This one chick... What do you think?

TheCrime91 · 01-07-2007, 10:44 PM

Man I ain't the type to go on a message board and post up some personal stuff about myself but everyone I've talked to ain't really sayin nothin about this situation so tell me what you think:

There's this girl and me and her dated for about 6 or 7 months back in the day and as crazy as it sounds I always had somethin for her even after we broke up but it never bothered me and I didn't even think about it cuz I wasn't actually talking to her, well we hadn't talked or hung out or anything like that in about a year or 2 and she calls me friday night like "I just passed by your neighborhood so you should call me later cuz I wanna see you" so I call her at about 10 and meet her up at some parking lot and follow her home cuz she recently moved and we get there and we just talk all night long and kiss and cuddle and all that stuff (like when we broke up it was on really bad terms so I had no idea where this was coming from) but I wasn't complaining b/c I was enjoying her cuz I mean I've kinda liked her for forever so yesterday I go over to her house at like 3 and chill for an hour and she leaves to go over to her cousins house and I meet up with her at about 9 and she had to go somewhere else and told me to call her so we could get up later so I do and she keeps making excuses why she can't hang out with me and **** sayin that she's driving around drunk and that her cousin's parents aren't gonna let her leave the house b/c she's drunk but then she would call me and say "I'M HERE!" and I would be like "Well check this out I'll come meet you up there" and she would say some bull**** like "Oh I'm about to leave" and all that **** so she's like "Call me tomorrow and we'll hang out" so I call her this morning and she's cool with it and all but I had to cut the grass so I told her it might be a lil while so I call her when I'm done and I'm like "So can I come over now?" and she's like "I'm over at my cousin's house and we are about to go to the appartment complexes and I'm like "Why?" and she's like "Well I'm gonna hang out with some people...." and I'm like "Who? I know abuncha people that live over there" and she's all like "Umm you don't know them" and I was like "You're going to see a guy aren't you?" and she's like "Yeah but we're just friends it's me and my cousin and her boyfriend and we're gonna watch movies or somethin so I'll call you when I leave" so I call her about 4 hours later after I woke up from a nap and I was like "What's up?" and she's like "Going back to the appartments" and I was like "Well stop by the gym real quick just to say hey or somethin cuz I'm up here" and she's like "I can't I told him I would be right back and I'm almost there anyway" and the gym is right down the road, so she calls me later after she leaves and we talk and I didn't say nothin cuz I didn't feel like fighting and then she tells me she wants to hang out during the week and all this **** but I honestly think she was ****in one dude and that they aren't "just friends" and that she's leading me on... any thoughts suggestions or anything of that nature? I plan on talking to her about it tomorrow too and I don't know how to go about with that so just let me know...

Traps_123 · 01-07-2007, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by TheCrime91

Man I ain't the type to go on a message board and post up some personal stuff about myself but everyone I've talked to ain't really sayin nothin about this situation so tell me what you think:

There's this girl and me and her dated for about 6 or 7 months back in the day and as crazy as it sounds I always had somethin for her even after we broke up but it never bothered me and I didn't even think about it cuz I wasn't actually talking to her, well we hadn't talked or hung out or anything like that in about a year or 2 and she calls me friday night like "I just passed by your neighborhood so you should call me later cuz I wanna see you" so I call her at about 10 and meet her up at some parking lot and follow her home cuz she recently moved and we get there and we just talk all night long and kiss and cuddle and all that stuff (like when we broke up it was on really bad terms so I had no idea where this was coming from) but I wasn't complaining b/c I was enjoying her cuz I mean I've kinda liked her for forever so yesterday I go over to her house at like 3 and chill for an hour and she leaves to go over to her cousins house and I meet up with her at about 9 and she had to go somewhere else and told me to call her so we could get up later so I do and she keeps making excuses why she can't hang out with me and **** sayin that she's driving around drunk and that her cousin's parents aren't gonna let her leave the house b/c she's drunk but then she would call me and say "I'M HERE!" and I would be like "Well check this out I'll come meet you up there" and she would say some bull**** like "Oh I'm about to leave" and all that **** so she's like "Call me tomorrow and we'll hang out" so I call her this morning and she's cool with it and all but I had to cut the grass so I told her it might be a lil while so I call her when I'm done and I'm like "So can I come over now?" and she's like "I'm over at my cousin's house and we are about to go to the appartment complexes and I'm like "Why?" and she's like "Well I'm gonna hang out with some people...." and I'm like "Who? I know abuncha people that live over there" and she's all like "Umm you don't know them" and I was like "You're going to see a guy aren't you?" and she's like "Yeah but we're just friends it's me and my cousin and her boyfriend and we're gonna watch movies or somethin so I'll call you when I leave" so I call her about 4 hours later after I woke up from a nap and I was like "What's up?" and she's like "Going back to the appartments" and I was like "Well stop by the gym real quick just to say hey or somethin cuz I'm up here" and she's like "I can't I told him I would be right back and I'm almost there anyway" and the gym is right down the road, so she calls me later after she leaves and we talk and I didn't say nothin cuz I didn't feel like fighting and then she tells me she wants to hang out during the week and all this **** but I honestly think she was ****in one dude and that they aren't "just friends" and that she's leading me on... any thoughts suggestions or anything of that nature? I plan on talking to her about it tomorrow too and I don't know how to go about with that so just let me know...

Firstly, do everyone a favour and cliffnote this ****.

Secondly, shes using you for emotional support...nothin more.

and finally.........move on. you broke up for a reason now didnt you....

1/2man1/2amazin · 01-07-2007, 11:23 PM

^ yea youer prettymuch a crutch

and yea hes right cliffnote that s*** because i rephrased the other guys answer because i didnt want to read a short novel before bedtime

ChefPhalBignuts · 01-07-2007, 11:29 PM

Why did you guys break up the first time?

daviess · 01-07-2007, 11:33 PM

she probably just wanted to see you again, hang with you for a moment or two because she is insecure or feeling crappy about hereself, and just having that knowledge knowing that there is a dude out there (you) who still likes her makes her feel good.

dont get attached already. dont look into it for more than it is, just take it as is. nothing.

dont call her five plus times a day. just stop worrying about her and what she is doing. if she still liked you she would have talked to you over the years. and she would be spending some more time with you or inviting u to these places.

you moved on, keep it that way. unless you can contain the emotional baggage.

kmk25II45 · 01-07-2007, 11:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheCrime91

Man I ain't the type to go on a message board and post up some personal stuff about myself but everyone I've talked to ain't really sayin nothin about this situation so tell me what you think:

There's this girl and me and her dated for about 6 or 7 months back in the day and as crazy as it sounds I always had somethin for her even after we broke up but it never bothered me and I didn't even think about it cuz I wasn't actually talking to her, well we hadn't talked or hung out or anything like that in about a year or 2 and she calls me friday night like "I just passed by your neighborhood so you should call me later cuz I wanna see you" so I call her at about 10 and meet her up at some parking lot and follow her home cuz she recently moved and we get there and we just talk all night long and kiss and cuddle and all that stuff (like when we broke up it was on really bad terms so I had no idea where this was coming from) but I wasn't complaining b/c I was enjoying her cuz I mean I've kinda liked her for forever so yesterday I go over to her house at like 3 and chill for an hour and she leaves to go over to her cousins house and I meet up with her at about 9 and she had to go somewhere else and told me to call her so we could get up later so I do and she keeps making excuses why she can't hang out with me and **** sayin that she's driving around drunk and that her cousin's parents aren't gonna let her leave the house b/c she's drunk but then she would call me and say "I'M HERE!" and I would be like "Well check this out I'll come meet you up there" and she would say some bull**** like "Oh I'm about to leave" and all that **** so she's like "Call me tomorrow and we'll hang out" so I call her this morning and she's cool with it and all but I had to cut the grass so I told her it might be a lil while so I call her when I'm done and I'm like "So can I come over now?" and she's like "I'm over at my cousin's house and we are about to go to the appartment complexes and I'm like "Why?" and she's like "Well I'm gonna hang out with some people...." and I'm like "Who? I know abuncha people that live over there" and she's all like "Umm you don't know them" and I was like "You're going to see a guy aren't you?" and she's like "Yeah but we're just friends it's me and my cousin and her boyfriend and we're gonna watch movies or somethin so I'll call you when I leave" so I call her about 4 hours later after I woke up from a nap and I was like "What's up?" and she's like "Going back to the appartments" and I was like "Well stop by the gym real quick just to say hey or somethin cuz I'm up here" and she's like "I can't I told him I would be right back and I'm almost there anyway" and the gym is right down the road, so she calls me later after she leaves and we talk and I didn't say nothin cuz I didn't feel like fighting and then she tells me she wants to hang out during the week and all this **** but I honestly think she was ****in one dude and that they aren't "just friends" and that she's leading me on... any thoughts suggestions or anything of that nature? I plan on talking to her about it tomorrow too and I don't know how to go about with that so just let me know...

You know, you are allowed to end a sentence every one in awhile as opposed to linking every one of your thoughts together with "and".

Inox · 01-08-2007, 10:35 AM

Yeah, she was probably getting together with some guy over there. If I were you, I'd move on.

emark · 01-08-2007, 11:44 AM

cant trust her. Move on to bigger (or smaller) and better

joshwilson1 · 01-08-2007, 11:53 AM

Why do you allow yourself to be subserviant to all of her needs and constantly stroke her emotional ego by constantly calling her and telling her you wnat to see her? This has made you look weak and she knows that you will always be there for her. Even if you do not have anything to do, make something up when you are talking with her. She needs to know that you are not always available. Man up a little bit and let your voice mail pick up her call when she says that she wants to see you sometime and then call her back a couple of days later telling her that you were busy and did not have time to call her.

STAND UP FOR YOURSLELF WITH THIS DAME!!!