we were ready for it. so firsttime we tried my man just didnt get hard at all (we decided it was due to nerves)

second time it was ready but it wouldnt fit in her hole, so we tried again a few mins later but this time i was a bit worked up from the first two efforts and started to deflate. what the **** is going on man? what can i do about this?

lol where'd you get that one from. Dude needs to make up his mind on his gender lol.

SeizedByForce · 07-09-2006, 10:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Blaze704

so tonight iwas round my girlfriends and she is now on the pill so i didnt need to worry about a condom. both me and him are totally inexperienced, and decided we were ready for it. so firsttime we tried my man just didnt get hard at all (we decided it was due to nerves)

second time it was ready but it wouldnt fit in her hole, so we tried again a few mins later but this time i was a bit worked up from the first two efforts and started to deflate. what the **** is going on man? what can i do about this?

0/10

****ty post

lol?