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11-03-2009, 12:56 AM
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Need advice (relationship section didn't help)
So, I have this friend whose a girl and we've known each other for about 3 years now. I used to like her but now I'm falling for her. I can't stop thinking about her. We used to live in different cities but I moved to hers for school. The first time we hung out when I moved here, I knew it then that she was the one for me. I'm crazy about this girl. Halloween for example. She asks me if I was going to be drinking and I said yea probably, then she says if you don't could you pick me up and drive me home and I said yea sure. So, I decided not to go out just so I could be sober and drive her home. I looked forward to it all day and When she didn't call, I was so disappointed. It just kills me to know that she'll end up with some other guy. I have no idea what to do. If I tell her and she rejects me, its going to make everything awkward. Even if it doesn't get awkward, I know that I'll stop talking to her because I don't want to be just friends with her. I'm crazy for this girl.
Cliffs:
-been friends with girl for 3 years
-lived in different cities, but i moved to hers for school
-had a crush on her before i moved
-and now im crazy about her
-what do i do?
and no pics
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11-03-2009, 12:57 AM
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just tell her you love her
what could go wrong
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11-03-2009, 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted by MusclePrime
and no pics
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For this, advice shall not be given.
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11-03-2009, 12:58 AM
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pm ultimus
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11-03-2009, 12:58 AM
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come on man you should kno what to do by now
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11-03-2009, 07:44 AM
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thread ender
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she got drunk and slept with some random guy on halloween (serious)
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11-03-2009, 07:50 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by MusclePrime
I have no idea what to do. If I tell her and she rejects me, its going to make everything awkward.
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If she is a proper friend this won't happen.
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11-03-2009, 07:55 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by mkmark0
she got drunk and slept with some random guy on halloween (serious)
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red is right
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11-03-2009, 07:56 AM
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dont tell her you love her, there was a thread a few weeks ago were that failed badly
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11-03-2009, 07:56 AM
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i'd do whatever Bigmane123 would do......
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11-03-2009, 08:09 AM
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write her a poem and take her to dinner, make sure you pay because thats what real men do. dont forget to bring her some flowers
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11-03-2009, 08:10 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by slowteg
dont tell her you love her, there was a thread a few weeks ago were that failed badly
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Telling her you love her is definately bad idea. But you should tell her at you have feelings for her.
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11-03-2009, 08:17 AM
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dude, just tell her how you feel. Ask her if she feels the same way. If she does...profit, if not, tell her you understand and that you value her friendship and don't want to lose that.
age: 20, if you spend too much time wondering and not finding out, you WILL regret it. Life is too short to just sit and wonder "what if"
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11-03-2009, 08:55 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ironsight
dude, just tell her how you feel. Ask her if she feels the same way. If she does...profit, if not, tell her you understand and that you value her friendship and don't want to lose that.
age: 20, if you spend too much time wondering and not finding out, you WILL regret it. Life is too short to just sit and wonder "what if"
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Agreed, don't ponder your thoughts on the if's go for the truths...they will help you out a sh!t ton more and will make this a lot easier.
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11-03-2009, 09:01 AM
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do not tell her how you feel !!! you will be making the bigest mistake possible!
she has to fall for you for it to work so make yourself seem like the greatest guy in the world.
if she was a random girl what would you do? you would be giving off signs that your into her subconsciously .. since your a friend already, she assumes everything you do is because your a good friend.
solution?!
get drunk together in a setting that has only the 2 of you able to get it on.. there should be no other attractive females or other guys around. only ugly dudes or ugly chicks..
this way you have an excuse for fuking eachother.. you were drunk
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11-03-2009, 09:08 AM
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she doesn't like you because you are a pussy
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Probably same reason no on in RH helped you because threads like this are beyond advice.
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