Great....I find the girl I like is....

bigboy18 · 11-09-2009, 01:54 PM

a "Spinster" ? Wtf is this bullsh*t

Supposedly, she wants to remain single... or some bs. I've only met with her twice and talked to her once.... but is there no fkin point in trying to persue her if she wants to remain single for the rest of her life?

Feels weird man. She's 19. Honestly, am I just wasting my time?

slimjimmacdim · 11-09-2009, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by bigboy18

a "Spinster" ? Wtf is this bullsh*t

Supposedly, she wants to remain single... or some bs. I've only met with her twice and talked to her once.... but is there no fkin point in trying to persue her if she wants to remain single for the rest of her life?

Feels weird man. She's 19. Honestly, am I just wasting my time?

she b up 4 loads of sex tho

bigboy18 · 11-09-2009, 02:25 PM

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she b up 4 loads of sex tho

haha..im not sure about that..shes a good girl (Church) ...probably a virgin.

never had a bf.....i think she likes white guys..(I'm freakin asian) lol

fail.

Zeus2012 · 11-09-2009, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by bigboy18

haha..im not sure about that..shes a good girl (Church) ...probably a virgin.

never had a bf.....i think she likes white guys..(I'm freakin asian) lol

fail.

Dude go for it im sure she hasnt made her life plan final yet, things change

Edit - Didnt see you were asian, better find someone else lol

bigboy18 · 11-09-2009, 02:33 PM

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Dude go for it im sure she hasnt made her life plan final yet, things change

Edit - Didnt see you were asian, better find someone else lol

shes.. half white..half filipino...

But fuk..its gonna be hard.

MassiveIntense · 11-09-2009, 03:22 PM

why you chasin after pussy that is impossible to reach? no point in chassing this brah, you gonna waste lots of time and effort with no good end result

source: my experience and countless others

beaucephus · 11-09-2009, 03:39 PM

Lol, every girls wants to be single until the meet the guy that makes them feel otherwise.

Tiffany Wantsmore · 11-09-2009, 03:46 PM

A spinster is simply the female equivalent of a bachelor, ie someone who hasn't been married. Nobody knows what they want at 19 anyway, if she meets the right guy she'll change her mind. Living alone can be great sometimes, but other times it sucks.

marcFE · 11-09-2009, 03:49 PM

She says that because she is not interested. Any girl will attempt to lock down a guy they see as a catch and otherwise they will want to remain "single".

beaucephus · 11-09-2009, 03:49 PM

I'd be curious to know what brought her to this realization at 19yrs old?

Bad relationship in her background?

niospecv · 11-09-2009, 03:50 PM

So you've met with her twice yet only spoke to her once. So the other time you didn't say anything?

Fused · 11-09-2009, 04:10 PM

There is no such thing as a "good girl". Go for it. If she says she doesn't want a relationship or anything well that means she just doesn't want a relationship with YOU. A 19 year old has no clue what they want in life, especially a female one.

bigboy18 · 11-10-2009, 12:24 AM

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Originally Posted by MassiveIntense

why you chasin after pussy that is impossible to reach? no point in chassing this brah, you gonna waste lots of time and effort with no good end result

source: my experience and countless others

Nothing is impossible.

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Originally Posted by beaucephus

Lol, every girls wants to be single until the meet the guy that makes them feel otherwise.

I hope I can be that guy.

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Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore

A spinster is simply the female equivalent of a bachelor, ie someone who hasn't been married. Nobody knows what they want at 19 anyway, if she meets the right guy she'll change her mind. Living alone can be great sometimes, but other times it sucks.

Yeah... well at 18, I know what I want... (a relationship) lol.

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Originally Posted by marcFE

She says that because she is not interested. Any girl will attempt to lock down a guy they see as a catch and otherwise they will want to remain "single".

?? Well that's sorta weird... usually girls would want to be in relationships... and my friend told me she's decided to remain a spinster even before she met me. She doesnt want to get married...and I think she wants to stay single...for whatever reason.

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Originally Posted by beaucephus

I'd be curious to know what brought her to this realization at 19yrs old?

Bad relationship in her background?

She's never had any relationships with anyone. She's weird

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So you've met with her twice yet only spoke to her once. So the other time you didn't say anything?

Yeah....i'm an idiot... a fool for not speaking up. But i'll try again.

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Originally Posted by Fused

There is no such thing as a "good girl". Go for it. If she says she doesn't want a relationship or anything well that means she just doesn't want a relationship with YOU. A 19 year old has no clue what they want in life, especially a female one.

Yeah...i guess you're right.

Flashbax · 11-10-2009, 12:25 AM

find someone else.

bigboy18 · 11-10-2009, 12:27 AM

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find someone else.

fukk man..but I think she's.... cute

Why does this always have to happen to me?!?!

Seriously, every girl I try to go for..either has someone else in mind or doesnt want to be in a relationship.

And its almost as if every girl is taken. Okay, maybe im exaggerating..but this is making me depressed (yes beta)

de_barathrum · 11-10-2009, 12:30 AM

your attitude seems to be pretty ****ty which could also be a fair interpretation of your mindset. work on that before you start thinking about women or else you are just gonna fail and get bitter, which is going to make everything so much harder than it has to be.

bigboy18 · 11-10-2009, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by de_barathrum

your attitude seems to be pretty ****ty which could also be a fair interpretation of your mindset. work on that before you start thinking about women or else you are just gonna fail and get bitter, which is going to make everything so much harder than it has to be.

Yea bra..well im only this way because... of the way things turn out...

My attitude would be so fkin different if I had things go my way.... Not to mention, some other personal problems which I would rather not mention...

de_barathrum · 11-10-2009, 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by bigboy18

Yea bra..well im only this way because... of the way things turn out...

My attitude would be so fkin different if I had things go my way.... Not to mention, some other personal problems which I would rather not mention...

you cant control **** that happens to you but you can control how you react to it, and in the end all that really matters is how you react to ****. im not here to judge you but it seems like you are setting yourself up in the victim mode, which is a very, very, addictive and desctructive mindset that is almost impossible to get out of. ltry to become more aware of your thoughts/emotions so you can recognize this yourself.

it doesnt matter if things do or dont go your way. all that matters is how you react to them.

bigboy18 · 11-10-2009, 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by de_barathrum

you cant control **** that happens to you but you can control how you react to it, and in the end all that really matters is how you react to ****. im not here to judge you but it seems like you are setting yourself up in the victim mode, which is a very, very, addictive and desctructive mindset that is almost impossible to get out of. ltry to become more aware of your thoughts/emotions so you can recognize this yourself.

it doesnt matter if things do or dont go your way. all that matters is how you react to them.

Yeah...I tend to think throughout the day.... the fact that I'm a failure (Srs)

and it eats me alive. I gotta stop doing that.... it's bad for me mentally.