chance of her coming back??

bomb9932 · 03-19-2007, 01:30 PM

im 21 any my gf was 18.....long story short...i treated her great...probably too good i bought her a lot of things, took her places, and was there for her through emotional probs she had with her family...she always told me u better never break my heart and told me i was all she had and she would of ran away or killed herself if it wasnt for me cuz of family probs....it lasted 4 months ...we went to florida for a week to stay with my fam for vacation...when we came back a few days later i noticed she didnt call as much ...a week later she ignores my calls and basically tells me on the phone were too different and needs space and she told me very angrily almost like i did something to her but i did nothing...next day she wouldnt answer my call then i takled to her a few days later cuz i had to pick up my suitcase from her but she had a neighbor give it to me ...she was a bit more friendlier on the phone that time...a few days later i call her and she was very pissed saying we agreed we werent gonna talk and basically rushed me off the phone......a few days later my friend pranks her and her friend...the next day she calls and is mad i tell her its not my fault and she gets nicer and we talk for a few mins about how each of us is doing and she says she will call me later but never does....this was 2 days ago...i dont know what to do because i really care about her and want her back but do not want to push her away.........help lol!!!

MANOSTEEL00 · 03-19-2007, 01:32 PM

Love hurts, but you're with a headcase.

Word of the wise, NEVER date a girl with serious family problems unless you want them to also become your problem.

Move on Tex, plenty of women out there.

Budweiser · 03-19-2007, 01:34 PM

i'm not going to lie to you...it's not looking for you.

Blake Austin · 03-19-2007, 01:40 PM

Stop calling, as you're suffocating her. If she liked you and wanted to be with you, she would.

Move on, this ballgame is over, son.

mr.perffect · 03-19-2007, 01:41 PM

it might not seem like it now but, trust me it's for the best. you don't want this nutjob in your life. move on ... quickly!

HopkinFrog · 03-19-2007, 01:43 PM

I feel for you man, as a previous poster mentioned.. love hurts haha!

You could either

a) Move on, forget about her (but I sense you'd rather not)
b) Let her know you're there for her and you feel no different for her than you did - and if she needs to talk about anything you're always going to be there to listen.

Option B leaves you totally out of control though - and will probably drive you mad. I was in a similar situation and chose B; and it hurt like hell. If I could choose again she'd be getting A.

Good luck either way man, I hope everything turns out ok!

MrDreamWeaver · 03-19-2007, 01:46 PM

HOLY ****

Dude what the **** man? The girl is mentally unstable. She's a prick.

Not worth it man. Get a nice girl.

AND STOP ****ING CALLING HER YOU PUSSY. SERIOUSLY WTF THIS GIRL IS A BITCH. HAVE SOME ****EN RESPECT FOR YOURSELF

Wendel_Clark_17 · 03-19-2007, 01:47 PM

The only way I see her coming back is pounding on the door, middle of the night, with slit wrists.

1/2man1/2amazin · 03-19-2007, 02:04 PM

wow what a headcase... she seemed agitated out of nowhere.. maybe you got her pregnant?

if not... the just ignore her back... if she likes you she ll come back.. if not you deserve better.

crease123 · 03-19-2007, 02:12 PM

Stop calling her, stat! If she really wants to continue the relationship, she will call you. If she didn't, I'm sorry bro but she's over you or prolly found someone else.

hugs · 03-19-2007, 02:14 PM

Yeah, definitely don't call her or try to contact her right now. I knwo it's hard, but you're only making it worse for you by doing this (since she gets so mad when you try to talk to her). I really don't know what else to say about all this...hopefully she'll realize how horrible she's being and apologize in a few days and maybe you guys can talk things out...that is, if you still want her. Looks like she's really mean when she gets mad...warning flag.

Blake Austin · 03-19-2007, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by hugs

Yeah, definitely don't call her or try to contact her right now. I knwo it's hard, but you're only making it worse for you by doing this (since she gets so mad when you try to talk to her). I really don't know what else to say about all this...hopefully she'll realize how horrible she's being and apologize in a few days and maybe you guys can talk things out...that is, if you still want her. Looks like she's really mean when she gets mad...warning flag.

Well hello there.

Russ-T · 03-19-2007, 02:35 PM

It seems that if you call her your pushing her away and if you dont talk to her you could push her away. It seems like a loose loose situation even though you liked her srry dude sever all ties with her becuase its just not worth it. She might end up wanting you in awhile but right now its not at all. No matter what you do your going to have to wait and maybe its for the best because after you've been waiting you will realize she wasn't worth all that hassle and get over her quicker.

Rob Awesome · 03-19-2007, 03:31 PM

yo bro... I dated a girl for 4 months whose brother is in the Marines (Stationed in Iraq)... and her parents aren't open arms to her.

Headcase. Long story short... I was like you & was too good to her. She wasn't used to it. She broke it off with me. She came back, I said no. She gets pissy & blocks me on AIM, Phone # & facebook. I apologize, she wants time. she comes back & wants the friend thing, yet we're still VERY flirtatious. I finally put my foot down & say no friendship, no nothing. Move on.

I missed her oh so much for the next month or so...

I got over it, I moved on. Found someone new, but we're not dating... yet

Good luck bro!

Some tips you can do to get over it...

1. Cut her out completely. You can't be troubled with her bullsh*t if you want to get over her

2. Try changing something about yourself... get a new article of clothing... dye your hair... do something. Next time she'll see you out & notice how you look different.. thinking she made a mistake that you look good. Don't feed into her games, either.

3. IF you're the type of guy & you need it... go to a bar. At last call you'll find those single girls sitting there, but before the lights go on... grab one & take her home with you. Just **** her & get it all out of you. No disrespect to the ladies, but if she's there alone at last call... chances are she's waiting for someone to pick her up anyways because she may be in a similar situation... this is just the opportune moment for no strings attached sex.

...Good luck man!

bomb9932 · 03-21-2007, 11:06 AM

UPDATE: She called me this morning and left a message that she really needs my help or she is gonna fail 2 of her classes...she needs a confirmation number of our florida tickets that we had because our flight was cancelled and we got back 2 days late which is gonna cause her to fail her classes if she does not get it........i gave her every possible number and ticket info i could when we were still together so i dont understand what else she expects from me because i told her at the time thats all i could get as there is no more info of the tickets i could come up with.........i dont know if this is a way of calling me or she really needs the info.....how should i respond on the phone to get her back because if i ask her to come back shes probably gonna go away....im thinking i should ignore her or if i pick up next time she calls rush her off the phone ...suggestions????

justsublime · 03-21-2007, 11:35 AM

Why Would You Want Her Back???????????????????????????

She Is Using You!

bomb9932 · 03-21-2007, 11:59 AM

i just spoke to her and she needs me to get the airline info cuz they need my credit card number to do it but theres no way im calling for her after how shes treated me lately.........she now told me the reason we broke up is because i would never believe what she would tell me and i would think she was lying...and it just annoyed her too much.....i dont think that reason makes much sense because occasionally i would not believe her because i know she would make up stories sometimes...but according to her that bothered her so much that she will never get back with me....who knows if thats even the real reason with her

The Experiment · 03-21-2007, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by bomb9932

i just spoke to her and she needs me to get the airline info cuz they need my credit card number to do it but theres no way im calling for her after how shes treated me lately.........she now told me the reason we broke up is because i would never believe what she would tell me and i would think she was lying...and it just annoyed her too much.....i dont think that reason makes much sense because occasionally i would not believe her because i know she would make up stories sometimes...but according to her that bothered her so much that she will never get back with me....who knows if thats even the real reason with her

ROFL

She is good. Very good.

Hasaki · 03-21-2007, 12:17 PM

Don't bother giving her the info.

Just cut contact, and move on. My ex had alot of family problems (and she also fabricated alot of stories), and the way she broke up with me sounds similar to that (although there was also many other factors involved in it). **** the headcases, seriously. Find yourself a nice new girl with her head on straight, it might take a bit of time, but until then just concentrate on yourself and it'll be alot easier.

mr.perffect · 03-21-2007, 12:18 PM

as previously stated get as far away from this girl as possible.

skew12 · 03-21-2007, 12:25 PM

jesus man. in three relatively short paragraphs i can tell that this girl is absolutely horrible. she seems ****ed in the head and this relationship is heading nowhere....and fast. cut her off for a bit, thatll be best for both of you. and ESPECIALLY if you want her back. no's the time to leave her be or else you'll smother her and further her disinterest for you. and once that starts with a girl, there's pretty much no gaining it back.

my advice: RUN FOR YOU ****ING LIFE

masheen · 03-21-2007, 01:43 PM

i agree with the other posters when they say 'run'; not worth even thinking about it bro.