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09-08-2009, 01:23 AM
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Girl wants open relationship. thoughts? (cliffs)
So ive been seeing this girl for 5-7 weeks. I could tell she was getting a bit confused about the situation so naturally i just asked her hat she thought about the situation.
She told me she likes it how it is atm... and doesnt want to be a gf at and doesnt know if she can be. (keep in mind she only just got out of a thing with this other guy before she was seeing me).
So what are your thoughts?? Is it just a nice way of telling me she wants to look at her options (nice way of letting me go) or is she actually confusd and wants to take it slow.
Cliffs:
-girl im seeing wants an open relationship
-does it mean she wants to see if she can do better? or just taking it slow?
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09-08-2009, 01:32 AM
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the road you wanna take depends on how much you think you might get attached to this girl...
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09-08-2009, 01:42 AM
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I'm guessing she doesn't really want to commit to anything right now. Just having that single feeling. Some people would rather just have that single feeling but still know they have some one to call to spend some time with for relax and fun.
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09-08-2009, 02:20 AM
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You might be the guy she is using to piss her ex bf off, and an excuse not to get back with him?
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09-08-2009, 02:37 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by 1/2man1/2amazin
the road you wanna take depends on how much you think you might get attached to this girl...
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well i'll be keeping my options open as well... HOPEFULLY i wont be getting attached.
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I'm guessing she doesn't really want to commit to anything right now. Just having that single feeling. Some people would rather just have that single feeling but still know they have some one to call to spend some time with for relax and fun.
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Yea i think it might be this... but really shes also keeping her options open in case something better comes along.
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You might be the guy she is using to piss her ex bf off, and an excuse not to get back with him?
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hope not... she was onyl seeing this guy for a month or so. so i dont think she is doing it to spite him.
hmm i duno brahs
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09-08-2009, 02:42 AM
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Open as in you can both see other people?
find someone else and let her know, then see how she reacts
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09-08-2009, 02:43 AM
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its hardly your fault... she is newly single and wants to enjoy it for a little bit. sometimes that is a big priority for people, no matter how great you are. i wouldn't say you are getting let down easy but if it isn't what you want I doubt she is going to compromise.
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09-08-2009, 02:56 AM
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Originally Posted by kgcolbyIII
I'm guessing she doesn't really want to commit to anything right now. Just having that single feeling. Some people would rather just have that single feeling but still know they have some one to call to spend some time with for relax and fun.
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I find Im exactly like this too. Alot of chicks cant handle this type of character though and want commitment. Most broads want to slap a ball and chain onto a guy and call them "their man".
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09-08-2009, 03:15 AM
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09-08-2009, 05:44 AM
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If she wants an open relationship give her just that. Start banging tons of other chicks.
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09-08-2009, 07:01 AM
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Originally Posted by chriskav
Open as in you can both see other people?
find someone else and let her know, then see how she reacts
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yep. both can see other people. well i definately intend to be on the prowl for new girls... we'll see what happens when she finds out. She said that she isnt the jealous type so i'll have to test that.
To be honest ive lost a bit of interest ever since she bought the open thing up.
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09-09-2009, 09:42 AM
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bump
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09-09-2009, 09:43 AM
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Bail now.
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09-09-2009, 10:00 AM
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shew wants to use to piss her ex off and make ex beg for her back. many girls do this they have a bf and will talk to another guy and show pics of them with another guy to make the ex jealous make him think he lost a good girl.
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09-09-2009, 10:25 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by trumpedup
She said that she isnt the jealous type so i'll have to test that.
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She is lying haven't met a girl who isn't the "jealous type".
If she wants an open relationship, do it, find someone else, to spend time with, when she want's to get with you, just one time you say no because you have plans with someone else, she either will try to get closer or turn the other way around.
Either way you will have your anwser.
Last edited by Pancito; 09-09-2009 at 10:27 AM.
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09-09-2009, 01:04 PM
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open relationship? never liked those.
next time you kiss her think about whether or not she just blew some dude she has an open relationship with too.
srs.
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09-09-2009, 01:05 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by PancakeOfDoom
open relationship? never liked those.
next time you kiss her think about whether or not she just blew some dude she has an open relationship with too.
srs.
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This.
Serious.
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