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08-08-2007, 07:00 PM
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I think she likes me, but I don't like her... how to stop leading her on...
ever since I got into the game, I've been leading girls on without even knowing it, and now there's a girl who won't stop stalking me. I've gotten enough IOI's from her to know she wants me bad, but I now I feel bad because I've been playing her, and now I want to let her know I don't want her without directly verbalizing it...
how should I get the message across without making her miserable - the reason is because I wanna date her hot BEST friend (who might have a bf... but wtv) lol
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08-08-2007, 07:02 PM
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Verbalizing it is the best way. And probly the toughest. If you're looking for an easy way out of this, it's either unethical or low and cold. Only saying this because it happened to me 4 months ago. We're friends now though so its cool.
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08-08-2007, 07:05 PM
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Just be like- hey, I just wanna make sure were on the same page I am NOT looking for anything serious right now, since im single blah blah im just looking to have a good time.
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08-08-2007, 07:08 PM
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She is probably leading someone else on while you lead her on, except she probably isn't feeling guilty about it.
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08-08-2007, 07:21 PM
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Three simple words: I am gay.
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08-08-2007, 07:56 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Wendel_Clark_17
Three simple words: I am gay.
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haha yeah... i can imagine...
"i am gay... btw... I hope you don't mind me dating your hot friend".
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08-08-2007, 08:34 PM
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You sound like a good guy, your best bet is to maybe ask about that friend of hers and find out if she's seeing anyone or not. Or express your interest in different girls (not her). That way it isn't awkward, but it's pretty direct also.
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08-08-2007, 11:40 PM
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It's liftin' time!
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I'm an *******, so what I'd do is sleep with her and keep her around to increase your social proof. Her HOT friend will become jealous because her friend is with you. She'll start seeing you in a whole new light.
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08-08-2007, 11:58 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaptn Krunch
I'm an *******, so what I'd do is sleep with her and keep her around to increase your social proof. Her HOT friend will become jealous because her friend is with you. She'll start seeing you in a whole new light.
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Word up. I'm also a good guy though, so I'd probably let her know I want to stay single and just have some fun, then bang her, then date her hot friend, but try to make a smooth transition.
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08-09-2007, 12:00 AM
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The Verticle Smile
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hahah I been doing the same thing for practice its good and bad when it works.
but uhh yeh just tell her you dont have those feelings for her.
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08-09-2007, 12:09 AM
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i don't understand all of that nerdology you just used
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