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11-08-2009, 06:58 AM
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Girl approaches me at club.
She approaches me and starts to talk. She was all over me. After talking for about 15 minutes she asked if I was going to buy her a drink. I told her I don't buy girls drinks at clubs but if she buys me a drink I'll buy her one next time I see her. She says she'll think about it. I told her while she thinks about it I'm gonna go hang with my bros. She got my number and said she'll call me sometimes. I knew if I bought her a drink I could've made out with her and all that but I refuse to.
Alpha or Beta?
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11-08-2009, 06:59 AM
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Sorry bro, thats beta as f*uck!
She was all over you and you told her to go away and said you are not gonna get her a drink? Yeah, beta, or trying too hard to be alpha.
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11-08-2009, 07:00 AM
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man you are 34 and searching advice in the internet?
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11-08-2009, 07:01 AM
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No way, asking for drinks = complete turn off.
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11-08-2009, 07:01 AM
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I have never bought a girl a drink at a club unless she was a friend...
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11-08-2009, 07:01 AM
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She was just using you to see if you were an average chump.
Will go into deeper understanding if you want OP
Hope this helps!
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11-08-2009, 07:01 AM
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dude. don't listen to the fuKs on here who don't buy drinks. Thats not alpha thats cheap.
If you buy 1 drink and she talks for a bit and leaves then fuK it you just wasted 1 drink big deal.
It sounds like you blew that.
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11-08-2009, 07:04 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by andibar
man you are 34 and searching advice in the Misc.?
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Fixed.
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11-08-2009, 07:04 AM
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never buy a random girl a drink...i know girls who go out with no money and just play guys all night for free drinks...
I'll only buy a girl a drink if she's already started putting out..
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11-08-2009, 07:04 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Nutella!
dude. don't listen to the fuKs on here who don't buy drinks. Thats not alpha thats cheap.
If you buy 1 drink and she talks for a bit and leaves then fuK it you just wasted 1 drink big deal.
It sounds like you blew that.
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No its not being cheap... its smart... and ill amment my above statement by saying this... I have bought a drink for a girl before... there was just something about her that made me want too... I know what it was... she was wearing a homemede shirt that said "Tequila makes my clothes fall off..." the shirt didnt lie either
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11-08-2009, 07:04 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Nutella!
dude. don't listen to the fuKs on here who don't buy drinks. Thats not alpha thats cheap.
If you buy 1 drink and she talks for a bit and leaves then fuK it you just wasted 1 drink big deal.
It sounds like you blew that.
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What?
Oh yeah, OP would be cheap for buying a $5 drink for a girl whom he only talked to for a couple of minutes.
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11-08-2009, 07:05 AM
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Let's face it, she asks for a drink, is she interested in you or just getting drunk?
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11-08-2009, 07:05 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by willzy
never buy a random girl a drink...i know girls who go out with no money and just play guys all night for free drinks...
I'll only buy a girl a drink if she's already started putting out..
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I will begin doing this in the future.
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11-08-2009, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted by andibar
man you are 34 and searching advice in the internet?
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stfu clown.. you're only 20.. can't even get into a club that serves alcohol.. what do you know? lulz
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11-08-2009, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted by ducksfan2006
She was just using you to see if you were an average chump.
Will go into deeper understanding if you want OP
Hope this helps!
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You're going to give him a deeper understanding? You're 17 yrs old u fukin ***got ****.
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11-08-2009, 07:07 AM
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stfu clown.. you're only 20.. can't even get into a club that serves alcohol.. what do you know? lulz
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He could be from Aus.. its 18 here to drink
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11-08-2009, 07:08 AM
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Why are people saying this is beta? OP did what he felt like, thats alpha, no?
If it was me, I would probably have already asked HER if she was going to buy ME a drink.
For example; "so, are you going to stop chatting me up and buy me a drink already?"
Why don't some of you guys try this next time, you'd be surprised by the results.
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11-08-2009, 07:08 AM
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Originally Posted by ducksfan2006
What?
Oh yeah, OP would be cheap for buying a $5 drink for a girl whom he only talked to for a couple of minutes.
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I'm just saying everyone on here makes it seem like every girl goes out and makes it a mission to steal drinks from losers. That's not the case. In fact most chicks are just like you and don't want to get rejected. If you buy her a drink you are showing that you are interested.
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11-08-2009, 07:10 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Nutella!
I'm just saying everyone on here makes it seem like every girl goes out and makes it a mission to steal drinks from losers. That's not the case. In fact most chicks are just like you and don't want to get rejected. If you buy her a drink you are showing that you are interested.
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If I was worried about rejection, I wouldn't start demanding people spend their money on me, roflol
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11-08-2009, 07:10 AM
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nah bitch nah!
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guys who buy girls drinks are retarded. my ex gfs friend was over one day and wanted to take ex to bar. ex says she doesnt have any money and her friend says you dnt need money we can just get guys to buy all our drinks i do it all the time..
/story 1 girls using u
story 2
i have a good friend who actually would have her bf lay low while she got drinks for the each of them from other guys LMFAO! next time i go to the bar with her i am going to have her score me some drinks from fuking chumps like half of you on the misc.
moral of the stories. multiple occasions of girls telling me they jsut go get free drinks because guys are fuking retarded. they are using u dont be a fuking chump
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11-08-2009, 07:10 AM
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you shouldve gone to the bar, bought yourself a drink, and got her a water (here in AUS, tap water served in a glass is free by law). Good times! It lets her know how much she is really worth to you...
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11-08-2009, 07:11 AM
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LOL @ being 34 and thinking that little exchange matters in life. Beta as hell.
Move onto the next girl in the club until you find one that is craving your cock.
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11-08-2009, 07:11 AM
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nah bitch nah!
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Originally Posted by Nutella!
I'm just saying everyone on here makes it seem like every girl goes out and makes it a mission to steal drinks from losers. That's not the case. In fact most chicks are just like you and don't want to get rejected. If you buy her a drink you are showing that you are interested.
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or you can ask them to go round for round with you and make them buy first..... that is the only way to do it. otherwise i dont see why you cant each buy your own damn drinks?
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11-08-2009, 07:11 AM
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lol
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11-08-2009, 07:12 AM
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You're going to give him a deeper understanding? You're 17 yrs old u fukin ***got ****.
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negs on recharge.
The fact that I'm 17 doesn't mean I don't know anything.
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11-08-2009, 07:12 AM
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good on you brah... i know alot of girls love flirting with guys just so they get free drinks. its not done in a really malicious way, it just makes them feel hot and so they can brag to their friends about it
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11-08-2009, 07:13 AM
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LOL @ being 34 and thinking that little exchange matters in life. Beta as hell.
Move onto the next girl in the club until you find one that is craving your cock.
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this.
reps on recharge.
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11-08-2009, 07:13 AM
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Alpha or Beta?
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neither really
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11-08-2009, 07:13 AM
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if she was all over you, it would have been a safe buy. the ones that you ignore are the ones that ask for a drink after about 30 seconds of chit chat.
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11-08-2009, 07:13 AM
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LOL @ being 34 and thinking that little exchange matters in life. Beta as hell.
Move onto the next girl in the club until you find one that is craving your cock.
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sorry but have you actually been to a club before brah?
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