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05-07-2007, 02:47 PM
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Need your opinion (serious)
What would you think or do if your b/f or g/f liked to email people and ask them to send them pics??????
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05-07-2007, 02:48 PM
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Tell them to stop that bull****...
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05-07-2007, 02:49 PM
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I'd communicate, because that's what a relationship is built on. Ask them what's up.
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Abercrombie's not about helping people, No, Abercrombie's about about playing rugby in a fresh green field with your bset buddy, and both of you forgot your clothes. Abercrombie's about hittin the slopes on a crisp winter day, then going back to roaring fire and having group sex. Abercrombie's about doing laps at the old pool house with your bros from the swim team, and shaving each other's legs for speed, and each other's nads for fun.
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05-07-2007, 02:52 PM
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I LoVe BrIaN!!!
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Julian~
I'd communicate, because that's what a relationship is built on. Ask them what's up.
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So what if you asked the person not to and they said they will not do it but they still do it?!?!?!?!?!?
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05-07-2007, 02:54 PM
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let them cheat on you
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05-07-2007, 02:54 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by HMoore
So what if you asked the person not to and they said they will not do it but they still do it?!?!?!?!?!?
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send the pics to me, ill be the judge of whether or not its bad.
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05-07-2007, 02:56 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by HMoore
So what if you asked the person not to and they said they will not do it but they still do it?!?!?!?!?!?
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First, figure out why they want the pics. Maybe it's for a rational reason, if not, and just for kicks and giggles; then ask him to stop because it makes you uncomfortable.
"You lied to me, and I don't put up with that. This has nothing to do with the Email anymore. You lied, and I don't put up with liars. Do it again, and we're through."
One lie always begots another, so if he starts lying, he won't stop. I would never be in a ANY relationship where my girlfriend would even consider lying to me. As soon as that happens; we're through.
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Abercrombie's not about helping people, No, Abercrombie's about about playing rugby in a fresh green field with your bset buddy, and both of you forgot your clothes. Abercrombie's about hittin the slopes on a crisp winter day, then going back to roaring fire and having group sex. Abercrombie's about doing laps at the old pool house with your bros from the swim team, and shaving each other's legs for speed, and each other's nads for fun.
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05-07-2007, 02:57 PM
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I LoVe BrIaN!!!
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Quote:
Originally Posted by McGiant
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It's not like that, i know he wouldn't cheat I trust him but he thinks it is fun!!!!!
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05-07-2007, 03:04 PM
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Send me some pics of you to me....That'll teach him!
Edit- sorry, did not notice the (serious).
Last edited by Mike Hancho; 05-07-2007 at 03:07 PM.
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05-10-2007, 05:19 AM
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Eh, the real problem is it makes you uncomfortable and you asked them to stop doing it. The fact that he still does it because it's "fun" just shows a lack of respect for others feelings.
Plus, I'm sure the 30-somethings going to have "sex" with the 13 or 14 year old girls think it's all "fun" until the reporter walks out of the back room and cops pop out of nowhere to slap on the irons.
The definition of "fun" varies greatly depending on the person, but the definition of respect is fairly constant imo...
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05-10-2007, 05:59 AM
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speaking of pic...teh misc needs a spoon pic for verification
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05-10-2007, 05:40 PM
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Can I answer the Q with a Q? (hang on thats a Q!!)
Does he love you? Do you love him? (these are rhetorical Q's)
OK, if the answer is yes, then, if it makes you uncomfortable and you communicate this well, then love compels him to stop... not because he's whipped or out of obligation, but because he LOVES you - end of story.
Likewise, if having the second most hit profile on bodyspace, and constantly getting harrassed with dodgy comments and hit on by testostrone driven BBers ogling your pics etc etc makes your BF uncomfortable then love compels you to do something about that too.
It's not controlling one another, it's placing the other persons feelings etc before your own. This is love IMO. It builds up, it encourages, it brings out the best, it is not self seeking and it definitely is not jelous!
On the other hand if you don't love him, or vice versa, just punch him in the throat and tell him to %@*!ing quit it! 
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05-10-2007, 09:34 PM
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pictures are harmless,
web cam sex.. thatd be a lil dif
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05-12-2007, 09:23 AM
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im kinda with daviess above^^^^ but........ ask the b/f if he would like you sending pix of yourself to other guys etc.
He may see your side of the argument then
hope you sort everything out
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05-12-2007, 09:25 AM
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make sure the message includes
"noodz or negs!"
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