Girl in my class...want to approach her.

Massiker · 08-22-2007, 12:50 PM

Hey, theres this girl in my class, in my opinion the perfect type of looks I go for. She seems like she is a very nice and smart girl to. The problem is we only had 2 classes so far, and the class is packed, every desk is taken. She sits on the totally other side of the class room, I saw her walking alone a couple hours after class ( i guess to another class ). But I am kind of scared she is out of my league. Her looks are amazing, kind of like that girl Lauren from "the hills or laguna beach" but her face is alot better than that. I havent heard her talk or even talked to her.

Im trying to figure out what I can do, right after class I have another class, so I go straight there. I really dont know what to do, and never really approached a girl before. I dont know, but I think its to late for me to switch seats and try to sit by her.

MaddenMuscle · 08-22-2007, 12:53 PM

Read "the game"

ras2514 · 08-22-2007, 12:55 PM

Just hide in the bushes outside of your class and stalk her.....

Seriously you are 19 and cant approach a woman...for god sakes just go up to her and talk to her, ask her how she likes the class so far....

EdgarAllanPoe · 08-22-2007, 12:55 PM

ask her what class she's going to next, ask her if she likes it....whatever, just some generic ****. Once the two of you get acquainted the convo's will be easier. The topic doesn't really matter, just make the effort and get her talking.

cellshot · 08-22-2007, 12:56 PM

when'd you start classes? if the class is as big as you say and you haven't been in class for more than a week, than she most likely won't notice that you've moved closer to her. as for approaching her, don't think about how you think she's out of your league bro, be confident.

Minor_Threat · 08-22-2007, 12:58 PM

Kill her then keep her body in the basement. Then you can sex her up forever....or until her body rots away.

Brutotal · 08-22-2007, 01:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EdgarAllanPoe

ask her what class she's going to next, ask her if she likes it....whatever, just some generic ****. Once the two of you get acquainted the convo's will be easier. The topic doesn't really matter, just make the effort and get her talking.

x2

GO talk to her about w/e and just focus on making friends at first if your not sure how to go about getting her. Don't buy a book but go read some free PUA stuff. Don't take it as a bible but alot of the lessons (confidence, neg hits w/e) are good to know and the more you know the more confident you are.

Immichaelski · 08-22-2007, 01:43 PM

You ahve to go for it or you will be asking yourself forever what if?

BlkDrgn06 · 08-22-2007, 02:36 PM

All you need are two things:

(1) bottle of chloroform
(2) small towel or handkerchief

problem solved.

Massiker · 08-22-2007, 08:13 PM

The problem is, I always see girls I like on the phone talking to someone or texting someone all the time. I dont go around texting/calling my guy friends all the time, so im guessing they are talking to their boyfriend....unless girls do that texting/calling eachother between classes thing?

EZ-Bar · 08-22-2007, 08:16 PM

saying something even if its hi...is better then saying nothing.

DaCougarMech · 08-22-2007, 08:19 PM

dont talk to her

she's just gonna look you up on your school's popularity list, see that you're a zero, then laugh while all her jock friends dangle you by your underwear from the school flagpole

come onnnnnn

Massiker · 08-22-2007, 08:20 PM

Ok, well I found I have quite a few decent and good looking girls in my classes. Mostly between 2-3 in each class, but this is good for me, during the summer I felt like I had no girls I had interest in or anything. So now I have a bigger pool to choose from, and am so happy, just need to try and step my game up.

It may seem strange to some of you guys, but yes its very very hard for me to approach or even talk to girls. I use to have trouble talking to people in general, use to be afraid to speak and very very scared of social situations. I still am but am getting better now....so it may seem strange, which it is, but this is me and I try to change.

Filthy Animal · 08-22-2007, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaddenMuscle

Read "the game"

or the mystery method

Massiker · 08-22-2007, 08:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Filthy Animal

or the mystery method

I watched a couple of his videos, but I feel like that cant be me, Im not smooth enough for that, and would end up messing up or getting scared, or just forgetting what to say.

GriT- · 08-22-2007, 08:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaddenMuscle

Read "the game"

yes..don't approach her..just read a book

???

gtaguy · 08-22-2007, 08:41 PM

If you don't pursue it, you'll regret it. This past year I had tons of missed chances, and now in my Junior year I'm sorrounded by a bunch of guys in all my business classes. My ONE class with hot girls is a .... ONLINE COURSE....

I really wish I had pursued more women these past years in class, since the pickings won't always be so good.

BBLaw30 · 08-22-2007, 08:47 PM

Just have a quick opening conversation with her with the only goal of introducing yourself.

If you see her outside of class be like, hey i think you're in my so and so class, whats your name? Then ask her opinion on the class and tell her yours and you'll see if shes responsive at all. Either way keep it quick and then tell her you have to go but you'll see her in class.

Then you can talk to her everytime you see her and if you think she might be interested in you ask her out. As long as your not a freak or a creeper she'll be nice to you either way.

Tony_S · 08-22-2007, 09:15 PM

dude, i was in the same situation last semester.

it's simple:

try to walk out of the door around the same time she does so you are walking kind of next to her. then once you get outside think of an excuse to start talking to her, like: "have you started studying for the next exam yet"? or "what grade did you get on your paper"? then go from there. BS with her for a bit, then say bye, see u (insert day here) and walk in your diff directions.

after you do this, it opens the doors for you to walk with her after class and you can conversate and get to know her a bit. then if everythings looking good you can ask her to hang out.

thats what i did except the girl from my class made the excuse to talk to me. turns out she had a boyfriend though and she was some christian fanatic. at least i got to add her on myspace!

Fidelis · 08-22-2007, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Massiker

I watched a couple of his videos, but I feel like that cant be me, Im not smooth enough for that, and would end up messing up or getting scared, or just forgetting what to say.

Read it first, it makes a lot of sense and you'll be more comfortable doing it once you read how it works step-by-step.

Massiker · 08-23-2007, 06:44 AM

Ok thnx, also this different girl in one of my other classes. I am interested in her also, she looked at me a couple times, and we kept making eye contact. Its hard for me to tell when a girl is attracted to me or likes me or whatever.

I was so bad at one time, a girl came up to me, asked me my name, and than told me I was cute, and I just smiled and walked away. Than after 10 minutes I though, damn I think she liked me and wanted to talk....im really bad at this.

microsize · 08-23-2007, 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Massiker

I was so bad at one time, a girl came up to me, asked me my name, and than told me I was cute, and I just smiled and walked away. Than after 10 minutes I though, damn I think she liked me and wanted to talk....im really bad at this.

That's not being bad, that's being retarded.

As already suggested, read some PUA-material first. Knowledge is power.

cellshot · 08-23-2007, 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by BigKeer

at least i got to add her on myspace!

that's all that matters anyways.

link to myspace?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Massiker

I was so bad at one time, a girl came up to me, asked me my name, and than told me I was cute, and I just smiled and walked away. Than after 10 minutes I though, damn I think she liked me and wanted to talk....im really bad at this.

had that happen before as well....felt like an idiot. lol

The Lone Wolf · 08-23-2007, 08:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Massiker

Hey, theres this girl in my class, in my opinion the perfect type of looks I go for. She seems like she is a very nice and smart girl to. The problem is we only had 2 classes so far, and the class is packed, every desk is taken. She sits on the totally other side of the class room, I saw her walking alone a couple hours after class ( i guess to another class ). But I am kind of scared she is out of my league. Her looks are amazing, kind of like that girl Lauren from "the hills or laguna beach" but her face is alot better than that. I havent heard her talk or even talked to her.

Im trying to figure out what I can do, right after class I have another class, so I go straight there. I really dont know what to do, and never really approached a girl before. I dont know, but I think its to late for me to switch seats and try to sit by her.

I've heard walking helps ..