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08-23-2007, 02:56 PM
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Falling in love is not hard but being in love is.
well as what the topic says falling inlove is not hard but being in love is... why is that?
For me Im scared to fall in love because it seem like every time I fall in love, it never seems to last. Whenever I fall in love, I always tend to fall in love with the wrong person.
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08-23-2007, 03:00 PM
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you're a woman, its built-in to choose the wrong person until your late 20s or early 30s.
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08-23-2007, 03:08 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Poison Ivy
well as what the topic says falling inlove is not hard but being in love is... why is that?
For me Im scared to fall in love because it seem like every time I fall in love, it never seems to last. Whenever I fall in love, I always tend to fall in love with the wrong person.
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Because you're a woman and you probably haven't really been in love. No offense to the women here but in most cases a woman will say she's in love and snap out of it (not always, usually in the earlier ages), when a guy says he's in love..he doesn't just snap out of it...
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08-23-2007, 03:10 PM
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just checked your bodyspace pics... and i think i love you...
no but seriously, i just got out of a relationship where i was a dick to a girl for 4 yrs and she finally broke up with me and i begged to have her back and she told me that me begging pushed her away even more... women love guys who dont care about them..
you're young and hot so i'm sure you will find someone for you eventually, you just need to weed through all the guys like me out there.
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08-23-2007, 03:20 PM
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you are a wo-man.
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08-23-2007, 04:44 PM
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at 22 i doubt you fall in love a lot. Maybe just infatuation, whatever it still hurts. What i have noticed is people put way too much stock in trying to make the other person love(like) them. Just do you, be more cautious, and stop looking at the physical(looks body etc) and focus on the inner beauty of the person. also look to see how he treats other people, especially people who can't do anything for him.
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08-23-2007, 05:42 PM
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kiss me you fool.
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08-23-2007, 06:06 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Poison Ivy
it seem like every time I fall in love, it never seems to last.
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Because your not in love thats lust and when your first with a new person you imagine them better then they actually are.
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08-23-2007, 06:43 PM
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If you're truly in love, it never goes away
I broke up with my boyfriend for 4 years, and we realized recently that it never went away and are back together and happier than ever...THAT is love
You'll find it...I was lucky enough to find it early...it'll come 
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08-23-2007, 07:44 PM
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you're asian
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08-23-2007, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted by cr4ckshot
you're asian
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wow dude that's ****ed up in so many ways, especially saying that to a hot woman. negged
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08-23-2007, 07:53 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BlueCrayola
If you're truly in love, it never goes away
I broke up with my boyfriend for 4 years, and we realized recently that it never went away and are back together and happier than ever...THAT is love
You'll find it...I was lucky enough to find it early...it'll come |
thanks/damn you for giving me hope... i just got dumped after 4 yrs.. the girl says she still loves me but needs to do this for herself to "be happy by herself" or something... can you decipher?
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08-23-2007, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Vipor
Because you're a woman and you probably haven't really been in love. No offense to the women here but in most cases a woman will say she's in love and snap out of it (not always, usually in the earlier ages), when a guy says he's in love..he doesn't just snap out of it...
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Now ain't dat da truff .... REPS
Yeah guess i've been there before , just got over ma last one 4 months it took me to get over ma ex
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08-23-2007, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted by chucksoon202
wow dude that's ****ed up in so many ways, especially saying that to a hot woman. negged
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im asian too, stfu
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08-23-2007, 08:02 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Poison Ivy
well as what the topic says falling inlove is not hard but being in love is... why is that?
For me Im scared to fall in love because it seem like every time I fall in love, it never seems to last. Whenever I fall in love, I always tend to fall in love with the wrong person.
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Well thats just because you haven't meet me yet.
Anyway you just meet the wrong guy , you don't need to be scared to fall in love , when it happens you can't control it anyway.
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08-23-2007, 08:04 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Vipor
when a guy says he's in love..he doesn't just snap out of it...
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08-23-2007, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted by chucksoon202
wow dude that's ****ed up in so many ways, especially saying that to a hot woman. negged
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How does the fact that he's saying it to a woman, or a "hot" woman, make it worse?
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08-23-2007, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted by T.I.T.A.N.
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sadly
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08-23-2007, 10:41 PM
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You cant love someone if theyre dead... just sayin
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08-23-2007, 11:35 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Poison Ivy
well as what the topic says falling inlove is not hard but being in love is... why is that?
For me Im scared to fall in love because it seem like every time I fall in love, it never seems to last. Whenever I fall in love, I always tend to fall in love with the wrong person.
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You are scared to fall in love and you shouldnt.Most guy's would kneel down your feet.Your hanging with the wrong crowd.
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08-24-2007, 12:23 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BlueCrayola
If you're truly in love, it never goes away
I broke up with my boyfriend for 4 years, and we realized recently that it never went away and are back together and happier than ever...THAT is love
You'll find it...I was lucky enough to find it early...it'll come |
And how exactly did the two of you reconcile all the things you've done since being apart? He was with other people, as were you. For me, that tends to turn me off, which is why I never go back to an ex. It's almost like it's spoiled once someone else has had her. I lose ALL interest because fo that.
Did you guys talk about that?
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08-24-2007, 12:46 AM
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Its easy to fall in love when there is sparks at the beginning of a relationship and all you want to do is be together 24/7
What's hard is maintaining that feeling when you wake up in the morning to bad breath/unshaven legs/messy hair/no makeup etc etc
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08-24-2007, 01:29 AM
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Originally Posted by lulublue
Its easy to fall in love when there is sparks at the beginning of a relationship and all you want to do is be together 24/7
What's hard is maintaining that feeling when you wake up in the morning to bad breath/unshaven legs/messy hair/no makeup etc etc
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im clean and cut all the time.
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08-24-2007, 05:54 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Npeart
And how exactly did the two of you reconcile all the things you've done since being apart? He was with other people, as were you. For me, that tends to turn me off, which is why I never go back to an ex. It's almost like it's spoiled once someone else has had her. I lose ALL interest because fo that.
Did you guys talk about that?
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Well, we never lost touch over those years, so we're both very aware of everything that has happened with the other...plus we've talked about it now. We broke up because we were young and needed to experience life...and we most certainly did. Now, we're ready to settle back down and start our lives together. Again, if you're really in love, the past doesn't matter. We didn't have a bad relationship or a bad break up the first time around...we just needed to gain some maturity and life experience. We actually laugh about a lot of the crap we went through individually in those 4 years, but at the same time, we both know if we had tried to make it work together, it most likely wouldn't have.
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08-24-2007, 05:56 AM
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Originally Posted by sensfan83
thanks/damn you for giving me hope... i just got dumped after 4 yrs.. the girl says she still loves me but needs to do this for herself to "be happy by herself" or something... can you decipher?
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It could mean any number of things. She may just realize (like we did) that things were very serious and there's a good chance you'll be together for the rest of your lives and she's not ready for that type of commitment (ie. she doesn't want to have a midlife crisis later on that you're the only guy she's every really been with, etc. etc. etc.). On the other hand, she might just be feeding you lines to try and justify the fact that she wanted to break up. Over 4 years, me and my boy went through all the stages (trying to woo each other back, not speaking, talking like friends, going to each other for relationship advice, etc.), but in the end, we just knew we were suppose to be together. Flat out, if you're meant to be together, you will be. Just live your life and if it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen no matter what.
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08-24-2007, 06:16 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BlueCrayola
If you're truly in love, it never goes away
I broke up with my boyfriend for 4 years, and we realized recently that it never went away and are back together and happier than ever...THAT is love
You'll find it...I was lucky enough to find it early...it'll come |
Haha. Enjoy it while it lasts.
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08-24-2007, 06:50 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Vipor
Because you're a woman and you probably haven't really been in love. No offense to the women here but in most cases a woman will say she's in love and snap out of it (not always, usually in the earlier ages), when a guy says he's in love..he doesn't just snap out of it...
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Amazing post.
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08-24-2007, 07:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Npeart
And how exactly did the two of you reconcile all the things you've done since being apart? He was with other people, as were you. For me, that tends to turn me off, which is why I never go back to an ex. It's almost like it's spoiled once someone else has had her. I lose ALL interest because fo that.
Did you guys talk about that?
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i totally agree with u
the reason why i am still not talking to my ex
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08-24-2007, 09:39 AM
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Originally Posted by BlueCrayola
It could mean any number of things. She may just realize (like we did) that things were very serious and there's a good chance you'll be together for the rest of your lives and she's not ready for that type of commitment (ie. she doesn't want to have a midlife crisis later on that you're the only guy she's every really been with, etc. etc. etc.). On the other hand, she might just be feeding you lines to try and justify the fact that she wanted to break up. Over 4 years, me and my boy went through all the stages (trying to woo each other back, not speaking, talking like friends, going to each other for relationship advice, etc.), but in the end, we just knew we were suppose to be together. Flat out, if you're meant to be together, you will be. Just live your life and if it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen no matter what.
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yeah it sounds more like your first translation...she has actually said "i want to go through this now rather than when i'm 35" which to me tells me she is afraid that she will regret me being her only guy years from now... problem is: i don't think i could ever get back with her after she sleeps with another guy, it just makes me sick to think about it. Oh well, i guess i had a severe case of oneitis i have to get over...
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08-24-2007, 10:31 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Vipor
Because you're a woman and you probably haven't really been in love. No offense to the women here but in most cases a woman will say she's in love and snap out of it (not always, usually in the earlier ages), when a guy says he's in love..he doesn't just snap out of it...
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Actually I;m going to disagree. I can love someone and be with them, but if somethign happens I can turn the switch off quite quicky and move on.
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