hey guys, got any beginner advice/pick up lines for 16 yr old noob?

-themask- · 08-24-2007, 10:38 PM

bit of background info here

hey guys the names mike, i just turned 16 and i'm going to start highschool in a couple weeks(gr10)

i used to be chubby, and never had the confidence to talk to girls, i would always think oh they think im ugly as ****-or "im ugly as ****"

and my sense of humour brought girls close to me, however i was always 'the friend' the one who'd they talk to about their bf, or the guys they like the guy they could talk to about anything. they loved it, but i hated it.

well anyways i got pissed off and at times thought of taking my life, when i started meeting some friends(had none at the time) playing badminton, as i got more into badminton/new friends the weight dropped off really fast-i went from this...

to this in a short period of time

my confidence still wasn't very high, because now instead of being the fat kid i was the scrawny kid, but it was alot better then being fat-so my confidence went up a little.

well the turning point for me was when i started taking working out seriously

those are my first month progress pics, and i'm on my second.

anyways i know i am still very skinny, but i have come a long ways from where i was and this gave me alot of confidence, i started talking to people more making more friends, and loving life.

me and my workout buddy one day decided hey, why don't we go to the mall and go to the food court there to try and get our confidence on approaching new girls up, we did that a couple times and it was a big success-ya we got turned down sometimes, but we've grown so much from it-i'm no longer afraid to talk to people i don't know, even if they are smoking hot

well the first time i made out was last weekend, and so my confidence is growing and growing,

i am still very new at this, and would greatly appreciate some of your guys' advice on subject openers when approaching new girls, and just a bunch of info that i can try to absorb to help me out!

thanks every1!

-mike

BBLaw30 · 08-24-2007, 11:59 PM

Just be like, "hey are you good at taking notes? Because I'm terrible and I was wondering if you could help me."

wimpking · 08-25-2007, 12:15 AM

how about

"i liek transformerz!"

King Viscera · 08-25-2007, 12:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by -themask-

bit of background info here

hey guys the names mike, i just turned 16 and i'm going to start highschool in a couple weeks(gr10)

i used to be chubby, and never had the confidence to talk to girls, i would always think oh they think im ugly as ****-or "im ugly as ****"

and my sense of humour brought girls close to me, however i was always 'the friend' the one who'd they talk to about their bf, or the guys they like the guy they could talk to about anything. they loved it, but i hated it.

well anyways i got pissed off and at times thought of taking my life, when i started meeting some friends(had none at the time) playing badminton, as i got more into badminton/new friends the weight dropped off really fast-i went from this...

to this in a short period of time

my confidence still wasn't very high, because now instead of being the fat kid i was the scrawny kid, but it was alot better then being fat-so my confidence went up a little.

well the turning point for me was when i started taking working out seriously

those are my first month progress pics, and i'm on my second.

anyways i know i am still very skinny, but i have come a long ways from where i was and this gave me alot of confidence, i started talking to people more making more friends, and loving life.

me and my workout buddy one day decided hey, why don't we go to the mall and go to the food court there to try and get our confidence on approaching new girls up, we did that a couple times and it was a big success-ya we got turned down sometimes, but we've grown so much from it-i'm no longer afraid to talk to people i don't know, even if they are smoking hot

well the first time i made out was last weekend, and so my confidence is growing and growing,

i am still very new at this, and would greatly appreciate some of your guys' advice on subject openers when approaching new girls, and just a bunch of info that i can try to absorb to help me out!

thanks every1!

-mike

Pick up girls at highschool parties, thats where its at. Food court is alright but most girls will play that wierded out role and blow you off but its worth a try.

Anyway, get jacked, become intilligent in something, get a job. Girls are attracted to this kinda stuff. If you wanna pull ass you gotta have something to offer. Very few will go for a loser with nothing to offer but there is always the odd one.

Just keep practicing and youll eventually solidify your game. Its all about trial and error.

Just remember that you have potential and life is what you make of it.

ExtremeEnigma · 08-25-2007, 12:28 AM

shoulda kept the surfer hair. chicks dig that ****

luckylynch · 08-25-2007, 12:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by -themask-

bit of background info here

hey guys the names mike, i just turned 16 and i'm going to start highschool in a couple weeks(gr10)

i used to be chubby, and never had the confidence to talk to girls, i would always think oh they think im ugly as ****-or "im ugly as ****"

and my sense of humour brought girls close to me, however i was always 'the friend' the one who'd they talk to about their bf, or the guys they like the guy they could talk to about anything. they loved it, but i hated it.

well anyways i got pissed off and at times thought of taking my life, when i started meeting some friends(had none at the time) playing badminton, as i got more into badminton/new friends the weight dropped off really fast-i went from this...

to this in a short period of time

my confidence still wasn't very high, because now instead of being the fat kid i was the scrawny kid, but it was alot better then being fat-so my confidence went up a little.

well the turning point for me was when i started taking working out seriously

those are my first month progress pics, and i'm on my second.

anyways i know i am still very skinny, but i have come a long ways from where i was and this gave me alot of confidence, i started talking to people more making more friends, and loving life.

me and my workout buddy one day decided hey, why don't we go to the mall and go to the food court there to try and get our confidence on approaching new girls up, we did that a couple times and it was a big success-ya we got turned down sometimes, but we've grown so much from it-i'm no longer afraid to talk to people i don't know, even if they are smoking hot

well the first time i made out was last weekend, and so my confidence is growing and growing,

i am still very new at this, and would greatly appreciate some of your guys' advice on subject openers when approaching new girls, and just a bunch of info that i can try to absorb to help me out!

thanks every1!

-mike

didnt read much but just hang out and be yourself and make everyone laugh...good sense of humour goes a long way--the rest you can fix easy

Callagher · 08-25-2007, 04:03 AM

shave your head and be pissed off all the time.

phateless · 08-25-2007, 04:05 AM

honestly, in high school, it doesn't even matter. just experiment. most girls will be stoked that you bothered to talk to them. the ones that like you will be easy to get. just get cracking.

wanabeebig · 08-25-2007, 04:39 AM

Just make a conversation, something interesting.

If it's not interesting they will get bored and want to leave.

Ever take a string and play with a cat,? well pull the string and the cat chases it, but if the string just sits there, what do they do,? they get bored and leave.

Same thing with girls, except not with a string

Endiku · 08-25-2007, 04:46 AM

Hey Mike,

From what I read it seems like you're a genuinely nice guy, so pulling chicks should be no problem. Here's what I think you did wrong though: you said that you are the funny guy and women talk to you about their boyfriends and such. Which translates to them seeing you as a friend or an emotional tampon. Now, there's nothing wrong with keeping good looking women as your friends, for social proof. But if you are out there to attract girls, you should be playful instead of funny. By playful I mean, for example teasing them about their looks and so on. At the same time, you have to let them know that you're not really being serious, or else they'll think that you're an *******.

I'm going to assume that you're in high school, which means that you have easy access to house parties on most weekends. Now, those are a great place for practice. Girls your age will be experimenting with alcohol, which means that their bitch shield will be lower than usual. If and when you go to one of those parties, remember to talk to all the good looking and not-so good looking women, to let everyone know that you are the life of the party. This will create interest in girls you haven't met before. Be sure to bring your friend to at least the few first parties if you don't know everyone so well, just to make it easier for yourself to build confidence.

Cliffs
-Strong second post

Morbid_Mind · 08-25-2007, 12:01 PM

"Hey, how's it goin?"

Iron Magyar · 08-25-2007, 07:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wanabeebig

Just make a conversation, something interesting.

If it's not interesting they will get bored and want to leave.

Ever take a string and play with a cat,? well pull the string and the cat chases it, but if the string just sits there, what do they do,? they get bored and leave.

Same thing with girls, except not with a string

Why don't you just give him Mystery's book..