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05-14-2007, 10:11 AM
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Ever miss an ex-girlfriend? (physically or emotionally)
So a good friend of mine (female) came on to me last night. She's cute, but I'm not attracted to her - I haven't been with anyone since my last girl of 4 months (which ended in January).
Obviously, this was the first person I thought of.. and I mentioned my ex to my friend (subconsciously of course)...
I should've just PIITB'd, but I don't know...
...yeah, so I missed my ex ... and I thought of the sex I missed with this ex 'cause she was hot!
...... low & behold I wake up early to get to all my classes today and who do I run into? The Ex. She's avoided my allllllllllllll of this semester and we've only run into eachother once or twice in the span of 4 months since our breakup (our breakup was harsh)...
...we didn't run into eachother once or twice, but at least 5 times in the span of 2-3 hours.
what the f*ck?
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05-14-2007, 10:28 AM
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Just when I haven't gotten any for awhile. And I think back about all the time different times/ways that I had hit it.
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05-14-2007, 11:27 AM
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Ehh well sometimes I still miss my ex. I have a hotter gf now, but my ex was my first gf so there are still some feelings there for her. I get over it in like an hour though.
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05-14-2007, 11:28 AM
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I think about one of my ex's every couple of months (rough break up) (she has gone way downhill, doing drugs/dropped out of school/no ambition). I wish that I was more mature during the break up and could still have contact with her.
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05-14-2007, 05:28 PM
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I miss one of my ex's pretty often. I get really bummed when she comes up in conversation or I see a picture of her somewhere or whatever. The sad part is that she had 0 personality and wasn't really that hot. We just had the best sex possible. She let me do things that other girls can't even hold a candle to. The worst part is that I was the one who broke it off, and she ended up being the one happier when all was said and done, so I get a bag of regret to go with it.
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05-14-2007, 05:42 PM
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Have to admit i miss my first real love.
She was hot, ambitius, and we got alone pretty good. Her and I even have a birth mark on our pinky on the same hand. What are the chances of that happening? I've gone out/had sex with hotter girls but for some reason i can't forget her!!
Anyway this was 4 years ago we have been through more than any other bodyfriends she had. yeah we'll bump into each other HOWEVER maybe a couple months ago we started having sex again but that backfired FAST.
Now we don't talk. I'm sure we will though
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05-14-2007, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Rob Awesome
So a good friend of mine (female) came on to me last night. She's cute, but I'm not attracted to her - I haven't been with anyone since my last girl of 4 months (which ended in January).
Obviously, this was the first person I thought of.. and I mentioned my ex to my friend (subconsciously of course)...
I should've just PIITB'd, but I don't know...
...yeah, so I missed my ex ... and I thought of the sex I missed with this ex 'cause she was hot!
...... low & behold I wake up early to get to all my classes today and who do I run into? The Ex. She's avoided my allllllllllllll of this semester and we've only run into eachother once or twice in the span of 4 months since our breakup (our breakup was harsh)...
...we didn't run into eachother once or twice, but at least 5 times in the span of 2-3 hours.
what the f*ck?
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I think that your g/f misses you and just wants to see you or she might want to get back together with you!!!!
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05-14-2007, 07:07 PM
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Listen, I didn't actually read your thread.
More importantly: is your last name actually awesome? If so, how would you feel about being my best friend?
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05-15-2007, 02:42 AM
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So do you want her back or do you just miss some things about the relationship?
I miss a lot of things I had with my ex (including outstanding sex), but I know there are reasons why we arent together anymore so I try not to dwell on it and just get on with life. It can be tough to get over an ex (I'm still far from getting over mine) but everyday you find new things to occupy your mind with and being around her becomes less and less important.
Try and man up about it a bit and you will get over her, or figure out if you want her back and go for it.
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05-15-2007, 03:06 AM
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My name is John Kimble...
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Enough of the Emo guys replies  (yes joking).
Chicks, if you ever broke up with a guy, do you ever miss him?
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05-15-2007, 03:08 AM
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When I was 19-20 I dated a chick who went to an all girls private catholic school. The girl was a 10 out of 10 and we went out for 9 months. I miss her everyday of my life. That girl could go out party with me all night and was just an overall blast to hang out with. Not to mention she was a FREAK.
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05-15-2007, 03:17 AM
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Quote:
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Ever miss an ex?
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Yes and No. 
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05-15-2007, 03:50 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob Awesome
So a good friend of mine (female) came on to me last night. She's cute, but I'm not attracted to her - I haven't been with anyone since my last girl of 4 months (which ended in January).
Obviously, this was the first person I thought of.. and I mentioned my ex to my friend (subconsciously of course)...
I should've just PIITB'd, but I don't know...
...yeah, so I missed my ex ... and I thought of the sex I missed with this ex 'cause she was hot!
...... low & behold I wake up early to get to all my classes today and who do I run into? The Ex. She's avoided my allllllllllllll of this semester and we've only run into eachother once or twice in the span of 4 months since our breakup (our breakup was harsh)...
...we didn't run into eachother once or twice, but at least 5 times in the span of 2-3 hours.
what the f*ck?
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ye, i miss tula for 15 yrs...but i also realized she played me, helped steal 3500 from me, totally screwed me up, and totally made me feel bad...
I was in love and stupid...i treated her like a queen...she played games--
I use to dream about her, think about her, i missed out on so many nice ones cause i was still in love...
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05-15-2007, 10:41 AM
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Rub one out and you'll be ok. -Serious-
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05-15-2007, 10:49 AM
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Enough of the Emo guys replies (yes joking).
Chicks, if you ever broke up with a guy, do you ever miss him? |
I only miss one ex...the one i was gonna marry..we were together 3.5 yrs and broke up this past january. We're still best friends, but it's very hard to see him talk about other girls or date another girl---it tears my heart out. And I honestly have no idea how i'll get over him---probably because he plays mind games with me tellign me one day that he still loves me and wants me and then the next day about a chick who totally wants him and he's thinking about dating. Oh, and we're still having sex--so that probably doesn't help. He's the most confusing guy I know, and the sad thing is I know him better than anyone--even his family.
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05-15-2007, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by hugs
I only miss one ex...the one i was gonna marry..we were together 3.5 yrs and broke up this past january. We're still best friends, but it's very hard to see him talk about other girls or date another girl---it tears my heart out. And I honestly have no idea how i'll get over him---probably because he plays mind games with me tellign me one day that he still loves me and wants me and then the next day about a chick who totally wants him and he's thinking about dating. Oh, and we're still having sex--so that probably doesn't help. He's the most confusing guy I know, and the sad thing is I know him better than anyone--even his family.
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thats pretty depressing.
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05-15-2007, 02:34 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by hugs
I only miss one ex...the one i was gonna marry..we were together 3.5 yrs and broke up this past january. We're still best friends, but it's very hard to see him talk about other girls or date another girl---it tears my heart out. And I honestly have no idea how i'll get over him---probably because he plays mind games with me tellign me one day that he still loves me and wants me and then the next day about a chick who totally wants him and he's thinking about dating. Oh, and we're still having sex--so that probably doesn't help. He's the most confusing guy I know, and the sad thing is I know him better than anyone--even his family.
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He's not that confusing. He's just jerking you around because you let him. He'll probably end up marrying someone who doesn't play along with his games.
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05-15-2007, 03:14 PM
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He's not that confusing. He's just jerking you around because you let him. He'll probably end up marrying someone who doesn't play along with his games.
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He's not playing games to jerk me around and it's not even intentional for own benefit, he's just confused with what he wants and he is going through a lot of problems right now. I wouldnt' have married or put up with a guy who was an ass.
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05-15-2007, 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted by hugs
He's not playing games to jerk me around and it's not even intentional for own benefit, he's just confused with what he wants and he is going through a lot of problems right now. I wouldnt' have married or put up with a guy who was an ass.
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A guy who was confused but wanted to do the right thing wouldn't be sleeping with you.
He just hittin' it cause he can.....sorry.
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05-15-2007, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by nognig
A guy who was confused but wanted to do the right thing wouldn't be sleeping with you.
He just hittin' it cause he can.....sorry.
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no....
he's confused because he doesnt know what to do about us..he asked my parents "permission" to marry me and they said no (which was surprising to both him and me) and they called him evil and it was a pretty messy dramatic thing.
Getting the ultimate rejection like that is pretty bad. He loves me, but doesn't know if he can deal with my parents. We're both trying to move on but also don't want to. There's still mutual attachment and we're still best friends.
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05-15-2007, 05:54 PM
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even though Im married and have a family, homes cars bills up the arse
there is one that got away, and I run in to her sometimes and think what would have happened if that one day I didnt walk away while, she screamed on top of her lungs, for me not to leave
Maybe in the next life
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05-15-2007, 06:05 PM
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yep, and that's why we are married today
we broke up for over a year. We tried breaking up again; our first five years were *so* hard.
We ended up surviving our selfishness, our choices and ourselves. Today, 19 yrs later, there is no one I trust more, or love more. Truth be told, I lose my breath a little when he walks into the room and will probably do so until the day death parts us.
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05-15-2007, 07:31 PM
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I hate this big time. I think about her allot still. Its been about 4 months. She was really cool and **** too. Most likely the nicest girl I ever dated. So yeah it sucks ass seeing pictures of her on MySpace and **** like that. We kind of went are own ways quietly so not many people knew about it. So like a month after we broke up some friends would ask me if I could set a double date with my Ex and theirs. That just teared me to pieces. Oh well you win some and loose some. I became a better person because of it.
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05-15-2007, 07:49 PM
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Listen, I didn't actually read your thread.
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haha that was prolly the most random and favorite thing ive ever read....ever
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05-16-2007, 06:52 AM
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I could've been with so many other girls, but this is the one I miss & care about... I tried forgetting her & EVERYONE else I know has told me frequently to 'get over her'... she is fairly immature & claims she's a 'realist' but I think she's an opportunist.
...looking beyond her physical qualities... she can be cold, cruel, truthful and hurtful...
...yet she's warm, funny, sensitive & makes me feel funny inside & in the pants...
This thread has made me decide regardless of how I feel for her, I'm moving on. I hate 'games' in relationships. I think they're pathetic. If 2 people want to be together, they should be. If not, move on.
I'm immature for even considering such an option with her.
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05-16-2007, 07:10 AM
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My name is John Kimble...
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Quote:
Originally Posted by hugs
I only miss one ex...the one i was gonna marry..we were together 3.5 yrs and broke up this past january. We're still best friends, but it's very hard to see him talk about other girls or date another girl---it tears my heart out. And I honestly have no idea how i'll get over him---probably because he plays mind games with me tellign me one day that he still loves me and wants me and then the next day about a chick who totally wants him and he's thinking about dating. Oh, and we're still having sex--so that probably doesn't help. He's the most confusing guy I know, and the sad thing is I know him better than anyone--even his family.
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Thanks for sharing hugs. I hope it works out for you.
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05-16-2007, 08:46 AM
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I think that your g/f misses you and just wants to see you or she might want to get back together with you!!!!
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I doubt either of those options, as nice as they sound. Thanks.
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05-16-2007, 09:08 AM
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I miss my xgf from years ago because she has an ass to die for. We were together for 4.5 yrs. On a serious note it is natural to miss someone even after awhile if you really cared for her. You'll be fine.
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05-16-2007, 09:33 AM
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My name is John Kimble...
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Missing them ****ing sucks. Memories are nothing but pain.
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05-16-2007, 10:59 AM
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I rarely think about her. It's been a few years since we split up(she had to move back home after her studies were over). It was a freaky thing caring for someone else, I wasn't used to investing that much emotion in another person. Once in a blue moon a song will play or a friend will mention something that reminds me of her and it brings all the memories both good and bad flooding in.
I'm usually very embarassed when discussing who I'm seeing around my boys when we're all hanging out with their gf's and stuff. Whenever she was around I didn't care what others thought.
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