Now there is another girl i have been thinking about

Richoss · 07-01-2006, 04:42 AM

sorry this is a repost but most people would probably only read the first post of a thread, and this was at the end of my other thread and yeah. anyway...

now the following may sound weird but i want other people's opnions. and to start off, i do not love this girl...

basically i think this girl may be sending signals to me. sometimes she comes over and tries to wrestle me in the study. comes up and has a chat. when we were playing bball at lunch, she kept on passing to me yet my other teammates were open, and she was a fair distance away. and just the other day she said 'you going to Annabelle's** (changed name) party next weekend?" and i said "yeah" and she said "cool, see you then" WTF. does she want to hook up at the party or what?

but a couple notes, we have always been friends, but i felt we have got closer over the last couple months. but the thing that mades me disregard all them 'signals' and just think 'she is just being a friend' is that she has a bf.

so am i right, is she just acting like a close friend? i think so, anyone agree

Richoss · 07-01-2006, 06:33 AM

Bump

anyone

LaNeR88 · 07-01-2006, 07:25 AM

Yeah man, I think she is just acting like a close friend. What type of girl is she? Give me some info on her so I know what's going on.

Richoss · 07-01-2006, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by LaNeR88

Yeah man, I think she is just acting like a close friend. What type of girl is she? Give me some info on her so I know what's going on.

umm well she is pretty active, plays all sorts of sports. she is pretty smart, the school's captain.

personaility wise, very active. like she is always joking around, talking, having fun. she is nice to nearly everyone.

umm its pretty hard to describe her, what else do you want to know/need to know

LaNeR88 · 07-01-2006, 07:54 AM

I kinda had a similar situation going on a few months back. The girl was almost exactly like the girl you described... She was very athletic and had a great personality. She was friends with everyone but she didn't have a boyfriend and she was a virgin. We were friends for almost 4 years but I considered her one of my best friends and the thought of taking it to the next level never crossed my mind. We would always flirt and stuff at school but nothing big.. kinda just joked around.

Well one night at a party I got really drunk and started spittin a little game at her. Well I was really drunk and couldn't drive so she asked me if I wanted to stay the night at her house as her rents were out of town. Well I stayed the night and we didn't have sex but we fooled around a little bit. The next morning I went home and realized that I ****ed up big time.... because I didn't want to take things to the next level... and because she is leaving to Cali in a months for college.

I don't really know why I explained my whole situation for you to read.. maybe because I'm ****ing bored out of my mind and its 7 AM in the morning... but My advice to you is to flirt with her a bit... let her know your interested. I don't know if my situation compares to yours but if you are attracted to her go for it! By the way if she is flirting with you like she is now with a BF then she is either not happy with him or she is just a big ****ing tease. So try and hook up with her bro, if you like her and want to be with her.
-Tom

CLK-GTR · 07-01-2006, 08:06 AM

seeing as you say she's a very popular/confident girl, i think it sounds like she is just being a close friend and probably doesnt want more, but she is just testing you through curiosity to see if she could have you if she wanted you. playing games, if you will

Richoss · 07-01-2006, 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by CLK-GTR

seeing as you say she's a very popular/confident girl, i think it sounds like she is just being a close friend and probably doesnt want more, but she is just testing you through curiosity to see if she could have you if she wanted you. playing games, if you will

FIRST

Laner88, they are similar cept this girl has a bf, and is not a virgin. and i guess we are now pretty close. like we were good friends before, but lately i think we have gone a step closer and became closer.

the thing is i don't like this girl, i just thought maybe she wanted something. i am more than happy being close friends with her. also, i do not plan on trying to hook up with her.

CLK-GTR

yeah i just assumed she was just being a close friend. but then again, i just wanted to make sure and see what everyone else was thinking.