Any guys here ever done B&D?

[Jay Rawd]

If you have, were you the master, or was she the mistress? Did you like it? Any stories?

[Jay Rawd]

B&D=Bondage % Discipline.

Need replies here.

[Jay Rawd]

Geno!

You have sex.

Do you have any thoughts on this?

[Geno]

Sorry bro - I'm hammered at work today. Yes we have done it and she really enjoys it - doesn't do that much for me. I'm pretty sure the d is domination but discipline is just about the same meaning. You'll have to give me a while to type something intelligent (either when I get home or I get the huge rush project that is SOMEONE ELSE'S and fubar out the door).

[Jay Rawd]

Ouch. Alright whatever then.

[Mammoth3]

[QUOTE=Jay Rawd]Geno!

You have sex.
[QUOTE]

you sure about that?

[Jay Rawd]

[QUOTE=Mammoth3][QUOTE=Jay Rawd]Geno!

You have sex.

you sure about that?

uh sure...why not...

[Geno]

Gee thanks mammoth3 - I don't think my imagination is as wild as my sex life has become lately. I mean I had a good sex life before the wife left or very regular anyway but it's pretty f'cking nuts now - no comparison.

I don't do sub all that well and bamagirl likes to be dominated so that's the way it usually goes (not to mention I broke the handcuffs last time she chained me down - not on purpose, I was trying to scoot up a little further because the circulation was cut off to my hands and SNAP broken cuff - damn things were obviously made to hold a woman and not a man).

She likes it a lot - me not so much. Holding her down by her hair and having really rough sex is a turn on for me but the whole being tied up thing is not really - I don't dislike it - I'm kind of neutral on it.

As for stories - we usually follow the same general idea as the email to her I will post below - I'm sure everyone has seen it but it gives you an idea of how ours goes. We change up things pretty regularly but not a whole lot - a new gag every now and then, a new toy or a collar to lead her around with, etc.

Let's see.....first I tear off your shirt, ripping it into strips and running them through the large eye bolts behind the bed. Then tie your hands with the shreds of your blouse, one on each side. After you are secured then I will be blindfolding you (a little roughly), stripping off the rest of your clothes piece by piece and with a long feather I'll lightly touch you in random places - stomach, upper arms, neck, ears, nipples, inside your thighs, across the backs of your knees, armpit (since I have your arms tied up high and you can't hide your cute little armpits from me - exposed for all the world to abuse). Then I'll leave the room and let you wonder what's next for a while. About the time you think I've left you and I'm not coming back, I'll begin to kiss and suck on you - first your arms since they are so vulnerable up over you head and stretched tight, then your belly (paying special attention to your navel). Kissing your thighs, legs, feet and toes.

At this point you are dripping and moaning. While you are enjoying being touched gently and aroused beyond the norm of sexual play I will SPANK your cute little butt. Alternately touching you lightly with a sensual hand or feather and SPANKING your cute little ass. This will continue for at least fifteen minutes - never knowing where or what will come next - it may be a soft caress or it may be a sharp smack causing pain but, at the same time, an intensely sexual sensory experience. You are now dripping, moaning and orgasming on a regular basis.

I leave again. Frustrated, you pull against your bonds in a futile attempt to at least remove your blindfold and finally exhausted, you give up and lie there whondering what, if anything will be next.

When I return you sense another presence in the room. My lips caress you and kiss you but another pair of lips begins to do the same. You wonder what I'm doing and who is seeing you in this situation when hard nipples brush your belly as the other person suckles your breast giving away the fact that it is a girl but nothing more. Unable to see or touch the stranger and ..................

Want more? Want rough play instead of this sugar coated niceness? Want someone who knows how to make a play session last for four hours and bring about dozens of really HARD orgasms? Do you even know what you want?

This is about the most explicit email I've written bamagirl and I've posted it just about everywhere. When I got home she had a drink for me in hand, the cutest little teddy on and candles burning all over the house. Heh heh heh.

Word to the wise - gulp the drink or you may not get to finish it.

[assfault]

Not this white boy.

[Regice]

Originally Posted by assfault

Not this white boy.

Which white boy? Are the white boys taking over the forum?

[BondageBud]

Originally Posted by Geno

I don't do sub all that well and bamagirl likes to be dominated so that's the way it usually goes (not to mention I broke the handcuffs last time she chained me down - not on purpose, I was trying to scoot up a little further because the circulation was cut off to my hands and SNAP broken cuff - damn things were obviously made to hold a woman and not a man).

She likes it a lot - me not so much.

When you have been cuffed did you find it arousing? or you were being a good sport and trying to roll with it, for her?

So long as the person who's in the restraints is having fun, sounds like a good plan to me.

[BondageBud]

He enjoys the muscule pump he gets while struggling in tight ropes.

[MantisShrimp]

I find it campy
ymmv

[caramon]

Originally Posted by Jay Rawd

If you have, were you the master, or was she the mistress? Did you like it? Any stories?

I like B & D type ****. I've had quite a few run-ins with girls who have also shared the same tastes.

When I was 23, I met a rich blonde in her early 40's (she was banging--9/10). Apparently, she spoke fluent Swiss German and she lived in Switzerland for about 10 years of her life. I have lived in Switzerland for a few months and knew a little Swiss German.

When she mentioned she lived in Switzerland, I spoke a few phrases of Swiss-German to her. Her jaw dropped and we kicked it off from there. We made out, then she took me home in her convertible jaguar.

She told me that she was really into B & D. She put on a latex dress, thigh high boots, and all that fetish stuff and we just went at it all night. Her heels were painfully digging into my sides and I was loving every minute of it. We went at it on and off until sunrise.

Another time, I modeled with a British girl and the photographer had us make more and more sensual poses together. By the way she was breathing, I knew she was horny as hell and so was I. She even suggested to the photographer we add a couple foot fetish/domination shots for the shoot. So basically I had to lick her feet and have her step on me with her heels while she was pulling my hair.

We went out to a restaurant later. She asked me where I was staying later and I told her that I probably had to get a hotel. She offered to let me stay at her place and it went downhill from there. She tied me to her bedpost and went all out crazy from there. In the morning, when I got up out of bed to put my clothes on, she pushed me back down and jumped on top of me and went at it again. We kept in touch for awhile through phone and e-mail, but she lived far from where I was staying. We never met again although she did leave up a few pictures of us on her website for awhile.

Man, 2005 was a great year.

[INSANEREACH]

Iam seriously into that scene but I have only been in one relationship where B+D was involved. I met her in a fetish club in London that me and a mate went to for a giggle. She was one of the dancers there and very goodlooking.

She was the mistress . And it was a lifestyle thing in with her. Although when we went out it was a normal boyfriend /girlfriend thing as it looks rather odd otherwize. I really enjoyed it at first as I have always seen professional dommes (those you pay for) and here I was getting it for free plus hot sex. I used to have to walk around nekkid the entire time at her flat , and when ever she got the urge she would beat me. She would tie me up and use all sorts of 'toys' too. She had a very high sex drive and my knob would be sore every day.

But unfortunately it then got weird. When we were out if she saw me looking at another female she would go nuts when we got home and beat me up and not in a controlled way.... with her fists . She also cut me with a carving knife and chucked hot coffee at my groin. What ended the relationship was she wanted me to sign a 'slave contract' with loads of fuked up conditions. One of which was 'branding' (SERIOUS) SHE WANTED TO BRAND ME LIKE CATTLE. And have some kind of ring thing put in my dick.

So I ended it . Now I have gone back to seeing pros as I find it is much safer . Theycan judge pain levels better and won't get upset if I talk to another woman! I have a girlfriend right now who knows nothing of this and it is a moral dilemma. As it is techniquely cheating even if I am not having sex with the domme I see. But I can't face telling my burd I like being tied up and thrashed with a riding crop and things forced up my arse. Iam getting round it by the domme using whips that leave no markings but still feel bad.