Get divorced the right way!!
Ok bro's here's whats up. I see threads where more and more of you guys are gettin dovorced and have given a few of you guys tips so now i'm just gonna put it out there for everybody. I got divorced a while back and I not only don't have to pay alamony, but I won he kid, the cars even child support, EVERYTHING. Now I want to tell you guys how not to get srewed.
1) Document everything. Buy a notebook and writ down everything fu**ed up she does. I'f you try to call to talk to the kids and she won't let you, write it down, put the time and date and everything that was said.
2) If you have kids. When you have the kids with you take pictures! Take pictures of where you took them and you best take them places! Make sure the camera has the correct date programed on it. That almost bitme in the ass. If your kids are with her, call a few times a day and document what time you call. If there is no answer write it down.
3) Give money. how much depends on you. But when you do give say $150 once a month before the divorce is final. In the memo on the check put "For Jim and Jane" or whatever the kids name is. Or put " For clothes for the kids" something along those lines.
4) Don't give cash!!!!!!!! Always always always use a check or money order, that way wen you go to court she can't call you a lier and then it comes down to her word against yours, and her word always wins. If y0ou live in different cities send it by traceable means.
5) If you send cards PHOTOCOPY THEM. Also photo copy the envelope when it's addressed and stamped.
6) In ase you havn't got the idea yet....document document document!!!! That is the key. I can't promise you will win like i did but it sure as hell will help you get alteast more time with the kids, less alamony ect.
7) Buy things for the kids if you have them. Something I did whice really imprssed the judge was I went to a website where you an pay to have a star named after somebody. Do it and they wll send you a certificate and a book with all stars named in it, including yours.
8) be perfect. Don't cuss or scream no matter what. You need documetation, she don't. Remember that.
9) If she likes to scream when you are near. get a little recorer and record it. Nothing is better then having a tape at court that shows she is an angry person. If you ar not across state lines you also can do it on the phone, but remember you can't bait.
Ok thats all I can think of right now, If I remember anything else that helped me I'll post them. Take care bro's.
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