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09-01-2007, 07:11 PM
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guys i really need your help this time around...
hey guys well im known this girl for about 4 years now and ive always been kinda attracted to her. this summer it started getting serious and we both admitted weve actually like each other for quite awhile. so you might be thinking what the ehll is the problem here? well thing is she is a very devout christian while im just kinda of a go to church when i feel like it kinda christian. we really like each other but she thinks that dating me will ruin her relationship with god and we are not even spiritually. it makes me so mad but theres nothing i can do about it. i know spriritually i would nver be her level. if this was just some highschool cheerleader bitch then i wouldn't give a **** but this girl is more than that. shes smart, beautiful and she has so many future ambitions, i dont think ill ever meet another like this in highschool. so what do you guys think? should i keep going for her and try to win her over or its time to move on?
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09-01-2007, 07:13 PM
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fake being religious ftw?
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09-01-2007, 07:13 PM
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Originally Posted by BiggerIsBetter7
hey guys well im known this girl for about 4 years now and ive always been kinda attracted to her. this summer it started getting serious and we both admitted weve actually like each other for quite awhile. so you might be thinking what the ehll is the problem here? well thing is she is a very devout christian while im just kinda of a go to church when i feel like it kinda christian. we really like each other but she thinks that dating me will ruin her relationship with god and we are not even spiritually. it makes me so mad but theres nothing i can do about it. i know spriritually i would nver be her level. if this was just some highschool cheerleader bitch then i wouldn't give a **** but this girl is more than that. shes smart, beautiful and she has so many future ambitions, i dont think ill ever meet another like this in highschool. so what do you guys think? should i keep going for her and try to win her over or its time to move on?
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She's too good for you tbh and she realizes it, that was just her way of letting you down nicely
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09-01-2007, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted by sam32465
She's too good for you tbh and she realizes it, that was just her way of letting you down nicely
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wow that's harsh
even if it's true
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09-01-2007, 07:25 PM
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She's too good for you tbh and she realizes it, that was just her way of letting you down nicely
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not always the case
i went out with a JW chick once, only lasted a week, she dumped me because i didnt have the same relationship with God as she did...
there is no real way to say this without sounding arrogant/ or boasting, but lets just say everyone else said she looked like a cheeseburger... and that i could do better...
sometimes fully christian chicks are just weird
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09-01-2007, 07:26 PM
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My opinion is that she's arrogant, thinking that she can't date someone who doesn't practise the same way. But I guess more religious people like her believe that people have to be at the same level. Don't bother, she is a waste of time. There are others out there.
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09-01-2007, 07:28 PM
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CRazy christians i call them,,,,,You gota let her know that there are certain things God cant give her ( sex :P ) lol jk. You gotta show her that ur willing to do anythin to be with her (even if your not) , so go to church for about a week, and see if you can pull her away from going so often,,,,,once you guys start dating more seriously. Its alot of work, but if you REALLY care about her...
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09-01-2007, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted by sam32465
She's too good for you tbh and she realizes it, that was just her way of letting you down nicely
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damn man that was harsh. but im sorry guys i kinda skrewed up my explanation. she does like me and she likes me enough to consider dating me even with this barrier, and hell we are dating, just like she wont let me call her my girlfriend, cause she thinks that is too serious.
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09-01-2007, 07:32 PM
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Originally Posted by BiggerIsBetter7
damn man that was harsh. but im sorry guys i kinda skrewed up my explanation. she does like me and she likes me enough to consider dating me even with this barrier, and hell we are dating, just like she wont let me call her my girlfriend, cause she thinks that is too serious.
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Girls that won't let you call them their gf aren't dating material because they don't want others to see the two of you as dating for one reason or another. I think that's ****ed up and you should find a different girl, they grow on trees ya know
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09-01-2007, 07:36 PM
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Dont do it. Religions has the be one of the Biggest relationship spoilers ever. Next to Suprise ButtSechs of course... (serious)
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09-01-2007, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted by sam32465
Girls that won't let you call them their gf aren't dating material because they don't want others to see the two of you as dating for one reason or another. I think that's ****ed up and you should find a different girl, they grow on trees ya know
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right bro thanks man, and the surprise buttsechs LOL
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09-01-2007, 08:08 PM
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youre still in highschool man, dont worry about it youre gonna meet plenty of girls
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09-01-2007, 08:47 PM
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my little sister is like this with guys....it's a cult...seroiusly....they're all ****ing crazy, stay away from them
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09-01-2007, 08:57 PM
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Sounds like some kind of girl that wears dresses down to her ankles and lives in the country.
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09-01-2007, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted by BiggerIsBetter7
hey guys well im known this girl for about 4 years now and ive always been kinda attracted to her. this summer it started getting serious and we both admitted weve actually like each other for quite awhile. so you might be thinking what the ehll is the problem here? well thing is she is a very devout christian while im just kinda of a go to church when i feel like it kinda christian. we really like each other but she thinks that dating me will ruin her relationship with god and we are not even spiritually. it makes me so mad but theres nothing i can do about it. i know spriritually i would nver be her level. if this was just some highschool cheerleader bitch then i wouldn't give a **** but this girl is more than that. shes smart, beautiful and she has so many future ambitions, i dont think ill ever meet another like this in highschool. so what do you guys think? should i keep going for her and try to win her over or its time to move on?
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if she is religious there is nothing you can do. if she doesnt want to date you or even be with you then screw it.
Its time to move on. you made your move onto liking her. she didnt.
Stop wasting your time. dont mean to sound mean but you cant make her want to date you. if you think you can win her over. go for it. we dont know your current status. otherwise screw it.
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09-01-2007, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Delgadido
if she is religious there is nothing you can do. if she doesnt want to date you or even be with you then screw it.
Its time to move on. you made your move onto liking her. she didnt.
Stop wasting your time. dont mean to sound mean but you cant make her want to date you. if you think you can win her over. go for it. we dont know your current status. otherwise screw it.
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This coming from a guy cutting for a girl...just sayin...
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09-01-2007, 09:10 PM
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This coming from a guy cutting for a girl...just sayin... 
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Hey nothing hits the ego like a girl saying you're "not fit enough"
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09-01-2007, 09:12 PM
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This coming from a guy cutting for a girl...just sayin... 
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i have the girl. i asked her whether she would have me bulk or cut
and btw. she also likes me for my body.
she doesnt like too fat. and she doesnt like too skinny. weird eh? you dont get much of that. and she is really cute
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09-01-2007, 09:12 PM
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I wouldn't be able to handle a religious chick. I hate the entire concept of following a fiction book.
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09-01-2007, 09:14 PM
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I wouldn't be able to handle a religious chick. I hate the entire concept of following a fiction book.
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dont say stuff like that on this section. it belongs in the politics/religious section. i dont believe in the bible either but that is a insult to other people's belief
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09-01-2007, 09:16 PM
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i have the girl. i asked her whether she would have me bulk or cut
and btw. also likes me for my body.
she doesnt like too fat. and she doesnt like too skinny. weird eh? you dont get much of that. and she is really cute
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that doesn't bother you?
I think it would bother me, but other than that I see what you mean.
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09-01-2007, 09:24 PM
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that doesn't bother you?
I think it would bother me, but other than that I see what you mean.
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she said i looked good the way i was. but i wanted to bulk or cut.
but this girl is not shallow. its weird. she was a cheerleader and high school and everything. and she is really cute. Just things you dont expect from cheerleaders.
Plus its one of the first girls i dated where i could be around her when i first met her. so i still like her =)
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09-01-2007, 10:06 PM
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Personally ide turn and walk away...i was in a relationship with a VERY religious person, and im basically agnostic...when it boils down to it i think religion only causes trouble in the world, and everyone is better off not thinking about it....anyways back to my point, it DOSNT WORK OUT. Unless you plan on becoming one devoted son of a bitch, chances are things will go askew.
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09-01-2007, 10:22 PM
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post this in the relationship section, alot of teens here havent even had their first kiss lol(i havent either lol)
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09-01-2007, 10:23 PM
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post this in the relationship section, alot of teens here havent even had their first kiss lol(i havent either lol)
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wow, how old are you guys?
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09-01-2007, 10:26 PM
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wow, how old are you guys?
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lol he's a good reader.
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09-01-2007, 10:31 PM
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You obviously havent done that good of a job with this girl
Display some higher values around her and maybe shell forget the whole religion thing.
Show her you dont NEED to be religious to be spirtual.
That you go through life with your own outlook on the bible.
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09-01-2007, 10:52 PM
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A) Get apple.
B) Write SEX on said apple with a thick, black sharpie.
C) Offer religious girl the apple.
D) ???
E) PROFIT!
F) Stick it in her pooper.
G) Post pics.
H) ???
I) MORE PROFIT!!!
(Serious: tell her if she's not going to take the relationship seriously, you won't be a part of it. If she decides a fictional being is more important than a real life relationship, leave her ass behind, as she's obviously not worth it.)
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09-01-2007, 11:27 PM
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my little sister is like this with guys....it's a cult...seroiusly....they're all ****ing crazy, stay away from them
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Exactly what I think man. People that are extremely religious are borderline, if not, entirely insane. I adhere to true morality, not fictional hocus pocus found in an outdated text that aligns "morality" with brutality. Here's a good read if anyone is interested about religion. http://www.geocities.com/Athens/Academy/4299/
OK, back to this relationship bs. Bro, don't even waste your time on a person who is fit for a straight-jacket. You'll end up getting pissed off and leaving her anyway and ruining a friendship. Just stay friends with her and leave it at that.
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09-02-2007, 12:26 AM
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fake being religious ftw?
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