Girls txts me EARLY morning asks me out. BUT read how she does it.

Super10 · 07-21-2007, 12:21 PM

Same girl that i like in my previous threads! Update!
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So, I didn't call her at all on friday. Hell, i never call her anymore she calls me now. Yesterday late night around 2AM, i was talking to a girl that i might be interested in dating. I had already told her stories about this girl in the past, She then formed her conclusion about the whole thing, which was that she really likes me. Ok I told her "No i don't like her she's just my training parnter." She then proceeded to say "yeah right!" i followed by "seriously if she really liked me, she would have called me today (friday)" She responded "Oh wow she's probably thinking why this guy hasn't called me yet!" i laughed and said ok whatever!

Well, i think she was right! because the girl that i like TXTed me at 11AM which is totally RARE. She asked me if i like this rap artist. I then gave her my opinion about it and went back on to business. She texts me back saying "Well there is this Concert tomoro nite and i'm on the list +1 i asked my roommate if she wanted to go already. but if she don't want to and u wuna....let me know."

That right there is basically a way to ask me out but at the same time to save face if i said no. I wrote her back saying "if your roommate doesn't go let me know..I'll go" B.T.W it's also a way to gain power if she lost any.

What do you guys think about this? I'm seriously think it's better to start a big thread about this lol.

SkeWeDSELFimAge · 07-21-2007, 12:34 PM

I agree with you... and disagree with you; because, it could be a way of asking you out because she's too shy or unsure of herself.

-Skewed

phateless · 07-21-2007, 12:35 PM

I say it's bull**** that she asks you out as a backup... not sure what the best way to respond is. At least you have her attention now tho.

Recksaw · 07-21-2007, 12:37 PM

Yea, she doesnt want to make it sound like a big deal.

"Well, if you want to...let me know..its no big deal"

Mase64 · 07-21-2007, 12:37 PM

ehhh get the new girl..

she sounds coooler

phateless · 07-21-2007, 12:42 PM

you could always flake on her when she calls to tell you she has the ticket for you. that would be sweet

Super10 · 07-21-2007, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by phateless

you could always flake on her when she calls to tell you she has the ticket for you. that would be sweet

What your saying is.... it was wrong of her to ask me out as backup?

Also The tickets are free, i know how she got them.

But i think that it would be TOO mean if i flaked on her lol but we'll see how i feel lol.

enigma662 · 07-21-2007, 01:39 PM

You're TWENTY-FOUR?!?!?

k-wind · 07-21-2007, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by enigma662

You're TWENTY-FOUR?!?!?

i loled really hard at that

to the OP-why not just go? worst case senario is you see a concert with a girl you dont like that much, theres worse things

5x10 · 07-21-2007, 01:49 PM

dont go
tell her u have other plans with a "friend"
keep stringing her out

FunkDaddy · 07-21-2007, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by enigma662

You're TWENTY-FOUR?!?!?

lmfao x12305103513513 So true.

OP, at this age, you shouldn't be worried about all this crap. If you want to go to the concert, say so.

ccm · 07-21-2007, 02:52 PM

dont go, make her throw herself at you. get some consistant ass for awhile.

al m · 07-21-2007, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by enigma662

You're TWENTY-FOUR?!?!?

at this age you shouldn't be listening to rap. Save face and dont go, you dont want to be caught there by the new girl...

jk...you know it

stephano5 · 07-21-2007, 07:02 PM

if shes dicked you before, just say nah i cant sorry. dont ever put yourself on standby, ever.

NYY · 07-21-2007, 07:07 PM

Sounds like you're plan b.

LSMalibu · 07-21-2007, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by enigma662

You're TWENTY-FOUR?!?!?

That's what I said. Hard to believe, isn't it.

OP, why are you telling this new girl about the other girl you're having drama with? She doesn't give a crap about her. If she does, it means you're in the friends zone now. Way to ruin your chances with her.

And who gives a flying f*** about "gaining power" and "saving face" and whatever. Grow the hell up and quit playing these high school games. If girl number 1 wanted you, she would have asked you to go to the concert with her, not her roommate, and she certainly wouldn't have texted you at 11 at night to ask you.

Grow up dammit. But at least you're dealing with girls on the same level of maturity as you.

Super10 · 07-21-2007, 08:55 PM

Trust me I can act my age. i don't act like this. only on the forum. lol

But she texted me at 7:30 saying she wanted to know what i was doing tonite and she ended with "i got nuthin to do!"

I just wrote her "i'm going out tonite"

and that's it.

Oh_hai_miscLOL · 07-22-2007, 06:28 AM

wow the girl who wants to go the concert likes you mang

dont think of it as a backup becuz im sure she has other friends she could take but she asked u in safe question to save face if u said no

nognig · 07-22-2007, 06:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Super10

Trust me I can act my age. i don't act like this. only on the forum. lol

But she texted me at 7:30 saying she wanted to know what i was doing tonite and she ended with "i got nuthin to do!"

I just wrote her "i'm going out tonite"

and that's it.

Now THAT is awesome.

NN

Super10 · 07-22-2007, 12:44 PM

Yeah, lol i didn't get a response the whole night for that one.

I txted her friend what's up, 1-2 txt later she asks me "so how are you and this girl doing?" I said "good but i'm sure you knew that lol"

There best friends and she said "no i've been busy so i haven't talked to her" B.S

Jenslyn17 · 07-22-2007, 01:33 PM

Seriously this is so pathetic. Should I/should I not go, how to respond, why to respond this way, how to come about it without sounding needy...

If you feel like going just say you'll tag along and cut the crap

stephano5 · 07-22-2007, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Jenslyn17

Seriously this is so pathetic. Should I/should I not go, how to respond, why to respond this way, how to come about it without sounding needy...

If you feel like going just say you'll tag along and cut the crap

we all started out like this dude, you have too fine balance right way to respond, sometimes it'll be too extreme other times not enough. eventually you grow a intuition and can think for yourself! ok the bloke might be 24 but who cares?

straightballin · 07-22-2007, 06:01 PM

rofl, you're too old to be playing games, just tell her yes or no. GTFO

Below 30 · 07-22-2007, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by phateless

I say it's bull**** that she asks you out as a backup... not sure what the best way to respond is. At least you have her attention now tho.

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Originally Posted by 5x10

dont go
tell her u have other plans with a "friend"
keep stringing her out

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Originally Posted by ccm

dont go, make her throw herself at you. get some consistant ass for awhile.

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Originally Posted by andy182

if shes dicked you before, just say nah i cant sorry. dont ever put yourself on standby, ever.

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Originally Posted by Roca

Sounds like you're plan b.

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Originally Posted by LSMalibu

That's what I said. Hard to believe, isn't it.

OP, why are you telling this new girl about the other girl you're having drama with? She doesn't give a crap about her. If she does, it means you're in the friends zone now. Way to ruin your chances with her.

And who gives a flying f*** about "gaining power" and "saving face" and whatever. Grow the hell up and quit playing these high school games. If girl number 1 wanted you, she would have asked you to go to the concert with her, not her roommate, and she certainly wouldn't have texted you at 11 at night to ask you.

Grow up dammit. But at least you're dealing with girls on the same level of maturity as you.

I sea a theme here -30-