New Gay Thread (Part 3) - Page 265

-=MD=- · 10-22-2009, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Nitro

Ive added MD to my bodyspace as my inspiration! he has an awesome bod.

Thanks! You're looking really good too.

What a transformation!

darryl27 · 10-22-2009, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by garza_20

too all my gay leather buds... so i've been exploring the whole leather look thing... eh.. there somethings i like there something i don't.. i don't like the choker thing around the neck... but i do like the big chains that they have... kinda like leashes (i actually wore one last nite) fun times!! any how.. i'm looking for a place that i can find the arm bands that wrap around your bicep... does anyone know a website i can check them out.. i actually saw a dude wearing a stainless steel one at it looked freaking hot

Just do a google search for leather fetish gear...then have fun!

EBAY is a great place too, and you can't beat the prices.

Houston is a huge city, so you should look in the yellow pages and visit your local stores. We have a couple great places here in Atlanta, and the guys that work there (and the owners) are the nicest guys you could imagine.

We MUST see photos of you in your gear!!!

boon9484 · 10-22-2009, 11:06 AM

garza_20 · 10-22-2009, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by darryl27

Just do a google search for leather fetish gear...then have fun!

EBAY is a great place too, and you can't beat the prices.

Houston is a huge city, so you should look in the yellow pages and visit your local stores. We have a couple great places here in Atlanta, and the guys that work there (and the owners) are the nicest guys you could imagine.

We MUST see photos of you in your gear!!!

LOL.. yeah working on that... my friend has all these ideas of gear for me... i told him the only thing i don't like are the harnesses and the actual leather chokers

darryl27 · 10-22-2009, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Trempid

Thanks Darryl, that was a good read. The main point is that lack of empathy (due to poor parenting or living environment) is the main cause of bullying, not lack of self-esteem as some used to think. I can understand this point and I completely agree with it.

There is a lot of talk about eliminating bullying in schools here in Canada. But, I find the programs they try to implement are backwards. Schools should focus on prevention and not "cures". A better solution would be to nurture empathy in the early school years (starting from pre-kindergarden). Yes, it should be the parents' responsibility but some people are just not good parents, or don't have the time to be.

Yes, bullying is a hot topic here too. It has resulted in some high profile deaths of young victims. Bullying is a result of deep rooted, serious psychological deficiencies. It's a real shame that this has to be dealt with in the schools instead of the home. Unfortunately it's only one of many serious issues that the school systems must address.

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Originally Posted by Trempid

BTW, reminder, Nov 1st is fast approaching! Remember, we're all going to update our AVs on that day!! Focus on working out hard, there is not much time left...

Hummm I just thought of something, we should have a monthly contest for this. The person with the best progress results wins something... what do you think?

But, but, but...my current profile pic looks better than my current photos.

darryl27 · 10-22-2009, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by garza_20

LOL.. yeah working on that... my friend has all these ideas of gear for me... i told him the only thing i don't like are the harnesses and the actual leather chokers

You need to put the leather choker on your boy and lead him around the clubs on a leash.

edit: full leather gear looks good and is fun on occasion, but a few accent pieces look great with a nice pair of faded, and strategically torn Levi's. A leather captain's cap (stay away from the leather baseball caps - those are for the boys, not men), arm band or wrist band, a thick leather belt and nice boots is a good look.

http://www.mr-s-leather.com/ - the mother load!

darryl27 · 10-22-2009, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by boon9484

Priceless!! Thanks for the laughs.

garza_20 · 10-22-2009, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by darryl27

You need to put the leather choker on your boy and lead him around the clubs on a leash.

edit: full leather gear looks good and is fun on occasion, but a few accent pieces look great with a nice pair of faded, and strategically torn Levi's. A leather captain's cap (stay away from the leather baseball caps - those are for the boys, not men), arm band or wrist band, a thick leather belt and nice boots is a good look.

http://www.mr-s-leather.com/ - the mother load!

the 2nd look is what i'm into... the jeans boots arm bands and wrist bands.. not crazy about the leather hats... and ummm... i'll be the boy.. he he he... hey i'm just saying its fun to let the other person be dominating once in a while

darryl27 · 10-22-2009, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by garza_20

the 2nd look is what i'm into... the jeans boots arm bands and wrist bands.. not crazy about the leather hats... and ummm... i'll be the boy.. he he he... hey i'm just saying its fun to let the other person be dominating once in a while

Ah...a side of garza that I didn't know existed! Actually that's very good. The best way to learn to be a good leather top is to experience being a leather bottom. Are you into just the look or all of the bdsm that often (not always mind you) accompanies the leather lifestyle?

Trempid · 10-22-2009, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by darryl27

But, but, but...my current profile pic looks better than my current photos.

No excuses, more incentive to work harder!

darryl27 · 10-22-2009, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Trempid

No excuses, more incentive to work harder!

*sigh*

On that note I need to get back to work...

trvlr70 · 10-22-2009, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by garza_20

too all my gay leather buds... so i've been exploring the whole leather look thing... eh.. there somethings i like there something i don't.. i don't like the choker thing around the neck... but i do like the big chains that they have... kinda like leashes (i actually wore one last nite) fun times!! any how.. i'm looking for a place that i can find the arm bands that wrap around your bicep... does anyone know a website i can check them out.. i actually saw a dude wearing a stainless steel one at it looked freaking hot

I personally don't really understand the gay/leather connection. What is it about leather that is specifically gay? Nothing. Before I went to Folsom, I tried on some leather and looked ridiculous. The look just doesn't fit my all-American, constanting smiling, optimistic self. But I did have a few things in common with the revelers. Basically, most leather aficianodos are pretty natural. That is, they don't shave, trim chest hair, wear eye liner, etc. And I find that pretty hot.

Perhaps you're more into the S&M aspects of leather?

Anyhow, go to Folsomstreetfair.com and there will be a dozen links to leather sites where you can buy all that crap.

garza_20 · 10-22-2009, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by darryl27

Ah...a side of garza that I didn't know existed! Actually that's very good. The best way to learn to be a good leather top is to experience being a leather bottom. Are you into just the look or all of the bdsm that often (not always mind you) accompanies the leather lifestyle?

experimenting on that.. trying it out.. i know i don't like the whips... from what my... i'm intrigued my the blind fold and being tied up.. and the "flogging" i believe thats what they call it... eh.. i'm young.. might as well explore

garza_20 · 10-22-2009, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Trempid

No excuses, more incentive to work harder!

very true! i've gone down another pant size and working on dropping the last pant size by the end of the year... time to firm up the belly

garza_20 · 10-22-2009, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by trvlr70

I personally don't really understand the gay/leather connection. What is it about leather that is specifically gay? Nothing. Before I went to Folsom, I tried on some leather and looked ridiculous. The look just doesn't fit my all-American, constanting smiling, optimistic self. But I did have a few things in common with the revelers. Basically, most leather aficianodos are pretty natural. That is, they don't shave, trim chest hair, wear eye liner, etc. And I find that pretty hot.

Perhaps you're more into the S&M aspects of leather?

Anyhow, go to Folsomstreetfair.com and there will be a dozen links to leather sites where you can buy all that crap.

well from what i've researched apparenlty its not only gay.. apparenlty str8 folks get into it.. dominatrix and stuff.. HOT!! i guess its just kinda connects... burly hairy muscle men somehow end up being connected with leather... maybe??

trvlr70 · 10-22-2009, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by garza_20

burly hairy muscle men somehow end up being connected with leather... maybe??

But not bears, mind you. Muscle bears perhaps. The former are unacceptable on the dancefloor.

LoL Rick · 10-22-2009, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Trempid

No excuses, more incentive to work harder!

I will not be bullied into posting a new avi! It's this one or nothing.

garza_20 · 10-22-2009, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by trvlr70

But not bears, mind you. Muscle bears perhaps. The former are unacceptable on the dancefloor.

oh of course.. bears are not cute in harnesses and mind you i saw a ton of them wearing that @ southern decadence.... ooh i'm excited.. my goals are being achieved!

-=MD=- · 10-22-2009, 01:03 PM

Leather, when done properly and sparingly can be VERY hot.

MenStraight · 10-22-2009, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by garza_20

experimenting on that.. trying it out.. i know i don't like the whips... from what my... i'm intrigued my the blind fold and being tied up.. and the "flogging" i believe thats what they call it... eh.. i'm young.. might as well explore

Don't forget your safe word

MenStraight · 10-22-2009, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Trempid

No excuses, more incentive to work harder!

Stop yelling, I can actually feel you pushing me harder

I think you were right about yourself becoming a bully, it's begining to resurface (don't ever change)

garza_20 · 10-22-2009, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by -=MD=-

Leather, when done properly and sparingly can be VERY hot.

amen!!

trvlr70 · 10-22-2009, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by -=MD=-

Leather, when done properly and sparingly can be VERY hot.

Do you mean Prada loafers?

MenStraight · 10-22-2009, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by -=MD=-

Leather, when done properly and sparingly can be VERY hot.

C'mon, I think the way you look, you can pull off any look and do it well. I never think that look is for everyone, but if your hot the look is hotter. It's all a bit costume, hmmm, that's right Halloween, nahh it's too obvious. Sorry carry on, (back to our scheduled programing) leather smells like cow

justinx2009 · 10-22-2009, 02:43 PM

(YES MAD)
So I have my windows open (weather is really nice today), and I heard some guys throwing a football back and forth in the parking lot. I live in an apartment, so my car is not in a garage. Well, I was getting worried that they might hit a car in the parking lot, and about two minutes later, they hit my car. The ball hit my roof and bounced off onto my hood. My car isn't some pos either...ugh. No damage though. Just frustrating...

built40 · 10-22-2009, 04:50 PM

Anybody here in WA State? Say hi

Trempid · 10-22-2009, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by MenStraight

Stop yelling, I can actually feel you pushing me harder

I think you were right about yourself becoming a bully, it's begining to resurface (don't ever change)

errr I said i was bullied not that i was a bully... and I was asked to encourage everyone to post new AV, it was by popular request. I just said i was going to post a new one and then people were just like "yeah get everyone to update theirs!".

At this point, don't be spoiled sports, just get ready to post a new one.

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Originally Posted by built40

Anybody here in WA State? Say hi

No, but hi!

pseudohero · 10-22-2009, 06:44 PM

Senate passes gay hate-crimes bill
WASHINGTON - A bill to make violence against gays and lesbians a federal crime cleared the Senate Thursday and is headed to the White House for final approval.

MenStraight · 10-22-2009, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Trempid

errr I said i was bullied not that i was a bully... and I was asked to encourage everyone to post new AV, it was by popular request. I just said i was going to post a new one and then people were just like "yeah get everyone to update theirs!".

At this point, don't be spoiled sports, just get ready to post a new one.

No, but hi!

Oops, I confused your post with "T's", sorry, but no worries I'll participate and post a new one. I actually think it's a good idea to motivate everyone to progress.

MenStraight · 10-22-2009, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by pseudohero

Senate passes gay hate-crimes bill
WASHINGTON - A bill to make violence against gays and lesbians a federal crime cleared the Senate Thursday and is headed to the White House for final approval.

That's great news!