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07-03-2004, 09:37 PM
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do i go through with it
ive been called ugly all my life never had a gf hell girls dont even talk to me , if i speak to them its as if im not their, even when i run into my buddies gf's and get introduced to them they give me this like hello smirk then they dont speak to me. i always had bad hair, glasses called a geek etc. well since no one wanted to hang with me ive kinda gone into this 5 year hermit like social state , this sept i go to college and this college is in the neigborhood and i will see EVERYBODY who i ever knew with their freinds and gf's etc who all looked down on me i decided before the summer that to get my life better i will need to pull a
"shes all that transformation" so i got a nice haircut,nice clothes,contacts , teeth bleached etc and i do look better but im still not an attractive man and get treated slightly better , and i know that if i truly want to get back into the game i will need to improve my face via plastic surgery. mainly a nose and chin because i look like a cartoon character with a bird nose and a weak chin. the problem is my father told me he wont pay for it now i can pay for it myself but i will only have liek 1,000 dollars in my bank account if i pay for it myself. so the
? is should i do it , i know theres no gurantee with surgery my situation will improve with surgeyr but its guaranteed to not improve without it. i feel like the sacramento kings in 1998 when they realized they have to replace their teams with good players to contend in the nba so they went out and got weber,divac,peja etc.
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07-03-2004, 09:40 PM
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Surgery is always risky man, and if you try to do it cheaply, you might end up even worse than you already are. I'd say go for it, they can do wonders these days with surgery, but do your research and make sure that the doctor has a good record and ****. Good luck.
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07-03-2004, 09:42 PM
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no the surgery isnt cheap , id have 1000 dolalr LEFT in my bank account once all is paid for. see i cknow im gonna get liek 3 responses sayign loosk are **** all about game and for some people it is but not for me i tried havign game following the steps in the how to get girls thread and i got swept
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"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 09:46 PM
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dude i could get girls with pimples big as a penny(serious)
maybe your personality sucks?
change it.
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07-03-2004, 09:48 PM
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pimples are diff then an ugly facial structure
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"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 09:51 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by milk dud
pimples are diff then an ugly facial structure
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i also have that, and pimples that are green and huge are worse.
Its all in the confidence/personality and the body
thats all you need for the girls
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07-03-2004, 09:52 PM
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i have to disagree when i go out i pretend i dont know im bad looking and act all confident but get nothign not even a friendship from a girl
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"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 09:52 PM
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post pics dude and we can give you an honest opinion.
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07-03-2004, 09:54 PM
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dont have a scanner the question isnt wether or not surgery will improve my looks i know it will , the question is do i pay for it now and be left with very little money or should i save up more
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"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 09:55 PM
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Originally posted by milk dud
dont have a scanner the question isnt wether or not surgery will improve my looks i know it will , the question is do i pay for it now and be left with very little money or should i save up more
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but dude you might think you are ugly. you could be a freaking brad pitt for all you know trust me you cant trust perception, especially when looking in a mirror.
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07-03-2004, 09:56 PM
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since age 9 people have been sayign im ugly so its not in my head
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"You might be talking to a loser, but you damn sure ain't talking to a quitter"
"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 09:57 PM
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Originally posted by milk dud
since age 9 people have been sayign im ugly so its not in my head
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i feel what you are saying. but ever thought that people said it jokingly and it kind of got stuck in your head. ?
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07-03-2004, 09:59 PM
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http://www.jumpingmens.com/~kaden/archive/5.jpg
i could get girls when i was that ugly with GREEN pimples almost as big as my eyes on my nose(3years ago)
trust me you can, and that pict was making me look good.
i still don't lookg great
http://rewket.deez-nuts.com/bal/PIC00040.JPG
but i can get even hotter chicks
Btw theres being confident and TRYING to be.
WAYYY different..
just imagine yourself minus the imperfection, blur your face in your mind, imagine everything b4 doing it, talk to yourself, dont try to be funny or anything
You can't fail
http://rewket.deez-nuts.com/dilemma.jpg
^ even taht ugly kid got dates b4 he turned gay, now he gets good looking guys...
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07-03-2004, 09:59 PM
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no i once had a camp counselor asked me if i was smart i said a lil he goes ok i asked because your ugly.
i was i nthe library when i was 13 and overheard a girl say o my god that boy is so ugly
ive had stuff liek that all my life but having uncombed hair ,big glases didnt help
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"You might be talking to a loser, but you damn sure ain't talking to a quitter"
"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 10:03 PM
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i really feel like a losing nba team that just missed the playoffs for the last 5 years and realizes it has to makeover the team if it wants to be a contender
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"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 10:05 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by milk dud
no i once had a camp counselor asked me if i was smart i said a lil he goes ok i asked because your ugly.
i was i nthe library when i was 13 and overheard a girl say o my god that boy is so ugly
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are you serious?
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07-03-2004, 10:06 PM
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are you serious?
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sadly yes
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"You might be talking to a loser, but you damn sure ain't talking to a quitter"
"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 10:06 PM
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Originally posted by milk dud
no i once had a camp counselor asked me if i was smart i said a lil he goes ok i asked because your ugly.
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I wish I had been drinking some water when reading your post, because then I could say I spit my water out from reading that comment.
Like others have said, your uglyness could just be in your head and posting a pic would really let us judge you. If you're dead set on getting plastic surgery and are still living with your parents then I'd say do it now. If you're not living with your parents then it depends on how much your job pays and how fast you make it up so you don't end up broke and homeless.
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07-03-2004, 10:09 PM
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Originally posted by EAE
I wish I had been drinking some water when reading your post, because then I could say I spit my water out from reading that comment.
Like others have said, your uglyness could just be in your head and posting a pic would really let us judge you. If you're dead set on getting plastic surgery and are still living with your parents then I'd say do it now. If you're not living with your parents then it depends on how much your job pays and how fast you make it up so you don't end up broke and homeless.
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i live with my parents, parents also pay for car, car insurance, health insurance etc.
i have other wonderful comments just liek that liek the last time i spoke to my childhood best friends we were best friends from 1988-98 one day he turned to me said you look like **** your ugly i want to be popular goodbye , and guess what he became the most popular guy, also ive had two friends who were girl ever in my life back in elementary schoo lone dayw e were all talkign about our dreams of marriage etc and the girl turns to me and says who'd want to marry dave.
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"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 10:31 PM
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Id say go for the surgery dude I cant beleive what some people said about you 2 bad you dont have pics. I hope the surgery goes good for u
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07-03-2004, 10:32 PM
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post a damn pic, there might be an alternative to surgery. we aren't here to make fun of you, but we can not help you and give sound advice without knowing what you look like. surgery is not something to be taken lightly. find a way to post a pic.
****, if you have to, go buy a disposable camera and have the local store develop your photos on a cd and then you can post them. wont take more than a few hours if you do it tomorrow morning.
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07-03-2004, 10:36 PM
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Id say go for the surgery dude I cant beleive what some people said about you 2 bad you dont have pics. I hope the surgery goes good for u
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i have many more comments if you wnana hear im 20 years old i have had many many comments
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"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 10:38 PM
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I can't believe how mean people are. That must have been really sad for you.
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07-03-2004, 10:39 PM
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its demoralizing , every comments chips away your confidence and self worth i can give ya some more comments if ya want
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"You might be talking to a loser, but you damn sure ain't talking to a quitter"
"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 10:42 PM
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its demoralizing , every comments chips away your confidence and self worth i can give ya some more comments if ya want
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hey bro have you read my post? if you already have it set in your mind to get surgery, there's nothing we can do or say to stop you. this is something you've got to decide on, but you really need to show us a pic if you want our opinions. enough with the rude comments people have been saying to you, it doesn't help to dwell on them.
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07-03-2004, 10:44 PM
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Originally posted by killer4605
hey bro have you read my post? if you already have it set in your mind to get surgery, there's nothing we can do or say to stop you. this is something you've got to decide on, but you really need to show us a pic if you want our opinions. enough with the rude comments people have been saying to you, it doesn't help to dwell on them.
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see i was hoping my dad would pay half so i woudl have more money left but he wont so im questioning. see problem is i know there is no guarantee my life will be better with surgery but i can guarantee it wont without it
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"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 10:46 PM
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You need a post a pic, only then can we help you, as far as possible try to aoid surgery man, its always got its complications..only if you are sure there is something you cant change no matter what..then its time to go for a surgery.
I have never really been called ugly but I used to think I was anyways... that was back when I was 13, I had unkempt hair, was skinny as ****, walked around with a kinda droopy back and had no confidence what so ever..
Then I started bodybuilding 
started taking good care of myself, put on lean muscle , focused on my posture ...actually improved a lot of ****..and within 2 years for the first time a girl said I was a hunk
not bragging but you can change, and one more thing If you only wanna be a player then yep you need good looks and money however if you are looking for love then a girl shouldnt care no matter what ou look like, if she does..then she is not worth being with....
So once you become all transformed ....become a player for life..
Ciao
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07-03-2004, 10:47 PM
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Originally posted by milk dud
see i was hoping my dad would pay half so i woudl have more money left but he wont so im questioning. see problem is i know there is no guarantee my life will be better with surgery but i can guarantee it wont without it
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have you talked to a psychologist about your problem?
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07-03-2004, 10:47 PM
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Originally posted by kickassman
You need a post a pic, only then can we help you, as far as possible try to aoid surgery man, its always got its complications..only if you are sure there is something you cant change no matter what..then its time to go for a surgery.
I have never really been called ugly but I used to think I was anyways... that was back when I was 13, I had unkempt hair, was skinny as ****, walked around with a kinda droopy back and had no confidence what so ever..
Then I started bodybuilding
started taking good care of myself, put on lean muscle , focused on my posture ...actually improved a lot of ****..and within 2 years for the first time a girl said I was a hunk
not bragging but you can change, and one more thing If you only wanna be a player then yep you need good looks and money however if you are looking for love then a girl shouldnt care no matter what ou look like, if she does..then she is not worth being with....
So once you become all transformed ....become a player for life..
Ciao
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dude bodybuilding helped me to i didnt mention it before but in december 2000 i weighed 119 pounds at 5'8 had the worlds worst posyure now i weight 220 with good posture
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"Sometimes you just have to put your pride aside and put that big R on your chest, and be robin to somebody's batman to get ahead in life"
"Some times you just have to stare mother nature in the face and say f*ck you, to accomplish your goal"
"Sometimes the best diet is one that has a good amount of humble pie in it"
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07-03-2004, 10:47 PM
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and YOU NEEd to post a pic man
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