Am i jealous?

[Bodyrox]

My boyfriend always seems to tell me about his girl friends that he talks to on msn & bebo. Yesterday he was telling about a girl he used to hang about with (from what he told me she used to fancy him) & that she was saying how hot he looked in his pictures.

Most of the time he is on the computer talking to his friends which seems like more are girls. He tells me about conversations they have which I don't want to know about. There has been more stuff that has happened like bumping into his old gf he just kept looking at her & I was stood right next to him. I've never said anything because I?m not a jealous person but he keeps talking/telling me.

Would I be wrong to say anything to him?

[[R0ID RAGE]]

i reckon he is strirring the pot by trying to make u jealous by talking about all these 'encounters'. i used to do it when i was a young whipper snapper like yourself to my girlfriends at the time.

[Killah Hills]

Say something .... He's either tryin to play you in some way or doesn't respect you , which I think that's reason enough to leave his dumb ass .

[Below 30]

Don't you see people? The man is alpha. He has so much game, that he even keeps his GF up to date, on past ventures. He doesn't care what anyone think and she is subcosciously drawn to that.

Personaly, I wouldn't advise a man go that far, but he is a natural. He automatically is that good, that's why he is that extreme. It's like having a high horsepower car, you can't hit a button to reduce the power, it's just there. This guy can't be changed, he is an extreme alpha. So you have to take it or leave it.

The plus side is, he is very honest about all his dealings with these females. Not many guys like that around.

[FunkDaddy]

Yeah, would you prefer he hid it from you?

[Green_Arrw]

Am I bothered?

[Mr Boom]

Tell him about the guys that want to have sex with you.

[trvlr70]

You're taking the high road[and keeping control of the relationship] by NOT reacting to his attempts to make you jeolous. Just remember, jealousy is unattractive and it not indicative of how much you love somebody but it more a sign of your own personal insecurities.

It is natural to feel some pings on jealousy, but carefully conceal those emotions if at all possible.

[ChplHillGymGirl]

you should be glad he's being honest with you. if you ask him to tone it down or to stop telling you, you'll then be paranoid about what they're talking about.

[user23960508710783]

Originally Posted by ChplHillGymGirl

you should be glad he's being honest with you. if you ask him to tone it down or to stop telling you, you'll then be paranoid about what they're talking about.

That says it perfectly.

[bpb77]

If you don't trust your bf you should move on. Jealousy will kill a relationship.

[Realmofo]

Talk to him and tell him it bothers you but dont try to change him or youll be out in no time.

I guess play the whole "It bothers me, change it if YOU want, im not telling you to" but it does bother me and I dont want to hear about it.

Hell think about it next time he goes on.... and theres a 50/50 chance hell stop or minimize. All that you are experiencing is his time being used for other chicks or people other than yourself, you girls are weird like that because you need attention.

[Devilz]

Hes emotionally whipping you and letting you know he's got other options. Trying to beat you down and dominate you saying do as I like or i'll hook up with someone else. Play him at his own game and dont succumb and be his slave (unless you like that kinky ****).

[aeons]

I agree, I used to do this to my girlfriend all the time.

[silv3rbull3t]

Originally Posted by Devilz

Hes emotionally whipping you and letting you know he's got other options. Trying to beat you down and dominate you saying do as I like or i'll hook up with someone else. Play him at his own game and dont succumb and be his slave (unless you like that kinky ****).

x2 He obviesly has the emotional control card down pat. Relationships are all about a balance of power. He's taking that balance away from you by making you jelouse, and making you think there are other chicks intrested in him. By doing this you become clingy and he has control of you. Firstly, don't let his game he's playing bother you, pretend like you don't give a sh*t who he talks too, secondly fight fire with fire. Make yourself less available and strike up some small talk with guys that you know are intrested in you when he's around. You'll see the balance of power start to change hands.

[aeons]

Originally Posted by silv3rbull3t

x2 He obviesly has the emotional control card down pat. Relationships are all about a balance of power. He's taking that balance away from you by making you jelouse, and making you think there are other chicks intrested in him. By doing this you become clingy and he has control of you. Firstly, don't let his game he's playing bother you, pretend like you don't give a sh*t who he talks too, secondly fight fire with fire. Make yourself less available and strike up some small talk with guys that you know are intrested in you when he's around. You'll see the balance of power start to change hands.

exactly, and if all and all doesn't work. you know what to do.. hint hint.

[PopeyesChicken]

Make him jealous and regain your power in the relationship by letting me PIITB...


But seriously: Yeah u should ignore what hes doing since hes just trying to make u jealous.

[kylespitfire]

Piitb