Follow up to Girls and Bodybuilders thread

[OTG]

Ok, so this is a follow up to this thread
(Why do girls think huge BBuilding guys are disgusting?)
http://www.forum.bodybuilding.com/sh...d.php?t=625314

Got the answers straight from the Horses' mouth.

Allright so I basically got online and found some Hot girls (some of them I already knew) and showed a pic to them (Just to see how they would respond). Here were some of the conversations:

Ok so I'm cool (I've slightly edited the id's just so that some losers on here won't bother them and contact them)

r (6:50:00 PM): your avatar looks cute
cool (6:50:07 PM): thnx
r (6:50:13 PM): yw
cool (6:50:23 PM): ur pic looks cute too just can't really see it lol
r (6:50:35 PM): which one?
cool (6:51:06 PM): the 1 in the avatar window
r(6:51:15 PM): oh
r (6:51:16 PM): yea
r (6:51:17 PM): thats too small
r (6:51:25 PM): you can see my profile if you want
r (6:51:36 PM): i have a pic there i think
cool (6:52:17 PM): yeah saw it, lookin cute!!
r (6:52:29 PM): thanks
cool (6:56:46 PM): man i'm still I just turned 17 and here's my pic in the avatar window
r (6:58:23 PM): is that really you?
cool (6:58:31 PM): yeah
cool (6:58:40 PM): i love bodybuilding
r (6:58:47 PM): thats cool
r (6:58:53 PM): but your only 17 ?
r (6:58:57 PM): wow
r(6:59:04 PM): thats a great body there
cool(6:59:09 PM): thnx
cool (6:59:19 PM): i wanted a girl's opinion
rox (6:59:26 PM): oh why?
rox (6:59:34 PM): are you trying for modeling?
cool (7:00:12 PM): i'm thinking in a couple of years maybe i would
ro (7:00:29 PM): thats nice
*Then we had a long talk about other stuff*


Allright here's another one

cool (6:56:00 PM): which 1 is u?
sugar(6:59:21 PM): pink
cool(6:59:31 PM): nice!! lol
sugar(6:59:51 PM): do u have a pic or cam?
cool(7:00:48 PM): pic
sugar (7:00:54 PM): where?
cool(7:01:31 PM): let me load it instead of my avatar
sugar (7:01:37 PM): ok
cool(7:02:12 PM): there
cool (7:02:16 PM): i g2go soon
cool(7:02:37 PM): ==>
sugar (7:02:50 PM): i cant see ur face though!
cool (7:02:59 PM): that's the only 1 i have on my comp
sugar (7:03:11 PM): urs body is hott though
sugar (7:03:20 PM): asl again
cool (7:03:47 PM): 17/m/tx
cool(7:03:51 PM): thanx
sugar (7:03:58 PM): grade?
cool (7:03:58 PM): ur pretty hot urself
cool(7:04:01 PM): 12
cool (7:04:11 PM): what do u think i should do to my body
cool (7:04:17 PM): bulk or cut
sugar (7:04:17 PM): idk
sugar (7:04:26 PM): w/e u want
cool(7:04:39 PM): should i get a little bigger or cut and get more definition
cool(7:04:52 PM): either way i'll end up with a six pack by summer
sugar (7:05:01 PM): idk ur hott the way u r
sugar(7:05:14 PM): yeah thats pretty kewl
sugar (7:05:30 PM): do u play sports?
cool(7:05:43 PM): football
cool(7:06:33 PM): but i'm more of a bodybuilder i think
sugar(7:06:44 PM): lol thats kewl
cool(7:06:59 PM): thnx
cool(7:07:10 PM): allright i g2go
*Then she wanted to add me to her Buddy list but mine's already too full so I let her go*



Another one: (This chick, Not a Bodybuilder fan, Boooo! Ok so she’s nice slim, brunnette, loves skateboarding and stuff “punk lifestyle, I guess” the way she was talking I think she likes skinny guy, B is scared of Big Boys.
So, I’m “thugs” this time.

mountaindew_unofficial(9:44:07 PM): oh yeah I didn't see that picture until you pointed it out lol
thugs(9:44:26 PM): kinda old
mountaindew_unofficial (9:44:45 PM): it's okay lol
thugs(9:44:55 PM): k
mountaindew_unofficial (9:45:42 PM): does that mean you have bigger muscles now or something lol
thugs(9:45:58 PM): maybe
thugs(9:46:19 PM): yeah I had it up coz this chick wouldn't get my status
thugs(9:46:40 PM): she was like what does that mean? so i showed her that pic and she went ooooo
mountaindew_unofficial (9:46:45 PM): lol
thugs(9:46:50 PM): lol
mountaindew_unofficial (9:47:22 PM): oh what was your status?
thugs(9:47:33 PM): hold up
mountaindew_unofficial (9:48:17 PM): okay...
thugs (9:48:29 PM): "The kind of car you drive doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is the size of the arm hanging out the window." lol
mountaindew_unofficial (9:49:13 PM): lol
mountaindew_unofficial (9:49:14 PM): funny
thugs(9:49:41 PM): yeah
thugs(9:49:58 PM): she wasn't getting that. Blonde i guess.............
mountaindew_unofficial (9:50:42 PM): most likely
thugs(9:50:46 PM): lol
thugs(9:51:34 PM): So do u think muscles on a guy are important?
mountaindew(9:51:53 PM): for some
mountaindew(9:51:56 PM): I guess
thugs_be_me88 (9:52:21 PM): for some? I take that as a no then
mountaindew_unofficial(9:52:30 PM): no it's not a know
mountaindew_unofficiall (9:52:31 PM): it
mountaindew_unofficial (9:52:35 PM): grr lol
mountaindew_unofficial (9:52:54 PM): its just some don't look good with msucles and sometimes it gets intimidated (however you spell that)
thugs(9:53:33 PM): what do u mean by intimidated? like how?
mountaindew_unofficial (9:54:18 PM): like if a guy got pissed off at you or something who knows what they would do
thugs(9:54:25 PM): lol
thugs(9:54:30 PM):
thugs(9:55:11 PM): c'mon just coz a guy has muscles he won't hurt u. If some wanted to hurt u they don't need muscles u can hurt asomeone anyway
mountaindew_unofficial (9:55:21 PM): dude it could happen!
mountaindew_unofficial (9:55:21 PM): don't laugh at me
mountaindew_unofficial (9:55:30 PM):
thugs(9:55:47 PM): ok but that guy's also gonna protect u
mountaindew_unofficial(9:56:10 PM): yeah but you never know
thugs(9:56:15 PM): ok
mountaindew_unofficial (9:56:29 PM): lol true

*Then I said Bye to this chick for now, but I’ll screw her one of these coming days and show how BB Boys do it*


PLUS, I’ve got a few other good conversations which were pretty much like the first 2 conversations.

I started talking 2 these 2 friends, they wanted to see my Body so, I did a pose for these 2 chicks and they pretty much went GA GA over my body, but then I also noticed them feeling insecured coz they felt I was too good for them or something lol. Got intimidated and wouldn’t show me their body. “My body is no where in good shape as yours.”

**** Allright guys so those are my 2 Cents. Figure the answers out for Urself ****

[Dead-Metal]

So i guess if your big and u just act normal then most girls go crazy over you! HA I love bbuilding! But i guess if you talk about bbuilding 24/7 then i guess its like a turn-off.....thats explains a lot.

[G0LD3NRuL3]

Thats what girls might say about anything on AIM. Try real life, honestly. You would get a better response in terms of detailed thought.

[Wheyhem.]

looked retarded to me

[ziggyandthemonk]

Alright, i only read all of the last convo, and i didnt see anything about bb'ers. Just stuff about you, at a whopping 170. When you ask them if they like muscles, they arent thinking bb'er big.

[OTG]

From my experience if u want chicks to be interested in u (based on just looks) u have to be lean, well toned and muscular with low body fat, tall, at least decent clothes, and well maintained total body (hairs, etc). Being 6'1 and as u said not too big at 170 works out pretty well (doesn't mean I will try and stay at this size)

Just having huge muscles won't do the trick. Either u have it or u don't.
(If u don't have it don't worry change other things about u and not just ur body with muscles).

[Sanj-]

buddy, using two accounts and talking to urself isnt cool.

misc. section??

[OTG]

No yar seriously, Dead Metal's some other guy.

[Lilkj]

A lot of chicks around here really dont understand bodybuilding or anything. Usually, if you've got 12" arms or a "six pack" (you know the kind that has no mass, just some cuts) you're considered "built". Anything more and usually you're a freak or something lol. So i dunno what they think about me. But it dont matter b/c i'm not doing it for the chicks..the ones who like it,great...those who dont, who cares, dont have time to deal with that, need to squat.

[OTG]

Good answer Lilkj.

[IceTeanCookiez]

Honestly i used to lift to get in better shape(*for girls) but i started training seriously 6 months ago and i honestly dont care about what what anybody thinks of me. If girls think ur gross becuz ur ripped, o well. Eventually you'll find one that appreciates you for you, and your dedication and when you find her keep a hold of her

[hittman]

Originally Posted by IceTeanCookiez

Honestly i used to lift to get in better shape(*for girls) but i started training seriously 6 months ago and i honestly dont care about what what anybody thinks of me. If girls think ur gross becuz ur ripped, o well. Eventually you'll find one that appreciates you for you, and your dedication and when you find her keep a hold of her

a very strong hold. a hold only attained by 18" arms and vice-like grip. and if she runs away, throw a 50lb dumbell at her.

[ghostfacekilla]

you shoulda showed a picture of a real bodybuilder. your kinda skinny, not intimidating...

[vadox6466]

if girls think you're big ( http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attach...5&d=1131758009 ) then....I think we should all cut nonstop

[OTG]

That's an old pic bro, and to get a better answer I showed them a pic of a really good built teen BBer.

[DMBsAmricanBaby]

I like my men huge (the whole body) the bigger the better

[MynameisMike]

Originally Posted by ziggyandthemonk

Alright, i only read all of the last convo, and i didnt see anything about bb'ers. Just stuff about you, at a whopping 170. When you ask them if they like muscles, they arent thinking bb'er big.

buddy are you cut? If I was cut at 170 pounds id be a happy man.

Here's a pic of me 4 weeks out from a show I did earlier this year. Under 160, and please prove to me that you weigh more than that and look better.

[deviltrainee]

lots of girls like bodybuilders, but if u get much bigger than someone like brad pitt or one of the guys who you see in mens health than they start to think it looks gross.


if u ask 100 girls if they think ronnie coleman is hot and show them a picture of him in competition at least 99 would say no.and the one that would say yes would mostlikely be a bber herself

[OTG]

I have a similar body mike but, I'm 6'1 and now I'm at 175LBS. Just started this will be my third month. Currently I'm bulking and have around 10ish BF%. But bro yeah, u could seriously add more muscle and get the girls, u need to start bulking again.

[chickeneater]

Originally Posted by MynameisMike

buddy are you cut? If I was cut at 170 pounds id be a happy man.

Here's a pic of me 4 weeks out from a show I did earlier this year. Under 160, and please prove to me that you weigh more than that and look better.

impressive

[MynameisMike]

Originally Posted by Teen_BB

I have a similar body mike but, I'm 6'1 and now I'm at 175LBS. Just started this will be my third month. Currently I'm bulking and have around 10ish BF%. But bro yeah, u could seriously add more muscle and get the girls, u need to start bulking again.

I'm 5'9, so I'm going to be lighter.

We'll obviousally anyone can add mass. I currently weigh about 180 so I have gained mass although more fat that i'd like. I've never worked so ****ing hard in my life to get like that and believe me when I lifted up my shirt the girls mouths dropped open and I am a competitive "bodybuilder".

If your a pro, most girls probally won't like it. If your huge because your on steroid, most girls probally won't like it.

A natural body is what most girls go for, but who wants to look natural?

[Lilkj]

Originally Posted by MynameisMike

I'm 5'9, so I'm going to be lighter.

We'll obviousally anyone can add mass. I currently weigh about 180 so I have gained mass although more fat that i'd like. I've never worked so ****ing hard in my life to get like that and believe me when I lifted up my shirt the girls mouths dropped open and I am a competitive "bodybuilder".

If your a pro, most girls probally won't like it. If your huge because your on steroid, most girls probally won't like it.

A natural body is what most girls go for, but who wants to look natural?

Good post...natural is the way to go...for me at least. I 100% respect the pros decisions and everything they do, i just wouldn't personally go as far as using steroids to gain a body like that. I'm just happy getting as big as i can naturally and that's that. But for the people who use steroids: good for you, cant wait to see you in the next olympia.

[Cass]

Originally Posted by vadox6466

if girls think you're big ( http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attach...5&d=1131758009 ) then....I think we should all cut nonstop

LOL! I HOPE hes bigger now, lol. Looks like a 90lb wonder child.

[-E-]

show any girl a pic of ron coleman, thats how u see if a girl is attracted to bodybuilders, and im sure 99% of the time u will find you recieve a pretty negative response.

[Nero6]

Originally Posted by -E-

show any girl a pic of ron coleman, thats how u see if a girl is attracted to bodybuilders, and im sure 99% of the time u will find you recieve a pretty negative response.

All greased and oiled up no doubt, but if you show them a picture of him with his shirt on, casual-like, you may find the response different...

[Cass]

Thats coz Ronnie's a monster. That sh*t turns me off BBing too. I mean, he has a great body, but I would never ever want to look like that. Its overkill. Now Arnold had a body that I wouldn't mind.

[TheShocker]

guys, since none of you are pro-bodybuilders, not getting ass isn't becaue you're "too big." i'm not trying to be a dick or anything, but it's the truth. i'm 5'8 and 190 lbs at 9-10% bodyfat, and i have a hot girlfriend and have had more than my share of hot girls. you can talk **** and saying i'm making it up, but the point is all you need to get girls is decent looks, a good personality, and relatively low bodyfat. your muscles should help you, not hurt you. if you aren't getting ass don't blame it on being big.

[KhanPaulsen]

Originally Posted by TheShocker

guys, since none of you are pro-bodybuilders, not getting ass isn't becaue you're "too big."

I agree, although it depends where you live.

Arizona is not BBing friendly, versus California which is. California BBing is alright, AZ even a little muscle is considered too much by some.

It's remarkable.

[weights or halo]

Originally Posted by TheShocker

if you aren't getting ass don't blame it on being big.

getting ass?

[FormReverend]

I think a critical issue that has been really missed is the fact that there is a lot of gray area in this debate. So many factors are not outlined in solid black lines that it is hard to come to anything but a mediocre general consensus. I mean what is the run of the mill size BBer and what is the average chick. Sometimes making the generalities more specific doesn't really help. Example: We know that most chicks would run from Ronnie Coleman. He's huge and vascular, with tons of striation and muscle definition. His skin is as tight as a drum and you could basically see what is going on under the skin just by looking at it. The combination of freaky big muscles with low BF % allows you to see the ligaments and tie ins in all their glory on someone at competition stats. This case is actually too specific because on the teen forum no one is really that huge...except maybe for Beast, and I don't even know if he is ever in the teen section anymore. Even in their offseason a big BBer can just be too large (Lee Priest? heh heh) for most people. The threshold is just too gray. I have seen some HUGE dudes with some smoking girlfriends...at least I thought they were hot but I was really too afraid to look for more than 4 seconds so I didn't get shoulder pressed and thrown through a Hollister window.

To make a short point long, this argument has more liquid to it than I do during a nasty creatine bloat. If I made a point...good for me. If not, well...