Did I go to far?

[Mad Dog162]

Back-story:

1. Met a girl at a party.
2. Very fit.
3. Got her number. (She also hugged me at the time - important later.)
4. Texted her a bit, she told me she had a boyfriend.
5. Got her MSN.
6. Had the following conversation, what do you think?

Mad-Dog: why do x-men rule?
X-Men Rule!: lol
Mad-Dog: ^o)
X-Men Rule!: i went to a dress up party and me and some friends had to go as the x men
Mad-Dog: I'll be there... one of them is fit in the movies
Mad-Dog: *fair
Mad-Dog: which one did you go as?
Mad-Dog: You'd probably be a good wolverine...
Mad-Dog: :P
X-Men Rule!: lol
X-Men Rule!: i went as storm
Mad-Dog: you say that like it means something! ^o)
X-Men Rule!: what?? lol
Mad-Dog: well I have no idea what that means!
X-Men Rule!: oh rite lol
X-Men Rule!: u loser, x men are the coolest lol
Mad-Dog: I walked out of the movie about half-way throuhg
X-Men Rule!: i didnt see it
Mad-Dog: yes... I'm the loser
Mad-Dog: for not liking x-mewn
Mad-Dog: some good logic there
Mad-Dog: 8-)
X-Men Rule!: its called sarcasim luv
Mad-Dog: it's spelt sarcasm hunni
Mad-Dog: :P
X-Men Rule!: shut up lol
Mad-Dog: Sam: 1 Juliette: )
Mad-Dog: *0
X-Men Rule!: errrrr what the actual, that isnt how u spell my name u idiot lol
Mad-Dog: lol
Mad-Dog: how do you spell your name?
X-Men Rule!: juliet
Mad-Dog: i'm very sorry I mispelt your name.... is this better? Sam: 1 Juliet: 0
Mad-Dog: :P
X-Men Rule!: lol yes
X-Men Rule!: why the number thing??
Mad-Dog: well thats the scoreboard
Mad-Dog: I'm 1-0 up
X-Men Rule!: for what?! lol
Mad-Dog: well
Mad-Dog: I dont know...
Mad-Dog: possibly you trying to insult me ands misspelling sarcasm
X-Men Rule!: lol
Mad-Dog: or maybe just because I'm so much cooler than you
Mad-Dog: in fact
Mad-Dog: Sam: 2 Juliet: 0
Mad-Dog:
X-Men Rule!: nah im the coolest. plus i gave u 2 lovely hugs so i get 2 points
Mad-Dog: hmm...
Mad-Dog: lovely?
X-Men Rule!: lol!
Mad-Dog: if you say so...
X-Men Rule!: u were asking for it lol
X-Men Rule!: flirt
Mad-Dog: right... I ask for your number
Mad-Dog: and you hug me
Mad-Dog: 8-)
X-Men Rule!: LOL
Mad-Dog: I was *definetly* flirting
Mad-Dog: 8-)
X-Men Rule!: you are actually a twat lol
X-Men Rule!: jks
X-Men Rule!: see ya
Mad-Dog: bi

[onebuffchink]

I think you are a moron to think you got anywhere with that chat session. She has a boyfriend, leave it at that. Even girls with boyfriends do hug as a friendly gesture. Plus, your little IM chat session going on does not give any indication her facial reactions and body gestures.

[XtotheZ]

You were trying to act too e-cocky. Trust me it only works if your good at it, you are not, stick to average joe on msn ****.

"hey how are you"

"fine thanks"

"yeah so x-men, you like them is it? ;D"

"yeah they cool lol, we dressed up as them at party"

"nice nice, you'd be a great storm, then again you'd be a great anything "

"aww thx lol, yeah i went as storm, so what you up2?"

"nothing much, just relaxing at the moment, big day tommorow"

"oh yeah, enjoy party we were at?"

"yeah it was cool, glad i got your number, and the hug "

"TAKE ME NOW"

With msn, you must not speak so much, it's one line to her, one line back, make it seem like you're busy all most. Never get too cocky like you did just there, she probably got the wrong impression, and the whole forum Me 1 You 0 **** WAS JUST WRONG MOTHER****ER, WHAT THE **** WERE YOU THINKING? Remember, she ain't got a clue what you're on about, she probably thought you were a right weirdo.

You came accross cool at first, but shortly after that you spoke way too much and sounded way too cocky, best bet now is too apologise and tell her it was one of your mates or some ****.

[erase_]

WTF MAN??

Mad-Dog: 8-)
Mad-Dog: :P

Mad-Dog: i'm very sorry I mispelt your name.... is this better?

X-Men Rule!: nah im the coolest. plus i gave u 2 lovely hugs so i get 2 points

Mad-Dog: right... I ask for your number
Mad-Dog: and you hug me
Mad-Dog: 8-)

Mad-Dog: I was *definetly* flirting
Mad-Dog: 8-)

Dude...Are you being a man or a wussy in those quotes? What do the smilies look like?
And never say you were flirting with a chick....you're supposed to play Mr.Unknown. She now knows you like her, and on top of that she has BF!

DUDE...

[Mad Dog162]

I feel so emasculated... I'll do better next time *sigh*

[erase_]

Originally Posted by XtotheZ

You were trying to act too e-cocky. Trust me it only works if your good at it, you are not, stick to average joe on msn ****.

"hey how are you"

"fine thanks"

"yeah so x-men, you like them is it? ;D"

"yeah they cool lol, we dressed up as them at party"

"nice nice, you'd be a great storm, then again you'd be a great anything "

"aww thx lol, yeah i went as storm, so what you up2?"

"nothing much, just relaxing at the moment, big day tommorow"

"oh yeah, enjoy party we were at?"

"yeah it was cool, glad i got your number, and the hug "

"TAKE ME NOW"

With msn, you must not speak so much, it's one line to her, one line back, make it seem like you're busy all most. Never get too cocky like you did just there, she probably got the wrong impression, and the whole forum Me 1 You 0 **** WAS JUST WRONG MOTHER****ER, WHAT THE **** WERE YOU THINKING? Remember, she ain't got a clue what you're on about, she probably thought you were a right weirdo.

You came accross cool at first, but shortly after that you spoke way too much and sounded way too cocky, best bet now is too apologise and tell her it was one of your mates or some ****.

Is this kid that posted above me serious? That'll make you look even worse.

you: "hi"

her: "hey what's up! the party was fun"

you: "still caught up in the cartoons huh?"

her: "what?!"

you: "x-men"

her: "haha, no i went to a party as blabla"

you: "yeah i went to a halloween party as spongebob"
you: "the ladies loved it"

her: "hahahh. so what are you up to?"

you: "been really busy, i've actually got plans to go out with a friend right now."
you: "i'll call you sometime"

her: "yeah maybe we'll go out this weekend"

#1 you played a little C&F
#2 you said "the ladies loved it" so she knows she's not your only option
#3 you said you're busy, she'll want to know what the fuss is about
#4 you said you're going out with a "friend"...not a male, or a female. she'll be suspicious

You did alright, you'll get better :}

[Mad Dog162]

Originally Posted by erase_

What do the smilies look like?

8-) on MSN is rolling my eyes.... so it shows I was being sarcastic!

[XtotheZ]

You ****ING idiot Erase, how the hell can you expect "yeah maybe well go out this weekend" from saying "ill call you sometime"

Do you think you're some e-pimp or something?

Stfu. ARE YOU SERIOUS?

[erase_]

Originally Posted by XtotheZ

You ****ING idiot Erase, how the hell can you expect "yeah maybe well go out this weekend" from saying "ill call you sometime"

Do you think you're some e-pimp or something?

Stfu. ARE YOU SERIOUS?

How is your post any different than his? You're just being more of an AFC.

[XtotheZ]

I agree

[NosLliWhsoj]

lame: 1 chance of getting laid: 0

[pSb]

Originally Posted by Mad Dog162

Back-story:

1. Met a girl at a party.
2. Very fit.
3. Got her number. (She also hugged me at the time - important later.)
4. Texted her a bit, she told me she had a boyfriend.

that was her subtle way of telling you she isn't available, and if for some reason she was available, you would have a snowballs chance in hell of getting near her pussy. however, cute girls have cute friends...so it could be to your advantage to hang out with her sometime.

she hugged you and that was important? how many people did you see her hug and touch at that party?

seems like you're putting forth quite a bit of effort on this one. number closed, that was your best move yet. texted her? personally i hate that **** and have never texted anyone. aim convo? the bane of existence. you can type for hours and it doesnt really mean ****.

how many days have elapsed since you got her number? have you actually spoken to this girl over the phone?

if you're working the angle to come across like a friend in order to get the girl.........you have a long path of pain and emotional hell. man up.

if you get a girls phone number, count on the fact that she wants you to call her. call her. make small talk. arrange meeting. if you can't successfully do this then she isn't interested. end of story.

[FunkDaddy]

True chat pimpage...

..."A/s/l?"

[Mad Dog162]

*Sigh*

I won't speak to her till after Christmas, and give her ring then ask her to hang out. See how that goes - if it doesn't work... well I'll move on.

[Sandbag]

Email and chat are absolutely the easiest way to be MIS
UNDERSTOOD. Unless you are an eloquent writer which
you may become sometime in your 30's or 40's.

It sounds like you might have done ok with her in person
but blew it with the online chat.

Lesson learned. NO MORE CHATTING!
If a chick want to chat with you on MSN tell
her you'll call instead because you're not into
messaging. Then, keep the calls short and consise.
Make the girl want-to-spend-time-with-you-to-get-to-know-you!!!!

In person is the best time and place to work the charm.
Can you **** on the phone or internet?? Then why bother?