hey u's guise i have been hanging out with a chick who has a bf..but im not sure?

eleven blocked · 01-09-2007, 07:39 PM

so i am 19...and the girl is 17. i am about to be 20 in february so 3 years diffrence..no biggie. im a freshman in college and she is a senior in high school

i met her about 2 weeks ago and she texts me like crazy on the weekdays..on the weekends not so much.. ive hungout with her twice and on the second time which was last thursday she came over to my apt..and we did nothing but lay in my bed and talk...sounds gay i kno but i told her since i picked what we did last time...it was her turn to pick and she wanted to lay there...i said haha ok

jadajada we talk and i give her a pair of my shorts to wear and we take a nap together i dropped her off and that night when i was in her driveway she leaned over kissed me and grabbed my left eat and whispered in it " your amazing..you could be the most perfect guy ive ever met" i mean i usually dont believe **** like that but we REALLY get along good...

i have hardly heard from her since then..and things were great when i dropped her off on thursday... i checked her myspace today and she has some dude in her # 1 slot i cant remember if he was there before or not... and on January 1st.. (new years day) he left her a comment that said "
last night was amazing and i'm glad i got to spend as much of it as i could with you. it was definitely 100 times better than my last new years eve.. i love you!" only thing is she is the type of girls that throws i love u's around and other guys give em to her,...only thing that makes this diffrent is the dude being on number one spot

he is sorta punk tho and im not sure she likes that stuff...anyways i am not SURE if this is whats going on but she hasnt texted me in four days and im starting to wonder...i dont wanna ask her tho if that isnt the case i will look like a psycho for doing my detective work..and thinking about this so much lollercoaster

discuss.

here is a pic i took on the 2nd date i mentioned

http://img292.imageshack.us/my.php?i...cture51nd5.jpg

Hasaki · 01-09-2007, 07:51 PM

Sounds like an attention whore, don't bother with her.

eleven blocked · 01-09-2007, 07:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hasaki

Sounds like an attention whore, don't bother with her.

hmm what made u say that?

Hasaki · 01-09-2007, 08:02 PM

She tells you you're amazing, then leaves comments to another guy about how their night together was amazing. Come on now... She's just trying to play both of you on to see which one is going to be more fun for her to play with. Just watch.

eleven blocked · 01-09-2007, 08:06 PM

yea i see ur point there...she left him that comment on jan 1..i hung out with her like jan 4th or 5th so idk

brigg554 · 01-10-2007, 08:09 AM

so call her... ask her whats up

myspace is useless for all you know he loves her and shes his "friend"... be straight up with her and see what she says, what do you have to lose
?

shes 17... they change their love interests faster then they change their outfits

joshwilson1 · 01-10-2007, 08:24 AM

If she tells you that she has another guy on the side, whether or not he is her boyfriend, is that something you want to deal with? Only you can come up with that answer. We all have our own opinions, but we are not you.

deere_T · 01-10-2007, 08:28 AM

You can either leave it alone and go find someone else, so you dont have to worry about any drama, or you can confront her and just ask her whats up. tell her you dont want to waste your time on her if there is someone else.

Wendel_Clark_17 · 01-10-2007, 08:32 AM

She looks like she's had her nose broken. That could mean one of the following or both:

1. Some other guy is sick of her ****.

or

2. She doesn't listen.

1/2man1/2amazin · 01-10-2007, 09:24 AM

where the f*** did you learn to spell "guys"? academy of retards? just curious. (no homo)

JonZ · 01-10-2007, 10:04 AM

I agree with Hasaki

Inox · 01-10-2007, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by eleven blocked

i met her about 2 weeks ago and she texts me like crazy on the weekdays..on the weekends not so much.

i have hardly heard from her since then..and things were great when i dropped her off on thursday... i checked her myspace today and she has some dude in her # 1 slot

..anyways i am not SURE if this is whats going on but she hasnt texted me in four days and im starting to wonder

Pretty much anytime a girl radically alters her communication pattern, something is up. It would be one thing if she were away on vacation, suddenly severely ill, etc., but I'm assuming that you don't have any reason to think something like that's the case.

When you couple that with some guy in her #1 spot on myspace (significant for girls in that age group), and the comment he left...I dunno, man, I'd move on unless she contacts you first.

My bet is that there was some sort of potential between those two for a while, and for whatever reason it came together recently (perhaps unexpectedly). High school girls can be very fickle, so don't sweat it.

BIG MOHO · 01-10-2007, 12:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wendel_Clark_17

She looks like she's had her nose broken. That could mean one of the following or both:

1. Some other guy is sick of her ****.

or

2. She doesn't listen.

LMAO!