how do all these chubby guys get laid so much?

[daniel ocean]

I dont get it, someone tell me what i'm missing. I have a lot of aquantances who are not lean or good looking but yet get laid every time there's a party or every time after a bar. Meanwhile I am not that chubby and rather good looking but dont get any. What is the secret please?

[MrLean]

If you want to get laid walk up to an attractive woman and say, very smoothly, the following line:
"So, I noticed your vagina is unoccupied. You wanna fix that?"
It works every time.

[thegeckoj]

confidence and personality go a long way believe it or not, especially at a part or a bar where the chick is probably half drunk

[SupaDJDiesel]

Girls don't make any sense, don't expect them to.

Like there's this girl who works the counter at my gym. I made my interest in her clear, but she chooses to stay with her boyfriend (who is skinny, bald, ugly, and eats fast food salads). Even though I'm the best looking and smoothest talking guy at the gym, she veers away.

Girls are extremely irrational. They have a few unwritten rules that they all follow. I think she is a victim of this thought process. She's 28 or so and has a son, and her boyfriend is in his 30's. Girls like to be with old men, because girls are disgusting. She might notice that I'm the most suitable mate, but she turns away because of my youth. I ask this though: What better role model for her kid than me?

You'd think that she'd be trashy, but she's not. She's fine as hell, with no hint of trashiness to be seen. She just suffers from the disease that all women suffer from, "Mad cow disease (version II)".

[Shike]

As long as the guy isn't hideous, girls tend to care more about the personality. (always exceptions)

[muirsy88]

Because you're insecure about your body and concerned with people that are chubby. Meanwhile, these so-called 'chubby, unattractive' guys don't give a **** and most likely walk around with confidence.

Girls can sniff out insecurities like it actually has a smell...it's bizzare

[RonaldMcDonald]

they are probably very charasmatic, confident, and fun to be around.

BTW are they fing ugly chicks or decent ones?

and do you actually do approaches or usually just watching the action unfold?

[darkangel]

The secret is game, confidence, sense of humor, talent, the ability to make a woman feel special, character... there's a lot more to attraction than the number on a scale.

On the other hand, it doesn't matter how lean or fit you are if you're a jerk.

[Mythos219]

Its all game. I've seen guys who were less than average hook up with 9s and 10s all b/c they had game. Every single one of these guys had confidence out the wazu (or faked it enough that the girl believed them). Like others mentioned, girls care much less about looks - they are primarily emotional whereas guys are primarily visual. As long as you push her emotional buttons, through your game and personality, you will have her hooked.

[Chase Brawn]

Originally Posted by darkangel

The secret is game, confidence, sense of humor, talent, the ability to make a woman feel special, character... there's a lot more to attraction than the number on a scale.

On the other hand, it doesn't matter how lean or fit you are if you're a jerk.

Exactly! Because if your a jerk you can be a fat ugly troll and the chick will love you for it.

[qwerty1234]

Originally Posted by Mythos219

Its all game. I've seen guys who were less than average hook up with 9s and 10s all b/c they had game. Every single one of these guys had confidence out the wazu (or faked it enough that the girl believed them). Like others mentioned, girls care much less about looks - they are primarily emotional whereas guys are primarily visual. As long as you push her emotional buttons, through your game and personality, you will have her hooked.

Amen.
I myself continue to struggle with the idea that girls are more emotional. So as a result looks are less important to them then for us males.
Its been 4 years sense I've had a date/luck with women...throughout those years my mind has been poluted by images of media e.t.c of "hot" "attractive" males that seem to be the only ones able to pick up women. After all why would the media actually show the truth that normal average joe guys pick up incrediably gorgeous women every single day? I'm starting to learn that game is where it is at.
Confidence, Charisma, excellence--thats where its at.
I suggest for people to check out this guy:
http://www.playersupreme.libsyn.com/

This guy knows what hes talking about, he hates the media as well--and how its seemed to polute average males into beliving that we all have to be ripped/shredded and look like brad pitt outa fight club to get a girl. FCUK that-FCUK the media--useless sense of "enetertainment"
infact I feel more sorry for girls, ever sense they are freaking BORN they are faced with images of the perfect women, later on in life if they don't look remotlly like that perfect image-they get psycological problems, and get all messed up emotionally.

[yabbayabba]

Trying have more of a personality then "Me lift weights so all girls should have sex with me". One of my buddies is fat (260-270) and not all that good looking but he is always up on girls. He could get with them if he wanted, but he seems to be one of the few guys that stays faithful to his girlfriend.

I've stopped even trying to mess with the really hot girls. They know it and most of the time have an attitude about it. Maybe its the area but the average to moderate girls around here like to get real freaky.

[mcxk]

spit game brotha

[K_Ching]

Originally Posted by SupaDJDiesel

Girls don't make any sense, don't expect them to.

Like there's this girl who works the counter at my gym. I made my interest in her clear, but she chooses to stay with her boyfriend (who is skinny, bald, ugly, and eats fast food salads). Even though I'm the best looking and smoothest talking guy at the gym, she veers away.

Girls are extremely irrational. They have a few unwritten rules that they all follow. I think she is a victim of this thought process. She's 28 or so and has a son, and her boyfriend is in his 30's. Girls like to be with old men, because girls are disgusting. She might notice that I'm the most suitable mate, but she turns away because of my youth. I ask this though: What better role model for her kid than me?

You'd think that she'd be trashy, but she's not. She's fine as hell, with no hint of trashiness to be seen. She just suffers from the disease that all women suffer from, "Mad cow disease (version II)".

You probably shouldn't have made your interest in her clear. Girls want what they can't have. They want a challenge.

[Pool_Shark]

It's because not all women are shallow, only caring about a persons appearance.
Plenty of women like guys that have goals for their future, have a career or at least a career path, and can have an intelligent conversation.
There are women who care more about what's real and meaningful instead of what kind of clothes a man wears, what kind of car he drives or his bodyfat percentage.

[SupaDJDiesel]

Originally Posted by K_Ching

You probably shouldn't have made your interest in her clear. Girls want what they can't have. They want a challenge.

I don't mean I made it obvious. Just because I gave some attention. Supa knows what he's doing.

[Iron Rain]

Originally Posted by SupaDJDiesel

Girls don't make any sense, don't expect them to.

Like there's this girl who works the counter at my gym. I made my interest in her clear, but she chooses to stay with her boyfriend (who is skinny, bald, ugly, and eats fast food salads). Even though I'm the best looking and smoothest talking guy at the gym, she veers away.

Girls are extremely irrational. They have a few unwritten rules that they all follow. I think she is a victim of this thought process. She's 28 or so and has a son, and her boyfriend is in his 30's. Girls like to be with old men, because girls are disgusting. She might notice that I'm the most suitable mate, but she turns away because of my youth. I ask this though: What better role model for her kid than me?

You'd think that she'd be trashy, but she's not. She's fine as hell, with no hint of trashiness to be seen. She just suffers from the disease that all women suffer from, "Mad cow disease (version II)".

OR she's simply the kind of girl who stays loyal to her boyfriend. Or he has more game than you (wouldn't surprise me)

[Taffin]

Originally Posted by SupaDJDiesel

Girls don't make any sense, don't expect them to.

Like there's this girl who works the counter at my gym. I made my interest in her clear, but she chooses to stay with her boyfriend (who is skinny, bald, ugly, and eats fast food salads). Even though I'm the best looking and smoothest talking guy at the gym, she veers away.

Girls are extremely irrational. They have a few unwritten rules that they all follow. I think she is a victim of this thought process. She's 28 or so and has a son, and her boyfriend is in his 30's. Girls like to be with old men, because girls are disgusting. She might notice that I'm the most suitable mate, but she turns away because of my youth. I ask this though: What better role model for her kid than me?

You'd think that she'd be trashy, but she's not. She's fine as hell, with no hint of trashiness to be seen. She just suffers from the disease that all women suffer from, "Mad cow disease (version II)".

There's also the possibility that she doesn't like arrogant pricks.

[jiza101]

Originally Posted by Taffin

There's also the possibility that she doesn't like arrogant pricks.

Or guys with moustaches that look like hicks...

[BORN2BREED]

low standards, thats how.

[SupaDJDiesel]

Originally Posted by jiza101

Or guys with moustaches that look like hicks...

Your rhyming is good, but it has no substance. No one in the world thinks I look like a hick, youself included.

[delusive]

You want girls?? Simple. Its all about confidence and first impressions, even if your shy or nervous dont let them know that. Act like you're worth a million dollars. Keep your chin up, have good posture and dont be afraid to let her realize you want in her panties!

Im working on a girl right now and i'v gotten her comfortable enough to even talk about sex and jokingly implanting ideas in her head that i want to f*ck her without even saying i would. She'll be sucking my dick by the weekend for sure.

i.e

i went to home depot lastnight, lets face it , it isnt the best of places to meet people but i couldnt help but notice the attention i was getting. Young and older girls, i personally do not care, thats the kind of attention you want to strive for.

[Beklet]

Just as men find women who obsess about their diet, exercise and body shape boring as hell, so we find men who do the same irritating. Personally, I want a man who knows how to have fun, and isn't going to freak out if he has one too many beers or finishes the pizza for breakfast.

And 'average' men are less threatening - we are bombarded with pics of the 'perfect' woman all our lives, and if we get a really good looking man, chances are, there will be other women trying to take him off us - you yourself coundn't understand why fat blokes get the hot women - women do the same!

I normally go for skinny men, but have surprised myself recently by going for someone a bit more 'cuddly' It's all in the personality, and the fact he doesn't give a ****.

[KrushR]

Originally Posted by Mythos219

Its all game. I've seen guys who were less than average hook up with 9s and 10s all b/c they had game. Every single one of these guys had confidence out the wazu (or faked it enough that the girl believed them).

I personally don't believe that you can "fake the game". If you "fake it" and get laid by a 9/10 (even by internet standards), doesn't that mean that you have game? Doesn't the result of "tappin' dat ass" mean you do, in fact, have game enough?

[drstrangepimp]

Originally Posted by daniel ocean

I dont get it, someone tell me what i'm missing. I have a lot of aquantances who are not lean or good looking but yet get laid every time there's a party or every time after a bar. Meanwhile I am not that chubby and rather good looking but dont get any. What is the secret please?

Social value rates higher than looks. You could be great looking but if you're sitting there looking like you're in a bad mood no girls will talk to you. Don't try to be cool, be relaxed and laid back like you own the place and you're chillin talking to everybody. It's important to smile in the beginning.

Another pitfall is checking them out or looking in their direction more than once without approaching. Don't! If you want to meet her, talk to her. Nothing worse for them than having some guy constantly staring at them without talking.

Also if you are showing too much interest in the beginning (like obviously hitting on them) they will start to dodge you. This has probably happened to every guy that's ever lived. It's so important not to show out of the ordinary interest in her until you know she's interested.

I find that starting a conversation somewhat absent mindedly while not facing them works well. Also if she seems to lose interest, turn your body away and check your phone, or look distracted, then turn back and continue. It's important to show signs of disinterest and to be non reactive to what she is doing. This makes her feel more comfortable that you do not place too high hopes on the interaction. They get creeped when they feel you really wanting it.

If you are the main person talking in a group and everyone is listening to you and giving signs of approval then you will have your pick as long as you are not hideous. How to do that is another subject.

Women are not like gay men. Alot of men project that looks standard, women do like looks but that's only for initial approval. It helps you get looks and they flirt with you but if they don't like your personality and your social status they won't end up liking you.

That's why famous ugly guys have no problems, social status through the roof.

So many good looking guys make the girls run with the way they act, and you have to talk to a girl for at least a few hours under normal circumstances before she'll feel comfortable enought to hit it so there you go.

[Kiwi_Fella]

Originally Posted by SupaDJDiesel

I don't mean I made it obvious. Just because I gave some attention. Supa knows what he's doing.

Jesus your full of bollocks. Do you really think these kids actually believe the **** you write?

Where do you get this **** from?

First you post your picture on here saying your black, when in reality you look
like an obese Apoo. Then you try to sprout **** about your game and how the ladies scream and shout when your about.

Look mate, who knows, your prob a nice fella, but you come across as a wank with the bull**** you throw up here, give it a rest

[drstrangepimp]

Originally Posted by delusive

Im working on a girl right now and i'v gotten her comfortable enough to even talk about sex and jokingly implanting ideas in her head that i want to f*ck her without even saying i would. She'll be sucking my dick by the weekend for sure.

Yeah that's cool, once you get them a little comfortable the jokes work well. If they get mad you can just say "hey i was only j/k", and do it again! When they get mad you can also give them a hug and a kiss when you say sorry.

It gets them thinking about having sex with you because they have to process it so they're thinking about it more and more but you make it a joke they can't get mad. Also you're not showing desperation because you're joking. This is genius.

[mcxk]

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Fella

Jesus your full of bollocks. Do you really think these kids actually believe the **** you write?

Where do you get this **** from?

First you post your picture on here saying your black, when in reality you look
like an obese Apoo.

You think he is obese??? How much do you weigh? 120 lbs? And Apoo is indian not arabic, two entirely different races.
The only thing you got right is that supa is not black.

[darkangel]

Originally Posted by drstrangepimp

So many good looking guys make the girls run with the way they act...

So true. Good advice. And good to see you back on the forums.

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Fella

Look mate, who knows, your prob a nice fella, but you come across as a wank with the bull**** you throw up here, give it a rest

I find it really HOT when he talks about himself in the third person.

[drstrangepimp]

Originally Posted by darkangel

So true. Good advice. And good to see you back on the forums.

I find it really HOT when he talks about himself in the third person.

drstrange is very pleased to hear you say that.