Girl problem!

[NorwegianBadass]

I posted this in the sex section, but I want more ppl to read it and help me out couse I ****ed up so bad

Ok.. this will be a long post, I'll make cliff notes at the end, but it would be cool if you read the whole thing!

(Sorry about the spelling, english is not my first language)

ok. here I go:
This weekend was awesome.. I was at a trip with my fraternity and the girls sorority (sp?)... We staid apartments with 8 ppl in each apartment. Its at one of Norways best skiing mountains!

Ok... Friday night I meet this very cute girl, and she was very hot to (8-9 in my scale). But this girl was more than just some girl... We had this insane connection and out mindes were like one, we thought just the same about most things and **** like that. So to skip some details she sleept in my bed (with cloths) and we just cuddeld and had some small kisses on the chin and some on the mouth.. We didn't make out or anything. She said she was keen on this guy at my school and had bin that for like 5-6 months, but he had a girlfriend. So she told me she wouldent make out before she was over him. (shes a virgin btw). When she first told me this I just said that I wasen't very interested to waist my time on chicks that are keen on other guys couse I had done that before and that was a waist of my time. But she understood me and we just continued to talk and I just feel for this girl like BAM!

So we talked alot and she told me alot of privat thigs that she didn't even told to her best best friend..
So this is were I start to **** up.. We were like drunk 24/7 at that place.. Friday night went good, but I got so damn soft for this girl.. We talked for a long time like privat conversations, and we had never even meet before, so its clear that we had a connection. She told me it was amazing how she could talk to me and how kinde I was and that I had to stop complementing her couse she feelt bad.. (btw she told me that she thought I was hot :rolleyes... I messed up so bad couse I just told her how much I liked her and bla bla bla. And she totaly loved it how I said **** like that!

And as the saturday night goes on we were at some of the other guys room and she was in the couch and sat next to this dude. And I thought.. "**** shes so drunk I hope she dosen't do anything" but I woulden't want to seem jealus so I just walked to another room.. And after 10 minutes one of my friends came to me and said that she had kissed with that guys (or he had kissed her). I was so mad.. So I went for a walk to chill... I ****ing adored this chick... So on my trip I hit trashcans and **** to get it out of my system. (my knucles are ****ed up )... She tried to call me like 4 times, but I didn't pick up couse I was to mad.

Then i got back and she came to see me. and I we talked and I said I was very disapointed and etc etc etc.. and she said she was sorry and that she was to drunk bla bla bla. And then as the night went on we had another argue, and I called her a slut (just fell out of me) but we squared up after that and I told her I was sorry.. So she said she would come and sleep in my bed with me that night.. But she was not sure if she could come couse she was going to a nachspiel first.. So she never came over...

So this morning I had a brif talk to her and I just said I was sorry that I called her that and that I shouldent gotten that mad, and she said she was sorry for what she did!

But I have the feeling that something is wrong and she seemed kinde of distansed from me. She said she was very tired couse she haden't sleept all night and etc!

I did so ****ING many mistaked!!! I just went sooo soft on this girl.. Even though I KNEW that it was wrong...

And I want it so bad to make things work with this girl... She said she was more intrested to be friends couse she likes this other guy.. But I want make her interested...But I have made som many mistakes so I'm not sure if it will work! GOD DAMN I'm pissed at myself!

So I need your help to finde out how I can make a connection with her again!


CLIFF NOTES_:
I meet girl at frat trip
Instant connection
she sleeps over in my bed
just cuddel and a cuppel of small kisses
I go soft and we have long privat talks
next day she kisses other guy
I go mad
we argue
we talk
we kinde of square things up

I want to get girl even though I made a lot of mistakes and she was looking at it as a friend thing or something. But there was a connection!

What should I do!

Pleas do not say that I should just let it go couse this girl was so special!

Thanks

[krayZee]

Wheres a colin pick when you need one....

PIITB?

[NorwegianBadass]

Originally Posted by krayZee

Wheres a colin pick when you need one....

PIITB?

Thats why I made cliff notes dude

[krayZee]

Oh, I see them. Well, you had her in the sack and didn't **** her? wtf dude. Well obviously shes a slut if you almost ****ed her on the first date. Don't get mad, just use her as a playmate on the side.

[NorwegianBadass]

Originally Posted by krayZee

Oh, I see them. Well, you had her in the sack and didn't **** her? wtf dude. Well obviously shes a slut if you almost ****ed her on the first date. Don't get mad, just use her as a playmate on the side.

We didn't almost **** dude... We just cuddeled.. And she told me she is a virgin and she haven't made out with like more than 6 guys!

[sikboy]

Originally Posted by NorwegianBadass

I posted this in the sex section, but I want more ppl to read it and help me out couse I ****ed up so bad

Ok.. this will be a long post, I'll make cliff notes at the end, but it would be cool if you read the whole thing!

(Sorry about the spelling, english is not my first language)

ok. here I go:
This weekend was awesome.. I was at a trip with my fraternity and the girls sorority (sp?)... We staid apartments with 8 ppl in each apartment. Its at one of Norways best skiing mountains!

Ok... Friday night I meet this very cute girl, and she was very hot to (8-9 in my scale). But this girl was more than just some girl... We had this insane connection and out mindes were like one, we thought just the same about most things and **** like that. So to skip some details she sleept in my bed (with cloths) and we just cuddeld and had some small kisses on the chin and some on the mouth.. We didn't make out or anything. She said she was keen on this guy at my school and had bin that for like 5-6 months, but he had a girlfriend. So she told me she wouldent make out before she was over him. (shes a virgin btw). When she first told me this I just said that I wasen't very interested to waist my time on chicks that are keen on other guys couse I had done that before and that was a waist of my time. But she understood me and we just continued to talk and I just feel for this girl like BAM!

So we talked alot and she told me alot of privat thigs that she didn't even told to her best best friend..
So this is were I start to **** up.. We were like drunk 24/7 at that place.. Friday night went good, but I got so damn soft for this girl.. We talked for a long time like privat conversations, and we had never even meet before, so its clear that we had a connection. She told me it was amazing how she could talk to me and how kinde I was and that I had to stop complementing her couse she feelt bad.. (btw she told me that she thought I was hot :rolleyes... I messed up so bad couse I just told her how much I liked her and bla bla bla. And she totaly loved it how I said **** like that!

And as the saturday night goes on we were at some of the other guys room and she was in the couch and sat next to this dude. And I thought.. "**** shes so drunk I hope she dosen't do anything" but I woulden't want to seem jealus so I just walked to another room.. And after 10 minutes one of my friends came to me and said that she had kissed with that guys (or he had kissed her). I was so mad.. So I went for a walk to chill... I ****ing adored this chick... So on my trip I hit trashcans and **** to get it out of my system. (my knucles are ****ed up )... She tried to call me like 4 times, but I didn't pick up couse I was to mad.

Then i got back and she came to see me. and I we talked and I said I was very disapointed and etc etc etc.. and she said she was sorry and that she was to drunk bla bla bla. And then as the night went on we had another argue, and I called her a slut (just fell out of me) but we squared up after that and I told her I was sorry.. So she said she would come and sleep in my bed with me that night.. But she was not sure if she could come couse she was going to a nachspiel first.. So she never came over...

So this morning I had a brif talk to her and I just said I was sorry that I called her that and that I shouldent gotten that mad, and she said she was sorry for what she did!

But I have the feeling that something is wrong and she seemed kinde of distansed from me. She said she was very tired couse she haden't sleept all night and etc!

I did so ****ING many mistaked!!! I just went sooo soft on this girl.. Even though I KNEW that it was wrong...

And I want it so bad to make things work with this girl... She said she was more intrested to be friends couse she likes this other guy.. But I want make her interested...But I have made som many mistakes so I'm not sure if it will work! GOD DAMN I'm pissed at myself!

So I need your help to finde out how I can make a connection with her again!


CLIFF NOTES_:
I meet girl at frat trip
Instant connection
she sleeps over in my bed
just cuddel and a cuppel of small kisses
I go soft and we have long privat talks
next day she kisses other guy
I go mad
we argue
we talk
we kinde of square things up

I want to get girl even though I made a lot of mistakes and she was looking at it as a friend thing or something. But there was a connection!

What should I do!

Pleas do not say that I should just let it go couse this girl was so special!

Thanks

I got 99 probs but a bitch aint 1!
Ice T.

[Com-Shuk]

dude

if i was dead drunk and i had just met the chick of my dreams i could be kissing an other girl

drunk = testorone takes the lead and does what you want

in her head she prob wants you a lot but still want other hot guys.

[The Bassist]

Stop being a wimp, she obviously wants to play games dont dont even try to bother with her. I would say try to use her as a **** buddy, but shes a prude virgin according to what you said...so dont even waste your time.

Just tell her, HOMIE DONT PLAY DAT!

[NorwegianBadass]

Originally Posted by Com-Shuk

dude

if i was dead drunk and i had just met the chick of my dreams i could be kissing an other girl

drunk = testorone takes the lead and does what you want

in her head she prob wants you a lot but still want other hot guys.

Thanks man... Even if that is not true it at least gives me the chance to belive that I can correct my mistake... The other problem I have is that she said she was more interested to be friends (I guess most due to the other guy she likes) But she said that I was so perfect that she didn't even deserve her.. (that was before we agrued, wich shows that no one of us is perfect)

[NorwegianBadass]

Originally Posted by The Bassist

Stop being a wimp, she obviously wants to play games dont dont even try to bother with her. I would say try to use her as a **** buddy, but shes a prude virgin according to what you said...so dont even waste your time.

Just tell her, HOMIE DONT PLAY DAT!

But I'm not interested in a ****-buddy... I'm threw with the blow jobs at partys sluts... I want a serious relationship now that can last a while!
But I agree that I should stop beeing a whimp.. I usualy just play around at partys, but this girl made me just forget all that!

[stone fox]

hahaha you re being played my friend. and the worst part is YOU KNOW YOU ARE and you re just hoping that you might be wrong.

go home.have a wank and shower.thats how i always get over unrequited love.

[Apocolypse]

pay no attention to her, move on

[NorwegianBadass]

Originally Posted by Apocolypse

pay no attention to her, move on

I wish it was that easy!

[nitr0x2]

Originally Posted by sikboy

I got 99 probs but a bitch aint 1!
Ice T.

banhammer

[Com-Shuk]

Originally Posted by NorwegianBadass

Thanks man... Even if that is not true it at least gives me the chance to belive that I can correct my mistake... The other problem I have is that she said she was more interested to be friends (I guess most due to the other guy she likes) But she said that I was so perfect that she didn't even deserve her.. (that was before we agrued, wich shows that no one of us is perfect)

Well now that means you have to play it rude

Prude virgins talking this way are in need of authority (trust me, i love playing with virgins)

Just act macho, tell her to stop being such a dork and tell her that you want to know exactly what she wants..
"DO YOU WANT ME or want your dreamy guy more"

draw the line, end the games

[sikboy]

Originally Posted by nitr0x2

banhammer

I know Ice T did that tune in 93.

[(o)./^\.(o)]

Turn gay

[placebo]

"I go soft and we have long privat talks."

You made yourself look like a pussy by doing this, thus ending any sexual attraction she had for you.

[stone fox]

Originally Posted by placebo

"I go soft and we have long privat talks."

You made yourself look like a pussy by doing this, thus ending any sexual attraction she had for you.

repped. good call.girls like to cuddle teddy bears not **** them (at least i hope not)

[(o)./^\.(o)]

Originally Posted by placebo

"I go soft and we have long privat talks."

You made yourself look like a pussy by doing this, thus ending any sexual attraction she had for you.

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[USMuscle9403]

Originally Posted by (o)./^\.(o)

LOLZ!111!! FO RIZZEAL BRO!1! MY GIRLZ DONT BE WANTIN NO LITTLE BABY TO ****!!11 BE COKKY AND FUNY!!111 L337 PUA BITCHES!1

LMAO!

[Babak]

gftow