first movie night at home... - Page 2

elandry · 10-10-2009, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by ProteinPancakes

Why did she bring a friend to ur date?

I think her friend asked my date what she was doing that night. my date told her she was coming here, and her friend lives like 5 minutes away from me so she asked if she could come over. it was retarded the more i think of it. i don't know what to think.

why don't you get over to orleans instead.. just dont bring your friends.

ProteinPancakes · 10-10-2009, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by elandry

I think her friend asked my date what she was doing that night. my date told her she was coming here, and her friend lives like 5 minutes away from me so she asked if she could come over. it was retarded the more i think of it. i don't know what to think.

why don't you get over to orleans instead.. just dont bring your friends.

I live so close to u! thats funny!!!! But yaa if she was real into u she wud not have brought a friend or maybe she is the type of person who doesn't no how to say no? Anyways..kinda weird.

MortimerC · 10-10-2009, 07:59 PM

Don't allow a friend to come on your date. That was your mistake

quietstormx1 · 10-10-2009, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by elandry

Well guys, the night wasn't ruined but it wasn't what i thought it was going to be. Her friend was supposed to come and leave at 9:30 but she didn't get the ****ing point. I might be the first to complain about spending the night with 2 girls, going in the hot tub etc with them but this girl being there really f'd up my solo night.

Me and the original girl were watching the movie "taken" and enjoying it, saying what was necessary and this other girl was the girl who didn't get anything and was asking all kinds of stupid questions.

Then in the hot tub (we were there for a long time... not a healthy choice) we were telling childhood stories and just having decent conversations and the friend had barely anything to say or add to the conversation, nothing that was interesting anyways.

Now, I can understand that since me and this girl have only had 3 dates why she'd ask a friend to come and scope out the situation but it was kinda a buzz kill that she stayed all night. I don't know if that's what she ended up doing but it killed any intimacy or alone time that we could have had.

**** guise. I guess tonight just wasn't the night for that yet. Like one of you said above, it'll come. maybe next time I find myself in a situation like that. Thanks for all the help.

pedrolima · 10-10-2009, 08:47 PM

lol from what you're saying, you could pull the trigger even with the friend there.. cuddling and all that...

ProteinPancakes · 10-10-2009, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by quietstormx1

lol!

xJustin · 10-10-2009, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by elandry

So she's coming over at around 7 or 7:30. I rented 2 movies... Like all our dates so far I'm kind of nervous... but in this setting we're actually really alone.. no distractions other than the TV.

we haven't kissed yet and I dont know where I stand... closer to a friend or to a BF. misc, give me some ideas so we aren't just watching TV in between, or when to make a move if the situation arises. I know we can talk for a little bit... but not for 3 hours.

my wii/ps3 are broken. And my N64 has one controller. so no video games.

** I have a hottub... that'll occupy a little time. and I have beer, which will make things a bit easier for me.

"I bet you can't even kiss well". Say that line when you feel like shes really diggin you

use it! it challenges her.

bluebomber85 · 10-10-2009, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by elandry

and she says "I love you" when she leaves.

..and you haven't made a move yet?

elandry · 10-10-2009, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by bluebomber85

..and you haven't made a move yet?

I'm not used to that kind of openness. She's drunk texting me small text right now because she had too much wine or some **** for her thanksgiving dinner.

I don't know how to read her to be honest.

and to protein pancakes: she DOES know how to say no. She invited herself when i said I had the house to myself and I was just gunna kick back. AND I'm the first guy she's gone on a date with for a year apparently.

anyways. I feel like this thread has become a massive overanalyzation of something really simple. I'l just roll with things and see how i do. I still just have a feeling that her friend is retarded and doesnt take social cues well.

blinky99 · 10-11-2009, 08:53 AM

read ma post and do that next time ur with her im tellin ya.

ZammerZee · 10-11-2009, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by blinky99

hmm ok. so next time cuddling escalate things, lightly touch her neck /collar bone, then stop then kiss her neck/collar bone. then gradually move up to a long kiss on the lips. it should progress from there. Or even better just offer her a massage.then do the above. massage, back neck, caress her upper chest. gotta pay attention to her body language here. its gold though.

If he hasn't even kissed her properly yet then obviously the girl will react badly to him kissing her neck or caressing her breasts.. She wants to take things slowly and jumping onto her neck isn't exactly slow...

OP next time you're next to her somewhere private just move her hair back behind her ear, say you're eyes look really nice, kiss her cheek and say 'mm you smell really nice'.
If she wants to kiss she'll look directly at you and give you the triangular stare (Looks in both eyes and then to your lips).. Then just move in close so your noses are touching, she won't move in for the kiss and you say 'Oh so youre playing hard to get' she'll say some**** and then just kiss her.

blinky99 · 10-11-2009, 09:34 AM

Well thats why its important to read her body language and see how she reacts. and top of her chest and tits are pretty different areas in terms of comfort.

msg is do what you feel comfortable doing and be confident.all i know is banged three chicks using that approach and all of them wanted to "take it slow" and were "not looking for sex on the first date or to hook up" direct quotes.

oleg1227 · 10-11-2009, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by elandry

absolutely... we've cuddled watching movies with company around too. and she says "I love you" when she leaves.

kinda different (the I love you part) but we're definitely comfortable.

Wat?

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Originally Posted by elandry

Anyyways. I feel like this thread has become a massive overanalyzation of something really simple. I'l just roll with things and see how i do. I still just have a feeling that her friend is retarded and doesnt take social cues well.

If its something that simple and you dont want the RH to overanalyze then why create this thread in the first place. If you ask for advice dont complain when you get it.

elandry · 10-11-2009, 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by oleg1227

Wat?

If its something that simple and you dont want the RH to overanalyze then why create this thread in the first place. If you ask for advice dont complain when you get it.

not complaining man. I'm just saying that what happened happened. i just think i'm thinking too far into why her friend came, that's all. Most of your guy's responses are right on the money and i cant wait till we ACTUALLY have a night alone.

Also the i love you thing is kinda messed... but that's a whole other matter.

Cell-Tech Daddy · 10-12-2009, 02:37 AM

tazB · 10-12-2009, 02:53 AM

Honestly man.

If you truly and really like this girl - take it slow...

But if you're looking for quick BJ/HJ/BUKKAKE/BDSM/ANAL/VAG - then get her drunk.

Janoush · 10-12-2009, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by ZammerZee

If he hasn't even kissed her properly yet then obviously the girl will react badly to him kissing her neck or caressing her breasts.. She wants to take things slowly and jumping onto her neck isn't exactly slow...

OP next time you're next to her somewhere private just move her hair back behind her ear, say you're eyes look really nice, kiss her cheek and say 'mm you smell really nice'.
If she wants to kiss she'll look directly at you and give you the triangular stare (Looks in both eyes and then to your lips).. Then just move in close so your noses are touching, she won't move in for the kiss and you say 'Oh so youre playing hard to get' she'll say some**** and then just kiss her.

you had me at hello

JoshSP1985 · 10-12-2009, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by ZammerZee

If he hasn't even kissed her properly yet then obviously the girl will react badly to him kissing her neck or caressing her breasts.. She wants to take things slowly and jumping onto her neck isn't exactly slow...

OP next time you're next to her somewhere private just move her hair back behind her ear, say you're eyes look really nice, kiss her cheek and say 'mm you smell really nice'.
If she wants to kiss she'll look directly at you and give you the triangular stare (Looks in both eyes and then to your lips).. Then just move in close so your noses are touching, she won't move in for the kiss and you say 'Oh so youre playing hard to get' she'll say some**** and then just kiss her.

Wow... you've been watching too many movies.

Even if this girl is "taking it slow" it's the 3-4th date is MORE than long enough to make out with her.

Next time the two of you are alone it doesn't matter where it is you grab her have her face you and make a move. Be spontaneous on this you guys could round a corner of a building and just go for it.

elandry · 10-12-2009, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Cell-Tech Daddy

Sicshift · 10-12-2009, 04:02 PM

dude...

Movie night always means sex. At least, for me I've never had a girl over that didn't end up with sex. Movie date means hooking up and they know it. Watch half a movie, then go for it.