Really nice but not attractive girl likes me...gives me gifts

collegeBBer · 04-07-2007, 01:06 AM

Straight to the cliffs:

- Really nice but unattractive (kinda fat, kinda ugly) likes me
- I am friendly with her, like I am with everyone, but I may give mixed messages
- She thinks I like her
- She buys me gifts
- Nice gifts
- I accept them and just say a simple thanks

Should I not accept the gifts? Is this giving her more false hopes? Am I going to hell? How can I make her get a clue without being an *******?

tdcook · 04-07-2007, 01:10 AM

Make up a girlfriend from out of town.

collegeBBer · 04-07-2007, 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by tdcook

Make up a girlfriend from out of town.

thats a really good idea considering my situation with this one...details i did not go over in original post

FullSack · 04-07-2007, 02:20 AM

milk that cash cow

luckylynch · 04-07-2007, 03:23 AM

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Originally Posted by collegeBBer

Straight to the cliffs:

- Really nice but unattractive (kinda fat, kinda ugly) likes me
- I am friendly with her, like I am with everyone, but I may give mixed messages
- She thinks I like her
- She buys me gifts
- Nice gifts
- I accept them and just say a simple thanks

Should I not accept the gifts? Is this giving her more false hopes? Am I going to hell? How can I make her get a clue without being an *******?

maybe she doesnt like you as a bf but is just giving you a gift so the sake of it

I mean i gave tera some chinese med for her throat and now all of the woman at the gym wont talk to me. Its like im a pervert.

Im not even attracted to her.

Sometimes people give gifts for the sake of it

Slashed · 04-07-2007, 04:04 AM

Say you have a girlfriend out of town. Best way and easiest to let her down nicely. Otherwise you will just have to refuse the gifts, but then she will most likely get upset.

Magnus_9 · 04-07-2007, 04:14 AM

ask how advice on how to deal with your girlfriend

bass generator · 04-07-2007, 04:41 AM

get with her and sponge off her,hook up withhot girls on the side.

mjfan12 · 04-07-2007, 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by FullSack

milk that cash cow

buahahaha. girls do it all the time, so its payback time!

spacefuzz · 04-07-2007, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by collegeBBer

Straight to the cliffs:

- Really nice but unattractive (kinda fat, kinda ugly) likes me
- I am friendly with her, like I am with everyone, but I may give mixed messages
- She thinks I like her
- She buys me gifts
- Nice gifts
- I accept them and just say a simple thanks

Should I not accept the gifts? Is this giving her more false hopes? Am I going to hell? How can I make her get a clue without being an *******?

what does she get u?

King Makaveli · 04-07-2007, 08:51 AM

Try to get me something man!

pay tribute · 04-07-2007, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by collegeBBer

Straight to the cliffs:

- Really nice but unattractive (kinda fat, kinda ugly) likes me
- I am friendly with her, like I am with everyone, but I may give mixed messages
- She thinks I like her
- She buys me gifts
- Nice gifts
- I accept them and just say a simple thanks

Should I not accept the gifts? Is this giving her more false hopes? Am I going to hell? How can I make her get a clue without being an *******?

Use her for free gifts. I remember a friend of mine pretended to care for this fat chick, got a $4,000 used motorcycle out of it, ha

blackwax · 04-07-2007, 09:00 AM

man i've seen some incredible transformation in before and after pics here. get her to start working out, perhaps a trainer, and see if she can become more attractive. who knows, there might be a babe under there.... if she dresses bad, take her to the mall and point out what looks good.

PopeyesChicken · 04-07-2007, 09:04 AM

Useless with out pics

Tristan12345 · 04-07-2007, 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by blackwax

man i've seen some incredible transformation in before and after pics here. get her to start working out, perhaps a trainer, and see if she can become more attractive. who knows, there might be a babe under there.... if she dresses bad, take her to the mall and point out what looks good.

ya rly

this 1 chick at my college i hanged out with for a short period of time lost weight and is a HOTTIE now

i am seriously thinkin about having her babies

spacefuzz · 04-07-2007, 09:07 AM

I can't believe this hasn't been pointed out, get your jimmy waxed.

collegeBBer · 04-07-2007, 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by spacefuzz

what does she get u?

so far... a $60 tie, a $100 dress shirt, a couple CDs

Mythos219 · 04-07-2007, 09:34 AM

Accept the gifts, be nice to her, but don't do anything remotely sexual with her. She'll get the hint after awhile.

pay tribute · 04-07-2007, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by blackwax

man i've seen some incredible transformation in before and after pics here. get her to start working out, perhaps a trainer, and see if she can become more attractive. who knows, there might be a babe under there.... if she dresses bad, take her to the mall and point out what looks good.

yeah that's not going to happen.

NYY · 04-07-2007, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Tristan12345

ya rly

this 1 chick at my college i hanged out with for a short period of time lost weight and is a HOTTIE now

i am seriously thinkin about having her babies

Dude, your a guy.

WCC · 04-07-2007, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Tristan12345

ya rly

this 1 chick at my college i hanged out with for a short period of time lost weight and is a HOTTIE now

i am seriously thinkin about having her babies

if i were you, i'd be seriously thinking about picking up a biology textbook.
jesus christ...

TricepsNGirls · 04-07-2007, 12:34 PM

Give the gifts back; they are a liability. You really shouldn't have accepted them in the first place. She's investing in you, and we all know how much people hate losing out on their investments. Desperate people can misconstrue anything as a sign of attraction and use it to continue fueling their hopes. Definitely don't accept any more from her.

spacefuzz · 04-07-2007, 12:39 PM

**** her vag,
makes babies,
PROFIT!! $$$

Lean_Muscle · 04-07-2007, 03:09 PM

Milk it until it blows up in your face

Magnus_9 · 04-07-2007, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by TricepsNGirls

Give the gifts back; they are a liability. You really shouldn't have accepted them in the first place. She's investing in you, and we all know how much people hate losing out on their investments. Desperate people can misconstrue anything as a sign of attraction and use it to continue fueling their hopes. Definitely don't accept any more from her.

No, don't give the gifts back.

A person of value does not give gifts back.

Think about all the girls who get gifts from AFCs. Do they return them? No. Because the girls think they are the prize.

Just take your gifts, and tell her you're not interested.
Make her learn her lesson that buying gifts does not create attraction.

TricepsNGirls · 04-07-2007, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Magnus_9

No, don't give the gifts back.

A person of value does not give gifts back.

Think about all the girls who get gifts from AFCs. Do they return them? No. Because the girls think they are the prize.

Just take your gifts, and tell her you're not interested.
Make her learn her lesson that buying gifts does not create attraction.

I wouldn't exactly call gold-diggers and manipulative women the bastions of moral behavior. Taking things from susceptible and vulnerable people isn't good, period. If one needs the offerings of oblivious, weak-minded people to sustain a delusional self-assurance, that says a little something about their own character. The first few times - no biggie, you didn't know any better. The OP is doing the right thing by considering how to end this charade.