My GF's EX wants to fight, read on

SNOWBOARDnLIFT · 02-03-2006, 08:34 PM

My GF texted her ex and told him that I was being an *******, and that I was hitting her. But we were kidding around (she was punching and kicking me also). She was even laughing about it.

BTW I'm not 12 i'm 18 and have been going out with my GF for 5 years. We were just joking around with each other, i wasn't abusing her.

Here is the convo with her ex on facebook (I'm Zach)

02.03.06 9:50pm Zach: Leave virginia alone, get your own life, and mind your own business

02.03.06 9:56pm Jesse: i suggest you worry about yourself..im coming home next weekend and you and i are gonna have a little face to face if you have the balls. you ****en piece of **** u wanna push and hit a girl, be a man and do it to me... we'll see what u got next weekend.

02.03.06 10:06pm Zach: maybe if you were there... you would know what the situation was, instead of making assumptions. we were kidding around with each other, she was laughing, and then she didn't want to keep doing it, don't be a prick and assume things, *******, you're such a peice of ****

02.03.06 10:09pm Jesse: haha oh zachary you keep digging urself a deeper and deeper hole. lets see if you have the balls to say this **** in person even though i know u dont but i can hope you do cuz ill have a lot of fun

02.03.06 10:16pm Zach: You just want to fight because thats the only thing you can do, whats the point of fighting you? You want to fight because you think I was hitting a girl. You are blowing this out of proportion. Were you there? Do you have a crystal ball and can see what happened? What happened was far from me just blatantly hitting a girl. Can you explain your reasoning? Oh whatever you reply with to this I'm not stooping to your middle school level and fighting with you. Oh and to your comment that you about to say: oh too scared to fight? --> Shove it up your ass.

02.03.06 10:17pm Jesse: haha i dont have to say that cuz you just admitted it. i know the situation because she told me the whole thing u dumbass. ur the one who messaged me saying **** so either shut ur fat ass mouth and start being a man instead of hitting a ****en girl you pussy.

02.03.06 10:29pm Zach: Ok what was the situation then, smart guy. Tell me exactly what she said. I only messaged you becaused it disgusted me that you would go and talk to someone's girlfriend about her boyfriend behind his back. Can you just leave her alone? You think you are protecting her by doing this, I WOULD PROTECT SOMEONE TOO BUT MAN I WASN'T JUST ****ING HITTING HER. HER MOM WAS RIGHT THERE. YOU THINK HER MOM WOULD JUST LET ME ABUSE HER. IF YOU THINK I WAS HITTING HER REALLY HARD (LIKE SOMEONE WOULD HIT SOMEONE WHO THEY WERE TRYING TO HURT), ASK HER MOM. DO YOU WANT HER MOM'S PHONE NUMBER TO ASK HER IF I WAS ABUSING VIRGINIA? I'M NOT GOING TO ABUSE VIRGINIA, LET IT GO. This is my last message to you have a nice life. Hopefully I will never have to see you and hear your name ever again.

02.03.06 10:31pm Jesse: aww thats cute because you will, yea im protecting her shes my best friend.

02.03.06 10:34pm Zach: Ok thanks for reading what I said: I said tell me exactly what she said. I said why are you protecting her, her mom was right there and saw the whole thing. Get back to me when you can figure out what she said to you.

(there's no paragraph breaks b/c thats the way facebook makes it)

Whats your opinion.

KevC · 02-03-2006, 08:38 PM

why was your GF text messaging her ex about you play hitting her?

GlassPenis · 02-03-2006, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by SNOWBOARDnLIFT

My GF texted her ex and told him that I was being an *******, and that I was hitting her. But we were kidding around (she was punching and kicking me also). She was even laughing about it.

BTW I'm not 12 i'm 18 and have been going out with my GF for 5 years. We were just joking around with each other, i wasn't abusing her.

Here is the convo with her ex on facebook (I'm Zach)

02.03.06 9:50pm Zach: Leave virginia alone, get your own life, and mind your own business

02.03.06 9:56pm Jesse: i suggest you worry about yourself..im coming home next weekend and you and i are gonna have a little face to face if you have the balls. you ****en piece of **** u wanna push and hit a girl, be a man and do it to me... we'll see what u got next weekend.

02.03.06 10:06pm Zach: maybe if you were there... you would know what the situation was, instead of making assumptions. we were kidding around with each other, she was laughing, and then she didn't want to keep doing it, don't be a prick and assume things, *******, you're such a peice of ****

02.03.06 10:09pm Jesse: haha oh zachary you keep digging urself a deeper and deeper hole. lets see if you have the balls to say this **** in person even though i know u dont but i can hope you do cuz ill have a lot of fun

02.03.06 10:16pm Zach: You just want to fight because thats the only thing you can do, whats the point of fighting you? You want to fight because you think I was hitting a girl. You are blowing this out of proportion. Were you there? Do you have a crystal ball and can see what happened? What happened was far from me just blatantly hitting a girl. Can you explain your reasoning? Oh whatever you reply with to this I'm not stooping to your middle school level and fighting with you. Oh and to your comment that you about to say: oh too scared to fight? --> Shove it up your ass.

02.03.06 10:17pm Jesse: haha i dont have to say that cuz you just admitted it. i know the situation because she told me the whole thing u dumbass. ur the one who messaged me saying **** so either shut ur fat ass mouth and start being a man instead of hitting a ****en girl you pussy.

02.03.06 10:29pm Zach: Ok what was the situation then, smart guy. Tell me exactly what she said. I only messaged you becaused it disgusted me that you would go and talk to someone's girlfriend about her boyfriend behind his back. Can you just leave her alone? You think you are protecting her by doing this, I WOULD PROTECT SOMEONE TOO BUT MAN I WASN'T JUST ****ING HITTING HER. HER MOM WAS RIGHT THERE. YOU THINK HER MOM WOULD JUST LET ME ABUSE HER. IF YOU THINK I WAS HITTING HER REALLY HARD (LIKE SOMEONE WOULD HIT SOMEONE WHO THEY WERE TRYING TO HURT), ASK HER MOM. DO YOU WANT HER MOM'S PHONE NUMBER TO ASK HER IF I WAS ABUSING VIRGINIA? I'M NOT GOING TO ABUSE VIRGINIA, LET IT GO. This is my last message to you have a nice life. Hopefully I will never have to see you and hear your name ever again.

02.03.06 10:31pm Jesse: aww thats cute because you will, yea im protecting her shes my best friend.

02.03.06 10:34pm Zach: Ok thanks for reading what I said: I said tell me exactly what she said. I said why are you protecting her, her mom was right there and saw the whole thing. Get back to me when you can figure out what she said to you.

(there's no paragraph breaks b/c thats the way facebook makes it)

Whats your opinion.

What's this joker's AIM? I feel like harassing someone

M1911A1 · 02-03-2006, 08:42 PM

You're a pussy and your girl is an immature bitch. Have a nice life.

ispy · 02-03-2006, 08:45 PM

WOAH WOAH WOAH! HOLD IT RIGHT THERE! You've been dating this girl for 5 years, and she's still in contact with her ex? Have they been "dating" since she was 13? wtf? DUMP HER!

NeloAngelo · 02-03-2006, 08:46 PM

Yeh, your girlfriend sounds like a real winner. Congrats.

braindx · 02-03-2006, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by KevC

why was your GF text messaging her ex about you play hitting her?

Exactly.

SNOWBOARDnLIFT · 02-03-2006, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by KevC

why was your GF text messaging her ex about you play hitting her?

I dunno thats what I wanna know

SNOWBOARDnLIFT · 02-03-2006, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by M1911A1

You're a pussy and your girl is an immature bitch. Have a nice life.

Whatever because I don't want to fight over something that didn't happen?

ArchDukeOfTops · 02-03-2006, 08:50 PM

So your GF is still in contact with this guy and obviously disclosing things to him about your relationship. And he's and ex.

I strongly suspect he may still be having milk and cookies with your girl. And he's gonna whoop your ass on top of that? Sounds like you may be better off without that whole situation.

ispy · 02-03-2006, 08:53 PM

I'm going to go ahead and say that this story is 99% bs. He's 18 (so I automatically assume that she's his age or younger... might be older, so it's the 1% doubt), and been with her for 5 years. She must have a very close relationship with her ex (of 5 years ago... when she was 13) to keep in contact with him, and act like it's ok for him to threatten the poster with physical harm. If it is true though, dump her.

SNOWBOARDnLIFT · 02-03-2006, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by ispy

I'm going to go ahead and say that this story is 99% bs. He's 18 (so I automatically assume that she's his age or younger... might be older, so it's the 1% doubt), and been with her for 5 years. She must have a very close relationship with her ex (of 5 years ago... when she was 13) to keep in contact with him, and act like it's ok for him to threatten the poster with physical harm. If it is true though, dump her.

The story is true I'm 18 and she is 18, she went out with him when she was 13. I just asked her why she still is his friend and she said that because they only went out for 9 days and decided they should just be friends.

I don't know what else to say, do you think I just made up that whole conversation? Theres more to it I didn't even post the rest.

CTlifter250 · 02-03-2006, 09:09 PM

Whats his AIM sn..I feel like ****ing around with him as well.

All in all..just fight him. Kick his ass. To much bitch talkin these days. People need to just put up and knock a mo ****er out.

GlassPenis · 02-03-2006, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by SNOWBOARDnLIFT

The story is true I'm 18 and she is 18, she went out with him when she was 13. I just asked her why she still is his friend and she said that because they only went out for 9 days and decided they should just be friends.

I don't know what else to say, do you think I just made up that whole conversation? Theres more to it I didn't even post the rest.

You need to control the bitch

I dont care what anyone says, sustaining contact with an ex is not acceptable

Maverick77 · 02-03-2006, 09:32 PM

I dont get your story at all.

Your saying that you were play fighting with your girl friend and she texted her friend saying you were abusing her, Okay. Then he thinks she was serious about it and wants to beat you up? Whats the big deal, if she was joking then she should be the one to tell him that right? It's absoloutly rediclous that your even woried about it.

This seems more realistic- You really did hit her, she told her friend and now he wants to beat you up. She feels bad about it because maybe you wooed her and is trying to get the guy to back down.

I dont know you, so Im not trying to call you women hitter but your story is just so completly rediclous that you could even be worried if it was all a joke. If its a joke then something is wrong with your relationship, why is this girl texting a guy when your hanging out with her? She obviously LOVES attention. WOW.

sword chucks · 02-03-2006, 09:35 PM

This story makes zero sense. You should take writing lessons, and until you do, I will not dignify this thread with a response.

SNOWBOARDnLIFT · 02-03-2006, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by sword chucks

This story makes zero sense. You should take writing lessons, and until you do, I will not dignify this thread with a response.

I've seen your posts sword chucks, and they are lame. You should take life lessons, and until you do, don't talk.

bigfor15 · 02-03-2006, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by SNOWBOARDnLIFT

I've seen your posts sword chucks, and they are lame. You should take life lessons, and until you do, don't talk.

Dude, your story is somewhat rediculous. You need to confront your girl and ask what the hell is going on, why she's still talking to an ex, and why she texted about playfighting in the first place.

sword chucks · 02-03-2006, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by SNOWBOARDnLIFT

I've seen your posts sword chucks, and they are lame. You should take life lessons, and until you do, don't talk.

Actually, my posts are helpful for the most part. You could have thought funnier and more original than "life lessons", which didn't really even apply to the situation. Your argument has nothing to do with you being a bad writer either so you kind of missed your chance to counter that statement.

SNOWBOARDnLIFT · 02-03-2006, 09:52 PM

She thinks it got out of control. If its so rediculous then don't believe it.

SNOWBOARDnLIFT · 02-03-2006, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by sword chucks

Actually, my posts are helpful for the most part. You could have thought funnier and more original than "life lessons", which didn't really even apply to the situation. Your argument has nothing to do with you being a bad writer either so you kind of missed your chance to counter that statement.

You think I can't write, yet you post the worst AIM conversation I've ever read in my life (http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=686730)

sword chucks · 02-03-2006, 10:28 PM

I didn't know you were the type of guy who looks at alot of AIM conversations. Maybe we do have something in common. By the way, if you think that is a poorly done conversation, then you probably couldn't pick up on someone with game if you saw Niel Strauss playing on a Dreamcast.

TYLERDURDEN69 · 02-03-2006, 10:39 PM

Once i carried a women against her will for 1 mile

SNOWBOARDnLIFT · 02-03-2006, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by sword chucks

I didn't know you were the type of guy who looks at alot of AIM conversations. Maybe we do have something in common. By the way, if you think that is a poorly done conversation, then you probably couldn't pick up on someone with game if you saw Niel Strauss playing on a Dreamcast.

you bore me

PurposeDriven · 02-03-2006, 11:12 PM

Just drop it.

No use crying over spilt milk.

Tiny J · 02-03-2006, 11:16 PM

This thread shows how much sympathy one can get from internet users. lol

crisismaker · 02-03-2006, 11:46 PM

Have your girlfriend fight him for you.

WIP · 02-04-2006, 12:25 AM

thanks bb.com......everytime i read his gf's name (virginia) i thought it said vagina. then i laughed.

heavybastard · 02-04-2006, 12:34 AM

This Ex Boyfriend is sad, because you are routing the chick and he's not

next time you talk to him, dont get in a big drawn out convo. The more you argue with him, the more you sound like you are trying to convince him that you didnt bash her ( even though you and we know you didnt).

Next time you chat on AIm or whatever, involve these sentences

' I dont even know you who are. Get something else to do you ****ing loner'

' you just keep sitting at home alone with your hand, reading text messages while i **** her brains out'

RU4A69 · 02-04-2006, 04:02 AM

I agree with the guys who were banned.