Should I be mad at my GF (serious) or forgive?

[EricBast_old]

Originally Posted by YoungNSwolen

****, I knew this was coming. It wont happen again. I did treat her like **** when we first were together. And Shes the one who claims I killed her self-esteem. The said guy #3 she just couldn't resist, the most popular guy in school. And after all of them hit and quit she just got more and more depressed.

I feel like a ****ing retard, I made a bad mistake and got very attached emotionally. i really dont even wanna sound beta right now, but I cant imagine life without her.

Some ppl are telling me that I have no reasont o break up with her, cuz its her business, and I was the one who broke up with her most of the times ( a good 7 or 8) just cuz I wanted to be alpha and treated her like ****.

After I figured I really wanted this girl, I dropped all that alpha ****.

Im so ****ed in the head right now.

balls = none

[redbinder]

lol she's almost certainly cheated on you while you were together. Even if she hasn't I'd have broken up with her. You're a bitch, letting her sleep with other guys for a week or a month then get back together with you.

[snooter511]

Originally Posted by beyondbasic

lmao yup until now.. wow strong *** OP.

almost fell over lul'z (repped), anyway why do we care about this, PICS BRAH now pleeze

[mfl1992]

Originally Posted by YoungNSwolen

About 2.5 years ago, my current gf and I started Dating. Between now and then we have broken up several times, many of the times no longer than 2 weeks, some takes 3 to 4 months.

We both took each others virginity, and shes been the only girl ive slept with thus far. I thought I was her only until recently.

I found out she sleeped with another guy and questioned her about how many partners shes had.

She starts crying and I force it out of her, she tells me shes had 5 including me. With the 1st other guy starting when we first broke up.

1st breakup - I broke up with her, she has sex with one of my best friends at the time less than a month after. Apparently this is the only one that was in a relationship.

2nd breakup- I broke up with her. She slept with another guy I know of at her school. not sure how long we were broken up.

3rd breakup- She sleeps with another guy at her school who Im fond of, this time she broke up with me, and had only been broken up for like 4 days.

4th breakup- She breaks up with me, claims she needs to find herself and I was getting ready to go to college. She sleeps with a guy from her school.

^^^^
Now, she claims shes beaten herself up about it, because after I broke up se just wanted to feel loved and needed, so she slept with my best friend at the time and guy #2, because they "wanted" her. The reason she slept with all other 4 guys was because she hoped that a relationship was coming. But most hit and quit.

She said a bunch of bogus ****, and I honestly believe she jsut wanted to play the field, I broke up with her, and she felyt bad so she just took the offers thrown at her.

What do i do here guys? I love this girl, but should I break-up with her, or overtime will the pain i feel go away? Shes really ready for a relationship and she says she realizes im the only one she wants for good....

Ive known for a few weeks now, and I really cant stop thinking about it.

YOU ARE GETTING PLAYED YOU GODDAM EUNUCH

Grow some balls, **** the bitches mother, father, sister and friends.

[cactuschris26]

I read the whole thread and actually signed into my account to reply which i never do. Almost the same thing happened to me. My girlfriend broke up with me to be with another guy but came crawling back. She told me she realized her mistake and i ended up taking her back. The relationship has only gone down hill from here i cant trust her and i am looking for reasons to break up. I shouldn't have taken her back and i regret my decision all the time.

Don't take her back

[quietstormx1]

your girl has sex with 4 different guys, and shes still your girl?

[redbinder]

PS since you don't seem to get it, when a girl says she wants a break it means she's found a guy she likes more than you and wants to test the waters with him. If it doesn't work out, she'll come back to you.

If you have any balls you'll tell her that if she ****s another guy, don't expect her to be allowed back in your house.

[ira_est_a_donum]

Originally Posted by YoungNSwolen

About 2.5 years ago, my current gf and I started Dating. Between now and then we have broken up several times, many of the times no longer than 2 weeks, some takes 3 to 4 months.

We both took each others virginity, and shes been the only girl ive slept with thus far. I thought I was her only until recently.

I found out she sleeped with another guy and questioned her about how many partners shes had.

She starts crying and I force it out of her, she tells me shes had 5 including me. With the 1st other guy starting when we first broke up.

1st breakup - I broke up with her, she has sex with one of my best friends at the time less than a month after. Apparently this is the only one that was in a relationship.

2nd breakup- I broke up with her. She slept with another guy I know of at her school. not sure how long we were broken up.

3rd breakup- She sleeps with another guy at her school who Im fond of, this time she broke up with me, and had only been broken up for like 4 days.

4th breakup- She breaks up with me, claims she needs to find herself and I was getting ready to go to college. She sleeps with a guy from her school.

^^^^
Now, she claims shes beaten herself up about it, because after I broke up se just wanted to feel loved and needed, so she slept with my best friend at the time and guy #2, because they "wanted" her. The reason she slept with all other 4 guys was because she hoped that a relationship was coming. But most hit and quit.

She said a bunch of bogus ****, and I honestly believe she jsut wanted to play the field, I broke up with her, and she felyt bad so she just took the offers thrown at her.

What do i do here guys? I love this girl, but should I break-up with her, or overtime will the pain i feel go away? Shes really ready for a relationship and she says she realizes im the only one she wants for good....

Ive known for a few weeks now, and I really cant stop thinking about it.

should you be mad or should forgive her... LOL...

you should grow a pair and end the relationship and move on with your life and get another girl....

[meteoraniac]

Originally Posted by stevedarsh

i came in here expecting to tell you to forgive but jesus christ dude

i lol'd ... perfect execution ...

[I2id3r]

Originally Posted by US.Patriot

Grow a pair and dump that slut, Jesus.

Lol @ how many times this has been said, reworded, rephrased, etc.....and this ****in guy still doesnt get it. I'm dying laughing reading this ****.....




Your ex is a ****ing SLUT. You got to lay pipe on a good looking broad....MOVE ON!! lol.

[LunicaAshes]

I haven't read the whole thread, but look at it this way - what were you doing during those break ups?

If you were also having sex with other people, maybe the two of you can work it out andjust not be super serious with each other.

If you weren't having sex with other people, you should probably look for someone who has values more similar to your own.

[xXDeadmanXx]

Dump the bitch and give me her number. She's a good **** buddy. Not a good gf.

[jclarsen]

sounds like you've got a slut.

[TheDictionary]

Originally Posted by YoungNSwolen

****, I knew this was coming. It wont happen again. I did treat her like **** when we first were together. And Shes the one who claims I killed her self-esteem. The said guy #3 she just couldn't resist, the most popular guy in school. And after all of them hit and quit she just got more and more depressed.

I feel like a ****ing retard, I made a bad mistake and got very attached emotionally. i really dont even wanna sound beta right now, but I cant imagine life without her.

Some ppl are telling me that I have no reasont o break up with her, cuz its her business, and I was the one who broke up with her most of the times ( a good 7 or 8) just cuz I wanted to be alpha and treated her like ****.

After I figured I really wanted this girl, I dropped all that alpha ****.

Im so ****ed in the head right now.

it sucks bro and now ur gonna be red which makes it worst....same thing happened to me

[Legendsneverdie]

dump her u fukin moron. she is a slut whore bitch

move on

[arshigtx]

I read the OP and the faceplam went right through my forehead and out the other side.

[roid_monkey]

GTFO phaggot

[DieselLowe]

move the **** on and stop being such a dumbass dating her

[The Main Event]

Originally Posted by YoungNSwolen

We both took each others virginity, and shes been the only girl ive slept with thus far....She starts crying and I force it out of her, she tells me shes had 5 including me. With the 1st other guy starting when we first broke up.

i lol'd

[jclarsen]

oh yeah, on which page would i find the pics?

[dbantayjr]

Punt the whore and move on, theres plenty of hot horny chicks out there.

[Shattering Fast]

So she's basically telling you that she's only with you because you're the only one who will put up with her bull****, that she would've gone out with ANY of the other guys instead of you if they were even remotely interested, and yet you're still considering taking her back?



are you ****ing retarded?

[xflydie]

lol if you dump her now. you will forget all about her in 2 weeks,max

[akkxn]

OP wtf brah.

Here is your plan.

Go to college,

Meet some girls,

Bang them,

Realise your girl isn't so special anymore,

Dump her dirty whore ass

[icewill36]

Originally Posted by YoungNSwolen

She never wanted to tell me because she knew how i'd react. Shes ashamed of it. She says I really didnt even want to sleep with anybody, I just wanted to keep them with me, so i did what they wanted because of how low her self-esteem was when we broke up.

Which at the time, I would break up with her and be like **** you! Im done with you, lose my number. Yadda yadda. I never intended to get back with her, but we just cant stay away from each other.

While it also seems really bad, I cant help but rationalize it. I destroyed her ****ing self-esteem, I know I did. I did it purposely I had her doing everything i wanted.

Her self-esteem is back up know and she wills ay no and stand up for herself in a heartbeat. Stopped having sex altogether for the past few months until recently.

I dont know if it bothers me more cuz Ive been blindsided. Or more cuz I dont have any partners.

so very naive.... lulz


you're actually defending this tramp brah, get a clue.


also, if you think she hasn't screwed any guys while you two were dating, you're kidding yourself.

[MDPump]

pass her this way when u have one of ur break ups again op. ill bang her just like the 5 other guys. c mon man. seriously? forget the ****.

[redbinder]

Originally Posted by icewill36

so very naive.... lulz


you're actually defending this tramp brah, get a clue.


also, if you think she hasn't screwed any guys while you two were dating, you're kidding yourself.

This on everything. She's giving you a very clean version of what happened, so that it just so works out she only ****ed guys while on break. Please stop being naive OP, you are the guy she goes to for emotional support, other men are what have her romantic and sexual attention.

[JacoborJake]

OP...you've still got college...college....COLLEGE! 6 months after you start college you won't care who your x girlfriend ****ed...you LITERALLY won't care. In 6 months you'll be giving your good friend a high five talking about railing your x girlfriend.

[aleeboy]

Wow.

Your gf is a total slut.

She sounds like she can't be alone for a minute.

Don't be a dumb mofo. You know what to do.

[gunotman]

wow wtf. ill bet you the only reason youre still with her is because she took your virginity and shes your first gf. you know what has to be done.

edit: pics there are none