New Gay Thread (Part 3)

[rnye]

Originally Posted by LoL Rick

The cutest thing happened Saturday night. Hubby went to bed early because he had an early softball game Sunday morning. So I met a friend at the club where rnye works. Sure enough, he was there bartending and he remembered me. He had said before that his club was doing an over 30 theme on Saturday nights, with music that I would know and played at a reasonable volume so people could hold a conversation without yelling.

Well, that wasn't the case on this particular night. The club is located upstairs above The Eagle (leather bar) and they were having a "leather dance," They were having a porn star coming in to perform, and they had hard core porn playing on all the video screens. What made this funny was that rnye was so embarassed that this stuff was going on. He was so cute - he was wearing the same white harness as in that pic he posted, but he had it on wrong. So of course I had to fix it for him.

Anyway, we stayed for a while but the music was way to loud to talk so we moved on to another venue. Hmmm, I'm thinking now that I might have to go back down there next weekend in full leather and give the boy a surprise.

LOL - it was good seeing you and I was a bit... frazzled. It was just really hectic and then I felt bad for not asking if you wanted something, then realizing who you were, etc. We wereso behind in setting up that night. The 'wife' came by andI told him you went downstairs but I guess you were gone by then?

Either way.. yea, it was a good night and thanks again for fixing my harness. I had a self proclaimed 'leather guy' help me put it on and it was all wrong. Im ready to get back in the gym... I feel so... twinky.

And yes.. for the record watching a guy straddle, squate, and take a bottle of Jack Daniels up the ass... or the dog/master/dildos that looked like tails and spun shoved up their asses... a little awkward when Im in the middle of my ... "would you like a lime in that?" speech

[psi9ov1]

So, I just need to vent for a second.
I'm currently deployed in Iraq. Yes, that means I'm in the military.
So far, my identity hasn't been a problem while being in the military, I've been very fortunate that my privacy has been respected and I haven't had to out myself or w/e.
I just live my life the way I want to, just when i put on the uniform i have to be a soldier. I don't have any problem with that.
However, being deployed ****ing sucks. OMG!!
Ya know, I was for some reason under the impression that everyone turns a little gay out here....Not so..Some do, but not everyone.
It ****ing sucks. I'm totally sexually frustrated, I'm frustrated because I can't really turn off the soldier part of me for any period of time.
I just wanna go out and have a good time with the community, you know?
I think I'm getting like this because I only have about a month left, give or take a wk or so, and being on the home stretch to actually going home has got me anticipating getting back to my life.
Ok. Don't know if anybody was listening or reading that, but thanks if you did.
Totally feel a little better.

[trvlr70]

Originally Posted by boon9484

K here's my November progress shot... I figure another 30lbs and i'll be right were I wanna be.

Gah its so hard to stick to my diet! This is pretty close to my 1 year of gym going mark... I wasted a lot of the first 6 months doing stuff wrong with machines... Then getting sick and my puppy passing dropped me almost 10lbs a little over a month ago... I'm starting to climb again though. Hopefully my December picture will show much better results.



roughly the same post this past January

Boon! You look great. Relax about your body. With your bodytype, there is no doubt that you will age well and just keep looking better and better.

[MiamiSpartan]

Originally Posted by psi9ov1

So, I just need to vent for a second.
I'm currently deployed in Iraq. Yes, that means I'm in the military.
So far, my identity hasn't been a problem while being in the military, I've been very fortunate that my privacy has been respected and I haven't had to out myself or w/e.
I just live my life the way I want to, just when i put on the uniform i have to be a soldier. I don't have any problem with that.
However, being deployed ****ing sucks. OMG!!
Ya know, I was for some reason under the impression that everyone turns a little gay out here....Not so..Some do, but not everyone.
It ****ing sucks. I'm totally sexually frustrated, I'm frustrated because I can't really turn off the soldier part of me for any period of time.
I just wanna go out and have a good time with the community, you know?
I think I'm getting like this because I only have about a month left, give or take a wk or so, and being on the home stretch to actually going home has got me anticipating getting back to my life.
Ok. Don't know if anybody was listening or reading that, but thanks if you did.
Totally feel a little better.

First of all, a big thanks to you for doing what you are doing...
Secondly, I can imagine it is tuf to be there on many levels....just hang in there, since it looks like you'll be home soon, and then you can get on with your life...
Many people have to put off their dating life for one reason or another, and it makes them appreciate it all the more when they are able to resume it....
any thoughts as to where you will go when you get back and what you are going to do?
Just curious...
be safe.

[psi9ov1]

Originally Posted by MiamiSpartan

First of all, a big thanks to you for doing what you are doing...
Secondly, I can imagine it is tuf to be there on many levels....just hang in there, since it looks like you'll be home soon, and then you can get on with your life...
Many people have to put off their dating life for one reason or another, and it makes them appreciate it all the more when they are able to resume it....
any thoughts as to where you will go when you get back and what you are going to do?
Just curious...
be safe.

Going back to Colorado. But then going to a military school for nursing shortly after that. Hopefully anyway. that'll put me in San Antonio. Totally looking forward to that. Yeah, I'm just getting a little anxious right now is all. Lol!! A little apprehensive because I cannot wait to put on regular clothes, eat what food I want to eat, go where I want to go, drive a car!! I can't wait.

[bhujerban]

Originally Posted by psi9ov1

Going back to Colorado. But then going to a military school for nursing shortly after that. Hopefully anyway. that'll put me in San Antonio. Totally looking forward to that. Yeah, I'm just getting a little anxious right now is all. Lol!! A little apprehensive because I cannot wait to put on regular clothes, eat what food I want to eat, go where I want to go, drive a car!! I can't wait.

I hope your leave/discharge (I'm not sure which) does not get cancelled. Sounds like you need a break.

[psi9ov1]

Originally Posted by bhujerban

I hope your leave/discharge (I'm not sure which) does not get cancelled. Sounds like you need a break.

It's neither actually. It's just getting back from deployment. and totally need a break. to be honest, i don't think i can deal with straight people much longer! Lol! Love 'em to death, but good god sometimes you just need to be a little homo! lmao! Ah well. Deployment is almost over and I'll be able to have some semblence of a life.

[bhujerban]

I know what you mean. I hate straight people.

[boon9484]

Originally Posted by 1.8Tsunami

Boon should totally be an a&f model...or a model in general.

I tried to a few years ago, I just got the feeling they all thought I was to skinny...

I did one of those "proscout" events, dunno if anyone has heard of that... I got a few callbacks, basically when it came to taking my shirt off everyone changed their minds.
Except MTV who said I was "gold" for their "next" dating show, but at that point i was so shy and anti-social I could barely bring myself to even go to the event, let alone be on TV... I just wanted print work.

[boon9484]

Originally Posted by psi9ov1

So, I just need to vent for a second.
I'm currently deployed in Iraq. Yes, that means I'm in the military.
So far, my identity hasn't been a problem while being in the military, I've been very fortunate that my privacy has been respected and I haven't had to out myself or w/e.
I just live my life the way I want to, just when i put on the uniform i have to be a soldier. I don't have any problem with that.
However, being deployed ****ing sucks. OMG!!
Ya know, I was for some reason under the impression that everyone turns a little gay out here....Not so..Some do, but not everyone.
It ****ing sucks. I'm totally sexually frustrated, I'm frustrated because I can't really turn off the soldier part of me for any period of time.
I just wanna go out and have a good time with the community, you know?
I think I'm getting like this because I only have about a month left, give or take a wk or so, and being on the home stretch to actually going home has got me anticipating getting back to my life.
Ok. Don't know if anybody was listening or reading that, but thanks if you did.
Totally feel a little better.

Oh man, I have no idea what you are going through but it must be very frustrating! I know a few gays that have been in the military, expecting to get hot military action every once and a while, and they were totally disappointed in that respect.
Dont go too crazy when you get home

[trvlr70]

Originally Posted by boon9484

I tried to a few years ago, I just got the feeling they all thought I was to skinny....

The skinnier you are, the better clothes look on you. It's a sad fact. Male models are much less muscular than they were years ago. This shouldn't be a problem.

Unfortuneately, being 5'8" is what would stand in your way. I believe the industry standard is 6'1" to 6'3". You have to be able to fit into sample sizes.

[psi9ov1]

Originally Posted by bhujerban

I know what you mean. I hate straight people.

lol. I know. They're very frustrating sometimes. I can't even really explain it, but there are times i think to myself "if the gays were here this situation would way fantastic!"

[trvlr70]

Originally Posted by psi9ov1

lol. I know. They're very frustrating sometimes. I can't even really explain it, but there are times i think to myself "if the gays were here this situation would way fantastic!"

Straight folks often loose a bit of their vitality as they age. Us gays don't have the same life benchmarks [public wedding, birth of kids] that make us feel as if we need to slow down or stop having fun. As a result, we maintain that youthful exhuberance for a longer period.

I truly believe it is a gift to be gay. When I look around at heterosexual contemporaries with their drab lives and sexless marriages, I feel nothing but pity.

[Gemini6Ice]

Originally Posted by trvlr70

Straight folks often loose a bit of their vitality as they age. Us gays don't have the same life benchmarks [public wedding, birth of kids] that make us feel as if we need to slow down or stop having fun. As a result, we maintain that youthful exhuberance for a longer period.

I truly believe it is a gift to be gay. When I look around at heterosexual contemporaries with their drab lives and sexless marriages, I feel nothing but pity.

Wow. I disagree with you on so many levels.

[trvlr70]

Originally Posted by Gemini6Ice

Wow. I disagree with you on so many levels.

Don't just say that. Support your sentiment. That's what these forums are for.

[MiamiSpartan]

Originally Posted by bhujerban

I know what you mean. I hate straight people.

That's a shame....our closest friends are a straight couple...We see them socially several times a week, and talk/text daily even when we're away....
Their kids and grandkids are welcome at our home all the time...

[garza_20]

aaah.. its hell today!! good job boon... and halloween was awesome... except for the part that i blacked out and then end up having all these drunk texts to the ex.. ugh... ooh and i went str8 for the evening.. anyways.. heres my progress pic/halloween costume

[trvlr70]

Originally Posted by garza_20

aaah.. its hell today!! good job boon... and halloween was awesome... except for the part that i blacked out and then end up having all these drunk texts to the ex.. ugh... ooh and i went str8 for the evening.. anyways.. heres my progress pic/halloween costume

Looks like you're ready to kick some ass!

[garza_20]

Originally Posted by trvlr70

Looks like you're ready to kick some ass!

ha ha.. you know it!!

[trvlr70]

my "GAYS ANATOMY" costume was so much fun. I kinda have a Dr. fetish, so it was blast to live out that fantasy.

Physicals anyone?

[garza_20]

Originally Posted by trvlr70

my "GAYS ANATOMY" costume was so much fun. I kinda have a Dr. fetish, so it was blast to live out that fantasy.

Physicals anyone?

pic!

[garza_20]

Originally Posted by psi9ov1

It's neither actually. It's just getting back from deployment. and totally need a break. to be honest, i don't think i can deal with straight people much longer! Lol! Love 'em to death, but good god sometimes you just need to be a little homo! lmao! Ah well. Deployment is almost over and I'll be able to have some semblence of a life.

HEY BRO... aaah San Antonio... my 2nd home... i swear that city is more mexican that actual mexico... thank god its only 3hrs from me! same as Austin... why is it that i love other citys beside my own..

[boon9484]

Originally Posted by garza_20

pic!

x2 i wanna see this doctor outfit, even if it means you have to censor your face for privacy :-p

[Trempid]

Wow had to do so much catching up.... I apologize if i missed anything, but due to time constraints i had to skim.

Well it's Nov 2nd. I was busy all day yesterday so I uploaded my new AV today. It was sort of a mistake pic (I was walking towards the camera because I thought it was done burst shooting)... however, I liked it a lot more than all the other crazy poses I did lol It shows the extra mass I was able to put on

As you can see, I decided not to do a cut in october as I had planned. My bf told me not to, to concentrate on mass, and honestly I didn't have the time to do extra cardio between work and being sick for most of the month.

Anyway, I see some of you have updated your AVs. I expect 100% new AVs by the end of the week. The next deadline will be Dec 1st. My personal goal will be more mass especially in my legs and back (those will be my focuses).

And now for some replies... (BTW Atticus I still need to email you back... sorry!!!!)

Originally Posted by WorldEdition

Just received a confirmation that I've got approved for the Inca Trail hike in Peru!!!

Going on a 15-day adventure trip/tour with Gap Adventures around Peru: http://www.gapadventures.com/trips/p...ate=2009-12-12

Decided to throw in a few more days to explore the country on my own once I am there since likely I won't go there again in my lifetime. Just bought my plane tickets, my boss will have a stroke when she learns that I am gone for 20 days just before the year's end LOL

"Now we are going somewhere!"(c) Expedia.

Wow nice!!! Sounds like that will be so much fun!

Originally Posted by darryl27

Nitro, Nitro, Nitro....come here little boy...daddy wants to show you something...

Grandpa Darryl behave!!!!! :P
Btw strong new AV, see you did it and it looks great!

Originally Posted by justinx2009

I feel like a failure sometimes. I haven't been able to stay on a cut! I keep giving in to my cravings. Total weakness. Tomorrow, I'm going to Publix to get some food. I'm going to buy lots of chicken, brown rice, sweet potatoes, spinach, bananas/apples, and whatever other healthy foods I discover. I am going to try my hardest!! I went for a run tonight, and I felt great afterwards. I'm thinking about jogging twice a day for about 20 minutes each time. Also, hitting up the gym 3-4 times a week. I'm just so sick of running late in the mornings, and putting on clothes only to feel disgustingly fat in them. I want to look and feel good. I never used to be like this, lol. Must be college stress (ugh).

As a reward, I'm thinking about getting a tattoo when I lose some fat. =] I have a pretty good idea.

Justin, I know how hard it is to lose focus while you're dealing with college, usually your fitness takes a back seat (it did for me and I regret it so much). I encourage you to join us in our monthly AV update. It will allow you to set milestones and focus on your progress knowing that each month you will need to show the board how you are progressing.
I trust you can reach your goal!

Originally Posted by bhujerban

Maybe if I didn't push my head back when he shot it...

Nice shot actually Buji!

Originally Posted by lococrzy

hey guys how have ya'll been ?

LOCOOOOOO we missed you?? How are you?

Originally Posted by darryl27

...to admit I just watched Twilight. I'm even more ashamed to admit that I enjoyed it. I've had the DVD for over a month. I thought tonight was an appropriate night to watch it.

... it's funny how many gay people (me excluded) like that show :P
... even more funny when I hear stories of straight people "forced" to watch it and then end up becoming fanatic fans.

Could it be because it's the closest thing to port on broadcast TV at the moment?

Originally Posted by boon9484

K here's my November progress shot... I figure another 30lbs and i'll be right were I wanna be.

Gah its so hard to stick to my diet! This is pretty close to my 1 year of gym going mark... I wasted a lot of the first 6 months doing stuff wrong with machines... Then getting sick and my puppy passing dropped me almost 10lbs a little over a month ago... I'm starting to climb again though. Hopefully my December picture will show much better results.



roughly the same post this past January

Great progress Boon, and great scenery! Make sure you avatarize it

Btw that haircut is so perfect for you, you look like a completely different person in your before and after pics. It really suits you and compliments your results.

Originally Posted by psi9ov1

So, I just need to vent for a second.
I'm currently deployed in Iraq. Yes, that means I'm in the military.
So far, my identity hasn't been a problem while being in the military, I've been very fortunate that my privacy has been respected and I haven't had to out myself or w/e.
I just live my life the way I want to, just when i put on the uniform i have to be a soldier. I don't have any problem with that.
However, being deployed ****ing sucks. OMG!!
Ya know, I was for some reason under the impression that everyone turns a little gay out here....Not so..Some do, but not everyone.
It ****ing sucks. I'm totally sexually frustrated, I'm frustrated because I can't really turn off the soldier part of me for any period of time.
I just wanna go out and have a good time with the community, you know?
I think I'm getting like this because I only have about a month left, give or take a wk or so, and being on the home stretch to actually going home has got me anticipating getting back to my life.
Ok. Don't know if anybody was listening or reading that, but thanks if you did.
Totally feel a little better.

Yeah, that must be really hard, I can understand the frustration. Anyway, welcome to the group, join in, I hope we can provide some "release" for your frustration!

Now pull down your pants and submit to Darryl and Princess for your initiation :P

Originally Posted by garza_20

aaah.. its hell today!! good job boon... and halloween was awesome... except for the part that i blacked out and then end up having all these drunk texts to the ex.. ugh... ooh and i went str8 for the evening.. anyways.. heres my progress pic/halloween costume

Great costume Gaza, you look really good! Avatarize!

Originally Posted by trvlr70

my "GAYS ANATOMY" costume was so much fun. I kinda have a Dr. fetish, so it was blast to live out that fantasy.

Physicals anyone?

PRINCESSSS send me a pic!!

[LoL Rick]

Originally Posted by trvlr70

my "GAYS ANATOMY" costume was so much fun. I kinda have a Dr. fetish, so it was blast to live out that fantasy.

Physicals anyone?

I'm juggling 5 different things at work right now, but send me a pic and I'll censor it and post it when I get a chance.


(In typical lawerly fashion, trvlr delegates almost everything. )

[atticus_a]

Originally Posted by psi9ov1

So, I just need to vent for a second.
I'm currently deployed in Iraq. Yes, that means I'm in the military.
So far, my identity hasn't been a problem while being in the military, I've been very fortunate that my privacy has been respected and I haven't had to out myself or w/e.
I just live my life the way I want to, just when i put on the uniform i have to be a soldier. I don't have any problem with that.
However, being deployed ****ing sucks. OMG!!
Ya know, I was for some reason under the impression that everyone turns a little gay out here....Not so..Some do, but not everyone.
It ****ing sucks. I'm totally sexually frustrated, I'm frustrated because I can't really turn off the soldier part of me for any period of time.
I just wanna go out and have a good time with the community, you know?
I think I'm getting like this because I only have about a month left, give or take a wk or so, and being on the home stretch to actually going home has got me anticipating getting back to my life.
Ok. Don't know if anybody was listening or reading that, but thanks if you did.
Totally feel a little better.

I am told Life in the cat box is a challenge. Which branch?

I think it is funny. For me the military culture was like taking all the fcuking noobs from high school and putting them in one place. Or worse, putting the noobs from high school in charge of you. ALthough they are not sleeping with men, they are some of the gayest people on the planet. The land of hitting each other in the balls and grab ass.

I kinda agree with jerbs and trvlr..I guess I am not part of their (straight) culture so have a no desire to model my life after them. They way they manage their lives makes almost no sense to me.

I am glad to hear that you are coming home. Welcome back to the real world with real food.

Darryl--If you like the Twilight....You should really read Laurell K Hamilton she sorta started the whole urban (paranormal) romance genre. She is way better than Meyer.

Trempid--Don't worry about replies; you will get around to it. I am have also been sick as hell.

[lococrzy]

Originally Posted by Trempid

Wow had to do so much catching up.... I apologize if i missed anything, but due to time constraints i had to skim.

Well it's Nov 2nd. I was busy all day yesterday so I uploaded my new AV today. It was sort of a mistake pic (I was walking towards the camera because I thought it was done burst shooting)... however, I liked it a lot more than all the other crazy poses I did lol It shows the extra mass I was able to put on

As you can see, I decided not to do a cut in october as I had planned. My bf told me not to, to concentrate on mass, and honestly I didn't have the time to do extra cardio between work and being sick for most of the month.

Anyway, I see some of you have updated your AVs. I expect 100% new AVs by the end of the week. The next deadline will be Dec 1st. My personal goal will be more mass especially in my legs and back (those will be my focuses).

And now for some replies... (BTW Atticus I still need to email you back... sorry!!!!)





Wow nice!!! Sounds like that will be so much fun!



Grandpa Darryl behave!!!!! :P
Btw strong new AV, see you did it and it looks great!



Justin, I know how hard it is to lose focus while you're dealing with college, usually your fitness takes a back seat (it did for me and I regret it so much). I encourage you to join us in our monthly AV update. It will allow you to set milestones and focus on your progress knowing that each month you will need to show the board how you are progressing.
I trust you can reach your goal!



Nice shot actually Buji!



LOCOOOOOO we missed you?? How are you?



... it's funny how many gay people (me excluded) like that show :P
... even more funny when I hear stories of straight people "forced" to watch it and then end up becoming fanatic fans.

Could it be because it's the closest thing to port on broadcast TV at the moment?



Great progress Boon, and great scenery! Make sure you avatarize it

Btw that haircut is so perfect for you, you look like a completely different person in your before and after pics. It really suits you and compliments your results.



Yeah, that must be really hard, I can understand the frustration. Anyway, welcome to the group, join in, I hope we can provide some "release" for your frustration!

Now pull down your pants and submit to Darryl and Princess for your initiation :P



Great costume Gaza, you look really good! Avatarize!



PRINCESSSS send me a pic!!

Hey man ive been alright. alot of things have moved around for me the past few months but all for the better

The only negative thing is i slacked off from the gym through all the changes that were happening so i gained FATOSITY!!! lol but now im working on it again and getting back on the right path

How have you been?

[trvlr70]

Originally Posted by LoL Rick

(In typical lawerly fashion, trvlr delegates almost everything. )

LMAO....well there's leaders and followers in this world. *sniff*

And you can't be the quarterback when you're handing out Gatorade.

[trvlr70]

Originally Posted by atticus_a

II kinda agree with jerbs and trvlr, I have a decrease love for the straight people. I guess I am not part of their culture so have a no desire to model my life after them. They way they manage their lives makes almost no sense to me.

I am glad to hear that you are coming home. Welcome back to the real world with real food.

I don't have ANY dislike for straight folks. I simply think homos are intrinsically superior.

[trvlr70]

Originally Posted by lococrzy

i gained FATOSITY!!! ?

Oh Lord, do we have to do an online intervention?

I"ll begin. Lococrzy, we all love you and have gathered here today out of that love. We are concerned about your overeating and the fact that your gay stock is about to nosedive. As gay men obsessed with fitness and muscles, we can not sit idlely by as you continue down that dangerous path or rabid binging. Are you willing to only consume Trvlr70-approproved protein supplements? *wink*