why do women do this?

du3ce · 11-07-2009, 06:40 PM

If theyre not interested in a guy they will ignore the phone call or text, why couldnt they tell the dude straight up if theyre not intersted?

daverick89 · 11-07-2009, 06:48 PM

As guys were straight forward, we know what we want and we're not afraid to let people know it, we're aggressive in nature. Girls are emotional and think in terms of feelings, they probably just didn't want to be an ******* to your face, not a big deal man, move along and find something better. Plenty of attractive girls to go around and not enough guys with a pair of balls between their legs who'll man up and initiate stuff with them; just look at some of the posts on here and you'll see how bad guys in general are with girls.

neowolfe · 11-07-2009, 06:56 PM

she doesnt want to hurt your feelings and hear you bitch and cry like a little bitch.

Monarchy · 11-07-2009, 07:18 PM

Simple. Girls like attention.

Death Strike · 11-07-2009, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by du3ce

If theyre not interested in a guy they will ignore the phone call or text, why couldnt they tell the dude straight up if theyre not intersted?

guy needs to learn to take a hint

Jedan01 · 11-07-2009, 08:11 PM

Because it's easier and avoids awkward situations

I'm not saying it's right, but I've done the same thing to girls and I've seen other guys do that too

No_Name_Guy · 11-07-2009, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by du3ce

If theyre not interested in a guy they will ignore the phone call or text, why couldnt they tell the dude straight up if theyre not intersted?

Girls can be dumb.. Just move on plenty of girls out there without a doubt.

du3ce · 11-07-2009, 08:53 PM

well this isnt a girl i got a number from, she was all over me, we went on 2 dates and then she decides to cut off all contact, i thought the date went well, ah well move on to another one. My point is that, women should just be up front instead of ignoring the guy.

SuupaBuu · 11-07-2009, 09:00 PM

Its easier for girls to ignore you than to deal with having to tell you that they aren't interested in you.

CelticBhoy · 11-07-2009, 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by du3ce

If theyre not interested in a guy they will ignore the phone call or text, why couldnt they tell the dude straight up if theyre not intersted?

That's really not a female thing, brah. I've seen guys do it. Hell, I've done it before.

It's not that you want to tell them the bad news. When I was single and I didn't feel like hanging out with girl #1 for a while because I was seeing girl #2 and/or #3, i would ignore her calls. When I finally went back to her, I'd be all:

"Hey! I was sooo busy, a lot of things have gone on! I"ll tell you all about it over dinner

"

You don't want to cut ties because...you'll be back.

RandomMisc · 11-07-2009, 10:43 PM

Dudes do the same thing. It's easier (for them) and allows them to feel better about blowing you off since they don't have to face you. Plus nine times out of ten, when someone of either gender is completely straightforward, they're called a bitch or a dick.
If she doesn't reply, you know where you stand... move on.

du3ce · 11-07-2009, 10:43 PM

oh and i think she threw up her dinner after she ate it, she had a caesar salad and after she got done eating she excused herself to go to the bathroom. Mustve been like 5-10 min before she got back, lulz.

percussion8903 · 11-07-2009, 11:01 PM

laziness

RandomMisc · 11-07-2009, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by du3ce

oh and i think she threw up her dinner after she ate it, she had a caesar salad and after she got done eating she excused herself to go to the bathroom. Mustve been like 5-10 min before she got back, lulz.

lol. well, that's a good sign.

AZZA23 · 11-07-2009, 11:27 PM

I know what u mean, cos in ur mind the dates went well and there is no obvious reason as to why she should be ignoring you, frustrating i know, but try not to send follow up msgs cos ul cm off as desperate, jst think its her loss and move on.

du3ce · 11-07-2009, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by AZZA23

but try not to send follow up msgs cos ul cm off as desperate, jst think its her loss and move on.

dont have to worry about that already deleted her number

BigMo777 · 11-07-2009, 11:54 PM

it happens alot her in the middle east .. but it's not after going out .. this is like a usual thing which when you ask a girl out and you got her number she would act the hard to get girl BUT they over react man lol,,

ex: i asked this hot girl out acouple of monthes ago and got her number.. called her after 2 days and she didn't answer.. after 5 hourse of the call sent he a msg says "heey it's MO, we met at that place 2 days ago.. well , called you but you didn't answer nywya this is my phone number" and after 5 minutes she replayed " sorry i was busy with my sis " .. that's it !! lool .. so i replayed " it's okey.. give me a call whenever there are no sisters around you :P " .. and she never called loool .. i know thair strategy coz they dont know the diff between acting hard to get and cut the guy off :S .. well, after 2 weeks of ignoring her and never text her or call emagin that she called and " heey i am free, my sis is not in town .. wt are you doing 2day ? " ..

what i was trying t say is : you have lost the girl already but why not to try ignoring her .. coz if you ignored her you will get 2 options : 1- she will get back to you, 2- you will lose her .. and if you keep calling her you will lose her even more ...

they most come up with new video game called " ladies games " instead of the playstation and xbox or wtever

N4th4n · 11-08-2009, 06:25 AM

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Originally Posted by neowolfe

she doesnt want to hurt your feelings and hear you bitch and cry like a little bitch.

lol

skier_ · 11-08-2009, 08:21 AM

Guys do this too.

Jedan01 · 11-08-2009, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by du3ce

oh and i think she threw up her dinner after she ate it, she had a caesar salad and after she got done eating she excused herself to go to the bathroom. Mustve been like 5-10 min before she got back, lulz.

At least she'll be nice and thin

acidking · 11-08-2009, 08:34 AM

no bish out there deserves a man to go ahead and post this thread ... take **** from no body ... they can all go get their f**ks off

smooth_as_silk · 11-08-2009, 11:45 AM

if I ever break up with a women, I let her know why the reason subtly.

first the reason indirectly, and then listen honey, its not about you, our values have changed (values didnt change, I was clear from the begining what I wanted, but somewhere down the line We get to see her true personality), its about me, we had a good run, but get better for another guy.

MuscleSportMag · 11-08-2009, 03:21 PM

Women do that because they love the attention. Even if they're not interested in a guy they will still entertain a few calls and things such as that.

Turn the tables a bit: Some girl that you know may be a little fat and you're not into her but when she shows you a lot of attention, most guys will eat it up and still be gentlemanly towards her. They're not going to turn around and tell chubby to take a walk.

lizzylamb · 11-08-2009, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by du3ce

oh and i think she threw up her dinner after she ate it, she had a caesar salad and after she got done eating she excused herself to go to the bathroom. Mustve been like 5-10 min before she got back, lulz.

Maybve she was fixing he rmakeup, taking a big ****, ya knoww