Need some advice here..

[Shred Master]

Ok, so i need some advice on what to do with my situation. In January i asked a girl if she wanted to go to prom in June with me and she said yes. I always considered us just friends and all that so we never dated or anything but i just thought i'd take her and it would be a good time. About 5 weeks ago she started dating one of my good friends and he treated her great and really appreciated her. She decided to be a slut and have sex with her ex boyfriend about 2 weekends ago and then said "can you break up with me so i can date my ex again because i still have feelings for him".. so he didn't want anything to do with her after that. Now, i really lost all respect for her because he's one of my closest friends and she disrespected him. Lately i've been hanging out with a girl i really like and i would much rather take her to prom because we would have a good time and i actually like her. This other girl still thinks we're going and i don't wanna be a huge dick and say "i dont wanna take you anymore" but it's really the truth. What would you do: just take her to prom or say "screw you slut im not takin your dirty pussy to prom" and take the other girl?

[mr.genetics]

Alright man I see your situation pretty clearly. Here's what you do. Since the girl you are friends with disrespected your friend in a big way and screwed her ex, then she is definately not going to stay with you on prom if her ex is around so is there really any point? Since you like this other girl #2 it makes perfect sense to ask her to prom. Girl #1 will probably end up going with the ex boyfriend if you don't take her so I wouldn't feel bad. Besides your kind of doing your buddy injustice by taking her after what she did anyway. Go with girl #2 man, you'll be much happier and have a much better time. Good luck bro.

[Shred Master]

Originally Posted by mr.genetics

Alright man I see your situation pretty clearly. Here's what you do. Since the girl you are friends with disrespected your friend in a big way and screwed her ex, then she is definately not going to stay with you on prom if her ex is around so is there really any point? Since you like this other girl #2 it makes perfect sense to ask her to prom. Girl #1 will probably end up going with the ex boyfriend if you don't take her so I wouldn't feel bad. Besides your kind of doing your buddy injustice by taking her after what she did anyway. Go with girl #2 man, you'll be much happier and have a much better time. Good luck bro.

Thanks man, that's exactly what i wanted to hear too. I forgot one little detail about this actually. She's grade 11 and im grade 12 so if i don't take her odds are she probly won't end up going because only seniors can attend right... unless if another senior asked her which i could give two ****s about. Her ex is 19 by the way and been graduated a year or so i guess.

[Shred Master]

Now the tricky part.. how do i break it to her that i dont wanna take her anymore