Am I too late?

[Turbo6PGT]

I'm considering asking someone out for a casual date but I also had some questions about attitude and conversation stuff. Let me give some background info first...

I met this girl about a year ago, she's a relative to some of my friends. She's a pretty quiet kind of girl and we've only spoken a few times but I wasnt that interested, though she is a knock out (9/10 in my book). I've had a couple conversations with her and while I wasnt romantically interested I wasn't ruling her out for the future either. I've been around her family more lately and I caught her checking me out a few times but she was trying to do it all sneeky like so I wouldnt notice. Can attractive women actually be that shy that they are affraid to look?? I've never known hot girls to be that outspoken or shy. She is religious so maybe that upbringing has sheltered her a bit? But who knows! Im also friends with her Dad and he's made the reference to me that she doesnt date much and that I should ask her out. So he just made a comment about me taking her out again recently so it doesnt sound like shes seeing anyone special.

My question is related to how to approach this. First off Im not a player anymore like some of you gents. Im at the age now where Ive stopped screwing around and Im more interested in serious relationships. That being said, I want to come across like Im more interested in her now but Im just hoping her radar isnt turned off towards me since I never made a move before. I tried not to come across too interested originally because I knew I wasnt going to do anything about it at the time. With her being somewhat quiet and elusive it makes me wonder if she will open up. Thats where I need the help. So first part: do you guys think women rule out a guy that doesnt come across like he's interested? Ive been told that adds attraction in some cases. She's still staring so maybe its true?? Lastly, she isnt the most talkative person so it worries me that if I do get her on a date will she talk at all or will I have to carry the whole conversation. Personally Im not into chicks that you cant have fun with but she seems nice and is very attractive so Im willing to make an exception for now. If I have to do all the talking what kind of ice breakers would be good for trying to open her up and get her to laugh a bit? This is a lot to chew on, sorry for the long post. Any suggestions aside from usual PITB would be helpful! Thanks gents

[Butmonkey]

Tell her that buying you lunch or coffee or some damn thing is payment enough for all that gawking at your God-like figure.

[Below 30]

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Her dad even suggested you mack his daughter? Man, you are thinking way too much about an easy situation. You said you were a player before? So play how players play. Go up to her, tell her she spends too much time in the house and the two of you are going to the park.

Be funny mang, make her laugh, force the emotions out of her. Listen, don't worry about how much she talks, just compensate by making-out with her more. This is a fish in a barrel, make it happen!

[Turbo6PGT]

Well her dad didnt come right out and say "hey please bang my daughter" lol. He said something along the lines of "she doesnt date much, she just needs a young man like yourself to ask her out". Which sounds a lot like "please bang my daughter".

Only reason I second guessed myself so much was because its been a long time since I met her and I never made a move, so I didnt want to give her the impression that Im a panzy that just wouldnt ask her out like one of the wussy brothers. I just wasnt interested at the time. *shrug* Maybe she has no opinion at all about me so it wont matter.