Should I confront her about this??

[dlm]

Originally Posted by BrentW

No I wouldnt use her for a threesome was just venting.

She told me she didnt think the status thing was such a big deal. Her past relationship both her and her boyfriend left it as single.

Its been two days since i've asked her to change her status and she hasn't. According to her she has forgotten to and myspace loads too slow on her mobile phone to worry with changing it.

I have since sent her a text telling her if she doesnt change it she wont be seeing me again. Now I'm on the ignore list. About to leave this bitch.

about to??? lol...and she wants a ring? man...just cut this trick off, bro.

[RedSoxfan1978]

Originally Posted by Sonic_Wave

Yeah, because if you told her you keylogged her she will lose trust in you.

RIGHT, the double standards of the modern woman.
They can do whatever they please... but YOU cant. You dont have a vagina and therefore you are not entitled to whims and nonsense. Their acts of deceit are forgivable, you must GET OVER IT. Though whatever YOU do is on you for life.

20 years from now, 30 years from now, she will beat you over the head with it.
You can say "That was 30 years ago!" her reply will be "yeah but you did it!"

Now if she did something 3 days ago, **** YOU BUDDY, GET OVER IT.

Tell her NOTHING. OP she is obviously a liar and some sort of cheater in the making. She has a Myspace such as that. Yet logs into YOUR Gmail on "accident" FIVE TIMES OVER. Yeah OKAY.

She is a classic backstabber/cheater, they project onto the other person what they are. My father accused my mother of cheating on him for years, when HE was the a$$hole who couldnt keep his dick in his pants if you sewed it to his leg. Go figure....

She has trust issues, by checking your mail she PROVED THAT. She has those issues cause she KNOWS what she is doing behind your back, so she assumes YOU are like her,and everyone else is too.

When you are a liar, you assume everyone else is too it seems. I would watch yourself if not dump her outright. Women are always looking for "something better" to come along. They will justify their actions later, by any means they deem appropriate.

Good luck

[solidsnake88]

doesn't she wanna marry you brah? and didn't u take her to look at engagements rings??

[GainThis]

Originally Posted by BrentW

No I wouldnt use her for a threesome was just venting.

She told me she didnt think the status thing was such a big deal. Her past relationship both her and her boyfriend left it as single.

Its been two days since i've asked her to change her status and she hasn't. According to her she has forgotten to and myspace loads too slow on her mobile phone to worry with changing it.

I have since sent her a text telling her if she doesnt change it she wont be seeing me again. Now I'm on the ignore list. About to leave this bitch.

Seriously brah, you sadden me. Will you please just man up and leave the girl? Clearly she's not proper GF material, and you're just turning into a whiny guy which will push her away anyways.

[Dogbreath]

Originally Posted by BrentW

So I told my girlfriend the other day my password to log into my computer and its the same as my gmail account. So now I have this mysterious IP address accessing my gmail account. Turned out it was her and she gave me some bs excuses as to why she logged in 5 times over the course of the day. I just let it go.

So I keylogged her computer to see what she was up to. I don't have myspace and her profile is set to private so I figured I'd log into her acc. Turns out she is single and has many updated pics of her but none of us. She has tons of pictures uploaded from her past relationship still up which is cool but over the past four months she has not uploaded a single one of us.

Should I confront her about this or just don't worry about it?

1. Get on Myspace (do not tell her)
2. Flirt with her
3. Get evidence
4. ???
5. Profit


Or get on Myspace and friend request her, then bust her.

[Tech2TheLimit]

I know a few people who don't really update the info on their myspace or facebooks. I'm the same, I have info on there from years ago but put up new pics still. Same with a lot of my friends, I just don't feel like updating it. That being said, I'm not updating interests, movies, stuff like that while hers is a relationship. You should make a myspace account and then tell her to add you when you two are together that way she doesn't have a chance to update it. Her going into your email and you key logging should be the end of the relationship though, don't really see a reason you guys should be together

[ausluke]

girls always wanna update there stupid status's to in a relationship to show of to the world their new bf

so yeah seems like a red flag to me op

[heavytwenty]

Who the hell keylogs their girlfriend? That's like invasive.

[Onisac]

Originally Posted by heavytwenty

Who the hell keylogs their girlfriend? That's like invasive.

You'd be surprised. I remember teaching my friend how to keylog when he had suspicions about his girlfriend because she never wanted to log on her MSN at his house. Turns out there was nothing to worry about.


Anyways OP, you should leave that chick. Those excuses make no sense.

[RedSoxfan1978]

Originally Posted by heavytwenty

Who the hell keylogs their girlfriend? That's like invasive.

So is checking your BF/GF email accounts 5 times in a day and then denying it or not telling them. Having a secret Myspace with your status as single would also be invasive in the opposite way. Lying is lying and it usually doesn't stop and goes much further and deeper than you would think. Once you catch someone in a lie in a relationship, there are probably 5 lies you didnt catch them in, then the 5 more they had to also tell to cover those 5 etc...

Its a vicious cycle.

[Jeffthepump]

confrontttttttttttttt the bish

[BrentW]

So a week after I asked her to change her status she still hadn't. I had to hand her the laptop and tell her to change it. She gave me all sorts of **** about how if I didn't trust her that's my problem.

Will get her to show me the status again here in a few days and if she changed it back to single we're over.

[mingo3403]

easy

make an account and add her. Tell her when you're about to add her, that should throw her into a corner and make her a complete emotional mess.

[LovesMuscles]

No offense but your relationship sounds like a joke.



I would have told you to wait it out and see if anything develops before you bring it up but as I read further, it sounds like a relationship that should die already. I think you're wasting your time.

[BrentW]

Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

No offense but your relationship sounds like a joke.



I would have told you to wait it out and see if anything develops before you bring it up but as I read further, it sounds like a relationship that should die already. I think you're wasting your time.

Why does it sound like a joke? The fact that she wanted to checkout my emails and I felt the need to checkout her myspace? Yeah that indicates there are trust issues in the relationship and I could see how our trust issues can grow to something much more than checking each others email accounts. I know it sounds like some kiddie bull**** to worry about with myspace and all but her being single on there and acting like it meant nothing just ticked me off.

[GainThis]

Originally Posted by BrentW

Why does it sound like a joke? The fact that she wanted to checkout my emails and I felt the need to checkout her myspace? Yeah that indicates there are trust issues in the relationship and I could see how our trust issues can grow to something much more than checking each others email accounts. I know it sounds like some kiddie bull**** to worry about with myspace and all but her being single on there and acting like it meant nothing just ticked me off.

It *is* kiddie bs on both your parts. You shouldn't even be with her if you're this insecure, and you should have ditched her if you think there are trust issues.

Done deal. You're 24 man....

[spectre86]

Originally Posted by pullbcarepull

I don't think its a big deal unless she is actively flirting with other guys through the site. Maybe you should create an account and add her a friend. If she doesn't have anything to hide, then she should be okay with adding you. If she doesn't want to add you, then I'd worry.

Originally Posted by BrentW

No I wouldnt use her for a threesome was just venting.

She told me she didnt think the status thing was such a big deal. Her past relationship both her and her boyfriend left it as single.

Its been two days since i've asked her to change her status and she hasn't. According to her she has forgotten to and myspace loads too slow on her mobile phone to worry with changing it.

I have since sent her a text telling her if she doesnt change it she wont be seeing me again. Now I'm on the ignore list. About to leave this bitch.

Originally Posted by BrentW

So a week after I asked her to change her status she still hadn't. I had to hand her the laptop and tell her to change it. She gave me all sorts of **** about how if I didn't trust her that's my problem.

Will get her to show me the status again here in a few days and if she changed it back to single we're over.

she can put new pics up of her alone, but cant click the change statis tab?

OP, what was the story for her checking your email 5 times? or at all for that matter?

[Atreyu_Fan]

inb4 she keylogs him and finds this thread