Wish I could turn back the clock and close the gap

PolishChampII · 04-23-2006, 10:29 PM

So today I was @ some family event and was talking to some younger family friends in their 13 14 y.o....ridiculous how quickly some kids growing up...they were telling me how some of them already had sex, carry condoms in their wallet, have their own cell phones...just ridiculous...kinna made me think about my own situation...how I missed out because I was a lonely chubster, playing games...and as kids my age got more experienced I just stagnated...hell haven't even really truly kissed a girl, except in a really drunk state...I'm not saying love can be rushed or anything, but I really missed out on the whole "experimental phase" and girls will expect me to @ least somewhat know the ropes...how the **** do I close this "sex exp. gap"

hittman · 04-23-2006, 10:35 PM

by having sex

talk to as many girls as possible until you get the **** down pat. at first you will appear like a completely inexperienced loser, but once you push through the crushing reality that is rejection, you can only get better, and fail less.

"Failing to prepare is preparing to fail" - Michael Jordan

prepare by practising, by doing.

Vegeto · 04-23-2006, 10:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PolishChampII

So today I was @ some family event and was talking to some younger family friends in their 13 14 y.o....ridiculous how quickly some kids growing up...they were telling me how some of them already had sex, carry condoms in their wallet, have their own cell phones...just ridiculous...kinna made me think about my own situation...how I missed out because I was a lonely chubster, playing games...and as kids my age got more experienced I just stagnated...hell haven't even really truly kissed a girl, except in a really drunk state...I'm not saying love can be rushed or anything, but I really missed out on the whole "experimental phase" and girls will expect me to @ least somewhat know the ropes...how the **** do I close this "sex exp. gap"

Yup, I missed that too, and I found out when I was 13-14 that I was already behind. Yup, I had already missed it by that age. My friends had done that by the time they were 11-12, I didn't have a chance to keep up. WTF!?!?! I was busy playing mortal kombat, then BAM!!! It was already too late, and I was already expected to know ****. Frick, I still had ninja turtle toys when my buddies were gett'n some. No fair, I wasn't ready.

PolishChampII · 04-23-2006, 11:01 PM

Makes me sad

abercromwannabe · 04-23-2006, 11:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PolishChampII

Makes me sad

awwww

PolishChampII · 04-23-2006, 11:11 PM

bump

Just a Pilgrim · 04-23-2006, 11:17 PM

PolishChamp i've had similar thoughts about different things and really, you live YOUR life the way you want to. Just because some people did things differently means nothing, as long as you did what you wanted to do and enjoyed yourself that is what matters.

At 18 all i wanted to do was lift weights and push myself to get bigger and stronger. Obviously i did other things too but that was where my passion was and what i wanted to do. Maybe i missed out on a few things but i think of it as others missed out on what i went through when i trained.

You don't have to be one of the sheep and live life the way everyone expects you to.

PolishChampII · 04-23-2006, 11:26 PM

Well I thought I was enjoying myself until I kind of felt this whole "time gap" shocked @ how ppl "surpassed me"...im sure I woulda had more exp. with it had I more friends back in the day...its a ****ed up matter, but I understand where you're coming from, but what I defintely need to do is level myself out with people since people will probably be peaking by now in sex. exp.

moosaman · 04-23-2006, 11:40 PM

who cares if you missed out on society's "experimental" age?

i hate it when guys say "man, what are you doing in a relationship at the age of 19, you should be ****ing everything on two legs before you settle down"

i hate that, because a) if you don't experience a relationship at a young age, there's more to lose when you make relationship mistakes at an older age, and b) you're carrying a LOT of baggage with you when you're out getting laid everywhere and then suddenly try to settle down with one girl

forget the experimental ****, do things the way you want to... society is bull****

DBallerz · 04-23-2006, 11:42 PM

your a fuc.king virigin at 18 ? I lost my virginity at 15. Your a disgrace to the Polish race.

darkhead68 · 04-24-2006, 12:11 AM

hey polishchamp if i where you i would concentrate on workin out then you will have more than enough experiences to make up for the lost time, thats what my buddy did, he's catching up to me in the female department lol

John Hicks · 04-24-2006, 12:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DBallerz

your a fuc.king virigin at 18 ? I lost my virginity at 15. Your a disgrace to the Polish race.

Don't tell me... you lost your virginity to -- a polish girl??

hittman · 04-24-2006, 12:15 AM

oh and by the way, you don't want to close the gap, you want to open it eh? eh? as it were.

PolishChampII · 04-24-2006, 12:24 AM

thanks all

PolishChampII · 04-24-2006, 12:40 AM

bump this shiznit

superfeeniman · 04-24-2006, 12:58 AM

I feel like you because I am in that stage right now.

Tiny J · 04-24-2006, 01:07 AM

I wish I could close the gap in my 2 front teeth..

PolishChampII · 04-24-2006, 01:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tiny J

I wish I could close the gap in my 2 front teeth..

lol

moosaman · 04-24-2006, 01:21 AM

you don't need anything more than your confidence back.. so get it.. if you're gonna whine about losing out on ANYTHING at the age of 18 though, I'd consider therapy.. you're still VERY young my friend.