Is it wrong to play a girl, so u can get close to her best friend?

Nosquatsnogains · 04-21-2007, 09:08 AM

Well this girl i really like is best friends with this other girl. We'll call the other girl A and the girl i like B. So A thinks i like her, but i dont and instead have feelings for her best friend. A flirts with me a lot so i go along with it. B doesnt know i like her, but i try my best to talk to her and make her feel comfortable around me. I dont see B around much but shes always with A. So if i get A to like me then i will eventually be seeing B alot more.

LMW · 04-21-2007, 10:15 AM

no it's not wrong,whatever it takes to get to the pussy

purplenemesis · 04-21-2007, 10:18 AM

Whats wrong with getting some action from A and B.

GrifteR619 · 04-21-2007, 10:27 AM

Agreed, why not have A + B = Buttsekzz x 2

limniade · 04-21-2007, 10:51 AM

The only thing trying to get in with A in order to land B will get you, is both girls thinking you're a douche. You do NOT land one woman by hitting on her friend.

burken01 · 04-21-2007, 11:02 AM

yeah dont bull**** around, just go after her and stop leading the other girl on. If you want me advice, you probably won't get the B girl because of A. Find someone else.

Nosquatsnogains · 04-21-2007, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by limniade

The only thing trying to get in with A in order to land B will get you, is both girls thinking you're a douche. You do NOT land one woman by hitting on her friend.

i see. but how should i tell A that i dont like her? she thinks i like her as well. i dont want to hurt her feelins or anything.

purplenemesis · 04-21-2007, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Nosquatsnogains

i see. but how should i tell A that i dont like her? she thinks i like her as well. i dont want to hurt her feelins or anything.

Honestly, just start hitting on her friend. Girl A will probably get the idea. Or she will be jealous and cock block the **** out of you.

And you are way to worried about her feelings. Honestly, ask yourself this question, how many girls have have turned you down, told you they just wanted to be friends, or just screwed one of your friends even though she new you had a crush on her? If you are like most guys things like this occured on more than several occasions. You should just tell her you want to be friends with her. If she is a decent looking girl I am sure she has had to tell this to quite a few guys and she isnt having any guilt trips about it.

bdiesel · 04-21-2007, 01:11 PM

absolutely nothing wrong with that game bro! and btw, when you **** her friend she'll get the point. rock on.

cougarfootball2 · 04-21-2007, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Nosquatsnogains

i see. but how should i tell A that i dont like her? she thinks i like her as well. i dont want to hurt her feelins or anything.

if she thinks you like her and she likes you.. if you dont have serious game your pretty screwed

sylarwins · 04-21-2007, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Nosquatsnogains

Well this girl i really like is best friends with this other girl. We'll call the other girl A and the girl i like B. So A thinks i like her, but i dont and instead have feelings for her best friend. A flirts with me a lot so i go along with it. B doesnt know i like her, but i try my best to talk to her and make her feel comfortable around me. I dont see B around much but shes always with A. So if i get A to like me then i will eventually be seeing B alot more.

haha girl a and b. Just relate it with fake names in the future. Just name the top 2 names that pop up in your head.

Just don't give Girl A false hope because then she will be telling GIRL B that "ohhh man that guy likes me" so Girl B will rule out every possibility that she ever liked you.

But no its not playing a girl at all. If its the easiest path then why not do it?

BuildUpNow · 04-21-2007, 03:54 PM

thats the way to do it man talk to the uglies to get to the hot ones.

DYnomyte001 · 04-21-2007, 04:05 PM

It's not so much a matter of playing them.

Think of the girl ( you want) in her group as the target.

In this setting focus on the girl you don't want, and her friends first, ignore the one you want. Once you have gained her friends approval and cock-blocking is not going happen, then switch focus from her friends to the one you want.

Guys try to go in for the kill with the one they want right away, and it always blows up in there face because they didn't gain the group's acceptance. Besides, if her friends begin competing for you, your status becomes tremendously elevated and it'll make your goal that much easier. Women are vicious with each other bro.

microsize · 04-21-2007, 04:23 PM

Rephrase that, and make it sound like you just want to be A's friend because of her awesome personality. Nothing wrong with that.

Brutotal · 04-21-2007, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by limniade

The only thing trying to get in with A in order to land B will get you, is both girls thinking you're a douche. You do NOT land one woman by hitting on her friend.

There is a difference between hitting on a girl's friend and "including" the group so you'll get acceptance.

drstrangepimp · 04-21-2007, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Nosquatsnogains

Well this girl i really like is best friends with this other girl. We'll call the other girl A and the girl i like B. So A thinks i like her, but i dont and instead have feelings for her best friend. A flirts with me a lot so i go along with it. B doesnt know i like her, but i try my best to talk to her and make her feel comfortable around me. I dont see B around much but shes always with A. So if i get A to like me then i will eventually be seeing B alot more.

Flirt with girl A sometimes but then be a little cold or ignore her. Keep doing this until you drive A crazy for you so she tells all her friends including B how hot you are.

However don't commit to girl A, treat her affections somewhat condescendingly but give her enough hope (when she appears to need it) that she can have you.

Once girl A starts talking to her friends including girl B about how to get you, they will all start thinking you are cute. Do the same thing with all of them until they are all crazy for you.

This will create a chain reaction that causes your status to snowball. They will all be vying for you but since you have not committed to girl A you are fair game.

Select girl B and take her out. She will say yes and you can do whatever you want with her.

drstrangepimp · 04-21-2007, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by sylarwins

Just don't give Girl A false hope because then she will be telling GIRL B that "ohhh man that guy likes me" so Girl B will rule out every possibility that she ever liked you.

Right, what you want her to say to girl B is "this guy is so cute".

You flirt with her but when she flirts with you you just smile. You just do enough that she feels she could have you.

You alternate flirting like you might give her a compliment one minute then the next time you see her you don't even say hi.

Mixed messages drive women crazy. You want her to be asking her friends "he did this and this, what do you think?".

You want her to get desperate and ask her friends for advice, much like he is doing here.

This is what causes the snowball effect because women look for men who are desired by other women.

younggunz20 · 04-21-2007, 08:38 PM

If A is decent, you should probably just PIITB. If you don't PIITB A, and you try to go for B, you won't get B because of A. In the end you will have PIITB neither of them. Final conclusion: PIITB A.