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10-12-2009, 05:28 PM
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if you like it then you better put a ring on it
Two months into this relationship she told me if I were to propose to her that day she would say yes. I told her two months is kinda too soon to be getting engaged. Well she believes in love at first sight. I told her I would like to wait longer before getting engaged. A month later: Over the past few weeks she has been wanting to go look at rings. And me, being a stupid ass, took her to go look at engagement rings. I still made it known that I wanted to wait awhile before getting engaged.
So we've been seeing each other for three months. We have stayed over at each others place for three months straight. Probably not the best idea. We aren't in an argument or anything but tonight is the first night we wont be seeing each other. It was her decision she didn't want to see me tonight.
It seems she may need a bit of space which is cool with me, I understand that seeing as though we've seen one another so much.
Or is this her way of telling me she wants a ring? I've never been in this situation so I don't know. I have a feeling over the next few weeks she is going to limit when she sees me. Is she going to be using this engagement idea against me? Where if I want to continue to see and be with her we need to get engaged? I have a feeling she either truly needs some space cause we do see each other every night or she is using the engagement as some sort of leverage over me.
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10-12-2009, 05:31 PM
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I just ran.
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10-12-2009, 05:33 PM
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She sound a little crazy tbh, give yourself a little space/time before you get engaged.
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10-12-2009, 05:36 PM
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10-12-2009, 05:36 PM
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wow that's way too soon to be talking about that stuff lol. Maybe she just needs space finally idk. Do you feel you need space as well? Everyone needs their own space eventually, no matter how much you love someone.
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10-12-2009, 05:36 PM
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10-12-2009, 05:40 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BrentW
Or is this her way of telling me she wants a ring
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no man shes deeply in love.
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10-12-2009, 05:40 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BrentW
Two months into this relationship she told me if I were to propose to her that day she would say yes.
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How old is she? Like 28+ and desperate to settle?
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I told her two months is kinda too soon to be getting engaged.
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Seriously.
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Originally Posted by BrentW
It seems she may need a bit of space which is cool with me, I understand that seeing as though we've seen one another so much.
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Did you get any weird vibes when she told you she needed some space?
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I have a feeling over the next few weeks she is going to limit when she sees me......she is using the engagement as some sort of leverage over me.
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Do not do anything you don't want to do(you'll regret it) and it sounds like you're giving her too much control over the relationship. You're not ready to settle so back off and do your own thing and let her do hers.
If she's blowing this up because she's crazy to get married then you got to protect yourself by becoming unattached in case this goes south, which it seems like it is.
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10-12-2009, 05:46 PM
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lol, this broad is bat****.
3 months and she's demanding a ring? What the hellllll? I mean, I'd have married my last dude after second time we hung out, no questions. But to actually TELL him that? lol, no. And the whole pressuring you into an engagement bit is absolutely ludicrous.
And why have you not been apart once in 3 months? That sounds a bit odd... and clingy. Do either of you have a life of your own?
As everyone else said, RUN.
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10-12-2009, 06:08 PM
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Well she is 21 and I'm 24. And do we have a life? Well not really. I spend every weekday working on my masters degree while she works. Either she will come to my place or I'll go over to hers after she gets off work. I have zero guy friends where as she has a few girlfriends she can hangout with.
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10-12-2009, 06:13 PM
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Listen man I've been there, a couple of exes ago. I can guarantee she is bat**** crazy n you need to gtfo of there. My ex back then wanted kids too, she was like saying she was gonna come off the pill n stuff without telling me n then she'd get pregnant, n that her dad would pay for the wedding. Get out man. She has some issues.
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10-12-2009, 06:22 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Ryan1985
Since we are singing songs...
And I ran.
I ran so far away.
I just ran.
I ran all night and day.
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this
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10-12-2009, 08:03 PM
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strong Beyonce.
anyways, nah. i would understand you. i would not marry/get engaged to the person if i still am not prepared emotionally. i think that is the case for you since you still have the hesitations on doing so.
i think you are doin it right. just give it space and time.
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10-12-2009, 08:18 PM
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She is 21 years old and she wants to marry you after 2 months.
Do I even need to say it guys?
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10-12-2009, 11:21 PM
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lol, this broad is bat****.
3 months and she's demanding a ring? What the hellllll? I mean, I'd have married my last dude after second time we hung out, no questions. But to actually TELL him that? lol, no. And the whole pressuring you into an engagement bit is absolutely ludicrous.
And why have you not been apart once in 3 months? That sounds a bit odd... and clingy. Do either of you have a life of your own?
As everyone else said, RUN.
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How's this any less crazy?
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10-12-2009, 11:46 PM
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run away.
she sounds fuking crazy in all honesty.
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10-13-2009, 04:02 AM
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10-13-2009, 04:53 AM
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LMAO....21? after 2 months? bro.....don't end up on the mtv show..where they marry too young
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10-13-2009, 05:10 AM
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Don't ever let any woman pressure you into something you don't feel 100% comfortable with, especially marriage. She will try all sorts of strange and nasty tactics to try to get a ring on her finger. For this reason it may be best to leave her. Talking about marriage this early and her extorting you to get a ring is very immature on her part. I've had the same thing happen to me. She seemed to be the girl of my dreams. Then she started to warn me that if I didn't get her that ring, another guy may just decide to give one to her. So I caved and asked her to marry me. 2 years later, most of the months in between spent putting off the wedding, I left her a month before the wedding date. It was a disaster of a relationship, a burden on my studies, a strain on my relationship with my parents, and a hurricane of a breakup. All of this could've been avoided by one word: "NO."
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10-13-2009, 05:37 AM
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Three months?
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10-28-2009, 05:54 PM
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My ex-husband proposed to me after six weeks. He already had the ring. We didn't get married for another four years though.
Note: ex-husband, lol
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10-28-2009, 06:06 PM
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run away as fast as you can.
then work on that whole friends thing you have a problem with.
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10-28-2009, 06:41 PM
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Quote:
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run away as fast as you can.
then work on that whole friends thing you have a problem with.
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Yeah I'm meeting up with a few old friends this Friday so I'm working on that.
A few nights ago I asked her what she wanted for Christmas. She held out her ring finger and told me she wanted a ring.
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10-28-2009, 06:46 PM
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lol, my friend went ring shopping on the second date because he didn't want to tell her no! they were married like 4 months later, now happily divorced with a kid. i think it lasted like a year and a half max. i told him he was dumb the entire time.
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10-28-2009, 06:56 PM
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that bitch crazy yo
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