Ever feel like a complete n00b sometimes?(semi-serious)

Dom_88 · 06-17-2007, 04:16 PM

OK. Long story short, there's this girl I've loosely known all year through a friend. Now all of a sudden when I've been going out in the weekends in the last few weeks, I've been seeing her and we've been dancing. Now, we've hooked up a few times on the floor and whatnot and she gets REALLY close without being disgusting to others. Now, she's cool and all and def. has GF potential. For one, she's not an idiot but that's another story.

Now, for some stupid reason I'm hesitant to make the move. Usually by this point I'd have made a move and she'd in all likelihood be mine.

WTF's wrong with me? Anyone just know they should do something but don't?

skinnygymboy · 06-17-2007, 04:27 PM

yup adn missed some brilliant oppotunites - my advice call her tomorrow and hang out with her later on in the week out of the club if tis nice go to the park or for a coffee as youve hooked up before everythings there you just need to step up the game bro

phateless · 06-17-2007, 07:09 PM

take her for a hike, then dinner, then a shower

Below 30 · 06-17-2007, 08:53 PM

You've known her for 1 year, so you let the expiry date on making a move, pass. You're basically in the friend-zone and you know it will be awkward to do anything now. It's probably better you didn't, just find another girl -30-

phateless · 06-18-2007, 07:12 AM

the sooner you make a move the better. you will

a) end up being with her, YAY!

b) get rejected and FINALLY be able to move on

either option is better than now, because you won't be wasting time.

SteR- · 06-18-2007, 07:19 AM

or maybe it's because the chase is over and now you're bored of her?

-Live2Lift- · 06-18-2007, 07:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by phateless

the sooner you make a move the better. you will

a) end up being with her, YAY!

b) get rejected and FINALLY be able to move on

either option is better than now, because you won't be wasting time.

Both good points especially B.

Yeh you need to just take plunge... i have been in your exact position! girl was calling me hot all time always asking me to come hang out with her telling me how cool i was.

And i kept being a pussy for months till i told her i really like her etc and now things have been better ever since if you get me.

Go for it....