My friend got a 13 year old girl pregnant. what should i do?

trailblazer573 · 01-20-2006, 11:14 AM

I had to make a new name because a lot my friends know what my other name is.

On saturday I walked into a store and this girl walked up to me and said that she just got finished cussing bob(17 yearold friend) out. I asked her why and she said that she couldn't tell me. I asked bob what it was about and he said that he couldn't tell me what is was about because he did something really bad

So anyway my friend bob was going over to this 13 year old girls house alot to do hang out with her "brother". He went over there everyday for a couple of weeks and then just suddenly stopped. I asked him what was up and he said that he was just tired of going over there.
Flashfoward to last night. I'm standing in line at the store and this lady is talking about bob and saying that he got a 13 year old pregnant. I was surprised.
So then this morning I asked bob's best friend if it was true and he said yes but to not let it get out.

Bob doesn't know that I know what he did but I'm really mad at him and if his dad finds out then he will beat the hell out of him. I dont know if I should confront him about it or what

g-unot · 01-20-2006, 11:17 AM

your friends will find out who you are soon....

**TheLBM** · 01-20-2006, 11:17 AM

nice first post.
NOT
and again i say.
WTF?

Hartski · 01-20-2006, 11:18 AM

Tell Bob not to drop the soap in prison.

Also, check out the Jerry Springer Show.

49ER4LIFE · 01-20-2006, 11:18 AM

Don't have any sleep overs with Bob

g-unot · 01-20-2006, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Hartski

Tell Bob not to drop the soap in prison.

Also, check out the Jerry Springer Show.

i dont even think what he did is illegal

Grind4Mine · 01-20-2006, 11:20 AM

Be supportive of him.....Dont be the parent, he will get it beat in his head everyday about the mistake he made from the grownups in his life....U gotta remember he his human, mistakes happen, he should take full responsibility for the kid but by God when your around him, just treat him like one of the guys and let him have an escape from all of the bull**** he will here nonstop......Ive gone through similiar rough situations and in times like these friends can be the only thing that keeps you going. Let the man know u got his back and will be there for him when he needs to get away.

IllumX · 01-20-2006, 11:20 AM

u do know they can still figure out who you are...how many people are going to have that story on bb forums....lol..but SUCKY if he didn't use protection......he can only blame it on himself for being so dumb.

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Originally Posted by trailblazer573

I had to make a new name because a lot my friends know what my other name is.

On saturday I walked into a store and this girl walked up to me and said that she just got finished cussing bob(17 yearold friend) out. I asked her why and she said that she couldn't tell me. I asked bob what it was about and he said that he couldn't tell me what is was about because he did something really bad

So anyway my friend bob was going over to this 13 year old girls house alot to do hang out with her "brother". He went over there everyday for a couple of weeks and then just suddenly stopped. I asked him what was up and he said that he was just tired of going over there.
Flashfoward to last night. I'm standing in line at the store and this lady is talking about bob and saying that he got a 13 year old pregnant. I was surprised.
So then this morning I asked bob's best friend if it was true and he said yes but to not let it get out.

Bob doesn't know that I know what he did but I'm really mad at him and if his dad finds out then he will beat the hell out of him. I dont know if I should confront him about it or what

BigDreams21 · 01-20-2006, 11:21 AM

Yeah if they're both under 18 its not illegal but 17 and 13? Thats still fawkin disgusting.

DrVonNostrand · 01-20-2006, 11:21 AM

I bet all the girls friends screw with his locker and treat him poorly, but you'll eventually forgive him since you are best buds. You'll get a job at the movie theatre, and Spicoli will have to pass Mr. Hand's test or he won't graduate.

Panda Eyes · 01-20-2006, 11:22 AM

Why are you mad at him, because he kept this piece of news from you? Trust me, he's in a tough situation and he needs your support, not your hostility. You're just going to have to understand people do dumb things when they're in a tough situation, and this is one of them.

I'm not sure what you can do, since it's really his problem. Just be there to support him.

trailblazer573 · 01-20-2006, 11:23 AM

well they dont actually browse the forums but they know what my name is on here. so its possible but not likely that they will see this

Hartski · 01-20-2006, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by g-unot

i dont even think what he did is illegal

Depends on what state he lives in. I don't know if many of them have 13 as their age of consent.

Most states would call that statutory rape, I believe.

trailblazer573 · 01-20-2006, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Panda Eyes

Why are you mad at him, because he kept this piece of news from you? Trust me, he's in a tough situation and he needs your support, not your hostility. You're just going to have to understand people do dumb things when they're in a tough situation, and this is one of them.

I'm not sure what you can do, since it's really his problem. Just be there to support him.

i'm mad at him for inpregnating a 13 year old jr. high kid

orzonus · 01-20-2006, 11:35 AM

Damn... Was she at least developed?

Panda Eyes · 01-20-2006, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by trailblazer573

i'm mad at him for inpregnating a 13 year old jr. high kid

Alright. But what is that going to solve at this point?

I'm just saying people make mistakes, whether they're very minor or severe as this. It's a bit too late to be saying you're dumb to be having unprotected sex with a 13 year old.

You got to help him make the right choice. Just let him know that keeping it may severely fxck up his life and let alone the baby's.

orzonus · 01-20-2006, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Panda Eyes

Alright. But what is that going to solve at this point?

I'm just saying people make mistakes, whether they're very minor or severe as this. It's a bit too late to be saying you're dumb to be having unprotected sex with a 13 year old.

You got to help him make the right choice. Just let him know that keeping it may severely fxck up his life and let alone the baby's.

Ya... I'm not normally for abortion... But I definitely am in this situation.

hailfire777 · 01-20-2006, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by trailblazer573

I had to make a new name because a lot my friends know what my other name is.

On saturday I walked into a store and this girl walked up to me and said that she just got finished cussing bob(17 yearold friend) out. I asked her why and she said that she couldn't tell me. I asked bob what it was about and he said that he couldn't tell me what is was about because he did something really bad

So anyway my friend bob was going over to this 13 year old girls house alot to do hang out with her "brother". He went over there everyday for a couple of weeks and then just suddenly stopped. I asked him what was up and he said that he was just tired of going over there.
Flashfoward to last night. I'm standing in line at the store and this lady is talking about bob and saying that he got a 13 year old pregnant. I was surprised.
So then this morning I asked bob's best friend if it was true and he said yes but to not let it get out.

Bob doesn't know that I know what he did but I'm really mad at him and if his dad finds out then he will beat the hell out of him. I dont know if I should confront him about it or what

convince her to get it aborted before her parents find out, all expenses paid. get the money no matter what. get it done ASAP before her hormones start to kick in, once that happens you my friend are FINISHED, well your friend is, for the rest of his life.

have fun.

Donster · 01-20-2006, 11:53 AM

She will have to have an abortion i think. I feel bad for her, your friend should have known better.

WTF is a 17 year old doing sleeping with a 13 year old. And more importantly wtf is a 13 year old doing having intercourse.

Its a heavy burden for the young girl to carry.

is this **** not illegal?

Boruta · 01-20-2006, 11:54 AM

Definatly either kill the girl or have her kill the baby. Something has to be killed.

Hartski · 01-20-2006, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by hailfire777

convince her to get it aborted before her parents find out, all expenses paid. get the money no matter what. get it done ASAP before her hormones start to kick in, once that happens you my friend are FINISHED, well your friend is, for the rest of his life.

have fun.

Good chance the abortion clinic will at least have to notify the parents when the kid is that much underage.

Hugh · 01-20-2006, 11:55 AM

Abort ;(

glk19 · 01-20-2006, 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Boruta

Definatly either kill the girl or have her kill the baby. Something has to be killed.

you might be on to something....

anyways, i'd say shoot your friend. he's an idiot, and deserves to be beaten with a stick.

Ace_2004 · 01-20-2006, 12:02 PM

Press the escape key.

KYUSHO00 · 01-20-2006, 12:02 PM

It is Nasty!

But 17 yr old sleeping with a 13 year old is not uncommon in some parts of the world.

Also add 10 years on to both the it would be a 27 yr old sleeping with a 23 yr old.

Not to be flamed but a picture of the 11 yr old asian with huge you know whats would go perfect in this thread.

Donster · 01-20-2006, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by KYUSHO00

It is Nasty!

But 17 yr old sleeping with a 13 year old is not uncommon in some parts of the world.

Also add 10 years on to both the it would be a 27 yr old sleeping with a 23 yr old.

Not to be flamed but a picture of the 11 yr old asian with huge you know whats would go perfect in this thread.

Still its a 13 year old. This **** happens in war torn countries. But not in a so-called "civilized" society based on rules and laws.

This is not normal or even acceptable at all.....not in my mind anyway. I mean is a girl even fully develped by that age? wtf.....bleurgh

karmazon · 01-20-2006, 12:06 PM

I'm calling BS on this one

KYUSHO00 · 01-20-2006, 12:08 PM

PHAT I fully agree that this is wrong but it still happens all over. There are some fine looking teachers taking 13,14,15 yr old boys and making them men.

Wish I was back in school
Wish I was 14
Wish I was the teachers pet

Donster · 01-20-2006, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by KYUSHO00

PHAT I fully agree that this is wrong but it still happens all over. There are some fine looking teachers taking 13,14,15 yr old boys and making them men.

Wish I was back in school
Wish I was 14
Wish I was the teachers pet

damn i wish i was made a man at 14, i still fatasise about my english teacher...Mrs Gallagher....i need to go bust a nut now...

Ram56 · 01-20-2006, 12:11 PM

Make fun of his stupid ass... 13 year old.... wow he is ****ing stupid. Was that the only thing he was able to hit i mean come on.